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FamilyRe: Most Wives Have Failed To Meet Their Husbands' Sexual Needs by TheUmbra(op): 10:47pm On Jun 27, 2017
funmisticqueen:
What emotions, i type this with a stright face, so please type a post on men, or are you chicken.
I thought your eyes were big! How come you didn't see that the post was actually on men - men's unfulfilled sexual needs?

Anyway, If you must comment, do it on the other duplicate thread. I wish this one taken down.
FamilyRe: Most Wives Have Failed To Meet Their Husbands' Sexual Needs by TheUmbra(op): 10:33pm On Jun 27, 2017
funmisticqueen:
TheUmbra, both you and the person you keep quoting needs to get a life

upon all your epistle, you still did not profer solutions to the so called problem.

All these women experts forming minister of women affairs please stop giving women advice, we are tired of hearing it

women should do this, ten tips for women to blah blah, dont disturb us, instead focus on the men and give them advice instead. Or make a relationship book just for them only.
grin grin grin

Don't let your emotions soil my robe.

And oh, the persons are one and the same.
FamilyRe: Most Wives Have Failed To Meet Their Husbands' Sexual Needs by TheUmbra(op): 9:25pm On Jun 27, 2017
Greatzeus:
Really huh
The husbands called your and told you right undecided
The urge to be the first to post a comment can trigger anxiety disorder, manifesting in a post that fails to cut the average intellectual benchmark.
FamilyRe: Most Wives Have Failed To Meet Their Husbands' Sexual Needs by TheUmbra(op):
Cc RoyalRoy lalasticlala

Please take down this thread. It featured twice due to server/network error. Thanks!
FamilyMost Wives Have Failed To Meet Their Husbands' Sexual Needs by TheUmbra(op):
Men marry for a list of reasons, even amongst the most noble of men, one of the chief reasons for marriage is... you guessed right. Sex! Yes, endless of sex! Like a devout Christian looks forward in hope to the fulfilment of the promise of Isaiah 65:24, even so does a young man anticipates great sex on demand once married. The average man believes, and rightly so, that marriage is a licence to endless, uninterrupted sex.

But statistics points us to a rude awakening, no thanks to the largely disorientated women of the age. Soon after marriage, sex for most folks slows down like an old stream with tired waves. A wife's sexual interest, without warning begins to wane, flying at half mast.

She no longer looks forward to those raunchy nights of sweat-soaked, rumpled sheets and feverish breath. For no apparent reason, she becomes sexually unmotivated. Sex becomes manual and routine - more like an obligation or duty than a passionate longing to fuse body and soul into her husband. Worse still, it becomes a reward to her huaband for doing something nice. Alas, this is the reality of many marriages today.


Let's consider some factors that could be responsible why wives of this age are highly asexual;



Bad Orientation:

"Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say 'I'll be with you shortly'" - postmann

Most women have failed to understand the sexual mechanism of men. Some don't even make a pretence at understanding it. The average man is a highly sexual "beast". He entertains sexual-related thoughts several times a day. He can think up a sexual plan straight out of the blue even while pressed with office workload. The involuntary casual movement of his wife from room to room, her "innocent" posture on the sofa watching TV or lying without intent on a bed reading a magazine all send sexual charges to his bloodstream as he watches her, and all the while she's completely oblivious of the sexual current she transmits. She, the wife is absolutely out of touch with her husband's sexuality. Nor does she really care. Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say ' I'll be with you shortly '. Sooner or later he would make his move for her. She has no idea where he's coming from neither is she willing to take him where he wishes to go.


Wrong Counsel:


"A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient" - postmann
grin

A very popular theory among educated and "enlightened" wives is that sex should only take place when both husband and wife feel like it. This is not only wrong but was conceived by a shallow mind and propagated by people whose sexual commitment and appetite are questionable. It doesn't take much wisdom to understand the disparity between man-woman sexual mechanisms. While a skilled lover/husband can talk his wife into sex, there's an altruistic nature to the female sexuality. She's the giver. A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient. (Not to the detriment of her health).

