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Techpik:
Happy Sunday guys, this have accusation of labeling me yahoo guy in the compound have happened on many occasions during compound meeting, side talks etc.

But I’m not to be sincere I’m a freelance website developer working from home, I have worked for lots of people even on this nairaland, within Nigeria and abroad at the comfort of my home.

What use to trigger this labeling is because most of my neighbors go out in the morning and come at night and I’m always indoor (at home) living good.

So this have been causing side talks and even confrontations from some neighbors.

Most times I have been explaining and try to prove to them, that I’m a freelance website developer that I worked from home.

Before anybody will think the same on nai.raland, you can check me on google Techpik and all social medias and my site.

You will even see good reviews from people I have completed projects for.

I also need your advice guys, to deal with those neighbors.

Na neighbour opinion about your work dey unsettle you like this. Dem never talk say you do money ritual. Continue to let people’s opinions get into you😂

Burob:
Unserious Clowns, no pity for their followers.

Yet, their followers still get sense pass ewedu boys times 150

QuinQ:
Na lie. You can meet a woman and you two are always smiling and laughing when together and you don't know why. You're just happy to be in each other's presence

That one dey sha but one day e go comot for your eyes like carnival😂 You go soon learn in a hard way. It seems to me you’re in your mid-20s😂

JoeEeL:
Dont cast the update so they dont begin speaking d truth

lol😂 You sabi their way

QuinQ:
You are the one REALTHERDED. What has one thing to do with another? She, and only she, supplies what you need. Let's say you need $1m and she satisfies that need, what has the fact she slept with 1000 men to do with it??

No woman, I repeat no (one) woman can make you satisfied. And no one can be your soulmate. Na you never waka well to see different women where dem dey

ebubeson:
Many ladies are single probably because if the husband they truly desire comes, they may go to sleep with their EX etc few days to their wedding day.

Marriage is not a ground for unseriousness. Does is make sense to cry to God for a husband, and if God gives you a husband, you go to sleep with your EX few days or weeks to wedding day?

As a married man having side chic is bad, also, for a lady, having sex with your EX few days or weeks to your wedding is bad.

FINALLY, it is bad to have sex with another person when in courtship or preparing for marriage. It is also wrong to cheat in marriage.

Avoid pre-marital and extra-marital sex.

African men don’t cheat. We are polygamous in nature. It’s women that cheat.

ibechris:
When I was leaving with my brother in Abuja,the wife accused my younger brother of stealing her blackberry phone she bought.

I asked her,where she kept the phone and she flared up and escalated the matter beyond control.

And i went ahead to ask her again,if she has called her husband to find out if he was with it,Madam said her husband does not enter her closets and has never done it before,she even shouted me down terribly.

Finally,I placed a call to my brother,oga said he is with the phone...after the confirmation, Madam come calm down like cold water.
She started looking for ways to reconcile with me and my brother.

"Some men na thief for their house,coded thief."

I can imagine the shame wey go catch your brother’s wife after the whole truth. In my own case, she don fvck up for life. I hardly forgive people, I see it as a weakness. The only thing I show them is my indifference as if they don’t exist.

seunmsg:
Nigeria is now the 6th largest contributor to global GDP. This speaks volume to how far we’ve gone in rebuilding our economy for global competitiveness. Now, we can all see why Shell wants to invest $20billion in our country over the next ten years.

All these are happening and some hate filled folks will still keep lying that the economy is not improving. We must never allow them to derail this trajectory of growth and prosperity that we are experiencing. This progress must continue. Kudos to Mr. President and his team for the great job they are doing.

“Shey na statistics we go chop?” Na your Amọda Ṣangolere talk am. I expect you not to relax on this charade by IMF. By the way, na IMF statistics you Dey celebrate like this? IMF that don’t mean well for African countries? The joke on you guys😂

uche87:
The Nigerian marriage institution is patriarchal in nature. It is a male-dominated system. The man is tagged as the head of the family, while the woman is the backbone. The backbone supports the head, which leads. When former President Muhammadu Buhari was asked about his wife’s involvement in politics, he infamously said she belonged in the “kitchen and the other room (bedroom).” This statement exemplified the misogynistic nature of Nigerian society.

