₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
The most important thing is she has proven faithfulness. He should go on with the relationship

What if she hide her past from him? If I were to be in her shoes I would have kept my past to myself.

The man will still find out one way or the other, and when he does, he will make the marriage a living hell for you, maybe start beating you.

Jennyclay:
If you truly and genuinely love her, then you will forget about her past. Love conquers all things. Love has no boundaries.

Shut up, which kind forget her past.

Raheeqilmaktoom:
Everyone knows him, man's too toxic for my liking. Watching him makes me think he has some sort of disorder.

Besides, there is more to programming than web design and development, and I think that's where the issue is.

Most of the noise and competition is in the basic stuff, there were times I saw ads for jobs in Perl, Pascal and C that pay well and literally not many could do them.

He is toxic sha, I once unsubscribe form his channel after watching one of his videos, before YouTube popped this one and I was tempted to click it. Well, let's see what the future holds for software developers.

ConsciousMan01:
just like saying the medical field is oversaturated because of the number of medical doctors we have or the finance industry is saturated because of the number of accountants we produce? No matter how saturated a field is there will always be jobs, what distinguishes you among others is how good you are and how unique you are in your approach to solve problems.. remember among the saturated people, there are lots of quacks who don't know their onions but are just there just to be tagged a programmer, some will die, but the jobs will remain..

You're correct, but there is this thing about machine learning and artificial intelligence, it seems like it keeps erasing the need for writing codes manually, day by day with new inventions popping up.

Raheeqilmaktoom:
People still listen to this guy? Ex Google ex Facebook.

Lol, you know him?
His message is just out there for you to think for yourself, and let's be honest, he made some very valid points in that video.

ThoughtOfYou:
To show you how people all over the world are scrambling for survival. It's never easy even in EasyLand.

Yes, it seems life was easier everywhere back in the 90s, back then, a University degree has some value, but now, even in the so called first world countries like the U.S and U.K life seem to be tougher than it was, all I keep hearing is that the U.S and the U.K is in recession, you see US citizens saying that it took them years to get a job, even in tech.

tensazangetsu20:
Yeah, I wont advise anyone to learn to code anymore. The best skill for a Nigerian to learn now is farming especially with how the government is pumping money into the agricultural sector. You can pick up a lot of skills like weeding, planting, ploughing, tractor and okada riding alongside.

Okada riding huh
You're hilarious.

Hello, I saw this guy's video on YouTube who talked about how the field of
software development is now oversaturated with millions of Indians and just people in general from both 3rd world and 1st world countries rushing in and learning how to code, creating a huge amount of competition

Another major point out there is that the entry barrier for a software developer is very low, anybody from any field can become a programmer, someone with a degree in theater art for instance can learn how to code and become a competition for you who has a computer science degree, I personally have a child hood friend who studied history in the University and is now employed as a software developer. In some cases there are even people who have gotten employed as a software developer with no undergraduate degree.
It's just like a field for everyone.


Also, a point the YouTube guy hited is the fact that machine learning and artificial intelligence is taking over, most of the jobs that usually need to be manually done by a software developer can now be automated and done with some software that can be operated by anyone with just some basic computer skills.

I fear for the future or this field,
it seems like in a not so distant future having a skill in software development would be as common as having a skill in Microsoft word or Excel.


Here is the YouTube link if you want to watch the video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wwbM63-LFD4


I'm not here to discourage anyone, just think for yourself, the floor is open for educative conversations.

Thegamingorca:
Nice pyjamas

You think this is funny, the more things like this happen the lesser the respect people will have for you when they find out that you're a Nigerian. Believe it or not, this affects you too

Kelechi009:
LMAOOOOOOOOO

You think this is funny, the more things like this happen the lesser the respect people will have for you when they find out that you're a Nigerian. Believe it or not, this affects you too.

yirilos:
mumu u are interested, so they should contact u

Who be this rabbit ?
The op de take count of people when de interested for now.

Op when don already reply and count me join you de here de swallow panadol for wetin nor concern you. I don attach screen shot of him reply below since you nor sabi read.

Anyway, you nor matter, person when matter don already reply me.

Houseofglam7:
You’re not the poster above me…..so keep it moving

You don't have any right to tell me what to do, I reply who I want to reply, it's a free world.

Woxit:
Indicate if you are interested.

Where are the people that keeps complaining of no Jobs.

Nigerians are funny people 125 views only 13 interested people.

What I'm trying to do is to create a sustainable system that works for everyone that would participate.

The Government doesn't care about you and next year's election might not favor anyone.

I'm working on a system that any out of work individual can confidently wake up in the morning to look up to and not be afraid of where his or her next meal is coming from.

That's just aim here after my explanation and you feel you don't like it fine then you can make your choice and leave.

Modified.

I'm interested

koife:
Brosie, I don't care. Nigeria is such a lovely country, it hard to explain except you experience certain things. Bro abeg no ccurm hia

Oya come back na, abi them tie you for there ni ?

Houseofglam7:
The poster above me

The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job.

Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially.
If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself
, rubbish.

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job.

Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially.
If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself
, rubbish.

JeffreyJunior:
Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job.

Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially.
If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself
, rubbish.

ibkayee:
I won't be surprised if she pays bills in the house as well attending to all domestic work.

The average Nigerian man has convinced himself he is a sole provider and will often role play as one online lol

The everyday women we see working in all sectors are not throwing their money into the ocean

Anyway looks like it's playful banter between them

They are not throwing their money into the ocean but they do not spend it on their matrimonial home either, they spend it on the brothers, sisters, father and mother. They'll never use that money to help their husband. They don't even spend their money on themselves, the rather ask their husband for money for hair and makeup and other personal needs.
Liability gender

Ttup:
I'm
Cool

You don't change your message, you de find runs girls for port Harcourt and you de ask people for money for nairaland. Wetin you wan use the money for? To carry runs girl?
You are not serious.

Thedon22:
Most of these celebrities are overrated in intelligence. They think everything is for cruise. Even if he wanted to make a joke about it he should have waited for the right time to do it. Not when the political temperature is high and anything you do now is seen from the prism of pro- or anti- Tinubu. Moreso when most of the consumers of your content are Lagosians and some political group are using same as their only campaign achievement and strategy. That's why in developed places those celebs have PR advisors working with them.

See who de say person nor get sense, you when de support an almost dead man to be president you get sense? Full blown mumu like you de say person nor get sense.

Unlike Tinubu's poverty loving zombies, most Peter Obi supporters are educated and know how to use social media, so sabinus actually increased his followers, I too sef follow am after his video

Braveboi1:
So what is there in sharing a kpekus that was given to you Free of charge by God, did you pay any money to God for the kpekus? if some people were God eh they can be stingy with air

When them forcefully Fück your wife and your daughter toto you go understand.
Orzuor.

Wiseandtrue:
Who is sleeping with the run girls

You can't eat your cake and have it!!!

Tell yourselves the truth for once and stop blaming anyone for your promiscuity!

It's one dïçk to many runs girls, few men sleep with all the runs girls in Nigeria.
The problem is that, all the girls in Nigeria do runs, but their customers are just a handful of men. Most of these guys who carry runs girls sleep with different ones everyday.



The problem is that, all the girls in Nigeria do runs, but their customers are just a handful of men.

Now, who do you expect to now marry these hoes? A man is the one paying your bride price, spending millions on the marriage ceremony and after that, he will be the one to feed and cloth the woman for the rest of her life, the least she can do is to come into the marriage with some dignity. Stop comparing men and women. What is wrong is wrong.

Me I am a virgin male, if any girl deceive me to marry her and I later found out that she was a hoe in the past, I go use blow scatter her teeth and then divorce the idìot.

Bluezy13:
How long have you been married ?

Oga he is married, period.
You don't have anything to say anymore

[quote author= post=118739617]A better Nigeria all around is all we want at [color=#006600][/color] [/quote]It's not what you want, you are a tribal bigot. You love discriminating against other Nigerians and you also support evil politicians. You hate Nigeria and you don't want to see it grow. I've noticed you on nairaland.

Quintopia:
Another great development in line with his infrastructural successes.

Muhammadu Buhari, GCFR.
https://guardian.ng/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/D84riKiXsAAPz6L.jpg

You are a fool but you don't know yet. You'll soon find out.

Jazzman01:
Handsome men and Beautiful ladies tend to be more intelligent and successful in this world. (Note that when i say handsome/beautiful, i am not necessarily referring to the jaw dropping type) Just take a look around you and see things for yourself. A large percentage of successful people and people in high places of power are Handsome and pretty individuals. have you ever seen a very handsome man or extremely pretty lady that is dumb or wallowing in poverty?

I am beginning to think that there must be a correllation between our genetic make up and our finesse in everything both inwardly, outwardly and spiritually. What i am trying to say is that individuals with very good genes turn out to be very handsome/beautiful, intelligent and with a higher success rate. Although I am not saying ugly people don't make it, but when we compare their success rate with those who are generally accepted as "good-looking" in the society, then we can see the difference.

cc: lalasticlala nlfpmod

The rich beautiful people you see today were not always like that, they were ugly or very average looking when they were poor, beauty comes with money.

Pukkalolo:
I was with 3 of my buddies(2 guys and a lady). It was in the afternoon/ evening on the island; we decided to just chill at the Lounge at the rooftop of the hotel. It was super nice with a very beautiful view.

There were couple of people around catching fun.

We sat, talking about what we had been doing with our lives and discussing other matters.



Typing...

Any story when get "typing" for nairaland na fake

Blessedmercy8:
Lol... Dig some more. I see y'all think the post was about me, reason the numerous attacks. I created a post to seek others opinions but instead of stating your opinions peacefully, yall went into defensive mode, throwing fits. You even went all the way to dig. Dig well o.

Happy digging.

Yes I said I like someone like him not his earrings or what he's wearing. He's a spec. abi English come hard again?

You didn't create the post to seek people's opinion, you created the post to tell people why they should not change sex styles, it was more of a one sided lecture from you, not an interactive session.

A simple comment I made and you're offended, who is digging about you? Don't flatter yourself.

You don't even sound like an hardcore Christian, I can see that you are just a confused girl who doesn't know what she wants.