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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Men Prefer Closet Freaks? by TheSeeker(m): 5:31am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298440.msg4212311#msg4212311 date=1247977620]what do u think abt nl girls that want experienced men that know what to do in bed but dont want the same man to a player, how did u think he got his experience, by sleeping with his mother? huh

[/quote]Isn't the level of his freakiness his experience level? Don't mind her. She said earlier she won't exhibit any form of freakiness in public or the behind closed doors, now I am beginning to wonder how boring her sex life must be

Romance › Re: Why Do Some Men Prefer Closet Freaks? by TheSeeker(m): 5:27am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298440.msg4212305#msg4212305 date=1247977358]u seen sistawoman's breast b4? shocked

i am not sure being a freak has anything to do with tattoos, we have many girls who cover up literally and yet have tattoo but that dont mean they are advantageous in bed. we have more nigerian girls complain on things like flowers, romance etc that they expect the nigerian dude to now learn so why cant nigerian guys want their wives to learn how to be freaky. i had an indian female friend that i had a little something something 4 b4 and she is highly conservative but she tells me many stuff her mom used to tell her and one of them is the fact that her mom told her to learn to always be a lady to the world but a LovePeddler when the doors are close and she is with her hubby alone. she said, her mother used that principle on her dad and her mom is old, so this is not new, its been the ancient secret, learn it fast my dear and our wedding might just take place tomorrow wink

[/quote]I'm not sure if sistawoman will be glad she referenced her. The problem with Nigerian women is they want to remain "holy" even in the bedroom.

Romance › Re: Why Do Some Men Prefer Closet Freaks? by TheSeeker(m): 5:19am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212271#msg4212271 date=1247976374]people have sex for pleasure. duh. again there is "pleasure" and there is "freaky pleasure". lol
no i wouldn't marry a man who exhibits freaky sexual behavior in public. and i don't want one that exhibits freaky sexual behavior in private either!!
can u give a good reason why u don't want the public to know about ur freakish desire? is it due to social pressure?
Why should the public know my freakish desire when I ain't putting it up for sale? I don't bend to social pressure but I definitely respect privacy and as much as I can, exhibit all forms of modesty.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212271#msg4212271 date=1247976374]not all men are like that. just some men. you can't say "we men" in an all inclusive way.[/quote]Maybe not all, but most men will share that sentiment with me

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212271#msg4212271 date=1247976374]some men and women would (although that is an extreme example u used). they don't mind exhibiting their freakishness outside or inside.
and when i say closet freak, i don't mean having sex in public. even "sluts" don't have sex in public. lol but you can tell by looking at them or conversing with them that they are freaks. lol[/quote]OK, I will rephrase that. Why do people except moral decency from women than men? Why is it that any "bad" deed from a woman is easily taken out of context and normal proportion? When a woman exhibits any form of freakiness in public, she's tagged someone else, a LovePeddler, a slut, a sex freak, whatever. So I can get a clearer picture of this in case I'm deviating from your intended notion, what are the examples of this freakiness you're talking about?[/quote]

Romance › Re: My Ex-boyfriends Keep Coming Back by TheSeeker(m): 4:49am On Jul 19, 2009

You are still asking if you'd cut the ties? Cut everything. They shouldn't be your bother right now. Don't you think it might kind of make your guy feel insecure if he still knows they want you back and your first being tenacious?(if he's the type that's insecure). You might set off some kind of doubt if you still keep in touch with this kind of guys. Curiously though, why do they want you back? Do you have an idea? Work on your current relationship, put all you got to make it work as he obviously values you more, and forget about those fools. Sh*t! Just noticed this thread is more than 3 years old.

Topup, you said she shouldn't cut all the ties because she might never know what the future holds? Can you explain that?