The Demand Of Morden Life:

"Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep" - postmann

Today's economic reality means more women are leaving their homes for work to add to the family coffers. And there lies much of the problems besieging the family unit. She gives the best of her energy to her employers on the sacrificial alter of her husband's sexual and emotional needs. Coming home 5 days each week with a pittance of her energy. Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep.

It's pathetic when wives give their best strength to their employers in the name of supporting their husbands/families while deserting the bedroom. It normally backfires.

A wise woman knows that the bedroom is the most important room in a house. Her bed is the seat of power where she lobbies her husband and make far reaching deals. But the foolish ones desert it.
FamilyMost Wives Have Failed To Meet Their Husbands' Sexual Needs by TheUmbra(op):
Men marry for a list of reasons, even amongst the most noble of men, one of the chief reasons for marriage is... you guessed right. Sex! Yes, endless of sex! Like a devout Christian looks forward in hope to the fulfilment of the promise of Isaiah 65:24, even so does a young man anticipates great sex on demand once married. The average man believes, and rightly so, that marriage is a licence to endless, uninterrupted sex.

But statistics points us to a rude awakening, no thanks to the largely disorientated women of the age. Soon after marriage, sex for most folks slows down like an old stream with tired waves. A wife's sexual interest without warning begins to wane, flying at half mast. She no longer looks forward to those raunchy nights of sweat-soaked, rumpled sheets and feverish breaths. For no apparent reason, she becomes sexually unmotivated. Sex becomes manual and routine - more like an obligation or duty than a passionate longing to fuse body and soul into her husband. Worse still, it becomes a reward to her huaband for doing something nice. Alas, this is the reality of many marriages today.


Let's consider some likely factors that might be responsible for the highly asexual wives of this age.



Bad Orientation:

"Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say 'I'll be with you shortly'" - postmann

Most women have failed to understand the sexual mechanism of men. Some don't even make a pretence at understanding it. The average man is a highly sexual "beast". He entertains sexual-related thoughts several times a day. He can think up a sexual plan straight out of the blue even while pressed with office workload. The involuntary casual movement of his wife from room to room, her "innocent" posture on the sofa watching TV or lying without intent on a bed reading a magazine all send sexual charges to his bloodstream as he watches her, and all the while she's completely oblivious of the sexual current she transmits. She, the wife is absolutely out of touch with her husband's sexuality. Nor does she really care. Sexual urge is a biological summon; who can resist its call? The best amongst us can only say ' I'll be with you shortly '. Sooner or later he would make his move for her. She has no idea where he's coming from and she's most unlikely to take him where he wishes to go.


Wrong Counsel:


"A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient" - postmann
grin
A very popular theory among educated and "enlightened" wives is that sex should only take place when both husband and wife feel like it. This is not only wrong but was conceived by a shallow mind and propagated by people whose sexual commitment and appetite are questionable. It doesn't take much wisdom to understand the disparity between man-woman sexual mechanisms. While a skilled lover/husband can talk his wife into sex, there's an altruistic nature to the female sexuality. She's the giver. A wise woman yeilds to her husband's sexual demand as a caring mother yields her breast to her Suckling even when it's not convenient. (Not to the detriment of her health).

The Demands Of The Morden Life:

"Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep" - postmann

Today's economic reality means more women are leaving their homes for work to add to the family coffers. And there lies much of the problems besieging the family unit. She gives the best of her energy to her employers on the sacrificial alter of her husband's sexual and emotional needs. Coming home 5 days each week with a pittance of her energy. Making love to a fatigued wife is as uninspiring as making love to her while she's asleep.

It's pathetic when wives give their best strength to their employers in the name of supporting their husbands/families while deserting the bedroom. It normally backfires.

A wise woman knows that the bedroom is the most important room in a house. Her bed is the seat of power where she lobbies her husband and make far reaching deals. But the foolish ones desert it.
RomanceRe: Ladies,this is how to tame Your Man And Make Him Do Your Bidding. by TheUmbra: 11:36pm On Jun 26, 2017
Shroud:
She was using someone's--a pretty unknown lady-- pic as her DP from 2015 down the years and lied in 2017 that she has never used anyone's DP.

I dug her old posts and brought proof for her.

