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funmisticqueen:I thought your eyes were big! How come you didn't see that the post was actually on men - men's unfulfilled sexual needs? Anyway, If you must comment, do it on the other duplicate thread. I wish this one taken down. |
funmisticqueen: ![]() Don't let your emotions soil my robe. And oh, the persons are one and the same. |
Greatzeus:The urge to be the first to post a comment can trigger anxiety disorder, manifesting in a post that fails to cut the average intellectual benchmark. |
Cc RoyalRoy lalasticlala Please take down this thread. It featured twice due to server/network error. Thanks! |
Men marry for a list of reasons, even amongst the most noble of men, one of the chief reasons for marriage is... you guessed right. Sex! Yes, endless of sex! Like a devout Christian looks forward in hope to the fulfilment of the promise of Isaiah 65:24, even so does a young man anticipates great sex on demand once married. The average man believes, and rightly so, that marriage is a licence to endless, uninterrupted sex. But statistics points us to a rude awakening, no thanks to the largely disorientated women of the age. Soon after marriage, sex for most folks slows down like an old stream with tired waves. A wife's sexual interest, without warning begins to wane, flying at half mast. She no longer looks forward to those raunchy nights of sweat-soaked, rumpled sheets and feverish breath. For no apparent reason, she becomes sexually unmotivated. Sex becomes manual and routine - more like an obligation or duty than a passionate longing to fuse body and soul into her husband. Worse still, it becomes a reward to her huaband for doing something nice. Alas, this is the reality of many marriages today. Let's consider some factors that could be responsible why wives of this age are highly asexual; Bad Orientation: "Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say 'I'll be with you shortly'" - postmann Most women have failed to understand the sexual mechanism of men. Some don't even make a pretence at understanding it. The average man is a highly sexual "beast". He entertains sexual-related thoughts several times a day. He can think up a sexual plan straight out of the blue even while pressed with office workload. The involuntary casual movement of his wife from room to room, her "innocent" posture on the sofa watching TV or lying without intent on a bed reading a magazine all send sexual charges to his bloodstream as he watches her, and all the while she's completely oblivious of the sexual current she transmits. She, the wife is absolutely out of touch with her husband's sexuality. Nor does she really care. Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say ' I'll be with you shortly '. Sooner or later he would make his move for her. She has no idea where he's coming from neither is she willing to take him where he wishes to go. Wrong Counsel: "A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient" - postmann ![]() A very popular theory among educated and "enlightened" wives is that sex should only take place when both husband and wife feel like it. This is not only wrong but was conceived by a shallow mind and propagated by people whose sexual commitment and appetite are questionable. It doesn't take much wisdom to understand the disparity between man-woman sexual mechanisms. While a skilled lover/husband can talk his wife into sex, there's an altruistic nature to the female sexuality. She's the giver. A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient. (Not to the detriment of her health). The Demand Of Morden Life: "Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep" - postmann Today's economic reality means more women are leaving their homes for work to add to the family coffers. And there lies much of the problems besieging the family unit. She gives the best of her energy to her employers on the sacrificial alter of her husband's sexual and emotional needs. Coming home 5 days each week with a pittance of her energy. Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep. It's pathetic when wives give their best strength to their employers in the name of supporting their husbands/families while deserting the bedroom. It normally backfires. A wise woman knows that the bedroom is the most important room in a house. Her bed is the seat of power where she lobbies her husband and make far reaching deals. But the foolish ones desert it. |
Men marry for a list of reasons, even amongst the most noble of men, one of the chief reasons for marriage is... you guessed right. Sex! Yes, endless of sex! Like a devout Christian looks forward in hope to the fulfilment of the promise of Isaiah 65:24, even so does a young man anticipates great sex on demand once married. The average man believes, and rightly so, that marriage is a licence to endless, uninterrupted sex. But statistics points us to a rude awakening, no thanks to the largely disorientated women of the age. Soon after marriage, sex for most folks slows down like an old stream with tired waves. A wife's sexual interest without warning begins to wane, flying at half mast. She no longer looks forward to those raunchy nights of sweat-soaked, rumpled sheets and feverish breaths. For no apparent reason, she becomes sexually unmotivated. Sex becomes manual and routine - more like an obligation or duty than a passionate longing to fuse body and soul into her husband. Worse still, it becomes a reward to her huaband for doing something nice. Alas, this is the