A man in Nigeria is a king, and his family is his empire. Most times, he is accorded great respect if he has the financial means. Sometimes, he cheats on his wife, and she feels helpless. In some cases, she may be physically abused. Since the man mainly takes care of the family’s finances, with the woman contributing little or nothing, it becomes difficult for her to leave. It becomes even harder when children are involved, and their welfare must be considered.

Nigerian society also frowns on divorce. A woman might lose everything if it happens. There is little legal framework to protect her and her children. Returning to her father’s house is seen as shameful. On religious grounds, Christianity forbids divorce. Additionally, divorced women are accorded less respect. Some unscrupulous men see divorced women as desperate or undesirable, labeling them as “second-hand” or “fairly used.” Their chances of remarrying become low, and people become overly judgmental when single mothers are presented as brides.

Considering all these factors, many women stay in marriages and smile like they are doing toothpaste advertisements. They pray for change, listen to relationship advisers, and hope for the best.

When you take a woman in this position to the UK, the situation changes. The labour market is more open to women, and sometimes they even have better opportunities than their husbands. Western marriage systems are seen as partnerships where equality is the norm. The system views women as vulnerable and offers them protection. If a man becomes violent, she can call the police and have him removed. There is a legal framework to compel child support payments. A man can lose his home through legal processes. Women can also access immigration and welfare benefits after divorce. Even then, society rarely judges them negatively; instead, they are often seen as strong women who stood up to oppression. Divorce is normal in this part of the world. In 2023, there were 102,678 divorces granted in England and Wales — about 100,000 marriages ending each year.

This reality motivates women to demand equal power and order in marriage. Some even push further.

Most times, African men still pay most household bills but have little say in home affairs. The king of yesterday loses his authority and power. He is easily challenged in his own palace. Frustration sets in, and he becomes toxic. Life in the UK can be boring and lonely. There is often no one to talk to, as everyone is too busy. Work can be competitive and stressful. The cold weather discourages social life. The man runs on empty emotionally, and his home — which should recharge him — becomes another battleground. His mental health suffers. To avoid doing something he may regret, he walks away from the marriage.

The UK did not break these marriages; it gave women power and leverage, and they exercised them. The system simply exposed fragile arrangements. Any man humble and adaptable enough to accept these new realities can still save his marriage.

https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid0WD1eDtB3GjQFqrnhHjcZQHjBEZWriUL3W2ibwEpqiQZ9t3X19qsNDfAcjBeAJmh9l

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What you put up here is a beautiful nonsense. UK is not Africa continent or Nigeria. African traditional marriage is different entirely from western marriage. Although nothing concerns me with their yeye pretentious monogamy style here that they copied from the west.

cr7lomo:
Fake news ...bitter haters that can't accept that Republicans are here to stay for a very long time... we don't want LGBTA, feminists , pvssi men that can't let go of simping,

The funniest thing is that it’s the Democrats that are sponsoring terrorism in Africa and also backing the fraudulent APC Gestapo government

WizardOfNG:
Citizens have no responsibilities they abdicate also? Do you know how many Lagosians do not pay LAWMA dues and simply dump thrash everywhere even in decent estates?

Paying "all the taxes in the world" my foot. Some of you are just shameless liars ready to say anything to shame Government you have been brainwashed to hate and blame for everything.

There was a thread the other day showing African nations paying the most taxes. South Africa and Morocco were top and some smart Nairalanders immediately drew similarities to why the two nations are efficiently run with good infrastructure.

Whereas Nigeria that has one of the lowest and most negligible rates of tax remittances in Africa is full of people like you lying about Nigerians, the biggest tax Dodgers in Africa, "paying all taxes in this world".

You can't even be factually honest and you wish to portray yourself a good governance advocate. You are a mischief-maker bro.

Do you know what tax to GDP ratio is and how it impacts provision of infrastructure and services such as waste disposal etal?

Nigeria has one of the lowest in Africa yet Mr.Good Government advocate is claiming up and down a majority tax-dodging people now "pay all the taxes in the world".

You are one of the problem of Nigeria and never part of the solution in so far as you cannot discern the big picture and continue to trot out the claim the Government is at fault always for every problem ailing our nation.