Most of these bitter, rantful girls in Nairaland are often unsightly creatures hiding away in online forums taking out thier frustrations on people just because nature found them undeserving.
Saw a handful of her venomous tirades and I realized something was wrong - rejection - the most likely culprit!
RomanceRe: Ladies,this is how to tame Your Man And Make Him Do Your Bidding. by TheUmbra: 11:21pm On Jun 26, 2017
Shroud:
looking for weak targets ? And you just said good night.

Eternal Ashawo. If you can steal a DP to deceive Nairalanders, then you must be one ugly, unkept drab who would need no extra movie costume to do a horror scene.

Cheap thief
Now please tell me it isn't true. Tell me that no matter how bad a woman's self esteem might be, it can't drop to the level of using some else's pic while claiming it for herself.
PoliticsRe: "No Referendum, No 2019 Election In South-East" - Nnamdi Kanu by TheUmbra: 10:16pm On Jun 26, 2017
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GuyfawkesAB:
You can continue playing the wailing tape.

You have leaders don't you?

What have they done with your allocations?

What did the ones who had the upper hand in the last government do for you?

Do you know how many kilometres of federal road that are still in the Southwest alone? Some state governor took it upon themselves to reconstruct these roads. E.g Akure-Ogbese (on Akure-Benin expressway), Gbongan-Ede-Osogbo, and several in Lagos and Ogun. At least I know of the ones I mentioned.

You guys sound like every other part of Nigeria is in some affluence.
Most of the developments you see around in other regions are as a result of a conducive business environment for investors , peace and good use of their allocations.

You are marginalized because your people have chosen to use a plethora of crime to scare investors away. Who would put their money in an unsafe place?
You have also not held your leaders to good account.

You are the only ones who have continued to hold the FG to blame while ignoring ur governors and political leaders. Others have rolled up their sleeves and worked for themselves.

Ask Okonjo-Iwrala and co what they were thinking when they approved the Lagos-Calabar Coastal Railway plan and design leaving out your important cities.

You Igbos are your own number 1 problem.
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PoliticsRe: "No Referendum, No 2019 Election In South-East" - Nnamdi Kanu by TheUmbra:
GuyfawkesAB:
I don't know what you all always mean by "No visible Federal presence..."

Are there no Federal Universities in the SE?
Federal Medical Centre?
Unity Colleges?
Federal polytechnics?
Federal Research institutes?
Federal Technology Incubation centres?
Military Formations and Schools?
Connection to the National Electricity Grid or Telephony?
.......
Most of the other infrastructure you see in other areas and not in yours are because of what they have done woth their own allocation or have attracted forein investors to set up.


Please help me with any information on what is available in other regions thay is lacking in yours that has made you conclude that there is no VISIBLE federal presence IN SE?

And please STOP the Victim and Marginalization cries
I saw the list of some basic federal infrastructure you listed up there to back your claim that the South East isn't marginalized.

You did brilliantly capitalising on my "no visible Federal presence" when the average mind knows exactly what I was trying to say. So listing schools and hospitals is a laughable attempt and an insult to a honest evaluation of critical federal projects and infrastructure distribution on region to region basis.

The state of the federal roads in the South east is deplorable

The South East deserves an international airport

The South east deserves an inland port

The current railway projet never passed through any South East city, not even cities like Onitsha, Aba or Nnewi. But one is stretching hundreds of kilometres from lagos to kano, Portharcourt to kano.

The link below is one of many examples of the deliberate marginalisation of the south east, from budget allocation to federal appointments and to critical federal Infrastructure.
https://www.nairaland.com/3434857/federal-government-leaves-out-south#50592982


The list you put out there draws a parallel between dishonesty and your personal judgement.
PoliticsRe: "No Referendum, No 2019 Election In South-East" - Nnamdi Kanu by TheUmbra:
Shroud:
Igbos have a just course to fight for but not on the platform of a unilateral youth with British citizenship.

I still think he should denounce his dual citizenship to be on equal footing with others.
His dual citizenship was a huge factor why the unlawful Buhari's administration was afraid of doing away with him in the first place.