Romance › Re: Why Do Some Men Prefer Closet Freaks? by TheSeeker(m): 4:35am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212163#msg4212163 date=1247973837]@seeker and others, yes we know sex is sanctioned by God. duh you have to have sex to "be fruitful and multiply" lol tongue

freak
A "freak" can be formally defined as someone not falling within typical standard deviations.
"freak" is commonly used to refer to a person with something unusual about their appearance or behaviour.
4 a: an ardent enthusiast <film freaks> b: a person who is obsessed with something <a ~~control~~sex freak>

so can u explain why SOME men love sex freaks/ perverts but only in private?
only sweetdocs have given a nice answer so far. the rest of u are beating around the bush - ignoring the "freak" part of the question.[/quote]No, we not only have sex to have kids but also for the "pleasure" of it. According to your definition, can you marry a man who exhibits unusual sexual behavior in public? Huh? Of course not. If you were offered $200,000.00, would you sleep with your husband on a TV show? I don't think so. So what's the freakiness about? Men love their women to be freaks in bed because that's where you can explore everything you can't explore in public. It's nice to go all freaky in bed but that should not be brought outside. Good and freaky sex come with very obnoxious norms which can't be displayed in public, that's why we men, love sex freaks in private and a good and respectable woman on the outside. I've already answered your question, I don't see where I'm beating about the bush. I'll go again

We love sexual freaks in bed because we want to have an active sexual life and make the most of it and we cannot go public about it because only then will she be called a LovePeddler. For instance, besides casts and scenes, do you see porn stars display their talent in public? That should answer you.

Romance › Re: Must Girlfriends Demand An Allowance? by TheSeeker(m): 4:15am On Jul 19, 2009

sugabelle:
stay there dey ask. You are open to three situations:

date a girl who's not so rich, and fail to give her a regular allowance, then prepare to be cheated on as she sleeps around with those who will give her what she needs. she might keep u as her bf but will certainly have a richer and more generous lover to meet her demands

or, date a rich girl who won't need your dough but will still expect you to "shake bodi" just so she won't feel it's you dating her for her money. In short, rich girls demand just as much bc it feels better telling her friends "my bf bought this/dat for me

OR date a poor girl who's not demanding but would love to have the good things of life(which she's afraid to ask you for money to buy), and notice she might be secretly unhappy and this will put a strain on the r/ship. Who won't like to have good phone, enuf credit, nice clothes and hair, and if the bf can afford it, why not?

If you want her enough to ask her out, you should be ready to take care of her needs. If you can't afford a definite weekly/monthly allowance, at least make some funds available from time to time.

In conclusion and sorry to say, but real men in love don't ask this question you're asking.

Real men go ahead to splash their doughs on girlfriends? And who are these real men? Politicians, fraudster and drug barons? Please. This is the real world and no one will work hard to get money and spend it on a girl, it's impossible. If I see a man do it at her request, I'd say he's dumb and stupid, as I am sure such man cannot come out boldly and say it: Why keep it a secret if it's such a right thing to do? So if I have to come up with some money before I enter a relationship with a girl, what happens if along the line I lose my job and have monetary problems? She'll flee for another man with a lot more cash than I had. If her demands became so enormous that I can't handle them, she still gets to have another man on the side, isn't it? What if I'm a poor guy who doesn't have money, oh I get it, I won't be entitled to a relationship. The highlighted part of your post depicts the exact qualities of a gold digger or what else do you call that? Stop making ladies look bad than they already do.

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Romance › Re: Must Girlfriends Demand An Allowance? by TheSeeker(m): 4:07am On Jul 19, 2009

It depends on how long you've been together but no matter how long, there'd be limitation to what she can ask. If we've been together a long time, she'd have known what I will and won't do and she has to absolutely understand that. I do not ever have to give part of my income to my girlfriend; that can only be done outright stupid. Why should she be bugging me with money for her hair and clothes? If I didn't date her, won't she have them? Won't she make her hair? What difference does it make? Is she cut out to live as pests on guys' income? It's ridiculous. If I do wish to give her couple of gifts at different times that is totally up to me and not on her request same goes with money and other expenses. I work for myself, to establish who I want to be and save for the family I'll have in the future not to expend it on some girl who can abscond any time and stick to a richer guy. And in what school of romance or thought has it been said that I must foot her bills? Isn't she working? If she's not, who's been footing her bills before I came in? That's pure gold digging --- what will she ask for again when I'm paying her allowances? Let me scan my thoughts, uhmmm . . . . . . . she'll ask to drive my second car. It's nonsense. I'd NEVER do that.