reality of many marriages today. Let's consider some likely factors that might be responsible for the highly asexual wives of this age. Bad Orientation: "Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say 'I'll be with you shortly'" - postmann Most women have failed to understand the sexual mechanism of men. Some don't even make a pretence at understanding it. The average man is a highly sexual "beast". He entertains sexual-related thoughts several times a day. He can think up a sexual plan straight out of the blue even while pressed with office workload. The involuntary casual movement of his wife from room to room, her "innocent" posture on the sofa watching TV or lying without intent on a bed reading a magazine all send sexual charges to his bloodstream as he watches her, and all the while she's completely oblivious of the sexual current she transmits. She, the wife is absolutely out of touch with her husband's sexuality. Nor does she really care. Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say ' I'll be with you shortly '. Sooner or later he would make his move for her. She has no idea where he's coming from and she's most unlikely to take him where he wishes to go. Wrong Counsel: "A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient" - postmann ![]() A very popular theory among educated and "enlightened" wives is that sex should only take place when both husband and wife feel like it. This is not only wrong but was conceived by a shallow mind and propagated by people whose sexual commitment and appetite are questionable. It doesn't take much wisdom to understand the disparity between man-woman sexual mechanisms. While a skilled lover/husband can talk his wife into sex, there's an altruistic nature to the female sexuality. She's the giver. A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient. (Not to the detriment of her health). The Demands Of The Morden Life: "Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep" - postmann Today's economic reality means more women are leaving their homes for work to add to the family coffers. And there lies much of the problems besieging the family unit. She gives the best of her energy to her employers on the sacrificial alter of her husband's sexual and emotional needs. Coming home 5 days each week with a pittance of her energy. Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep. It's pathetic when wives give their best strength to their employers in the name of supporting their husbands/families while deserting the bedroom. It normally backfires. A wise woman knows that the bedroom is the most important room in a house. Her bed is the seat of power where she lobbies her husband and make far reaching deals. But the foolish ones desert it. |
Shroud:Saw a handful of her venomous tirades and I realized something was wrong - rejection - the most likely culprit! |
Shroud:Now please tell me it isn't true. Tell me that no matter how bad a woman's self esteem might be, it can't drop to the level of using some else's pic while claiming it for herself. |
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GuyfawkesAB:I saw the list of some basic federal infrastructure you listed up there to back your claim that the South East isn't marginalized. You did brilliantly capitalising on my "no visible Federal presence" when the average mind knows exactly what I was trying to say. So listing schools and hospitals is a laughable attempt and an insult to a honest evaluation of critical federal projects and infrastructure distribution on region to region basis. The state of the federal roads in the South east is deplorable The South East deserves an international airport The South east deserves an inland port The current railway projet never passed through any South East city, not even cities like Onitsha, Aba or Nnewi. But one is stretching hundreds of kilometres from lagos to kano, Portharcourt to kano. The link below is one of many examples of the deliberate marginalisation of the south east, from budget allocation to federal appointments and to critical federal Infrastructure. https://www.nairaland.com/3434857/federal-government-leaves-out-south#50592982 The list you put out there draws a parallel between dishonesty and your personal judgement. |
Shroud:His dual citizenship was a huge factor why the unlawful Buhari's administration was afraid of doing away with him in the first place. The UK had made its stance known that his fundamental rights must be protected hence the north was jittery. It plays to the Biafran favour to have a leader in person of Kanu who has an international clout about him. It puts the world on notice automatically. That's exactly what we need. |
Shroud:I totally disagree with you here. There's a grave and evil injustice deliberately perpetuated against Igbos by the northern political elites. There's no visible federal presence in the whole of the south east. The south east is the only region that was cut out from the current railway project. So much marginalisation. Somebody got to takd serious measures against these northern vultures. Nnamdi Kanu is that someone. He has my full blessing. Believe me, until the north stares a real breakup of Nigeria in the face, they'd hold on to the status quo perpetually. |
