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So who is lying now?
Some people have black lips naturally

Na wa....and the man don born 11 children!
I hope he is found alive so those kids don't suffer.

Is it so hard to tell if a man is married?Ladies should stop being gullible.
As for the men who lie to hook a girl.......thunder dey come.

As much as I love boxing,this is just the negative side of it.

Many people generally just happen not to be considerate.
If you are an experienced driver,you can tell what will happen when you get close to a pool of water especially when there are passers-by there All you need is to slow down,it takes just a few seconds from your time.

Ibra is a bully.

'Refused to make love to him'
'stopped him from molesting her'

.......and then you read and see it was refusing to have a procedure done by the doctor.

Bloggers and nonsense headlines.

Preye001:
There is none I didn't sleep with. That said, thanks.

Well you said,'i am in a relationship and I love this guy'.That should put a full stop on the question of those asking you out(at least for now).

Saveme27:
Yes I am but I'm tired of the job, a lot of discriminations, no room for growth, no room for development. I feel u don't belong here. I've been dreaming of the day I would leave the job, I dont derive happiness from the job, you'll hardly know I'm in the military cos I don't talk or behave like a typical Nigerian soldier, I'm not any better than them but when I see soldiers fighting civilians I don't join them to do that. I want to leave and my only hope of leaving is about to be cut short.

Okay, don't you have an asset you could sell? Can't you look for a loan facility?
Have you tried to raise/borrow money from amongst your colleagues?

Preye001:
I've already asked that question. Perhaps, you didn't see that part.

Okay let me break it down for you to disperse your confusion
The guys you dated that are asking you out want to come back for one or more of these reasons;
*The sex was good and they still want to hit it.
*The one you probably didn't sleep with thinks he could get a chance now.
* Perhaps (yeah perhaps),you could have one who 'genuinely' thinks he missed out on someone he really likes and wants to get back with you.

See they are not confused,they know what they want.

Preye001:
How does that solve anything?

It will solve something for those asking you out.

Preye001:
How? You date a girl, suddenly starts acting up and she moves on, then all of a sudden you realise she was the best. Aren't you men confuse?

You still don't get it!
Why do they want you?You should be asking yourself that.They are not confused about why they are asking you out again.You are the one who is confused

Are you still in the military?

Okafor's law.

Why are men such confused beings

You're the one who is confused here!

This generation sef.Their dressing.smh

EnthronedbyGod:
Extremely bad and corrupt.
Everywhere you went you'll see condoms littered everywhere.
We had cults in fego after you left.
The school became so bad, most of the surulere and festac boys turned the school to something else.
Evans was a millionaire as a secondary school student, they called him Emoney then or Evans the money man.

I'm curious,how is he now?

EnthronedbyGod:
Yesooo


I expected you to know Evans the money man?
Probably the money started coming in after you left
Well thank God you can confirm at least one of them.
Then we had cults like house of pain and men in control in Fego as secondary school students
You can also confirm I was a fegoite

One thing I know(which I learnt after we left) was that the juniors became really 'hard men'.

EnthronedbyGod:
Good to hear.
You finished before me, though I won't tell you when I left, but I know you should know some of your juniors like Lois,evans,dollar,kolawole tijani(TJ) e.t.c

I remember Kolawole Tijani.

Anyway,the most important thing for me is that you are reconciled with your Maker.

CodeTemplar:
I will strongly suggest you don't reveal anything else about where you have been and what took you out of there.
Anything that can reveal your identity. I am sure few people were expelled from that sch under that same circumstances and there are people who already decipher.

It's not a problem
I finished from that school and just wonder if he is someone I know.
It's okay to maintain his anonymousity.

EnthronedbyGod:
When did you finish from FEGO?

1991

EnthronedbyGod:
I know many wouldn't believe what they are about to read, but I'll still share this for those who will benefit from this thread,will share a little story before the main subject.

I was born into a family of wealth by God's grace. My father was a member of the Rosicrucian order,who later gave his life to Christ while I was still a child.
Not long after that he started having problems and lost all he had. I also started having terrible nightmares, before I knew what was happening I totally changed into something else.
I got admission into federal government college odogbolu ,but was expelled in SS2. I was later enrolled in a private school but was expelled in my SS3,my parents had to beg the school authority and I was readmitted. I passed my waec and jamb and got admission to study engineering in one of the schools in Nigeria.
I couldn't secure hostel accommodation so I had to stay off campus,unfortunately the place I got was beside where most of the buccaneer excos where leaving.
The buccaneer big eye and some of his officers where from my town,some of them approached me and told me that I was very handsome and that I was a ladies man and will easily become a fine boy.
I went for their JoJo,after which I traveled. but somehow wasn't available during the initiation.

TBC

Op,what year did you leave Fego?

Keep fit Mama.

Tell them.They should at least fill the potholes and make the road more motorable now before all that talk of constructing more lanes.

Well,I guess some people need it.Low self esteem kwa?smh

It's just plain wickedness for any government to leave an Express way to become as deplorable as this.To think it's a road that leads to a neighboring country makes it more appalling.

Naija case just tire person.

farous:
All the comments are well appreciated.

Its not that i dont use to say romantic words to her but may not necessarily be at the magnitude she want. At the same time what actually got me upset as well was the fact that even after the reconciliation and reunion,i discovered after sometime that she still secretly communicate with like two men(the ones i know)that she messed up with during the separation(though i dont know whether they still do the other) and i confronted her towards that,and that put me fear even till date on whether something is still going on between her and them behind my back,especially when she started acting all the things i enumerated above and thats more reason i objected the reason(not saying romantic/sweet words) she gave to me.

Truly speaking based on all those act which is more of a betrayal of trust,its never easy to write off all those things from my mind because i dont know what is going on.Its a pity that i am enumerating all these here ,but that how it is eating me deep physiologically,and i am fed up with the whole thing.If couples found themselves in this kind of thing,and later got reunited,is it not the duty of both of them to work harder and rebuild the union by making an amendment and vow never to allow such happen ,throw away and avoid all past mistakes by resisting anything that can create sense of suspicion or further betrayal from the other party rather than doing otherwise.

Op,since you still want this marriage and you want it to work,then you will have to keep doing things to make it work
@ bolded,if she wants more romance and romantic words,then give it to her.Forget about this impression of yours that you have always been this way before the separation.Things have changed.She saw someone else when you separated and that person probably spoke sweet words to her.It is what she likes now and wants.Give it to her.
Like someone mentioned up there,the lovemaking for women does not start on the bed,you have to initiate it throughout the day.It is in your ways around the house too.Do you help her with chores?

@ second bold,do not wait for your wife to start working on the marriage,you lead.I believe you were the one the sought her and found her.Be on the driver's seat.It may take her some time to eventually co-drive .
You didn't mention why you separated in the first place but that could indicate why her attitude is still this way.

Remember,you want your marriage to work,lead by serving.

The bride is loaded already.
Husband own pot belly sef dey.

Twitter story

Zielle:
Two different languages, families may not accept the union, partner may secretly yearn for someone from his or her tribe.

Wow, awesome

You should be able to make your family accept your spouse before marriage.That should be sorted before the marriage.

Why would you yearn for someone of your tribe when you decided to settle with the one that is not of your tribe in the first place?I married outside of my tribe and have never had a desire otherwise.

Thank God she wasn't killed.
Armed bandits everywhere upon all the security votes politicians are receiving.