The UK had made its stance known that his fundamental rights must be protected hence the north was jittery. It plays to the Biafran favour to have a leader in person of Kanu who has an international clout about him. It puts the world on notice automatically. That's exactly what we need.
PoliticsRe: "No Referendum, No 2019 Election In South-East" - Nnamdi Kanu by TheUmbra: 11:40pm On Jun 23, 2017
Shroud:
I'm not afraid to say this is the same youthful brashness late ikemba ojukwu showed by unanimously declaring Biafra without the general support of the elders.

This criminal is here giving orders while he's a British citizen. Tomorrow, he will easily get political asylum status and flee to England once shiit hits fan.

I pity the unlettered vagabonding youths wasting their lives for this unhinged thief called nnamdi Kalu. A mindless, criminal without scruples.


He should denounce his dual citizenship first and stick his neck out like he's asking others to do.

No elections in Biafra land? Fool , it can't happen !!!
I totally disagree with you here. There's a grave and evil injustice deliberately perpetuated against Igbos by the northern political elites. There's no visible federal presence in the whole of the south east. The south east is the only region that was cut out from the current railway project.

So much marginalisation. Somebody got to takd serious measures against these northern vultures. Nnamdi Kanu is that someone. He has my full blessing.

Believe me, until the north stares a real breakup of Nigeria in the face, they'd hold on to the status quo perpetually.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girl Comes For Guys Who Engage In Anal Sex With Ladies.See Wht She Said by TheUmbra:
woodcook:
Are you a ass driller? I known your answer is yes.
Anxiety disorder is the proper diagnosis for a cyber-nuisance as yourself who asks a question and provides the answer.

woodcook:
You failed to understand the idea behind my post. It is simple any straight man that engages in anal sex does not have the moral high ground to call for the heads of homosexuals.
Says an epicene Schlep and a homosexual apologist as yourself. Since you've obviously been diagnosed with depleted male chromosomes, your mind can't comprehend the totality and complexity of the heterosexual sex matrix.

woodcook:
I personally dont care how two consenting adults chose to get off but I am only concern about the hate-filled comments you see on this forum whenever the word gay comes up.
I never expect sound judgement to be your forte being the shodow gay man that you are. Gays are mentally and spiritually screwed; a threat to future generations and an abberation to all healthy, progressive society.


woodcook:
Given the number of straight men here that seems to be involve in some non traditional sexual acts, one begins to wonder on what ground do they have the moral rights to condemn others?
Heterosexual sex in all its variations can never be likened to homosexual sex. They're two different things. A healthy man is wired to sexualise just about any body part of his woman. It can be the ear lobes which he may put his tongue to or the neck, or whatever part that tickles his sexual fancy, it is pretty normal. But a homosexual is less than an animal to begin with, it is the biggest threat to a common heritage that promise to preserve the human race.

But you wouldn't know this because something went wrong with your biological and spiritually progress during your formative years.

Nuisance!
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girl Comes For Guys Who Engage In Anal Sex With Ladies.See Wht She Said by TheUmbra: 6:18pm On Jun 23, 2017
woodcook:
Today breeze don blow una yash don open. All you ass driller. God don expose you and your likes today. No wonder most of you are so pumped against anyone that treats gays like human on this forum. Now I am beginning to believe the saying that those that hate gay men are closet homo.

Guy keep drilling ass, you are just one ass away from homo.

Even if you come out as one, I will still treat you with all the respect you deserve as a human being. I only frown at hypocrites that drill asses and still want to prop themselves on moral high ground.
For most healthy men, sex is more psychological. Just like sexually kissing a woman's lips has no correlative effect on straight guys like kissing a man's lip.

The buttocks of females is a good sexual comfort zone but even though some men may have protruding buttocks, straight men don't see the correlation between both buttocks.

Your assertion that heterosexual men that love anal sex are potential gays or gays in the closet is disturbing and borne out of a twisted mind with poor sexual creativity.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 10:44am On Jun 23, 2017
Fearlez:
A descendant from a tribe of petty thieves with unquenchable lust for polygamy with little means to cater for the flock...I bet your upbringing is like the average urhobos; overcrowded, meat-rationing on Sundays and poor ventilated like a cattle breeding ground.

