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[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=273756.msg3885337#msg3885337 date=1242665881]6 weeks? Too long. . . .
People fall in love within minutes these days.

He is genuine.
Did u drop? [/quote]drop ke    . . . I was shocked!  

The dude even try. . .I've seen one that proposed love just 10mins after meeting him.

y me:
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
me am going to get the bag then
louis ko louis ni

Abi oh. . . mchewwww. . .

@amebo
Chei. . .        

IFELEKE:
Dearie,
IFE begins my First name and LEKE ends the Third.
My Point is, IFELEKE is a psuedo name I use on Nairaland so is ThoniaSlim.

Okkkkkk. . .I get your point. . .

[quote author=amebo no1. link=topic=273579.msg3883623#msg3883623 date=1242649316]ok, im loving the name already [/quote]thank you. . .  

[quote author=amebo no1. link=topic=273579.msg3883608#msg3883608 date=1242649230]BTW whitelexi stop viewing thonias profile [/quote]Haba. . .you are truly an amebo. . .you didn't have to say that.  . .

OneNaija:
Thonia As i dey express my feeling for you think say na wayo. I be hot cake oo. abeg nur leave me now.my heart now totally have found someone who i truly deeply love. stop acting. Na so una dey do. that why i dey tired of Nigeria girls sef. wetin. I dey love you na war front.haba

If you a hot cake. . .why come on here looking to hook up with a gal? Doesn't seem like what a hot cake would do I would say?  

And lets get one thing straight. . .I ain't fronting here. . .I see what I want and I go for it. . .ain't shy about expressing the way i feel about an issue or person. . .but in this case. . .I'm not into you so please. . .phew!!!!

[quote author=amebo no1. link=topic=273579.msg3883594#msg3883594 date=1242649098]


BTW is slim your middle name? i tot you just put it in there cos you r slim[/quote]Yea slim's my middle name. . .I never put it there myself. . .back in sec sch. . .most of my friends loved calling me thonia and adding my middle name to it. . .so it kinda of stuck.

IFELEKE:
ThoniaSlim might be an abridgement of your name but it' definately not your Real Name hence my calling it a Pseudo Name.

Ok. . . let me clear something here. . .Thonia is the short form for my full name Anthonia and Slim is my middle name. . .so didn't make anything up

OneNaija:
[b]Na Lie. That one Na fat Lie. my mind nur dey lie. You dont have a boyfriend. [/b]come on. just email me I will tell you about me. stop this ppl. I cant go somewhere else na u i want.

Haba. . .see this guy ohh. . .I've told you i have a BF and your saying I don't have one. . .by the way Is it by force?    



[quote author=amebo no1. link=topic=273579.msg3883565#msg3883565 date=1242648740]Nkemdilichukwu [/quote]Haba amebo of all the names. . .its this particular brother of yours you chose. . .

[quote author=amebo no1. link=topic=273579.msg3883544#msg3883544 date=1242648541]you no well, oloshi

by the way, na my brother dey marry thonia, will you back off


[/quote]Ah. . .abeg which broda be that?

LadyT:
See this guy mess up LMAOOOOOOOO
You dey craze?

ThoniaSlim LMAO see panda loff. . .

Abi oh. . .and the fowl opened up its own ass. . .      

@OneNaija

Now give me a reason to be shy?  

OneNaija:
@ThoniaSlim  Nur mind them jare .na Jealousy.abeg try email me or meet me online make wen talk. my email dey my profiles. I get babe sha but you na d highest believe or not.

@T Lady Thanks you God bless you. Person fit meet love anyway. a bi na crime?

Well that makes the two of us. . .well I'm sorry i also have a guy. . .but in my case I care, love and respect him a great deal. . .so please try else where. thank you.

huh      

faakay:
lol,  Is This is LESBIANISM??    

Woman dey Love WomaN!! na waoooo

i wonder oh. . .

IFELEKE:
You mean you are in love with a picture with a[b] pseudo[/b] name . . .Pathetic way to find a first love.

could you please explain what you mean by my name being false/fake?

mikkiano:
@thoniaslim
I am not surprised at ur post cos its a gurl dats at d point of benefit,but why has ur daft brain not been able to ask me why i said so and stop all the assumptions!!, miss unpredictable.

Lmao. . . . . .duhhh. . .i only gave my opinion. . .so please Mr, don't get so bitten. . .no hard feelings. . .

Boringgggggggggggggg. . .Next!

jai ho remix - pussycat dolls

music0286:
Hello NL is have an issue bothering me and  decides to bring it b4 the house for your invaluable contributions,criticism and support. I made a post in the past of a lady I was supervising then and dating but had a boyfriend,then majority of the contributor condemned me, true to ur criticism and advice I left the lady for her boyfriend and continued my search for my own girl.

I meant the Lady I am currently dating on a flight on my way to Abuja on one of my official trip she was on an official assignment too. we spoke casualy and exchange our biz cards on getting back to Lagos I gave her a call, we met and became good friends then lovers. She told me that she is not into a serious affair as her Guy in PH was nt serious wit d relatnship and she can not be in a relatnship for fun at her Age, She is 28 I am 30.

She then told me about all the affairs she have had from her Uni days,She is a Lawyer an AAU graduate. In all she counted 5 relatnships.This never borthered me but the one I am not confortable with is her present Boss. She said the were dating when she was in her former place of employment a law firm,she now work as company secretary/legal adviser in her present organisation, a ONE man  property firm.

