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joinnow:
My neighbor in limca estate nearly go mad because he use his saving to be training a lady at uni. When she graduated.she said she no do again cos his father told her not to marry another tribe.
The guy just dry up within a week. Thank God I told him to take leave travel somewhere far and rethink his life which he did.Now he has met a working independent graduate.

That thing doesn't make sense, at least not in this generation.
If you have to sponsor a lady,then quickly get married to her and she continues her studies from her marital home.

You didn't say anything about how you have tried to resolve the conflict.

It's your turn to send him back to school.

joinnow:
And men will not learn.

Abi,dey carry money dey throway.

Abaso mbok.Iyami
Seems the children witnessed this.Such trauma.
He must be mentally ill.He should be hanged.

Mad people everywhere.

Dads good dads work so hard but don't get the appreciation moms get.

True but I still dey drink am sha.It's hard resisting a cold bottle on a sunny afternoon.

Lexusgs430:
If you don't understand a statement, apply your brain or ask.....

He's on codeine already bro.

Looks like a cobra.

Is the kitchen for cooking for the community?

Deadi bodi get e accident.

angels09:
@65 years?

Who be 65 years?

Why veins dey commot her neck like that?

SweetyMarvel00:
Hanging how? Is it that because we have been friends for long and I owl her a duty of marriage..Isn't that a misplacement of hope? I did not talk about relationship or marriage with her and she clearly knew I just see her as one best friend..treat her well too...

If a women digs a man,she begins to give green lights.If you don't desire her in that way,you should have dimmed the lights.
Anyway don't bother yourself,she will get over it.

Abnormal biceps.
There's a chance it will affect their system in the future.

Smuggling na blood work.Those smugglers don't play.Dem do this custom officer strong thing.

tttmar:
Thank you very much, actually I have tried applying for jobs online and also I go to companies to submit my CVs but people are saying that If I don't know people,they will just put it in one corner.
Sometimes without transport fare, I will be going to companies by foot, the next day I will not be able to work well.
The reason why I don't just want to put my children somewhere is because they are females and I don't want them to be molested.

The option of staying with your parents?

Op,no lie,you dey touch her?
It would have been obvious she was into you and you should have seen that and made it obvious you didn't see yourself marrying her rather than to keep her hanging all this while.

You may have to go back to your parents' house.Turn deaf ears to whatever neighbours say.
Look for a job or try to run a business.Use the time you spend with your parents to evaluate your life and your so-called marriage.Ask yourself if there are chances of the man and the marriage improving.
By the way,do the other wives have children and did they leave with them?

This girl that used to be dark in complexion.

Maka why Nwannne.

Homeboiy:
Hungry girl forming posh

The two men want to check if the butt is real or fake

Spinal na sissy nah

But the guys did a bad thing

Touching a woman's butt without approval, they should be jailed

Which one you dey?The girl na hungry girl.............but the guys did a bad thing
Call a spade a spade.

Ara n'dagba ndi ara.
'He wants to feel if her vagina is like her mother's'.
Never heard a crazy thing like this.
People like this should get the the hangman's noose.

Female pictures now are sexualized.

Anything she like make she say.

They deserve better treatment.

emmyeuler1:
After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serous affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay fir it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

Cut your loss and move on.
You are an undergraduate.The most important companionship you need now is with your books.

This sh#t happens all the time.We've been there too.Spend more time developing yourself as an undergraduate.Relationships distract and often is a waste of time.

Painful death for the family especially because she was a breadwinner.Having a nurse practicing abroad was good support.

I hope it was not a case of a jealous,abusive ex.

xbrus:
I don't understand why people always think certificate is what defines us.i mean some people study in the university with certificate and still not educated .Can anyone show his or certificate for being a Christian or a Muslim? I think marriage is a religious act ,it's a covenant between the couple and God and you don't need certificate to be in a marriage, certificate just a piece of paper to proof that you're actually married and if there no occasion to show this paper Y bother, no one really care if you have it or not, it is what you do actually to be married that matters . In your case I think you've done the basic things couples getting married should do, your immediate family were the witnesses, you were not forced into the marriage God is also your witness and he knows your intentions. If you need this paper to be fulfilled in the marriage go get it, but I know you're already validly married.

So you are going to tell employers that you are a university graduate but have no certificate to show?
There is a reason why certificates are necessary, not because it defines anyone but the legal backing it gives.

chronique:
Who runs your home? You or your husband? Cos I don't understand how a grown up man who knows how wedding should be done,would allow his 21 yrs old bride to direct the process and make decisions.

He must have been in love.
Both of them acted like kids that they were.

Officially,you are not married to him.
Your character is an interesting one though.You're a bit too set in your own ways for your own good.If it works for you,no qualms.

davidif:
Dude, there is always two sides to every story.

That's true.My comment was based on the Op's words.