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FamilyRe: Help Me Delibrate On This Please by thorpido(m): 11:32pm On Aug 04, 2019
Guy,leave her,let her go.You will meet a better girl,maybe in Germany sef.
FamilyRe: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by thorpido(m): 10:55pm On Aug 04, 2019
freecocoa:
I think I agree with the training part but then, as an adult who’s mentally balanced and loves their wife, shouldn’t common sense come to play here? I’m saying because, I really can’t see any excuse for such behavior.
The bolded is questioned.Do they really love their wives?
The ones who can't defend their wives actually want a wife but love their families more.
FamilyRe: I Lost My Cousin And His Friends by thorpido(m): 3:52pm On Aug 04, 2019
Asnafsaeed:
It was overspeeding, they were in some sort of race when one of the tire bust
Awww,tragic.
I'm wary of about 3 or 4 young guys moving a vehicle together especially if they drink.
FamilyRe: I Lost My Cousin And His Friends by thorpido(m):
Four young guys in a vehicle......probably drunk?Excited and overspending?
May their souls rest in peace.

Sorry for the loss Op.
CelebritiesRe: Tekno Finally Clears Allegations For Publicly Dancing With Van Strippers by thorpido(m): 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2019
Na you know.So the girls couldn't get into the other salon cars but get into an advertising van like ice cream on sale?
Abasi akan.Iyanmi.
HealthRe: University Of Ibadan Nursing Student Slumps, Dies After Writing Test (Photo) by thorpido(m): 11:32am On Aug 03, 2019
gaskiyamagana:
The charges always make one fear to go for check up.
Go to a general hospital or teaching hospital.
The basic tests you have to do don't cost a fortune.
CelebritiesRe: Nigeria’s Tallest Man, Agoro Afeez Debunks Marriage Rumours by thorpido(m): 9:42am On Aug 03, 2019
bestman09:
smiley

He should have been a great basketball player and he wasted the gift of height God gave him.
Someone that should have been a millionaire now and ladies begging him to marry as many of them as he want if he utilized the gift of God upon his life very well!
Unfortunately,he would not have been able to make it as a basketballer.
As tall as he is,he doesn't have the agility and flexibility needed to play sports.Have you seen him move?He doesn't have that swift movement.
FamilyRe: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by thorpido(m): 9:56pm On Aug 02, 2019
freecocoa:
Its not my hubby bros. grin

Meanwhile, I think it’s very common with most Nigerian men.
Okay o. wink
Yes,it's very common around here.The culture and the extended family set-up.
However,it has to do with training and how one grows up.
FamilyRe: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by thorpido(m):
The Bible says, 'for this reason shall a man leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife'.
Well a man(not a grown male) knows how to deal with his family when he is married.His family ought also to respect their space.
In a lot of wedding receptions,parents are admonished to let their marrying children have their own space and grow together.

Unfortunately,these things are set while growing and at the stage of maturity(before marriage).You can't change a mummy's boy.
If the foundations are not well laid,I'm afraid it will never change.It's like a house without a proper foundation.You will see the result on the walls.
freecocoa:
How exactly shouldn’t it be up for debate? So if your mum is being mean to your wife, it’s not debatable to side with her(your mum)?

