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fancyupage:
To all Nigerian men, please get it into your skull, you do not own a woman, she is your companion..

You start by saying the above and now below you are specific about some men

fancyupage:
No to disappoint you, I am writing based on Ronke's death and the fact that some men seek to be justifying his anger.

I'm not disappointed at all.
Your write-up is apt,it's just that you seem to make domestic violence the male exclusive.I'm sure you heard of the woman who stabbed her husband to death in his sleep.

Op,na vex u take post.Have you been a victim?

A man bathing his own child is foolishness?What if the wife is just recuperating and he wants to assist?

theGuest:
A totally unrelated piece of information: All Muslims (no matter the sect) place Jesus (SAW) on a platter of Gold. They pray for him ANYTIME his name is mentioned. They will never insult him. They even believe that he, Jesus (SAW), was the saviour . . . But only during his time on earth.

I said this is totally unrelated because real Muslims don't care what names you call Muhammed (PBUH), whether you see him as "spirit of truth" or not.

One thing I love about the Bible is that it is full of wise proverb that holds true in every occasion. For example John 8:32. Swallow your pride, guys, and seek the truth. Don't even go seeking it anywhere except from the bible. Because (Mark 8:36) "what does it profit you to stay in your comfort zone but forfeit your soul to falsehood?"

Let me assure you that alot of Muslims will be punished by Allah for making Islam unattractive to you (false Jihadist, Muslim terrorist, paedophiles, bad-intentioned polygamist, fetish Imams etc) but YOU only will be queried for not seeking the truth.

Millions of Christians around the world, in the last few years have sought after the truth about Islam, some were convinced that Islam really is bad, some otherwise.

My challenge for you is simple: If you're going to defend Christianity and bad mouth Muhammed (PHUB) and Islam, be objective and seek out the truth.

Peace be upon you ✌

That you place Jesus on a platter of Gold does not support the truth.The message of Jesus was the gospel which in summary means that He died for the sins of mankind and He is Lord.Islam does not accept that.Being nice and accepting the truth are not the SAME. To place Jesus on a platter of gold or say He was one of the prophets does not STAND in Truth.That is the error we kick against as Christians.

Again praying for Jesus is a waste of prayer.It's useless and unfruitful.The quran says Jesus was received into heaven.How do you pray for someone who is in heaven already?Isn't it a useless prayer?Moreover,Jesus Himself is the answer to prayer.

@second bolded,that's not true.Many islamic scholars spend time and energy trying to prove from John 14 and 16 that Muhammed was who Jesus spoke about.

You seem a nice guy but like i said,being nice and standing in the Truth are not the same.

There should be peace between Christians and muslims.The world needs that peace.

HOWEVER,Jesus did not predict the coming of Muhammad.Muhammad is NOT the 'Spirit of truth'.He was not a spirit in the first place.John 14 did not speak of him because he doesn't fit the description of the Personality in that chapter.Of course the apologetics have to twist it to make him fit just to give that credibility.
It doesn't matter that a so-called christian priest writes any article.That doesn't make him an authority on the scriptures.

Make peace but don't spread falsehood.Muhammad was the only prophet of Allah.

Kimoni:
Sorry but this made me lol

Thorpido, when it's not medicine or counseling. Stay your lane o

I dey my lane o.I do appreciate the arts however.

Ishilove:
Whats the good and whats the bad?

The bad was all that attack on each other by pro-gays and anti-gays.
The good is the romantic cascading waves of..................(not good with poetry.Got the brain of a scientist).

Ishilove:
I initially thought he was someone I knew that's why I came to this thread, then it turned out he wasn't the person, but his mastery of words have captivated me so here I am, hanging around like a monitor spirit

I'm actually enjoying the thread - the good and the bad.

I thought this was a gay thread.So much heterosexual liaison going on.

Je si ike.

You say your parents are saying no money,yet they have.Have you spoken to them?

Bemagnify,you have challenges just like many other people.However,you have not said anything about what the challenge is?Is it a lack of job,lack of finance or health problems?
Tell us what you have tried to do and what solutions you have sought?
There might be someone here to help.

bemagnify:
i think the end of my time on earth is near...the world wil soon los me after al am nt important so let me just go...no body on earth wana help me...am really frustrated. depressed nd hopless...dis post might b my last post on nairaland as i cant steal to succeed in life..rip in advance to me

What exactly are the challenges you have and what solutions have you sought?

You can, only if the keke napep is HIV positive.You said you were 'moving past' on the 'rear bumper'?As in dogggy style?
You didn't use protection and started bleeding?

I think you should go for HIV test.

HBD.
The boy resemble him papa.

If I had the powers,it would be a requirement for all spinsters getting married to have a stable source of income first before they marry.
Women ought to realise staying separated from an abusive man is not the end of the world.
I wish the police and the justice system can do more when it comes to cases of domestic violence.

He should come out and tell this story to the police and the public.It's unfortunate that dead people don't talk.
The neighbours have constantly and recently heard noise and scuffle so it must be a lie to say you haven't touched her in 3yrs.
When you push someone and the person knocks the back of the head against a hard surface,you don't have an idea how fatal that could be?
Lagos boy,the police will smoke you out soon.