woodcook:Anxiety disorder is the proper diagnosis for a cyber-nuisance as yourself who asks a question and provides the answer. woodcook:Says an epicene Schlep and a homosexual apologist as yourself. Since you've obviously been diagnosed with depleted male chromosomes, your mind can't comprehend the totality and complexity of the heterosexual sex matrix. woodcook:I never expect sound judgement to be your forte being the shodow gay man that you are. Gays are mentally and spiritually screwed; a threat to future generations and an abberation to all healthy, progressive society. woodcook:Heterosexual sex in all its variations can never be likened to homosexual sex. They're two different things. A healthy man is wired to sexualise just about any body part of his woman. It can be the ear lobes which he may put his tongue to or the neck, or whatever part that tickles his sexual fancy, it is pretty normal. But a homosexual is less than an animal to begin with, it is the biggest threat to a common heritage that promise to preserve the human race. But you wouldn't know this because something went wrong with your biological and spiritually progress during your formative years. Nuisance! |
woodcook:For most healthy men, sex is more psychological. Just like sexually kissing a woman's lips has no correlative effect on straight guys like kissing a man's lip. The buttocks of females is a good sexual comfort zone but even though some men may have protruding buttocks, straight men don't see the correlation between both buttocks. Your assertion that heterosexual men that love anal sex are potential gays or gays in the closet is disturbing and borne out of a twisted mind with poor sexual creativity. |
Fearlez:Please Sir, Warri is not an Urhobo town. Even though they're largely responsible for its squalor. Warri remains an Itsekiri town, with a recognised first class king, the Olu of Warri. |
fratermathy:Your people are the worst of a kind; weighed down by poor family values and cheap alcohol (Ogogoro). |
laudate:If you suffer from vision impairment or mental handicap, I wouldn't be blamed. |
fratermathy:You seem to be under some kind of unseen pressure! fratermathy:In your own words, Urhobo and Isoko are ONE. They were only divided for political reasons. You must think people suffer from the same IQ as you. |
Sanchez01:Oh, please blow it off your rear! Who cares what you think! |
fratermathy:You so much remind me of ill-trained, unprofessional South African commentators during matches involving the Nigerian Super Eagles and South African Bafana Bafana. The South African commentators' unprofessionalism always comes to the fore that they betrayed their emotions and an average mind could sense their bias. If I tell the average reader that the OP is an Urhobo man, he will immediately spot your small mindedness, bias and your feeble attempt at pursing your petty Urhobo agenda. If there's a known fifth largest ethnicity in Nigeria, the Urhobos of which you belong has lesser claim to that position than the other two ethnicities which you tactically down played. fratermathy:This is the second time in this thread you made subtle moves to lump the Isoko and Urhobo into one ethnic entity. You are still being a little restraint here but soon we would see you throw caution to the wind as the stakes became high! ![]() fratermathy:You described the whole of Delta north which is geographically bigger than Delta Central as "Asaba and environs". A region which host big towns like Asaba, Agbor, Ise-Ukwu, Ibusa. How does it sound describing Delta central as "Ughelli and environs"? Like I told you in 2015, you're unbearably Urhoboic! Why didn't you mention that your own Urhobo speak different dialects too? You're really an intellectual nuisance and a fraud! A tribalist with little IQ! fratermathy:With special reference to the emboldened: while you have claimed in 2015 that your tribe has absorbed and swallowed up another tribe without recourse or sensitivity to the feelings and respect of the millions of Isoko sons and daughters who share a different view, you continued making assertions in this thread that these two distinct ethnicities are one and here you merged them as one! "Urhobo-Isoko"! YOU'RE MORE THAN AN INTELLECTUAL FRAUD, YOU'RE ALSO AN ECONOMIC FRAUD! What is Urhobo - Isoko? What concerns Isoko crude oil in Isoko land with Urhobo? Mr man, you're a disgrace and a shameful attempt at intellectualism. It should interest the readers to know that the Isokos have more oil reserves than the Urhobos. So the OPs interest in merging these two distinct ethnicities shouldn't be surprising ![]() fratermathy:Even without statistical evidence to back your bogus and far-fetched claims. Such is the Idiocentric, empty chest-beating associated with you and your lot. This thread was inspired by your insecurity and your Idiocentric and paranoic tendencies. You remain the greatest buffoon who made an attempt to adorn himself the ragalia of an intellect. |
fratermathy:You're an unrepentant intellectual fraud! And you lack shame even in the face of undeniable evidence. I'm done with you - for now! |
fratermathy:You're so petty and psychologically inferior! What does it matter whether I'm Eastern or Western Igbo? Does it feel bad that an Anioma man loves his Igbo brothers and sisters across the Niger? Does it make you more insecure? It you're mentally and psychologically healthy you should be in a pang of conscience. But no, you're still trying to hold on to your dry and worn out pride, trying to prove what you're not. Please sign out, you're an intellectual embarrassment. I don't need to bother myself with your meaningless second question, it is right on this thread and somewhere in another post. Truth is you're not worth the disturbances. I'll leave you with a pictorial proof, evidence you can't tamper with.
