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Good evening all,

I met Eniola mid last year during the covik one nine brouhaha. Trust me, ever since then, Eniola have remain a good gal.
During the weekend, she comes around my place to cook, and to sort out my laundry. I'm 36, she's 27. A single mother.

Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation?
She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters.
Eniola is just so nice, which I'm appreciative of. Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said.

But now, my reservations are these:
Should I go ahead to get married to her, as per she's a single mother?

Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin?

Won't i be contributing immensely to the decline of a virtuous and traditional woman; who is meant to have her hymen sealed before marriage?

Why should i marry a single mother in a situation whereby the biological father of her child didn't wife her up? Ok, fine. Let's say he's 'irresponsible', but why then, did she open her legs widely for him, when it's obvious they ain't getting married soon? Ok, fine. That's 'irresponsible' on her part, so, why should i then marry a seemingly virtuous irresponsible woman?

This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs.

In a nutshell, these are what I have issues with:

She's not a virgin
She's a single mother
She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet.
I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me.

Your contributions will go a long way,

CaveAdullam:
3.If you refuse to play the game, then you're the biggest loser; you lose more than those that lose by playing, because you have neither experiences nor knowledge gained.

Again, you will still be dominated, ruled and controlled by those who played and win. Even the losers would have gained knowledge on how to play and win when you faced them mano a mano on a micro scale. (Remember: game abounds in every nooks and crannies of the earth).

Thanks.

I disagree with you here, Cave. Even, personally not subscribing to the embolden.

This is it; Martinez39s and i were never burnt before coming in terms with The Redpill. And, I don't think either of us have been into any romance relationships, if I'm not mistaken.
Yet, we have more experiences and knowledge than most of those who have have engage in one or two's. Of course, you can say it's only theoretical!

Using your logic, you implied that before anyone can have experiences or knowledge, one must be involved in a romance relationships, or marriage; even, to one's own detriment.
Is it that subverting of logic? Or am i the only here not understanding?

If what you implied is anything to go by, i don't think we gonna be having relationship issues, with divorce cases skyrocketing; even, when the same person get engage to different partners.

Iyaebe:
Not the right thing to do, why baby mama?

Who are you to know what's right, or wrong? It's the audacity for me.

euphratess:
Also I’ve been following your w[b]rite up’s on how to publish books and [/b]writing of short stories I love the skills but i don’t have a computer now. I initially thought I could do this weeks an android phone until I got one(iPhone 6s) I realized I needed a computer. I’m still planning on getting a personal computer But I don’t see it coming any time this year

can you send me Link of his post talking about how to publish books?
Thanks,

I didn't save his number.

I rarely save people's numbers. What I do now, is to memorize the last two or three digits.

IamKizzbrown10:
If she cheat na u cause am, get her a car or u lose ur marriage. Because she wil do it one day, get a loan if u dnt have the money or u give her ur car, or u take it as ur responsibilty to drop her off everyday. Thanks

No iota of sense in this comment.

Number1benue:
Time for?? Simping abi??

Now way I day hungry you no tell me say my time day come to see food eat bellyful ooo nah to day tell me say my time day come way I go day park money give woman for no just cause.......


Abeg make unah leave me ooo this night nah hunger case I day try solve this night, make I solve am first.......


Leeches.....

ThiagoKid:
If it is ONLY not being a virgin, is it not even better?

The way gals in recent time carry out abortion with reckless abandon is what I find appalling.

But, what I find disgusting is that a man smwhere will show up at a point to wife up the murderer!

At the emboldened, in the process of carrying out the said abortion, some ladies lose their wombs.

When the horseband wife up the murderer, and she cannot get pregnant, dem go talk say na village people.

It is where you, sometimes see cases of couples waiting for years, decades before the wife will get pregnant. Some won't even notice the sign/symptoms of pregnancy in their life time.