Romance › Re: Why Do Some Men Prefer Closet Freaks? by TheSeeker(m): 3:54am On Jul 19, 2009

If it were to be someone new who posted this, we all know what'd have happened here. Well, in response to your post, Oyinda, the answer is simple. Thank God you mentioned "biblical opinions on the outside". Remember, sex was ordained by God, but did He state it'd be done in public? No! There are some things, especially private parts of our body that should be kept just what it's called "private" but what has women done to that these days? They have put that all aside calling it "old school" and doing their wish. When Adam and Eve were naked back in those days, God covered them because even though they were the only beings then, He stressed a point there "cover your unclothedness". If the unclothedness of man was meant to be covered, tell me what social rule or Biblical rule supports being freaky in the public? Hell yeah, I want a "LovePeddler" in the bedroom and an almost Proverbs 31 kind'a woman on the outside, that's how it is. A "wife" is a custodian of good behavior, an epitome of a respected and respectful womanhood. Sex is meant to be private and should be done behind closed door, even when you're married, you still have to do it such that your kids don't know about it -- sex is sacred when it's done within matrimonial limits. And a woman who's a freak in public; believes everything is right and will pass should be tagged a "disgrace to collective womanhood". What do you think make some people respect the word "wife"? Search more, you'll see.

Romance › Re: WOULD A NURSE BE A GOOD HOUSEWIFE? by TheSeeker(m): 12:52am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=M-Show link=topic=295997.msg4196527#msg4196527 date=1247737358]Whats inching you angry

All the women that travel to Italy and Other European Countries are they Policewomen ?

All that Ashawos in Allen Avenue, Sin City, Paradise Hotel, the ones in Abuja are they also Police Women ?

Give me genuine and sincere answers to these questions and I will bet my years salary that your answers are NO. The just recent Police recruitment exercises for specialist see as beautiful and respectful girls with Master Degree in all academic specialties are flocking for employment. This rush does not portrayed a profession that is promiscuous, licentious or stinking

Extra Marital affairs are common over the world. In your family name three girls that are still virgins 10 years after attaining puberty. The answer will be NONE, thereafter ask them how many men they have gone to bed with within that periods.[/quote]THANK YOUR STARS THAT NL DIDN'T LET YOU SEE MY RESPONSE TO YOUR BASELESS AND CHARACTERLESS DEFENSE OR YOU WOULD HAVE REGRETTED YOU EVER CAME ON THIS FORUM AT ALL. POLICE MY FOOT! THE WORST INSTITUTION IN NIGERIA. CITIZEN EXPLOITERS!

Romance › Re: WOULD A NURSE BE A GOOD HOUSEWIFE? by TheSeeker(m): 12:48am On Jul 19, 2009

Wow! NL Administrators(Seun & Co) hate the truth. I posted a response to the poster and they remove it, can someone tell me why? This is bullshit!

Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Is An Actress, Will U Allow Her Sleep Wit Another Actor In A Film And Vice Versal by TheSeeker(m): 12:18am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298313.msg4211576#msg4211576 date=1247958821]ABOMI-COUNTRY! ! ! when i said PG 13, i meant bibical standard not american standard angry

[/quote]Like the Nigerian Mount Zion Films?

Romance › Re: In This Situation, What'd You Do? by TheSeeker(op): 12:15am On Jul 19, 2009

Hmmmmm, I see

Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Is An Actress, Will U Allow Her Sleep Wit Another Actor In A Film And Vice Versal by TheSeeker(m): 12:02am On Jul 19, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298313.msg4211507#msg4211507 date=1247957663]yes i can, been an actor b4, but roles do matter though, she has to understand where i stand on certain roles and no matter the money i dont want her playing those roles[/quote]Understandable. What kind of roles would that be? Would you be mad if she's kissed in the movies and touched in certain areas? Sleep half naked with another man on a bed? You know, scenes like that.

Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Is An Actress, Will U Allow Her Sleep Wit Another Actor In A Film And Vice Versal by TheSeeker(m): 11:49pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298313.msg4211421#msg4211421 date=1247956399]it is loff grin

but he's sure as hell ain't sharing cheesy

[/quote]Can you date an actress?

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 11:38pm On Jul 18, 2009

Wow! That's . . . . . almost unbelievable. Osogbo is just about 20 minutes drive to Ilobu. Where were you at Ipetumodu and Ede? I'm quite familiar with those places?

Romance › Re: My Man Is Rough With Me by TheSeeker(m): 11:33pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=298333.msg4211382#msg4211382 date=1247955695]As long as you don't mind delivering it to me personally, after Night Vigil tonight, Fellow Brethren in Christ, you are more than welcome wink

[/quote]Night Vigil on a Saturday night? Are you meaning to say an after party of a fabulous wedding?

Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Is An Actress, Will U Allow Her Sleep Wit Another Actor In A Film And Vice Versal by TheSeeker(m): 11:25pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298313.msg4210945#msg4210945 date=1247947829]then fear not[/quote]My question is why did he enter a relationship with an actress when he knows he can't stand the pressure? There's a saying, "if you can't stand the heat, get outta the kitchen"

Family › Re: Fathers Taking The Back Seat. by TheSeeker(m): 11:21pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4211369#msg4211369 date=1247955482]no probs[/quote]On a different note, what are these women turning the world to, the bad ones that is?

Family › Re: Fathers Taking The Back Seat. by TheSeeker(m): 11:16pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4211350#msg4211350 date=1247955237]iight, i will let the angels know u r coming but surely i wont be waiting for ya bro grin

[/quote]I could make do with that generous provision from you

Romance › Re: Could This Be True? by TheSeeker(m): 11:13pm On Jul 18, 2009

eyonigger:
aint getin mad @ her, besides how can I be making a commitment to a girl of such tender age.

and how exactly do u mean that ur commitment?

Just as she must have been smart enough to ask herself that question about you, she furthered queried herself, "how would you be kissing a girl of such tender age?". That is how it is. You can't make a commitment, you don't get no kiss and she's smart enough to get that.

But, she may have this kind of sexual hormones that comes throbbing whenever a man lays hands on her and speculating what kind of man you might be, she decided to back on at the "kiss" stage.

Romance › Re: My Man Is Rough With Me by TheSeeker(m): 11:02pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=298333.msg4211305#msg4211305 date=1247954445]Holy lady like me to throw insult shocked

I reject it in Jesus' name cool

Its probably the SPAMBOT playing up lipsrsealed

[/quote]Would you like me to recommend some spam guard or anti-virus?

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 10:57pm On Jul 18, 2009

bee22:
Hi guys!I'm from Osun (a small town called Ilobu) too.

That's via Agunbelewo road, right? I've been there twice, first I was close to the bridge and second time I crossed it yonder. Friendly people out there I must confess.

Romance › Re: My Man Is Rough With Me by TheSeeker(m): 10:52pm On Jul 18, 2009

Nice advert. I wish there was such a site as www.nairaromance.com but that would have been about money simply because girls would have thought money was raining freely from guys on there, but hell yea, your resume fits right there. And why the insult on the admirer? I don't see a connection between you and na2day? Please don't upset the young lady or man

Romance › Re: Pls Help Me Out by TheSeeker(m): 9:46pm On Jul 18, 2009

You switched to her younger sister because she cheated on you and her sister has a crush on you? Sorry to say, you and her belong to the same cubicle of cheap sluts. You're as quantified a slut as she is. By the way, this thread is lame

Family › Re: Fathers Taking The Back Seat. by TheSeeker(m): 9:37pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4211037#msg4211037 date=1247949269]2 late man, it is a now or never kind'a thing[/quote]Dang man! Imma have to think about this one and get back to you aiitee?

Romance › Re: Is Marriage Possible Soon? A 22year Old Medical Student And 22yrd Old Graduate? by TheSeeker(m): 9:32pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296505.msg4210953#msg4210953 date=1247947925]thats the best we can do 4 him, Hope and pray[/quote]Stamped and sealed!

Family › Re: Fathers Taking The Back Seat. by TheSeeker(m): 9:18pm On Jul 18, 2009

Can I actually take that route? It'll take me 200 years to think about that, can I get back to you then or will I have been too late then?

Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Is An Actress, Will U Allow Her Sleep Wit Another Actor In A Film And Vice Versal by TheSeeker(m): 9:00pm On Jul 18, 2009

Why did you go into a relationship with her when you know she's an actress? Did you lose track with what movie acting is like?

Romance › Re: Is Marriage Possible Soon? A 22year Old Medical Student And 22yrd Old Graduate? by TheSeeker(m): 8:58pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296505.msg4210798#msg4210798 date=1247945888]that's why i added the lots of prayer part wink

hopefully, the Lawd will be on their side grin

[/quote]I hope that works for him

Family › Re: Fathers Taking The Back Seat. by TheSeeker(m): 8:48pm On Jul 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=296829.msg4210815#msg4210815 date=1247946099]i suspect that so i am embarking on plan B grin

[/quote]What's Plan B? I just might be interested.

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 8:46pm On Jul 18, 2009

He's doing OK around here, at least, much better than GWB.

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