It's just unfortunate that many women don't know when to leave in an abusive relationship.'I'm staying because of the children'.Sigh

He eats junk a lot and that is why his poo smells that bad.He is also not taking enough water.

Congratulations to her.

It depends on what course you studied and if you will be required to do any additional adaptation course before you can even work with your certificate.

Well paid job?Well I can suggest nursing.

End time prophets.
The scriptures must be fulfilled in the last days.

Lovers of their bellies more than lovers of God.

sweetlily2818:
out grow u say,even in the night before sleep his hands must inside his pant,I've spank he severally but it's just getting worst.

Interestingly,if you keep spanking and hammering on it,it might make him more addicted.
It's a behaviour similar to sucking the thumb,playing with the belly button or picking the nose.
He doesn't recognise the sexual thing yet so it's not like self-servicing.It's just an innocent exploration of the body.
What you can do more is distract him- with a toy or some other activities.
He will outgrow it i assure you.It becomes a problem if at 5 or 6 yrs,he still does it.

It's a normal behaviour for many kids his age.He should outgrow it.
Just remind him often when he does to stop but don't make a big deal out of it.

Your brother is greedy and a spoilt brat.I guess he took after your father and having a dysfunctional(sorry) family also has an effect on him.
You're children of your dad too and deserve something substantial from that money.
You should come to Nigeria because that's the best way to sort things out.

Kachisbarbie:
I have never seen it o, or maybe I haven't been observant. I am more interested in knowing why pregnant women braid their hair towards delivery_ does it make labour easier?

You can carry braids for months so while you are nursing,you don't have to worry about going to the salon to make your hair.

Face for calender turn face for obituary.
Girls just need to be extra careful.The lure for material things.You just don't move with strangers in this evil world.

Evina:
Like seriously! See how that girl just fall hand, display her dundyness. "You go to ASU"? Is that how the letter S is written?

ASU ko OSU ni.

Lol.She couldn't even take the time to see that the words 'property of' was flipped too.

Ask4bigneyo:
Have been wondering why our pregnant women always attached safety pin(s) to their clothes/wears.

It is commonly practiced among the Yorubas but i don't know whether this is been practiced by other cultures/tribes..

According to an elderly man who pleaded anonymity pointed out that "Safety pin" is usually attached to their clothes/wears in order to protect the fetus from the evil spirits/daemons hovering around especially @ noon and night.

I don't know whether if you guys have witness this in a pregnant women's clothes before.

Lets share our experiences so far and catch fun.

People hear things and without thinking through begin to follow others to do it.
Have they ever thought for a second that evil spirits are spirits ?What will the safety pin do to the spirits?'Chook' them?What if they come through the back and not the front?
People just follow what doesn't make sense.

reminiscing:
There is this this guy I was dating,loved him quite well.At first he told me the nature of his job won't allow him call me often but he said however he will be calling when he has d slightest of chance to.Two weeks into the relationship I noticed he barely call not to talk of dropping a message by mistake.I kept quite but I called most time.Then I decided to put a test ,I didn't call him for like a week and I noticed he didn't bother calling back or even dropping a message on Whatsapp asking to know if I'm cool.I dropped my ego called him and we spoke like nothing happened and he didn't even apologies for his act rather he was like "I had mind to not have called him".I used the opportunity to bring up matter and he promised to always call but its over 10days and he hasn't called.A guy friend of mine told me not to call or message him until he does.What could be the cause for his behaviour

He's not into you.Don't bother calling him again.Move your ministry.

Danfuster:
he is not overreacting, he's foreseeing what might/is to come. Don't forget when you marry someone, you marry that person's whole family as well.

In any relationship you are, never ever compromise for all that little signs cos they're the handwritting on the wall.

At OP: It is only mature and diplomatic for you to discuss this with her mom and when I say discuss... I mean "communicating".. Remember, " there are no bad wives, only bad in-laws"

This is really deceptive, I wonder what it'd be like when trying times are here and you report your wife to her mom, she'd probably tell you "I'll get back to you, let me talk to her" and she won't get back to you just like she did here whilst condoning her daughters nonsense instead of scolding her.

Be wise bro... Never ever doubt your instinct.

While I agree you need to pay attention to even little things while dating,i still say he is over reacting in this case.
How do you tell a woman you want to marry the daughter and she should keep it from the daughter?It's as good as told.He shouldn't have involved her family at all.
He needs to have a talk with the mother as you said.

Why is your title,is my wife infertile?What if the problem is with you?
Follow the advise of the earlier posters.Your wife should stay lying down with the hips propped with a pillow and the legs raised after each lovemaking.Some semen will still inevitably leak but that would keep much inside.

If after trying for some time and there is still no pregnancy,you might have to go and see a gynaecologist who would put both of you through tests.

Yes,you're over reacting.Firstly, why did you decide to involve her mother?Proposals are done with individuals involved or you could have friends organise with you.
Secondly,you're getting married to her and not the mother so why are you angry with the one you plan to marry.
Just get over it.

yerilistik:
Poor reporting.....
Pain is not a complete indication for limb amputation unless a very serious untreatable cause is implicated. Is he diabetic or does he suffer peripheral vascular diseases....etc
Please let's be sure of our sources before publication.

He has been suffering from peripheral neuropathy for years.I don't know if he is diabetic though but guess he might be.