₦airaland Forum

whitelexi:
Luxoire: I dunno nothing about where she's from or where she's at, but she comes across to me as one mature and realistic babe. . .  I would always be interested in what she has to say.

desgiezd:
Its a pity, while NANS is busy giving awards to Iwu, affordable education is slipping off their hands!!

philip0906:
I'm proud 2 say my uncles r graduates and I know how they all got their degrees.The first graduated 3 years back and the last one graduated 2 years back 4rm unilag.My granddad was not able 2 sponsor them 2 school.They all fought 4 themselves as the man did not bring out a dime as he had told them after they left secoundary school that he did not have the money and anyone interested in furthering would do so all alone.Those guys struggled 2 pay their fees and get something doing 2 foot their day 2 day bills. But 2 day I'm happy as both r doing fine and have jobs of their own and even take care of their old man.But u all imagine including u A-town, if tuition fees were put at this current 180000,how d'u think they would have survived?I tell u,they would not have thought of going 2 any uni and only God know what their lives would have been like now,probably armed robbers or something like that.

kok:
You are able to say this because you are in country where child abuse is not a major offence. R.Kelly just had a sexy dance and he almost got his ass fried not to talk of proper abuse. Just keep thanking your stars and pray that Fashola dont catch up with you!

asha 2:
@All i get the flow of A-town argurements but some basic infrastructre have to be in place before it can work.

IFELEKE:
Osun is okay,good and fairly accommodating people just that you people are too politically docile. . .I work in Ilesa hence my assertion.

Quard Core:
@ A-town I dont blame you.You sure talk like a U.S base Nigerian. Abi you be JJC? Get loan from where? Which Nigeian bank or Nigerian govt go give you loan? I can bet my last penny that you did not go through our university system, if not, you would not have responded the way you did. Our educational system is nothing to writew home about. Why do you think our degrees are not regarded outside this country except when you want to further your education(at least yo have to prove yourself).

eyonigger:
Haaaaa, bro, be it saying something regarding me or herself, she dnt just give a F about that, my gurl loves to cum n I make her cum well.


I think bolage has a very good point there.

presido1:
Remember OBJ gave us this bad man.

debosky:
Another ridiculous dereliction of duty from the Yar'adua government. . . and we thought OBJ was bad.

At least he did increase salaries for University employees, unlike this sham of a government.

In a time with more 'professors' and 'lecturers' in government (President, VP, Education Minister, Information Minister) the educational sector is suffering terrible neglect and denial of working resources.

To top it all off, the 'minister' of education spends 120m on a birthday bash to laugh in our face and confirm he has absolutely no regard for the suffering of Nigerian students.

If NLC knows what it is doing, there should be nationwide strike to ensure that this gross injustice to both the staff in universities and schools and to our children does not continue. Our leaders obviously don't care, so till we strike them where it hurts, nothing will happen.

eyonigger:
Bro, I can account for at least so many times that I state in some of my statements to her that she is a wife material, and I can also account for at least three times stating I would love to marry her.
She also goes by saying attimes " lets run away, but my mum would run mad, remember im the only one shes'got" n she would say attimes, "lets run a blood oath, n she wud be like mehn I cnt do that, too dangerous"

With all those apart, I think the kissing issue is a thorough issue to be researched, because like I have stated before, there is nothing wrong with my breath or any other thing, I have asked her so many questions regarding the kssing issue, and I have cleared all flaws that could be related to it, and my girl aint the type that would hide her feelings in telling u what probs u got that is stopping her from whatever she wants to do, she dnt care if it hurts ur feelings or not, so if my breath or any other thing could be the cause, she would have uttered it.

Sometimes I feeling a long kiss on her own side is a form of a pre-commitment process, because I remember a day we were about to part, she was in the car n then she told me to draw closer to her, I did, n she gently locked her lips with mine, it was so passionate and deep, and all of a sudden she withdrew n started feeling kind of emotional, so I kinda like picked up a point there that she could be falling too deep in love if she engages herself in a long kiss. Am I making a point here?

whitelexi:
@TheSeeker I saw that post, i just didnt reply cos i knew it was not gonna be good

I get easily irritated by such comments from lazy ass girls who cant be bothered to pick themselves up and get busy. So you've been with him for ages - so what? He still doesn't owe u nothing, if u wanna talk of sex - its a 2-way thing he gave u, u gave him, so whats the beef? If u didnt give him, he woulda got it from elsewhere, so why r u expecting an allowance? what does that make u? what does it say of u? A guy can give when and how he deems fit, u cannot sit there and honestly tell me u expect a monthly allowance cos u've been with him for yrs. . . Thats ridiculous.