Number1benue:
She is fatherless abi??

she might, she might not be.
It's left to the bf to choose if he want to be the father of the fatherless.

CaveAdullam:
When women want sex they always get it regardless of the place or time. D!ck is too cheap for them to afford. The story might be fake but the existence of prostitutes in brothels and social media so much validates this claim.

Some might not fvck up to 300 men to buy a Lexus, with good connection and a stupid politician, businessman or fraudster they will buy Lexus. This one that fvcked 300 men is really hardworking, patient and diligent. She's is the true example of an independent woman who fought her way to the top.

Today is Saturday, and idiot grooms are shedding tears of joy for finding the true love of their lives. So disheartening and weird, spending their lots on used h0es. Sad!

Imma die not married than marry above zero body count. Hymen must be a prerequisite for marriage! She can't be fvcking Paul and moaning Peter, James, John etc from her mouth.

If it is ONLY not being a virgin, is it not even better?

The way gals in recent time carry out abortion with reckless abandon is what I find appalling.

But, what I find disgusting is that a man smwhere will show up at a point to wife up the murderer!

If we men can sit down, and think deeply about this statement: "Men are scum." We will find out that men are in reality, truly Scums.

You will even see people spewing gibberish by saying: "Getting married to a virgin doesn't guarantee a happy home."
Using their logic, they are implying that getting married to a H0e guarantees a happy home, then? Like wtf!

Of course, we all know getting married to a virgin doesn't guarantee a happy home, as it is no brainer. But ain't it better to choose smth you can vouch for in reality? But no, the reverse is the case for them.

Number1benue:
Chai SIMPs don suffer...



Not my head not my blood...

Because smone smwhere decides to give his gf money, cater for her, sponsor her etc, does that now make him a simp?

I can remember vividly when a gal I was chatting with inadvertently revealed her stance on female superiority over men, and how she wish women will overtake men in all facets of life...

I sent her back to the street, where she actually belongs to, with immediately alacrity!

I want to use this medium to appreciate all the guys spending/investing heavily on their galfriend; without you guys, I won't be where I am today.
You guys are the realest MVP!

Or, how do I explain that one of my siblings bf is making moves to send me abroad for my MSc? Or, should I talk about the monthly stipend my siblings collect every 23rd of each month?
Is it how my siblings bf singlehandedly sponsored them for their MSc in Europe?

I cannot say it all here. Or, is it even the 750k/per annual 3 bedrooms one of my siblings bf rented for her?
What about the 20k, 50k, 150k I personally collected from them as per in-law
You guys are the best!

Don't mind anyone calling you simp, or what have you. Don't let anyone discourage you from helping people, females especially.
Keep doing what you know how to do best.

If, and when your kind gestures ain't reciprocated/appreciated, do not weary, your REWARD is in HEAVEN!

Thanks once again,

I don't think I wish to meet one.

How to make your gal not to cheat on you:

• Place her on a monthly salary of 55k upward.
• Always send a "good morning, good night" messages.
• If she's still sch, make sure you sponsor, even to masters level.
• Worship the ground she walks on.
• Always pray for her.
• If, and when she cheat, forgive and accept her back.

Miracood2:
Hello bosses.

there's this new girl i met in sch recently about 3 days ago, told her i like her that same day. she didn't give any reasonable answer.

the next day i went to her lodge the next day, she introduced me as her bestie to her roommate, i asked her in the presence of her roommate that whose her bestie?

I went outside she followed and rebuked her telling her never to call me with that stupid tag again.. also reminded her why i approached her initialy. she told me about her boyfriend and other rubbish. i kept mute, dragged her closely pressed her boobs. she didn't react. in fact i used my hands to run through her body like it was mine. (it was late at night)

i just called her right now about 10mins ago and she screamed *Bestie love* on phone,

i cut the call.

Sorry, if this is coming late.
But, I will readily accept the "bestie" tag, if I were you.

Thank y'll.

