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amicable09:

Are you for real?

I have taken time this morning to read through comments on this thread. Some actually made me laugh, some left me wondering where people buy ideas from, some made my eyes bulge out in utter amazement, some got me nodding but in yours, I got a mix of all these reactions!

Guy, seriously? Like I don't even know where to start from with this post of yours!
I think we may need to take it line by line or sentence by sentence.
How is it that you wrote some really good stuff with scriptural backing yet explain the stuff the way you feel like... what is judgement on your dying bed when you judge yourself by yourself to know whether you deserve a wireless transition into the great beyond?

Mehn! that's the height of sarcasm!
Is that what the Bible teaches or is that what science suggests?
Please, shed some light my way.

Thanks.

Some of these guys just revel in their imaginations.Imagine judging yourself on your death bed?
I guess he must be into doctrines like the grail message.

RIP Edward.
May God comfort you loved ones.

tunisbaba:
Guy forget that.Even ordinary brainwashed suicide bombers do not cry or pray not die while about to carry out their bad quest which they believe will take them to heaven. Then why the mighty Jesus??. if Jesus can pray and cry not to die, after fully knowing that his death is equal to taking position at right hand side of God's throne and redemption for his follower sins; then I see a big flaw in the belief of Jesus dead for the world's sin.

Oh well goodluck with your belief then.
Jesus said,'it is finished'.What is done cannot be undone.
It doesn't matter how anyone chooses to interpret ,condemn or criticise it.

Messi didn't make it?

A man who treats his wife like that in public doesn't love and respect her.

tunisbaba:
So Jesus already knew that his death is equivalent to redemption of sins for his followers and he still went ahead and prayed to God to let the cup (his death) pass over him? [Matthew 26:39]
Seems like Jesus dont want to die for his follower's sin but was forced.

Jesus' mission on earth was the redemption of man.
When Jesus was on the earth,He was a man because He took on the form of a man.As a man,He had the emotions and feelings of man and expressed such.His cry when He was to die was the expression of pain as a man.

neocortex:
It takes more than literacy to understand written words,
Next time seek others opinion before giving a response that will end
up embarrassing you.

Are the polytechnics your non-university options?
It's true literacy is not enough to understand written words.I expected you to expound on your comment.

neocortex:
Your analogy is flawed , those that didn't gain admission to the university have many non-university options
that is not dictated by the university itself.
In the case of religion , you either gain admission to the gods'
heaven or you end up in same gods' hell.

Listen to yourself.
How can 'non-university' options be options for universities?
U go school so?

Yes, your daughter is having k-leg known in medical parlance as genu valgus.
Hereditary factor plays a crucial role here.Is any of you(parents)having something similar?
Put your child on calcium supplements and diets that help bone growth like dairy foods,eggs,milk etc.
Your child will also require POP application on that leg to correct the deformity.
Take your child to a teaching hospital near you to see an orthopaedic surgeon.

Op,there's only one God.He has only one way of salvation.He sent Jesus.His Truth and salvation came by Jesus.
For the law was given by Moses,but GRACE and TRUTH came by Jesus Christ(John 1:17)
The best prophets can do is give laws and instructions.

It's not about casting into hell,it's more about being qualified for heaven.I'll give you an example;
The universities do not take in all students but those who pass and meet the admission requirements.Many are outside the universities because they do not pass.
So shall it be for many who do not meet God's requirements.They will be 'outside'.

crusadistic:
its not like their religion(xtianity) even makes sense.

Which religion?Christianity isn't one anyway except what men may call it.
What sense are you talking about anyway?Don't people call nonsense what they don't understand?

MUVA:
Evening boss. I'll like to run something private by you.


Does your pm work?

Yea it does.

MUVA:
Thorpido can I get your attention please?

Yea,wassup.

Are you sure it's not just psychological?
Go to the hospital and do an STD test?

