₦airaland Forum

platinumnk:
its called pimping, and its happens everywhere, knew a man who paid 5000 just to have dinner with a friend. I see no one complaining when rich men spread money lavishly on women.

FL Gators:
I laugh!
hehehe, where's dreeldee to see you peeps cracking on is hometown

And what do we have in common, sweetie

IFELEKE, See them o

He ain't gon' do nuffin. What we have in common is, _{PDP robbed AC in both States.}

yjay:
you know there s really no need to be insulting! was under the impression that this is a discussion forum & as such everyone to his opinion! u may not like wat i ve to say & vice versa but i am entitled to my own!

ibkaye:
There are two different types of broke dudes, the lazy ones and the hard-working determined ones showing signs of at least trying to break through their current state of poverty.

I'm sure most ladies wouldn't even smell the lazy one talkless of considering a relationship with him, I am one of them, as for the hard-working and determined one, heck yes, no problem.

whitelexi:
Some are impressive. . .  others are just worrying. I guess at the end of the day, God help some girls if they end up with a brother who is broke

charles316:
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY I SHLD PAY ANY GIRL ALLOWANCE FROM FROM MY HARD EARNED MONEY.

YJAY,I WILL ADVICE YOU TO KEEP ON DATING YAHOO YAHOO BOYS.AS FOR ME, I MAKE CLEAN MONEY AND SO SHLD NOT SPEND IT ON AN UNCLEAN GIRL.NO WONDER U SEE GIRLS SPENDING FOOLISHLY because SOME MAGAS HAVE PACKED A PERCENTAGE OF HIS SALARY TO HIS THEM.

@VJAY,GO AND GET MARRIED ,SO THAT UR HUSBAND CAN GIVE U PART OF HIS SALARY.OR IS UR DEMANDING NATURE DRIVING GUYS AWAY?

Theblessed:
Hi TheSeeker,

Don't worry, my sisters know what I am saying is the truth as they all would not want their brothers sucked dry by a woman at any cost because, she made him happy .  Its our duties as sisters to protect our brothers from harmful women and our brothers are there to look out for us and that's why having a sibling is very important.

And should any HOTTIE comes after me, be sure this FIRE will eat them alive and they won't have mouth to ask for another monthly ALLOWANCE ever again, when I myself work my butt off.

yjay:
Its really amazing to me why all the fuss & negative comments abt getting a monthly allowance from someone ure dating!!!!!!!!
Is it that big of a deal!!!!!!! NO!!!!!! its not!

yjay:
@seeker - the responsiblity would probably fit in between when she's old enough & b4 she gets married!!!!!!!!

Theblessed:
[b]Yeah right, on occasions our men should buy us things for example, BIRTHDAYS, CHRIStMAS, EASTER, CHRISTENING CEREMONIES, WEDDINGS, sometime important functions etc, that's normal - not demanding a monthly salary from his very small wage that's absurd and defeats the idea of two people in-love. Unless if you don't love each other then re-classify your relationship as CASUAL in other words:  anything goes!!

This girlfriend we are talking about, why can't she find a job, do any job no matter how small it pays and save her dignity instead of pretentiously selling sex to the guy whilst claiming to be a GIRLFRIEND that's wrong. Better show yourself up as a POLE and TABEL dancer rather than pretending to be what you are not 'AN INNOCENT, NICE GIRL' that has not not been touched by any man except him .  At least, the guy would know exactly where he stands, what he's getting and where to find you when next he needs you probably, on the POLE TABLE - eeezy pee eeezy[/b]

yjay:
simple - taking responsibility!!!!!!

yjay:
obviously i'm from another era!!!!! i work but i have no qualms with my man putting me on a monthly allowance!!! i'm his girl, its wat is expected of him! i'm not going to ask him how much he earns & decide how much is mine!!!! thats ridiculous! dont get me wrong if i want to get something for myself i ll go ahead & buy it with my money but im not against any woman who depends on her man for what she needs!!! there's no harm in that!!!!! & to say that makes one irresponsible!!!!! plzzzzzzzzzz

whitelexi:
At times like this u want a mature woman figure to make issues clear, i've heard from a few like spikey and TheBlessed. . .  Those are the kind of forward thinking people u really wanna identify with. . .  not anything in skirt and blouse that think they are indisposable!

Vuitton:
Yes its incredible but its easier said (rejection) than done for the average 9ja guy.

spikedcylinder:
Wow. I've agreed with you so far but what you shouldn't be doing is generalising.
I'm not sure if thats what you mean but how can you conclude that Ini Edo or Genevieve don't work hard for their money and wait for men to pay their bills? Is acting no longer an occupation?

vikkieb:
whats this controversy about? A guy feels its wrong to give to his "lover"(wen he can afford it), fine then go on being tite fisted and see the outcome. love naturally gives so if you claim to be in love n cant give then it could'nt be love. Even a gurl can give allowance to her guy if shes in the position to do so, i mean its all about the word LOVE.if only you know what it truely means.
@sugarbella's first post, thumps up!