Take a look at your cities, warri is like a glorified village because the urhobos don't have the ability for development, few itsekiri quarters like Oguwangwe, esisi gra, ode-itsekiri are well developed, while your okumagba layout is like a backwater cesspit where humans not worth the breath in their lungs dwell.

If not for the urhobos, warri would have been another portharcourt, Lagos, Onitsha and Kaduna, but these wastes of humanities introduced deve (extortion) on anyone trying to build properties on thier land. They even task federal and state governments contractors before allowing them to work on projects like roads and bridges.

You're cussed, every single one of your tribesman is infinitely lesser than unhinged primates sniffing the dirt in the Serengeti.

A malicious regurgitation of nature's worst product like you is trying to divide a people greater in birth and breeding than a pack of uncultured dogs like you urhobos. Little itsekiri cleaned you out of warri south and you think your people are worth God's effort at creation?

I didn't see you dividing the urhobos into ethnicity according to dialect even when effurun speaks distinctively from abraka and others...

Born slave
Please Sir, Warri is not an Urhobo town. Even though they're largely responsible for its squalor. Warri remains an Itsekiri town, with a recognised first class king, the Olu of Warri.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra:
fratermathy:
You only succeeded in ranting. When you are ready to show everyone exactly how I did what you initially accused me of then come and do so. Otherwise, you may keep your rants to yourself.

Everyone who reads this altercation knows you didn't make any point. The little points you would have made were diluted with the hate you spewed, thus making your argument more of a vendetta than anything else. I choose to be better than you and your people!
Your people are the worst of a kind; weighed down by poor family values and cheap alcohol (Ogogoro).
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 1:51am On Jun 23, 2017
laudate:
Huh? huh You were asked to provide proof, and you responded with ...... this?? shocked What a pity. sad
If you suffer from vision impairment or mental handicap, I wouldn't be blamed.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 1:49am On Jun 23, 2017
fratermathy:
While you still cogitate over my previous post, I want you to provide proof once again to where I implied that my tribe has "absorbed and swallowed up another tribe". This is a very heavy statement and demands to go with proof in order to convince your "many readers, East of the Niger" about the veracity of your claims. You know there is nothing like proof to make everyone hate in the same manner, proportion and intensity.




I also await proof of this because if you are referring to the previous screenshot you posted then it doesn't float here. The post was a response to a question asked by other users on why Isoko was not treated as part of the topic and my response was that Isoko was treated alongside Urhobo, hence the usage of the word "submerged". That screenshot NEVER said anything you just did so kindly point out where you got the "absorption and swallowing" of Isoko by Urhobo from.

Everyone is waiting please.
You seem to be under some kind of unseen pressure!


fratermathy:
Isoko has been submerged with Urhobo. To be frank and honest, Urhobo and Isoko are one and they were only divided for political reasons. Most people, however, still submerge Isoko as a dialect of Urhobo.
In your own words, Urhobo and Isoko are ONE. They were only divided for political reasons.

You must think people suffer from the same IQ as you.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 12:26am On Jun 23, 2017
Sanchez01:
Honestly, I'm beginning to think you can't make a case without hurling insults. It makes you look weaker.
Oh, please blow it off your rear! Who cares what you think!
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra:
fratermathy:
1. The Urhobo ethnic group occupy Delta Central/South senatorial districts and is the most dominant ethnic group in Delta State. They share the same culture and worldview with the Isoko of Delta State (both are regarded as one group by many persons).

2. Ijaw is regarded by many as the 4th largest ethnic group in Nigeria with Urhobo coming as 5th (contested claims). Efik-Ibibio also claims to the be the 4th largest ethnic group in Nigeria. The Tiv are also regarded by some as the 4th largest ethnic group in Nigeria. No proper and current census has been done to validate the many population claims.
You so much remind me of ill-trained, unprofessional South African commentators during matches involving the Nigerian Super Eagles and South African Bafana Bafana. The South African commentators' unprofessionalism always comes to the fore that they betrayed their emotions and an average mind could sense their bias.