Nnemuka:
she is still hanging around at a friends house but she cant stay there for long.
The mother supports him and wants the help returned to continue school because the help is related to the mother. The mother says the wife cannot take such decisions without her husband's consent.

it surprises me too that she doesnt have a business of her own because after having her babies he asked her to come stay with him and manage his second biz.

The mother supports him because she doesn't know why she sent the househelp away.She should let her know.

How about her family members?Doesn't she have someone she can stay with?

bukiii:
Thank you,am a student

Good.Being a student gives you many avenues to socialise.Try and join groups in your department or some other groups/societies in your school.If you are a christian,join a fellowship.
Just try and get out of yourself a bit.
There 's a thread for introverts in this section,try and check it out.

Ranchhoddas:
Bill Gates is left-handed and so am I.

You see.

Bring back which househelp to save what marriage?You said he sent her packing which means she is out of the house already.Where is she putting up?She had better stay there as long as she can.

He already called his mother to report so she might as well tell the whole story for whoever needs to hear.I
expect a woman who has been in marriage for 14yrs to have started a business no matter how small to bring in some income.A wife's jobless status is what abusers often take advantage of.

Pres. Barack Obama is left-handed.
Mr Raji Fashola is left-handed.
Being left-handed has nothing to do with your condition.

You're an introvert and a lot of people are but you need to 'live' or you might end up being depressed just as you are feeling now.
Are you a student?

So?

bukatyne:
@bold:

Some 24yr olds know what they want out of life.

That's true but in this guy's situation,he does not.I don't blame him though because he is still dealing with the pressures of medical school.

Did she ask you for the phone and other gifts?
What plan do you have for her- marriage?How old are you if I may ask?

@24yrs old,the guy is too young to know exactly what direction ge is going and he is being truthful with you by letting you know he can't make promises now.You're 21yrs old and you should also pay more attention to your studies rather than thinking about marriage with someone who cannot even commit.

Juzzybabe:
Am so fine o. All is well,my baby is grown,she's one year old now but i must confess that God has blessed with a very smart kid. Preparing her for school cuz she knows her eyes,mouth,etc. lol she calls mummy. Her dad,that jerk is still acting up. He last called dec last year and said he was no longer interested which didn't even move me,cuz i have moved on. I have been waiting for his divorce letter but haven't seen it yet. But my dear,all is just fine. I don't think i can live with that guy ever again . After a year and i still feel very comfortable without him SMH. Well,God's plans are not the plans of man. Thanks dear, u all give me hope.

Glad to hear you are doing fine and making progress.it's not worth it being in a relationship that has no joy.

legalspices:
I raally do want to make it work....but this Igbo FAM has a way of turning things around and thats my fear

You didn't say anything about your fiance's stance thus far?How adamant is he that it's you he wants?
If his parents are the traditional igbo people,I'll advise you to move on.
Prayers can change things if this indeed is the Lord's will for you.

Can you afford a cheap accommodation?If you can't for now then stay away from them for as long as you can during the day.Move out early and find somewhere to hang out till late so you just come back to sleep.

Young boys so full of evil.Barely 21yrs.
Be careful the people you move with especially to strange places.

Poor girls.Victims of their society.
Their paedophillic fathers and uncles made them that way.

What's your man's position in all this?He has to be strong and supportive and know what he wants.
If both of you are determined to make it work,then take it to the Lord Who knows the end of all things.

The major problem is not that the woman built a house without the man's knowledge but that trust had broken down between them coupled with domestic violence and infidelity.

A woman can build her own house but why do it behind your husband's back except trust is gone?

You really didn't think much of yourself before entering this marriage.You had no dreams of your own except getting married.
It doesn't seem your hubby has anything to offer you so you might as well just move back to your mother.As a seamstress,,start to eke out a living.You might not move tomorrow but start to plan your exit.
You deserve better.


*i just keep hoping young girls will read these kinds of threads and learn so they can make better decisions when it's time to marry.

Juzzybabe:
Thorpido my able doc, long time ooo. hope u are doing great? thanks for keeping the assistance here doc,God is using you. lol

Ha Juzzybabe,long time?How have you been?
What's the situation now with you?