Education › Re: '3.5m Per Term' Secondary School Reunion Turns Into Tale Of Woes About Nigeria by thorpido(m): 8:23am On Apr 17, 2019 |
Uyi168: Secondary school reunion issa scam.. Nobody really misses u.. They just want to know if u have made it in life..  Your school must have been one 'pako' school. |
Crime › Re: Breaking: Chief Sir Tony Igboka Shot And Killed In Nimo Last Night By Unknown by thorpido(m): 8:13am On Apr 17, 2019 |
Uwa umebi.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Akhigbe Nuel Odiase: Corper Dies After Falling From A Danfo In Lagos by thorpido(m): 8:01am On Apr 17, 2019 |
What kind of fall is this na?Was he hanging? May God comfort his family. |
Crime › Re: Delta Student Pours Hot Water On Boyfriend’s Eyes, Flees by thorpido(m): 2:18pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Anger everywhere. Relationships are for the matured |
Celebrities › Re: Ali Baba And Mary Celebrate 13th Wedding Anniversary (Throwback Pictures) by thorpido(m): 9:13pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Ishilove: Ohhhh... So this is the second marriage??
I for fear because I knew the first wife. Yeah |
Celebrities › Re: Ali Baba And Mary Celebrate 13th Wedding Anniversary (Throwback Pictures) by thorpido(m): 8:46pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Ishilove: Thought they've been married longer. Ali baba was married before.The marriage crashed. He re-married,that's why this marriage ain't too long. |
Crime › Re: Shocker! Many People Beheaded In Broad Daylight As Cultists Clash In Lagos (grap by thorpido(m): 1:52pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Waste of lives.smh |
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Family › Re: The Graduation Spot And Other Room! by thorpido(m): 1:36pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
babythug: I was reading a thread on NL here yesterday . It was about someone who’s sibling had “fraudulently” got thier dad to make her next of kin in his financial affairs. The man had now died and the lady couldn’t quite g onive account of money in his account. The family wasn’t happy in summary and of course I can only imagine the bad blood in the air. One commenter admitted that she had convinced her dad to make her additional signatory to his account without her siblings knowledge and so on. I shudder to imagine what could go wrong with that arrangement thereafter
It’s made me consider sibling rivalry as a whole - it’s origins, sign to look out for and how to avoid it.
It was really common place with the generation of our parents and one can only hope that it doesn’t continue with the oncoming generations
I’d like us to discuss and share experiences here.
Is it something you’re aware of?
Have you experienced it?
What are you doing to prevent it amongst your own offspring?
What are things we do or could do as parents taut could leave children ie offspring to become Rivals in the future?
I wish you all a sweet weekend. The floor is open!
Thorpido
Invite any and everyone please Well I've never experienced this.My parents tried to raise us all as equals without any preferential treatment and to love each other as siblings. My dad passed away and till today we don't know what is in his will because everything automatically went to our mother. Parents have always had preferences among their children and in some cultures,a first born son gets the lion share.It creates unnecessary rivalry and you can only blame the parents for that. It all starts with the parents.It is important that they try to show love equally irrespective of position in the family or gender. |
Politics › Re: Marafa Offers Saraki Another Wife by thorpido(m): 8:19pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
He spoke from the little in his brain. Underutilized ko, industrialized ni. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Denies Membership Of Vikings In Malaysia During Interrogation by thorpido(m): 8:13pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
Why join what you can't be proud of? Stupidity |
Car Talk › Re: The Privacy Suite In Stretched Rolls-Royce Phantom VIII by thorpido(m): 5:05pm On Apr 10, 2019 |
I should buy this. |
Celebrities › Re: Denzel And Desmond Elliot Celebrate Their Birthday by thorpido(m): 9:41pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Why should he name one Desmond? |
Family › Re: Advise Needed On Marital Issue by thorpido(m): 7:51pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
reciprocal: abi o..but you know how the Society sees marriage She has to choose between her long term happiness and the society. |
Family › Re: Advise Needed On Marital Issue by thorpido(m): 4:45pm On Mar 29, 2019*. Modified: 8:29am On Mar 02, 2020 |
reciprocal: there are several issues of cold treatment and lack of affection. and the man doesn't agree to go for any counselling or so. He just wants the wife to swallow everything and endure without complain. even she was heart broken because she had confronted her husband abt this issue and he labelled her a nag and left the house for two days now. so she has to confide in me to encourage her. The matter is confusing and frustrating. I hv told her to endure anyways No,she doesn't have to@bolded. If he wouldn't accept counselling and won't change, then she should involve family members.If there is no solution from there,then she should re-evalute the marriage. People fall out of love and when that happens, it just might be time to move on. |