Cc,
thatthickgirl hugo7 and all

Good evening all,

Please, do anyone have an idea of the estimated transportation cost of God is Good Motors from Lagos; Iyana-ipaja precisely to Jos?

Thanks,

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ubola:
Why on earth would she spend her money on you, a boyfriend. She can only spend for her husband and kids or support you during wedding NOT Traditional marriage. In Africa it's the man's pride to pay for the wife's dowry, not vice-versa. Even we the married men, do not rely on our wife's money,cos you may be disappointed. Always try to call the shots as the man. Don't even act as if you are aware of her cash, but be Judicious in spending your money. My father once admonished me that money spent on a lady you are not married to, is like spending money on a prostitute. I understood better after training a girl for five years in the University with my meagre 25k salary and on graduation she opted for another man with a salary of 400k as contract staff in an oil firm, not minding if he was someone else's husband. If you can avoid them and face your future, better. Be guided!

Not surprise tho
It's what every man who refuse to have sense deserve!

ubola:
Why on earth would she spend her money on you, a boyfriend. She can only spend for her husband and kids or support you during wedding NOT Traditional marriage. In Africa it's the man's pride to pay for the wife's dowry, not vice-versa. Even we the married men, do not rely on our wife's money,cos you may be disappointed. Always try to call the shots as the man. Don't even act as if you are aware of her cash, but be Judicious in spending your money. My father once admonished me that money spent on a lady you are not married to, is like spending money on a prostitute. I understood better after training a girl for five years in the University with my meagre 25k salary and on graduation she opted for another man with a salary of 400k as contract staff in an oil firm, not minding if he was someone else's husband. If you can avoid them and face your future, better. Be guided!

SOZINN:
I read in previous pages that you have to open the transaction with sex first. I just deleted the post and remained equanimous.

Lol, perhaps; "what works for A might not work for B" applies in this scenario.

I started gold digging when I was a teen, when i was in senior secondary precisely.
I still remember vividly of what played out back then: I was in the midst of my goons when a hijab-wearing gal passed, and my guys started talking about her...how rich her parents were bla bla yzxgsjkskb.. When I heard her parent were rich, I became interested in her case.

To abridge my story, I immediately called her, told her my name, and I left. The following day, I showed up again, joke with her for like 4mins then I left.

Then, the billings came. I billed her 50k, and she promised to bring it the following day. A week later, she came to give me the monies.
Of course, she was expecting me to ask her out, as I was the guy most gals desired back then. I cut her off with immediate alacrity after I accomplished my mission.

But then, i don't always win every time.

I am on sabbatical, for now tho'

Joteq7, I sent you a mail/pm.
Please, revert.

Truth be told, 95% 85% of intending married men here will end up with refurbished h0es.

Whether she has 15 heavenly body counts, or 2 earthly body counts; A h0e remains a h0e!

Men have really gone low.

Gold digging women whilst withholding sex is one of the sweetest activities to engage in.

BaddieFreak:
The man is a weakling. He should leave the innocent girl alone.

it been awhile, baddie.

mariahAngel:
I feel so sorry for her.

What a messy and unfortunate situation she's entangled in.
May God forgive and have mercy on her and be with her every step of the way, and may Ataga's soul find peace.

Naso
I had thought you were someone reasonable sef.

Seem marriage is taking it toll on you.

Candidlady:
Sex is not a sin...

But then again right time for everything....

I would forgive you for saying the bolded if you ain't a christian.

No gal has ever visited me before.

I wouldn't like to end the Osifo Ataga way.

I doubt if lalasticlala can eat such.

Rahkman:
you will be surprised that this same saphiere is steadily collecting big manba shouting and moaning as she spread her juices all over the mamba then after orgasming she would log in to nairaland to type thrash about men

she started collecting the big manba at age 14,15/16.

ThiagoKid:
At the age of 16, she had her first abortion, you see?
And again, she lives in a separated home.