If I tell the average reader that the OP is an Urhobo man, he will immediately spot your small mindedness, bias and your feeble attempt at pursing your petty Urhobo agenda. If there's a known fifth largest ethnicity in Nigeria, the Urhobos of which you belong has lesser claim to that position than the other two ethnicities which you tactically down played.


fratermathy:
8. The Isoko ethnicity of Delta State used to be regarded as Eastern Urhobo until 1958 when James Otobo moved a motion for a separate Isoko province. This marked the beginning of a separate Isoko political identity. Isokos share the same culture and worldviews with Urhobos but they speak a different dialect that many Urhobos cannot understand.
This is the second time in this thread you made subtle moves to lump the Isoko and Urhobo into one ethnic entity. You are still being a little restraint here but soon we would see you throw caution to the wind as the stakes became high! grin

fratermathy:
16. The Anioma people of Delta State (Delta North- Asaba and environs) speak related Igboid languages. Anioma is an acronym for Aniocha, Ndokwa, Ika, and Oshimili (subgroups comprising what is regarded as Delta Igbo). However, these groups are constitutionally acknowledged as different ethnicities and they speak different dialects, apart from the Enuani (Aniocha and Oshimili) who speak a dialect of Igbo very close to Onitsha dialect.
You described the whole of Delta north which is geographically bigger than Delta Central as "Asaba and environs". A region which host big towns like Asaba, Agbor, Ise-Ukwu, Ibusa. How does it sound describing Delta central as "Ughelli and environs"?

Like I told you in 2015, you're unbearably Urhoboic! Why didn't you mention that your own Urhobo speak different dialects too?

You're really an intellectual nuisance and a fraud! A tribalist with little IQ!


fratermathy:
30. All of Nigeria's commercial crude deposits are within the territories of minority ethnic groups in the South-South region of Nigeria. The highest producers of the nation's crude include the Ijaw, Itsekiri, Urhobo-Isoko, Eket, Oron, Ikwerre, Ekpeye, Ogba and Ukwuani. Small quantities of crude oil can also found in Ondo (Yoruba), Abia (Ukwa East & West -Igbo) and Imo (Egbema & Oguta). Lagos State (Yoruba) has recently joined the league of oil producing states in Nigeria and oil has been discovered in the Lake Chad Basin (Kanuri) of North Eastern Nigeria.
With special reference to the emboldened: while you have claimed in 2015 that your tribe has absorbed and swallowed up another tribe without recourse or sensitivity to the feelings and respect of the millions of Isoko sons and daughters who share a different view, you continued making assertions in this thread that these two distinct ethnicities are one and here you merged them as one!

"Urhobo-Isoko"! YOU'RE MORE THAN AN INTELLECTUAL FRAUD, YOU'RE ALSO AN ECONOMIC FRAUD! What is Urhobo - Isoko? What concerns Isoko crude oil in Isoko land with Urhobo? Mr man, you're a disgrace and a shameful attempt at intellectualism.
It should interest the readers to know that the Isokos have more oil reserves than the Urhobos. So the OPs interest in merging these two distinct ethnicities shouldn't be surprising grin

fratermathy:
Bonus: Apart from crude oil, Nigeria's minorities are blessed with intellectuals (Urhobo, for instance, is said to have one of the highest concentration of Professors, Medical Doctors and Lawyers in Nigeria), mineral resources (Urhobo also has the highest gas deposits in Nigeria, gold is present in Plateau State), rich culture (the Ijaws and Itsekiris have various boat regattas and amazing festivals), historical monarchies (the Bini monarchy, the Itsekiri monarchy, the Calabar (Efik) monarchy, the Igala monarchy, the Nupe monarchy, the Jos monarchy, etc), tourist attractions (Calabar Carnival, Port Harcourt Book Festival, Ox-Bow Lake in Bayelsa, Oba of Benin's Palace, Confluence of Rivers Niger and Benue at Lokoja, etc)
Even without statistical evidence to back your bogus and far-fetched claims. Such is the Idiocentric, empty chest-beating associated with you and your lot.

This thread was inspired by your insecurity and your Idiocentric and paranoic tendencies.

You remain the greatest buffoon who made an attempt to adorn himself the ragalia of an intellect.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 9:53pm On Jun 22, 2017
fratermathy:
Now we have a case.

