dichvu:
Please i need advise
First collect your shop guy


I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

proxillin:
Please please...this is very serious to me...I need serious minded and experienced people here.

I have been dating this babe for few months now.

She never indicated any sign of abstinent from sex. We do erotic chat now and then. She even told me how she had sex with her ex. Although she said she never wanted to, but her ex started giving her attitudes, infact he wanted to breakup, thats why she gave in and had se.x with him (disvirgined).

So fast forward last week, she agreed to come visit me at my town (yeah long distance relationship). So she told me she wouldnt want to have se.x with me when she comes. Ofcourse she is the definition of a decent woman i would love to marry, therefore, se.x is not an issue for me.

But out of curiousity, I asked why she does not want se.x with me. Its not because she is a virgin because she had se.x with her ex. She then told me its a spiritual issue.

She belongs in a white garment church (cele stuff). She enter spirit realm and see vision. Therefore, they told her not to have sex until she get married. When she mistakenly had sex with her sex, she fell sick for months, that it was cele people who came to do deliverance for her before she could walk again. They warned her she is holy spirit vesel, no man must have se.x with her until she get married.

In all our discussions, she said we can only romance, infact i can suck her bouubs, but i must not penetrate her. Then I told her my mind, thats the confusing part. If she was truely afflicted by holy spirit, how come holy spirit allows fingering and sucking of boooobs. She got angry and threathened to call it quit.

Because she has relationship with my mom, i confided in mom. Mama told me she is not seeing vision throught holy spirit, its cele-white garment work. That has nothing to do with holy spirit..thats cele witch craft work or marine girls things (omo omi).

I got confused the more.

Questions in my mind are:
1. I can confirm she see vision, but is it from holy spirit?
2. Am I sure the whole shiiiit will not happen to her when we get married and we have se.x
3. Whoever is using her in spiritual relm will not harm me for taking their vessel away from them.
4. Is she playing upon my intelligence?

robosky02:
Why Cristiano Ronaldo rejoined Manchester United



https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/sport/football/transfer-news/why-manchester-united-signed-ronaldo-21422873

Chuvin22:
"we wont have sex until marriage."

it was also the biggest display of stupidity from the other gender. spits*

i loved that girl. i hated looking for sex from random people, i cant double date. its stressful and i cant be chasing goals and temporary pleasure from multiple persons.

she probably think i will respect her more if we dont have sex until marriage lol. such shallow and stupid mentality. or maybe she was riding on my calmness and collecting from someone out there.

i don dey fear women shaa after that experience

dapadawee:

I am not your spec no be say I toast am o
Thank god years later she called for financial help stating that her husband is not financially stable and the baby needed some care. I gave her 3k hope say I try

Bizibi:
jowizaza is worth about more than 20m dollars,obi cubana is no fake show off....Linda ikeji na small doll in the midst of some of these guys.

Patrioticbreed9:

even the expensive slippers could not even hide the poverty in your legs.

can you please take the slippers off your leg and snap it. so that we can appreciate it for what it is dan'allah.

Starseed:
Whoever called Davido frog voice should apologize to him. Here comes the undisputed frog voice. Dont doubt me, this song must bring us Grammy

Waiting for Lordsky or Paul Cleverlee to do a better remix

ManOfCompetence:



We all know how pleasurable sex can be to normal human beings........But I feel it's over exaggerated.........There are five things I could mention more pleasurable than sex to the human body

Kriss216:

E go soon clear for your eyes.

GerraMeh74:
Lol Virginity doesn't guarantee anything MF, work on your English but most especially you need to grow up, there is more to life than fighting over a girl with another guy.

Kriss216:

The OP is naturally a SIMP.le guy with no shame!

He's personalizing a community kpekus he's yet to taste. The other guy is wiser than the OP, obviously.

If this guy is my brother, I'll exchange him for a satchet of weed with Chelsea dry gin!

ABANGWABOI:
Baba you may not be a confirm Simp buy you are not a Red piller..
From your comments, you never even Bleep the girl.. and yet you are confident she is still a virgin.. smh
Make I no just yab you based on your jonsing.. but you never get strong mind frame in handling girls..

Draslo:
Your write up is making my head pain me and to think you're a graduate. Our educational system in this country is a failure. Ah-ahn!


Back to the story. Both of you are simps and I can promise you that in a year or two, she'll be f***ing neither of you

Eminimore:
After all women and chicken have the same brain very useless set of people

Agbebakun22:
Op is a pussy ass nigga, u dey do gum body for the girl and she no know u as bf... Na by force, this op fit be all those small small children between 22 years and 24 years.. Abeg free innocent girls she's never ur ex

richboy01:

it's like u r a detective o.aswer d car being tinted makes it a murder case.d odds just point to murder

Gloriagee:
This bolded part is most mind boggling. How exactly does she intend to neutralise the fetish

conscienceman4:
Your wife is fetish and high probability of tending to witchcraft.
Read me and read me clearly, the thing your wife wants is your downfall but for your mother.

nonen:
You married a bad wife, she’s the one who’s fetish and serving you fetishizes.

If you’ve always been sending your mum money yourself, it’s condescending to have your wife start doing that on your behalf.

Talking about fetishizes, your mum may be fetish - yes even is she is - she’s used that fetishizes for your good, that’s why you could earn to support her.

Don’t you think: for your wife to discover her, she’s also a fetish woman?

GodWrites:
Useless father! Look how he crushed the life of his daughter for few minutes of pleasure.

Believe me, the girl is no longer the same. She will always blame herself for the trauma and feel disgusted whenever she looks in the mirror.

Her body is no longer hers, it has been taken. Finding love is going to be much harder, as she will never believe how someone will ever desire her, talk of love her.

Most of these embittered Nairaland ladies always bashing men are victims of this horror.

Sometimes I don't blame them, especially the one saying the future is female.

grtboy51:


Saha,York,Evra,Pogba,fred,bissaka,etc
So where the racist come from

Rugaria:
Left a highly lucrative contract to come and play second fiddle at Man u, just because you want to wear red? Red kee u dia... Inferiority complex at it's peak! No Brazilian player will do that! Ask Hulk, ask Oscar and Ramirez. Over 250k pound a week? You bone am!? Khai! You forgot you are from Africa? Grab the money first!

JOACHINpedro:
A girl that held her virginity till NYSC

Guy forget, your prick no go near that Kpekus till you go see her mama and papa

asdfjklhaha:
Op you are a very wicked somebody. U just want to use her and dump, it will never be will wit you and your generation.

adedotun69229:
Op send her away before the next market day..
My own of 4 yrs still dey pain me till today.

Sixfeetbelle:


I don't and will never understand men's problem.

You want virgins as wives yet you can't be in a relationship with a virgin and not want to sex her. Is this not what they call entitlement mentality?

Imagine the stuff coming out of your mouth. You'd already plan to keep her by the side so you can be enjoying sex from other ladies and yet, I know you'd expect her to keep the virginity for you. You are a very selfish individual and I hate that this lady hasn't realised it by now. The real reason you came back to her in Delta is cause 'she's a virgin', nothing else, which explains why you're disappointed she's not giving you the honor of being the first guy. You have no plans to marry her, not now and not in the near future so don't try to deceive us with the 'I want to be comfortable' bullshit.

After all these grammar, I'm certain as I know my name that you will not marry her. So, seriously, what is she still doing with you? Break up with her right this minute and leave her be. You're only there to ruin her life.