Family › Re: Advise Needed On Marital Issue by thorpido(m): 2:02pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
Deleting her pictures is a reaction.What really is the problem between them? They have deeper issues to solve than just pictures. |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Shows Her Dance Steps by thorpido(m): 1:40pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
She tried but what is she wearing? |
Crime › Re: Police Officers Kill Cultists Terrorising Rivers State (Graphic Photos) by thorpido(m): 1:10pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
They always strip them. Good riddance to bad rubbish anyway. The society can do without them. |
Crime › Re: Violated By Their Fathers, Why Some Men Sexually Abuse, Impregnate Own Daughters by thorpido(m): 10:33pm On Mar 28, 2019*. Modified: 9:17am On Mar 29, 2019 |
This thing has to be one of the greatest mental disorders.How can your own daughter be a source of sexual fantasies and fulfilment? |
Crime › Re: Abusive Dad Flees As His Daughter Stands Up To Him by thorpido(m): 3:13pm On Mar 28, 2019 |
Artzdanielsz: Shameless man and stupid daughter, I guess it runs in their family How is the daughter at fault here? |
Crime › Re: Ethiopian Woman Disfigured, Blinded By Acid Attack By Her Abusive Husband by thorpido(m): 11:48am On Mar 28, 2019 |
Pure evil.I hope the abuser gets severely punished. One has to use tact in dealing with an abuser.You don't tell him you want a divorce,you simply disappear and let a lawyer serve him a notice. |
Travel › Re: 20 Kg Of Gold Bar Free Retrieval From A Glass Box In Dubai, Nigerians React by thorpido(m): 8:49am On Mar 28, 2019 |
Is there really a way to get the gold out or they are just messing with people? |
Family › Re: Chinese Woman Gives Birth To Twins From 2 Different Fathers by thorpido(m): 5:39pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
Legendguy: How did it happened? Two different sperm forming two different foetus in same womb? It can happen if a woman ovulates twice in a cycle.Both eggs get fertilized. |
Romance › Re: My Neighbour Is Showing Me Green Light Despite The Fact That She's Married by thorpido(m): 5:22pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
*Knocks him on the head* What do you mean by 'seems am getting attracted to her'?
Stop her from showing up in your apartment. If you can't tell her directly,just come back home late for the next 1 week. Stop entertaining her! |
Crime › Re: We Had Sex But No Penetration - Doctor Accused Of Raping Patient Says by thorpido(m): 5:19pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
What the heck does he mean by we had sex but not penetration? He should go to jail as a deterrent to others like him. |
Family › Re: Woman Just Put To Birth To Quadruplets by thorpido(m): 11:17am On Mar 26, 2019 |
She or her husband should just go on permanent family planning |
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Family › Re: es by thorpido(m): 8:44am On Mar 15, 2019 |
You should confront her about it.Doesn't your wife work? She seems like she has a lot of free time.
It is always important to know a lady's lifestyle,minset,character and type of friends she keeps before marrying her.Women rarely change.
By the way,why do you use Postinor as your family planning method?Why don't you go for something more long-term? |
Celebrities › Re: Viral Video Of Young Lady Crying Because She Is Too Beautiful, 2face Idibia Reac by thorpido(m): 1:50pm On Mar 13, 2019 |
I can't really say if she is beautiful but her crying facial expression is funny. |
Family › Re: I Was Barren For 16 Years, Used My Sister’s Kids To Cover My Shame – New Mum by thorpido(m): 3:55pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
sweetrace: Have you walked in her skin? If you haven’t, then please stop telling her why it took so long for her prayers to get answered. My wife and I too waited for over 2 yes. |
Family › Re: I Was Barren For 16 Years, Used My Sister’s Kids To Cover My Shame – New Mum by thorpido(m): 2:32pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Omoluabi16: Oga do you think it's easy? Even the great prophets complained. Moses, Elijah, Hezekiah and so on. When a virgin struggles to conceive, and a woman with several abortions have kids then the human nature comes. We are humans after all, and God understands. I never said it was easy.The prophets indeed complained but remember they were men of the flesh and they had not received the greater promise of God which is the recreated being and the indwelling of the Spirit.Moreover,the Bibles says the Scriptures were given to us for our learning,to learn from them,not just copy them. By the way,my wife and I too had years of waiting |
Family › Re: I Was Barren For 16 Years, Used My Sister’s Kids To Cover My Shame – New Mum by thorpido(m): 2:09pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
BCISLTD: Assisted fertility treatment ...thank me later Many 'assisted' ones have still failed. Except the Lord build a house,they labour in vain that build it. |