1. The screenshot you just showed was of September 2015 (2 years ago)! This is, in no way, related to this thread.
2. Judging from (1) above, why then did you attempt to imply that I said Urhobos and Isokos are ONE on this thread? I needed proof for that statement on this thread and you went to 2015 to source for one? C'mon man! You can do better than that.
3. If I am even to speak on the screengrab you presented now, kindly explain to me how I made it clear that Urhobos and Isokos are one and the same ethnic groups? Last I checked, I said "most people", not "everyone".


4. Where is the proof that I said Anioma is not ONE? You seem to be avoiding this.



Keep everything within this thread because we are talking about THIS THREAD, not another one. If you have an issue with a post on another thread, then take your issues to that thread. Don't make a fool of yourself just to score cheap likes from your misguided fellows.
You're an unrepentant intellectual fraud! And you lack shame even in the face of undeniable evidence.

I'm done with you - for now!
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 9:31pm On Jun 22, 2017
fratermathy:
I can't seem to find where that post was made. Kindly provide a direct link to the post itself. Don't make it seem like you fabricated it. I need the link and the context where that was said (if at all it was said). Need I remind you that we are talking about THIS THREAD?

I am still waiting for number 2. Let me remind you again:
Proof that I said Anioma is NOT one.


And I'm glad you've finally unveiled your identity as an across-the-niger Igbo, not an Anioma. That has been established with your last post.
You're so petty and psychologically inferior! What does it matter whether I'm Eastern or Western Igbo?
Does it feel bad that an Anioma man loves his Igbo brothers and sisters across the Niger? Does it make you more insecure?


It you're mentally and psychologically healthy you should be in a pang of conscience. But no, you're still trying to hold on to your dry and worn out pride, trying to prove what you're not.

Please sign out, you're an intellectual embarrassment. I don't need to bother myself with your meaningless second question, it is right on this thread and somewhere in another post. Truth is you're not worth the disturbances.

I'll leave you with a pictorial proof, evidence you can't tamper with.

CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 8:56pm On Jun 22, 2017
fratermathy:
I am only replying this because you made an allegation which I am sure you can't prove. I am sure you are not from Delta State because the typical Deltan doesn't act like you do (that behaviour is peculiar to those across the Niger). But I'll humour you now and allow you embarass yourself a little.

Kindly show me where:
1. I implied that Urhobos and Isokos are one.
2. That Anioma is not one.

I am waiting.
You still display your subjective and compromised views here! And in the process still trying to divide my people.

You're an Urhobo man, and your behaviour is that of an average Urhobo man. The Aniomas don't behave like you and your people, neither do the Itsekiris nor the Ijaws. And yet you say I don't behave like Delta as if we have one code of behaviour irrespective of our tribal bearings. What a waste you are in the course you chose to burden your myopic outlook. You haven't developed strong intellectual muscles to venture into political and cultural dispositions.

And oh, the people across the Niger : they are your superiors in any human given endeavour.

Now to answer your question; Here is one of the various proofs where you stated that Urhobos and Isokos are one:


fratermathy:
Isoko has been submerged with Urhobo. To be frank and honest, Urhobo and Isoko are one and they were only divided for political reasons. Most people, however, still submerge Isoko as a dialect of Urhobo.
Now there you go! What do you have to say about that? This is the second time, rather the third time I'll be having you disgraced with facts and proof of your myopia and tribalism. You stink of insincerity!
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra:
laudate:
What was the need for all these insults? The OP did not insult anyone in his original post. If you disagree with him, then kindly make your views known quietly and clearly, with tact, decorum and politeness. What is the need for this foul language? shocked
He had it coming! It was the necessary weapon at hand to contain his contagious Fable.
Certain seemingly harsh measures are necessary when some one tries to tell the world about your people and their history in a distorted perspective with all the negative political ramifications it holds.

Now unless you're from Delta State, you wouldn't completely understand his deliberate assault on my people. It has been a stratagem applied one too many by him and his tribal folks to malign and divide my people.

The "insult" you saw was ditched out in a hurry, it would have been graver.