When you’re ready to speak the truth, I’ll be here. APC fraudulent government defender. Nigeria is the lowest country paying tax. You mean after the removal of fuel subsidy, after all the indirect income tax, after VAT, after stamp duty, despite the numerous natural resources. Give another excuse again🥳

Anything the Nigeria government denies, refutes, just believe the opposite.

dalongjnr:
Wike would be a Persona non grata in Abuja when he is sacked by the president in 2 months from now. He will fail and no longer be allowed to be welcomed in Abuja.
Politic is a sensible and long-term venture. He's trying to instigate the Abuja civil servants against the president. He should know that APC has not won in Abuja since 2015.
The civil servants are very influential and they have at least 4-8 dependents, imagine just 8,000 x 5 people = 40,000 votes against the president alone in Abuja. What if they call their relatives in the villages and instigate them against the APC government?

And that’s what we want. If Wike will ruin APC, so be it🙏🏻

Yeye man. Wike in the mud. Please just do worse to discredit the present illegitimate government before dem send you packing

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=53bwfIhtFWo?si=S5ZHjzOK9fHMn6ks



https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUI4Et1gCqe/?igsh=aTQwYmx2a2F2ZWZi

Omo, not supporting what Angela Okorie did. But I think there is a lot of lacuna here. By the way, I think the lawyer handling her case should do better. Calling someone a witch or wizard depends on the context. Anyways, I don’t know what led to it. What do I know sef?

The APC government led by Amọda fail them

OLAADEGBU:
Woman lashed 140 times for having sex outside marriage, drinking booze in far-flung Islamist region

Officials could be seen escorting the collapsed woman on a stretcher to a nearby ambulance after the brutal beating.

New York Post


https://nypost.com/2026/01/29/world-news/woman-lashed-140-times-for-having-sex-outside-marriage-drinking-booze-in-far-flung-islamist-region/

Like seriously?😳😂😂😂

Mrkc:
Finally moved into my first rented house at the age of 46

File photo

😂😂😂Sorry that I had to laugh. What happened, where are you living earlier?

BeardedMeat:
Those APC zombies are either little children or just plain stewpid. Amoda was in bed with even Obj and supported his third term bid at a point. I was reading a documentary by late yinka odumakin here on NL and I was just shaking my head all through..

These corrupt fellows have killed this country to a point of irresurrection.

Do you realised that it’s the popular and well-known critics who know Tinubu for who he is, the ones who have granted series of interviews about the true nature of Tinubu later die untimely in one way or the other. I read that long interview of Yinka Odumakin about Tinubu. The man was an original stone-head. He is a pain in the ass of Tinubu. I am sure if he’s alive right now, the country will shake because of his critics. And mind you before that Yinka Odumakin said his piece, my uncle, a retired journalist who has worked with Punch had told me similar thing related to Tinubu too and it corroborated with what Yinka Odumakin said. And this is one thing I love about some of us Yoruba. When we no like one person, nothing can change it. It’s just unfortunate how Yinka Odumakin died. Till now, a lot of initiates, even his wife believe his death is not natural. It’s a political hand in it even though it was gathered that he died from COVID-19 complications.

GOFRONT:
Now this man here want to come and reap where he did not sow.


Ekwu eme crooner Incidence share similarity with this.

Is he not the father of the kids? Are they not his seeds?

Prestar:

“I’m your daddy and have been looking for you. If you remember, I called your school years back when you were at Front Liner.

I spoke to you through the school line and told you not to tell your mummy because she wouldn’t allow me talk to you. I don’t know how she found out, but… https://t.co/KjPV3lxVRz pic.twitter.com/POeJaM1LY8

— Star Potter (@Starpotternews) January 29, 2026

More reason why women leave marriages these days is nothing but cheating or financial issues of their partners. The earlier they realise that cheating is alien as a culture to an African man, the better. Monogamy or modern marriage is non-African thing. Man by nature is a polygamist. If cheating is your dealbreaker as a lady, you’re not ready to settle down. We are Africans.

Jayhome24:
Can't stop laughing Tinubu with Madueke a pdp una no go rest I swear.

Even a dead pesin sabi say Tinubu will never involve himself in anything pdp at that time.

Una no even mentioned Gej or Pej, atiku, and obi una dey mentioned Tinubu in pdp looting I just dey laugh...

All these scouting internet for lies and propaganda na hin dey make God dey help the man excel all the time. I said to you all leave this man focus on your lives talk from today till tomorrow Tinubu will rule you till 2031 and none of you can do anything about it.