She said she stoppped dating her BOSS when he got married late last year, My problem is that she is the Boss's right hand pal,always travelling together according to her, it basically official. most weekend they re in Abuja,at times other High brow hotel in Lagos, according to her to broker business deals, they spends days together she said different hotel room. But I dey there?

She had and is still having scores of issues with the Boss's wife on ground of of dating her husband(The Boss wife worked in same office). In the light of the above, I advised her to get another job which she agreed to.

Fortunately,she attended an interview with a new multinational coy coming in the country, she scaled through as Company Secretary/ Legal Adviser with an official car and Salary of over N100k more than what she takes in her present firm. She is expected to resume 1st week of June. I was happy about it at least she would not have her Boss and the wife to contend with any longer. I was thinking of taking her to mama at this point.

Guess what? she told me on phone last night that she is staying back in her present place of work,because she told her Boss and he begged her to remain in the office that he eill increase her salary and the need to finish an Abuja Deal they started together. Ewooooooo.[b] To me she is still tied to the apron of her former lover her BOSS, [b]remember Okafor's Law[/b].[/b] I have come to like this lady,i like intelligent babes,she is so smart and very intelligent with a 2.1 in University and a 2.1 in Law school,she used to present several papers in seminars,lectures in schools functions,in 1st place of employment a popular activitist legal luminary in Lagos, She is 4 years old in the Bar now,she was a CJ in her school day and student politician, though we are just 3 months old in our relatnship

NL what do u think? For me if she stay back in her office I may continue my search for a Take home to mama.I need advise and criticism,  I am a Banker in a strategic unit of a Bank Head office in VI.

Now if she's got this wonderful offer at another organization and she's still considering staying back at this old job. . .then something tells me its more than just a professional relationship here.  . .you sure she ain't got feelings for this boss? 

hentee:
My wife is a loving woman that she does all she is suppose to do in the house in terms of chores. But the only problem is that she loves smoking. will it affect her from having children. i have tried to stop her but she keeps telling me she will stop with time. i smoke myself(maybe thats y she is finding it difficult to stop). what do i do? I love her more than life itself and i wont like anthing to happen to her. Advice pls

Your looking for a solution when the solution lies within you. . .stop smoking yourself then you can take it from there!

mikkiano:
I must say if truly u r in england and u av been paying those supposed fees to her , then u have been a mugu all along, Guy!, lock up abi na jazz?, except say u don fall in love.

Now this has to be one of the most foolish replies I've come across all day. . .and what's the big deal in helping someone out? 

So because he helps this lady out. . .that makes him a fool because he doesn't get anything in return?

One thing you should understand. . .sometimes you help people out not because you want something in return. . .but you help them out. . .cus you do not know what would happen tomm . . .

life is very unpredictable!

sesman:
i' ve to commend you on what you've done so far for her,  you have my total respect,  well done mate,

i reckon you should tell he the truth mate, you can;t somply afford to sponsor her anymore, you've done the best you can. she will need to find alternative means, simple.

And to add to it. . .connect her to a part time job or something that she could earn money from. . .make it clear to her that she has got to make it work or else. . .there's nothing you can do again to help her.

I would also advice you not to  create any animosity between her and you. . .because we can't determine what happens tomorrow.

Tricky one here. . .this depends on the relationship you have with this friend and his reaction to the whole issue. . .Also what is her real motive behind those text messages. . .I've seen where ladies have used this as a way of getting back at their ex dudes (Foolish i would say)

FL Gators:
Why?

1. Most girls (except for Iice ) Loves heels.
And with heels, 4-10 inches are added to to their height.
So. . . . . any guy above 6' still qualifies

2. Feels good when he's towering over her. . . . more (is it safe to say romantic?) romantic if she leans up to nibble his lips.

3. He can be used as a shield

4. Very comfy in bed infact, comfy is not the right word

said it all. . . and to add to the list. . .am on the tall side. . .so i do not need a guy below 6ft. . . especially when i go on my heels. . .

Not seen any dude that's all that. . . to wanna walk down the aisle with!

I think it depends on the guy and the lady involved here. No one can treat you any way they choose too. . .till you give them the permission to do so!

I guess most guys don't carry many things. . .just the usual wallet, keys, handkerchief and phone.

iyoyoworl:
Nairalanders i really need your advice on this. Am a christain and my boyfriend is a muslim. he is serious about setteling down but is also insisting that our children be muslims and i can practice my religion.  I really love this guy cos we get along so well. but the roblem is just the religion. please what do you think i should do.

Yes it is possible if you are willing to deal with every issue that comes with it. . .but the highlighted sentence is one reason i wouldn't wanna marry a Muslim. . .just don't wanna deal with such drama.

Well put across ElRazur. . .


@topic

for your info facebook ain't all about dating. . .where you got that silly idea into your head i wouldn't know. . . .facebook has helped me connect with a lot of lost friends especially my class mates back in secondary school.

I do not see an issue here. . .get her to enroll in any learning program or something. . .i do not see why you should allow something as flimsy as this come between you and her.

What do they say again about birds of the same feather? you complete it. . .

You are a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy stupid woman        . . .Your own blood sister?   

Please and Please. . .stop now before its too late. . .