I don’t understand all these Nigerian men.
It's not a Nigerian men thing.It's your hubby that is the issue.That's why the maturity of a bachelor is a strong factor to look out for before marriage.How he handles his affairs without necessarily waiting for his parents/family.
BusinessRe: Rice Seller Cries Out: The Money They Paid Me Turned To Something Else by thorpido(m): 5:30pm On Aug 01, 2019
Hypnosis
SportsRe: Kanu Nwankwo Celebrates His 43rd Birthday With Love Up Photo With Wife by thorpido(m): 8:19am On Aug 01, 2019
So I old pass Kanu? angry
Anyway happy birthday.
FamilyRe: Men Of These Days by thorpido(m): 5:29pm On Jul 31, 2019
ImaIma1:
Slay kings. When they turn evening suya newspaper, they will run to Shiloh.
SportsRe: Ighalo Hints At U-turn On His International Retirement After A Cryptic Tweet by thorpido(m): 12:53pm On Jul 31, 2019
E easy to leave.
CrimeRe: Judge Quashes Plea Bargain, Hands Yahoo Boy Three Years Without Option Of Fine by thorpido(m): 7:54am On Jul 31, 2019
E don be for am.
CelebritiesRe: Dede Mabiaku Slams People Comparing Naira Marley To Fela Kuti by thorpido(m): 1:02pm On Jul 30, 2019
DREAMZZZ:
burnaboy is even more talented and versatile than fela
Chineke me!
I'll take this statement of yours as a generational ignorance.You must have been born in the 90s.
Christianity EtcRe: A Pastor Of Bestselling Relationship Book Says He Is No Longer Christian by thorpido(m): 4:38pm On Jul 29, 2019
End times.The love of many waxing cold.
CrimeRe: Woman Kidnapped While Jogging In Ajah, Lagos (photo) by thorpido(m): 4:35pm On Jul 29, 2019
This kidnapping thing eh. huh
FamilyRe: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by thorpido(m): 1:00pm On Jul 29, 2019
0ubenji:
borrowing to feed them is the problem here coz when the mother has finished owing the whole Lagos with nowhere else to go.. mother, daughter & husband will suffer together.
Certainly!
Well i want to believe the mother was in the know before the daughter got involved in the whole sh#t.She can't leave them alone now.
FamilyRe: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by thorpido(m): 8:57am On Jul 29, 2019
These are questions to ask before this present situation.
The deed is done already.
The question should have been,'Should my sister marry a man she really doesn't know because a religious leader is asking her to?'
Well na your sister mumu herself(no offense intended).

As it is now,your mom does not want her daughter to suffer so she has to still give assistance.
PoliticsRe: Olumba Olumba Names Prophet ‘that Can Solve’ Nigeria’s Problems by thorpido(m): 10:32pm On Jul 27, 2019
How can someone who is dead speak?
CrimeRe: Woman Commits Suicide Over Friend’s Unpaid LAPO Loan In Ibadan by thorpido(m): 1:19pm On Jul 27, 2019
smasher1:
How much loan do LAPO a Micro finance bank give that would warrant one committing suicide. I am sure it might not be up to N200k. That's too small to die for. The truth about the '' suicide'' may not be known.
N200k is big money for some people o.
Moreover,this LAPO people have an embarrassing way of seeking their loans.They could bring a noisy crowd to your doorstep.They get some people locked up too.
CrimeRe: Woman Chops Off Ex-hubby’s joystick, Pours Acid On It, Flushes It Down Toilet by thorpido(m): 8:41am On Jul 27, 2019
She don finish the man.
FamilyRe: Mother Expresses Disappointment Because She Thinks Her Baby Is "Ugly" (Photos) by thorpido(m): 10:42pm On Jul 26, 2019
The baby could only have come from her and the father's genes.The child looks like her,just darker.
She's a silly girl.
FamilyRe: My Step Mum Makes Me Uncomfortable... I Need Advice by thorpido(m): 10:18pm On Jul 26, 2019
Ardar:
You've already analyzed and labelled the op as a sociopath from just a single write up undecided.

Oga anyone who finds it hard to warm up to new people is not a sociopath or a psychopath.

@op pls it's normal for those who are introverts, just give it time you'll definitely be comfortable around them.
You labelled the Op as a sociopath.I don't know where you got that from.
There's nothing in my write-up to indicate that.
The interpretation and conclusion is simply yours.
CrimeRe: Wife Stabs Her Husband In Kaduna (Disturbing Photos) by thorpido(m): 1:09pm On Jul 26, 2019
Na women dey stab now.Time has changed.
CelebritiesRe: . by thorpido(m): 12:49pm On Jul 26, 2019
Vanity angry
At 22yrs,how bad could her breasts be that she needed augmentation?smh
FamilyRe: My Step Mum Makes Me Uncomfortable... I Need Advice by thorpido(m): 12:09pm On Jul 26, 2019
Fate has caused your situation to be just the way it is.
You have to wake up to the reality and adjust to it.Your dad has to marry and that means a new 'mother' in the house.You've got it good that she is not hostile towards you.
I know you're an introvert but you need to warm up to her Just chit chat about general things.
I don't think it will be too much to cook your own food.Just let your dad know you prefer to do that
As for the step sister,do you share a room?If you don't,just keep your room locked when not in but if you share a room,just tell her your dos and don'ts.

Most importantly,accept the reality of your present situation Your dad has remarried.It's a new family now
CelebritiesRe: Prince Kalada Allison Suicide Attempt: Queen Wokoma Ex Husband In Hospital by thorpido(m): 1:46pm On Jul 25, 2019
Third suicide attempt?
It will be hard for him not to try again.

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