So in your mind na God Dey help Amọda? You say Amọda did not associate himself with PDP, what of the billions he received from Jonathan during his GEJ first tenure. Or you think Amọda is not in secret romance with Obj? You gat need to go back to school and collect refund of your school fees from secondary school till university.

Kemetian:
This is the same PDP that wants to come back and rule, in the name of ADC or whatever stupid name they are calling themselves now with Atiku and Obi.

Just like the same thieving and unfortunate party known as APC that’s currently ruling illegitimately even though their days in powered are numbered. You know how much have been stolen so far under APC since 2015? Was it not under APC that Sabiu Tunde Yusuf stole more than 1 trillion Naira? Malami kọ? Emefiele? Oshiomole? Ganduje? Former Accountant-General of Nigeria? Babachir Lawal? Matawalle? Yahaya Bello? You know how many illegal contracts your present thief in Aso Rock received through his cronies? I wonder why you people think like a school dropout😂

Putinofrussia:
What did they mention Tinubu and Osinbajo for?
That Tinubu is president and Osinbajo was a former vice president?
What kind of journalism is this?

Do you realise the corruption Tinubu is penetrating under his cronies especially that his nephew, Wale. You guys will just open mouth like tap on Nairaland. Do you realise that Osinbajo is a lawyer who knows most of Tinubu’s dealings in and out. If you are not aware of all these, the joke is on you

Solutionme:
What do you mean by “your looters”? I honestly don’t understand that. But I know majority of you here just like crying and promoting bad news the you love praying and supporting.

Ask me again, this time louder🥳

timilehin007:
Can you take responsibility for this your careless talk?
I pity you people. Just post anyhow for clout

Pity your aging parents in the village. Ẹni ti a n t’ori ẹ gbawẹ to n jọsan (person wey we dey try fight for his cause that is even sabotaging us). Shebi your name na Timilehin, Yoruba boy. As if I’m not Yoruba. When Tinubu leave power, you will change from being an emergency lover of the country. I know people like you. And by the way, is it your careless talk?

Predictor3:
Don't let hatred do bad things to your heart. Military rule will destabilize Nigeria. But just because you hate the Yoruba man in office you are wishing the country doom

Am I not a Yoruba person? And again, is Nigeria not destabilized like this? Even if I’m very comfortable. You know millions of Nigerians that are living below a dollar per day not to talk of quarter of a dollar, do you want me to be happy. I go out every day and I see the fate of an average Nigeria. And you are saying people should not drum support for coup. You mean people who have lose all their all all in the name of being a Nigeria. Tell me something different the present democratic government (yet ruling like a military in practical because forming a protest now now tantamount to soldiers, police arresting protesters) have done differently since when they get to power? Every African country is running away from France, na Amọda dey frolick with France and criminal Chagoury.

dequir:
And you think you are hiding under anonymity to write this treasonous nonsense?

Are you under any illusion that no one can trace you because you believe that Nairaland is an anonymous media platform in this Internet age?

Do you know how many once famous monikers who wrote like you on this Nairaland that we heard no more from?

Be careful.

Come and pick me up now olori gbeske🥳

Solutionme:
Some of you just don’t think. All is well. Hatred for someone else is why some people remain stagnant. Are we suffering in Nigeria? Yes. Is coup the answer? No. Are the politicians stealing? Yes. Is the regime working? Yes, it is. No matter how insignificant it looks. If we want a regime change then let’s do it democratically. But let’s call a spade a spade, this coup is a bad thing.

Do it democratically under which laws? You mean with the laws made by your looters? Cry me a river😭

Basicend:
Most of these Trump's silly initiatives willl be reversed by the next American president. Esp. if he comes from the democrats.

He is running a country like a casino business. He is power drunk and repulsive.

Who tells you they want the devilish, god-forsaken Democrats, the supporter-of-APC and terrorism (in Nigeria) in the US?

Hoodrat:
Shes heavily in agreement with Satan, shes a disgusting propaganda pusher, Consistently amplifies misleading narratives and deliberately fuels confusion. Her messaging aligns with agendas designed to distort reality and manipulate public perception. Hungry girl.

You’re the one that is full and is not hungry bah? E Dey your body🥳