Since the OP feels he can group two distinct ethnicities - the Urhobos (his descent) and Isokos as one entity due to obvious similarities, he more reason to have applied the same principle to the Anoimas who are one people. But for political reasons, he applied two different standards. Above all, he called the Aniomas, a distinct Igbo group a minority. In today's Nigeria such false assertions come with all the negative political and social implications.

Next time he ventures into Anioma waters without caution and restraint, I'll sink the boat of his evil political expedition.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra:
Some Delta Igbos saying they're not Igbos bears no significance any more than an Okpe man says he's not Urhobo.

And while the Delta Igbos produced 11 generals in Ojukwu's Biafran army lead by the great Kaduna Nsogwu, the Ohaneze Ndi Igbo, the largest, most significant, and influential Igbo socio-cultural body has been headed by a Delta Igbo son. This is proof that Igbos across the Niger have and always recognise their kin west of the Niger. So your second class citizenship rant has less value than a cow's dung.

You're politically naive and backward. Have the Anoimas which control 9 local government Area in Delta State not applied for Anioma state? Does that sound to you like they want to remain in Delta with or without Nigeria?

It is an uncommon foolishness for you to come explain to me what goes on in my father's house.



efeski:
Your case is indeed pathetic.
now listen and listen good.
a. Igbos across the Niger (from anambra to wherever their boundary lie) from time immemorial nine out of ten times will refuse to accept you guys as true Igbo. they say those ones nor be real Igbo.

b. some of your own folks deny the igbos across the Niger saying those ones are "across the niger". we are Delta ibo

If you lived in Delta state for at least 10 years these are arguments and terms you should be familiar with.

so it beggars belief to come here and display crass ignorance and attempt to turn history on its head while spewing insults in the process as if that's the only way y'all know to drive home a point.

you are free to join your brothers across the Niger but remember you are already classified as second class citizens by the same igbos you are here clamoring to join the so called land of the sun and remember also that you will have to leave Delta state because you cannot have your cake and eat it.
a word is enough for the wise
FamilyRe: Conversation Between a Married Woman And A Side Chick (photos) by TheUmbra: 4:54pm On Jun 21, 2017
AHCB:
Honestly, some girls are just not well. Though I love the way the wife used reverse psychology on her. Classic way of showing she's a troll.

Cc: shroud
TheUmbra
TSOM
FTrebirth.

Don't you guys believe there's a small amount of troll in everyone? grin
A world gone wrong! The side chick has lost her self dignity.
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 1:17pm On Jun 21, 2017
fratermathy:
What exactly do you understand by the term "geographical Niger Delta"?
Save me your pathetic lectures, educated illiterate!

I am postmann and I have once educated you on the definition of Niger Delta in its polical and geographical applications in Nigeria.

Now get off my face, bloody irritant!
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 1:05pm On Jun 21, 2017
Fearlez:
so his ethno-political madness has a history known here.

Urhobo wayo
I just posted a source of one of his many false assertions. The guy is annoying to say the least
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 1:02pm On Jun 21, 2017
fratermathy:
I would love to see a source for that assertion you ascribed to me.
There you go!

fratermathy:
@Bolded: you just got me reeling. grin cheesy


Anyway, when I say Niger Delta, I'm referring to the Geographical Niger Delta region which houses the Ijaws, Itsekiris, Urhobo, Kalabari. I do not mean the cultural and sociopolitical Niger Delta.

Meanwhile, the ANIOMA nation is sociopolitically a Niger Deltan nation just like the Ikwerres and Andonis but they are not in geographical proximity with the Niger Delta.
You're a putrid stench in the otherwise healthy atmosphere of this blogosphere
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 12:50pm On Jun 21, 2017
Fearlez:
The boy emboldened ignorance tire me.

The same quack who defined the Niger Delta region to comprise just the Urhobos, Ijaws and Itsekiris!

What an emboldened nuisance!
CultureRe: 30 Interesting Facts About Some Nigerian Minority Ethnic Groups by TheUmbra: 12:33pm On Jun 21, 2017
YorubaMuslims:
ANIOMA IS PART OF IGBO TRIBES
Please say that again! Only this time shout it out loud!

What makes anyone think Anioma will remain in Nigeria when the rest of our kin across the Niger leaves?

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