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fratermathy:You still display your subjective and compromised views here! And in the process still trying to divide my people. You're an Urhobo man, and your behaviour is that of an average Urhobo man. The Aniomas don't behave like you and your people, neither do the Itsekiris nor the Ijaws. And yet you say I don't behave like Delta as if we have one code of behaviour irrespective of our tribal bearings. What a waste you are in the course you chose to burden your myopic outlook. You haven't developed strong intellectual muscles to venture into political and cultural dispositions. And oh, the people across the Niger : they are your superiors in any human given endeavour. Now to answer your question; Here is one of the various proofs where you stated that Urhobos and Isokos are one: fratermathy:Now there you go! What do you have to say about that? This is the second time, rather the third time I'll be having you disgraced with facts and proof of your myopia and tribalism. You stink of insincerity! |
laudate:He had it coming! It was the necessary weapon at hand to contain his contagious Fable. Certain seemingly harsh measures are necessary when some one tries to tell the world about your people and their history in a distorted perspective with all the negative political ramifications it holds. Now unless you're from Delta State, you wouldn't completely understand his deliberate assault on my people. It has been a stratagem applied one too many by him and his tribal folks to malign and divide my people. The "insult" you saw was ditched out in a hurry, it would have been graver. Since the OP feels he can group two distinct ethnicities - the Urhobos (his descent) and Isokos as one entity due to obvious similarities, he more reason to have applied the same principle to the Anoimas who are one people. But for political reasons, he applied two different standards. Above all, he called the Aniomas, a distinct Igbo group a minority. In today's Nigeria such false assertions come with all the negative political and social implications. Next time he ventures into Anioma waters without caution and restraint, I'll sink the boat of his evil political expedition. |
Some Delta Igbos saying they're not Igbos bears no significance any more than an Okpe man says he's not Urhobo. And while the Delta Igbos produced 11 generals in Ojukwu's Biafran army lead by the great Kaduna Nsogwu, the Ohaneze Ndi Igbo, the largest, most significant, and influential Igbo socio-cultural body has been headed by a Delta Igbo son. This is proof that Igbos across the Niger have and always recognise their kin west of the Niger. So your second class citizenship rant has less value than a cow's dung. You're politically naive and backward. Have the Anoimas which control 9 local government Area in Delta State not applied for Anioma state? Does that sound to you like they want to remain in Delta with or without Nigeria? It is an uncommon foolishness for you to come explain to me what goes on in my father's house. efeski: |
AHCB:A world gone wrong! The side chick has lost her self dignity. |
fratermathy:Save me your pathetic lectures, educated illiterate! I am postmann and I have once educated you on the definition of Niger Delta in its polical and geographical applications in Nigeria. Now get off my face, bloody irritant! |
Fearlez:I just posted a source of one of his many false assertions. The guy is annoying to say the least |
fratermathy:There you go! fratermathy:You're a putrid stench in the otherwise healthy atmosphere of this blogosphere |
Fearlez: The same quack who defined the Niger Delta region to comprise just the Urhobos, Ijaws and Itsekiris! What an emboldened nuisance! |
YorubaMuslims:Please say that again! Only this time shout it out loud! What makes anyone think Anioma will remain in Nigeria when the rest of our kin across the Niger leaves? |