I had a gf who was just like this yrs ago, and the mere thought of her makes me cringe - she was the most materialistic person ever and i really wonder how i put up with her demanding nature for 8yrs! Damn.
Naija Girls should learn to get what they need by themselves, when u get gifts from a guy: 1) u understand and appreciate that gift more cos u know what it takes to make money yourself, and 2) u actually come across to guys as someone who can take care of herself and with that comes a greater respect threshold.

eyonigger:
Brother, before I even respond to ur first post, can u please tell me what kind of commitment you are talking about here. The kind of having a commitment that I know of is having a relationship with a girl, and you are proposing marriage or something like that. What other commitments are there in a relationship? Please let me know, cos to my own understanding, we both love each other, and we have shagged twice. So why shud the kissing be an exception in this issue?

This gurl in question is very smart, and she acts like someone in her 22's.

Divab:
Unitee, I totally disagree with u, As long as women remain divided down there, men will always be on top, A world without men will be a crazy fire fighters lesbianic filled world, a world of loneliness, no warmth, no cuddling, cold nights,

Women dress up for men, women love the thrill of the chase, women love the game of love & r/ship, especially We love having your children, women loves most the kids that resemble their Daddies,

As the deer pants for water, so do we women need You guys, even with ur heartbreaks, childish tantrums sometimes, lol,

Sweetdoct247:
Who says what the politicians are doing is good. D judiciary? It's like calling an armed robber to judge someone who has stolen a biro na God go purnish all of them together. And no matter how merciful God gets He will not see immorality as normal not even lying?

Kunbee:
I have a friend he and his gal dont even communicate in school just say a very cold hi but when he says of his sexcapades and how good she can own a jt all of us go ballistic, and if u see this babe in church chei u go fear and he says seeing her in church singing all those songs turns him on, so my dear Oyinda dats the definition of a real freak can u imagine having a hard on in church cos ur chick is speaking in tongues and u know later that night yall will be on cloud 9. As for the fantasies i see them as normal u have 2 be a freak 2 make that dude happy wen they r happy u r happy but wat irritates me most is peeps dat when they r in the bus wiv u they start cupping private parts now those r open freaks

Sweetdoct247:
It's really sad to see how perverted people have become these days. Having sexual fantasies in the house of God? God don cool down sa, if to say na before na thunder go strike them both. Anyway back to the topic, to me everything people av said so far comes down to one thing partners should really talk about the extent they would like to go in sexual matters so that there wont be problems in the future.
Like I said b4 every man (& woman) want there partners to be adventurous in bed, try new things and all that but some things are just out of it! When placed sides by sides with what is accepted as a norm some practices are truly found wanting that's where the word "freaky" comes in. It doesnt matter whether u are in d 1920s or 2055 moral standards are d same stealing has never been an accepted conduct, not in the biblical times not now and definitely not in the nearest future, sexual perversion aint different. Why should a man who hisses at sluts on the street want his wife to dress up the same way in order to be turned on? It's sure hypocrisy what if he'd not seen one the idea wouldnt av popped in his head. That's why I dont see role playing as normal. What if d entertainment industry never introduced these things in the first place. To me fine people might want to try positions but why should a woman(or man sometimes) dress up as a nurse, funny school teacher some people even make use of scary characters just to please their partner some people even beat theirselves inflicting pain all in the same of pre-intimacy? I dont agree to the saying that all is normal as long as it is kept private no. Even tho sex is meant to be private everybody knows it just a normal thing to av it when u are married but not everybody might see anything normal in tying up urselves to av have sex. So only people that dont see anything bad in this should pair up with themselves. It's really unfair do people(men or women) to start demanding these from their partners when it is against their spirit. It negates the principle of marriage itself cos sex is fundamental in it so when people av to tolerate marriage it takes the flavour out of it. So with regards to sexuality men should only marry women who can fulfill there sexual fantasies and not force some woman to do it.
With regards anal sex, to me it's plain perversion, of course once again it's dependent on individual but fact that some people dont see anything bad in assisting their failing friends in an exam doesnt mean it's good. It's still exam malpractice if u re caught. God himself is againt it remember where d Bible says men are turning their natural use into that which is against the nature in Romans 1:26 dont mean to sound spiritual. Medically it aint good also, it could traumatize the rectum and the woman could suffer incontinence for life. Just even looking at it it's like suddenly deciding to start eating thru ur nose.

God is a merciful One. He would have struck such people then at the thought of it in the old days, but this is another millennium. God gets to be more merciful every year and that's the secret . As for the thieving part, who says it's not an accepted conduct? What is stealing? Taking what doesn't belong to you. Does our money belong to our Governors, Senators and President? No. So what is that? Stealing. Who judges whether or not you're a thief? The Judiciary. But what they seem to do to Nigerian politicians is let them slide through, it's more like saying "Y'all listen, thieving is an accepted moral, political and judicial conduct in Nigeria" . In 2055, it will be morally justified for anyone to take part in it as long as you don't use a gun.