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kendrallmai:
The one at the top is the first scan while the second one is the most recent scan, thank you.

From the measurements shown,the fibroid which is antero-fundal has grown bigger while the subserous one has reduced in size.

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Scholar8200:
indeed! one out of millions. Negligible, isnt it.

Very negligible.
Isn't it amazing that those who say they don't believe always have a hangover with it.Thay wake up saying I don't believe and before they sleep Jesus Christ is still on their minds.
Clowns dem.

Your opinion

brownlord:
Is she in Lagos?

She's in Ekiti state.

Onaswu,you can provide your account details.

Which is the first scan and which is the latter?

Please I'll like to appeal to anyone who can lend a hand to help the Op.

She's a primigravida(first pregnancy) and things are not going well financially.She earns a little salary as a private school teacher and husband's work is bringing in barely enough to feed.

What she needs mainly is to buy things for the oncoming baby/birth.She's in her 7th month now.

Please spare something.God bless.

Cc: ichakaobos

Did you just find out she is short?

I don't think it makes sense to break up now.Accept your lot.Being happy in marriage and having good and successful children is the ultimate.

Would it make you happy to have a Messi in your family?

He thinks he's in his living room.

According to the figures you gave,you had sex with your wife at her period of ovulation.If indeed she is confirmed pregnant,you are responsible for that pregnancy.

Whatever issues you have with your wife,both of you should try to solve it.Have genuine reconciliation.Go for counseling if need be and be ready to forgive each other.

Call her today(or see her) and tell her.No need prolonging the time.

Well some women say men are babies too,so I guess this man in question will be a 'baby' and deserve beating too.

Some men who beat don't know there are women who can match them in violence.


Violence doesn't help anyone.

If you and your wife have done a full work-up(seemen tests,hormonal profile,scans etc) and you are both given the all clear,I'll advise you just wait on God.He alone gives children.

You need to know your wife's ovulation period(find out if you don't).Make love from the 11th day of your wife's period and do it every other day until the 19th day of her period.

Try to take the pressure off yourself and your wife.

histemple:
As a very active activist, I can confirm to you that domestic violence by women against men is the most unreported crime in Africa, the second is rape, believe me.

Most of the reported domestic violence against men are even not reported by the victims but through third parties.

It's rampant to see a woman crying on social media over a slap by the husband but you hardly see such post from men, but it happens daily.

It's true sha.

histemple:
Did you also see this by a woman?

That's wickedness.Women are capable of such behaviour too but it's more common with men.

yedidiah:
No matter what, cheating is not an option. It has never solved the problem of marriage, and will never give you satisfaction. Instead, you will be filled with guilt, regrets and insatisfaction.

Talk to your husband again and make him see how starved you are. But don't argue or make statements that will threaten his ego. He may misunderstand you there.

If you have an older couple that guide you (which I believe you should. It is important all young couple attach themselves to an older couple one of experience and wisdom) take the matter to them to guide you.

Your spiritual head too: but you don't paint your husband bad before anybody for any reason.

The bolded is important but a lot of young people nowadays just meet,start to fvck.......it's so sweet,let's get married.They don't have a structure.

Your husband clearly has a medical and(or) psychological issues.

Op,you shouldn't cheat on him.You need to find a way to get him to see a doctor.If you have a family doctor,talk to him,he will find a way to invite your husband.

Some men and nonsense ego.

newdawn2017:
ve said it all my dear. I ve stayed without sex 4 2yrs & 6mnths; so I well knw what it means as one would't be able 2 think straight anymore.

What happened to your partner?

Her tummy with the marker looks like a colourful balloon.

I'm happy for her and pray for everyone ttc that you experience this too.

NarnieSnyper:
She's 16yrs and like 100 days old. If she's old enough to have a phone, I think she's old enough to have her privacy. Just my view though

She most likely didn't buy herself that phone.She's just 16yrs old.At that age,they need serious monitoring else they will get out of control.

NarnieSnyper:
Not to bring the Western culture here but is it right to go through someone's phone, even if the person is your dad or mom. This is something Nigerian parents and guardians refuse to accept.....Privacy!

How old is she to have such privacy?

A certain cousin of mine stays with her dad's brother, he's actually the one responsible for her well being

The bolded says it all.

shugasofttouch:
no we stayed separately all through.

If a man chooses another lady while dating you,it just means that man is not the best for you.
It may be hard since you've been with him for many years but count your losses and move on.It's better he shows himself as unstable now and you know rather than when you must have married him.

Was it the bullets that ripped off their clothes?Why are they always in underwear?

OP,were you living with him in the hostel?

sweettease:
as in ehn... I don't just understand what he was thinking

People are just getting crazy nowadays.They think everything has to be on social media.

Kissing the wife in the bedroom is okay,sharing the pictures on social media is o craze.

yoqnnq:
yeh, I did the hormonal profile test...prolactin level was 830. Though I do have breast pain sometimes but no discharge. Thanks

If your prolactin level is still very high,you will need to continue with the drugs.Was it a gynaecologist you saw when you visited thhe hospital?I'll recommend you see a gynaecologist/endocrinologist.You can see one at a General hospital around where you live.

Ezeokwu

ichakaobos:
@thorpido, how far with the investigation? Waiting on your confirmation.

Still ongoing.I need to see physical evidence(documents,photos etc).I'm still waiting for those.

pressplay411:
And he told you this personally right?
See your mouth like actually.

He said these words I wrote here with his own mouth.