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Don't just take her word for it.Take her to a laboratory and have a pregnancy test done.

The first step is to know what the problem is by running tests- you and your wife.Have you done that?
That is what will determine what option is best for you.

It's a silly thing to do and worse still a silly thing to say.I've seen it happen a couple of times.
Some people just don't know where to draw the line.

bigass:
Sometimes I wonder How God and Jesus feel seeing the so call men of god in gatherings like this. Imagine what is a man of God doing in fettish burial rite of a fettish king. This burial comes with alot of rituals and yet these men of Satan gathered there

Why do you people criticise without looking wholistically at events?
Vp Oshibajo is the vice president of Nigeria.He went there in that capacity to attend the burial of a renown citizen of Nigeria.He did not partake in the burial rites.
The bible records that Jesus attended a marriage.He didn't go there to preach or minister but went as a guest just as everyone else.

Make them dey take am easy with their lifestyle.

You can look for a woman above 50ysr old.

This must be his 50th birthday.

karferguso:
Thanks bro..I'll work on it but the mistake I made was thinking too much of it in the first place. I literally spent days brooding in the said matter which then subsequently lead me to thinking too much about daily life activities and then being judgmental on me and others

You will get over it.Just preoccupy yourself with other things now.

vouriotp:
[color=#990000][/color] :DThanks to everyone that took out time to give me good advice, may u all never lack help and guidance . And to those dat spewed rubbish well.......you know d rest.

Have you had a talk with him?

karferguso:
I've been having mood swings for a couple of
months..mostly been unhappy
I'll be 18 next month and I just finished my 200 level.
I've been too judgemental and tends to think low of my
self
It all started when someone(a friend) just criticized one
thing I did(I thought too much about it).Since then, I have
been having problem with myself
The little thing d guy said turned to another thing in me.
I was tired of school, can't think clearly and from that day
I, also have been too judgmental on people around me and
on my self.
I've had distorted appetite, slept too much at a time
(characteristics of depression).I really need HELP before
resumption in October
N.B: I am currently doing well in my Academics

In this life,people will always criticise you.Some maybe positive criticism to make you perform better while others may just be 'bad belle'.
Whatever your friend criticised,is it something you can correct?If yes,then go and work on it.If it's something past,then think of a new day and how to perform better in future projects.Right now,think about hobbies/games and other activities you can engage in to lift your spirit.

Ama80:
It's ikoro not ukolo.ds is my town ooo.uga kwenu!hop it doesn't create a problem trying to solve one.spiritually,it's a liberation if done properly.

Is the ikoro a problem in your village?

dopedealer:
Janet, You took the right decision, I pray the next time you come online you tell us how great it is to be a Muslim. You are always welcome to Islam.
May Allah continue to give you the strength to remain a Muslim. It's the greatest thing that could ever happen to any1. All that you've been deprived off is vanity and keeps you away from sins.
I love Islam

Not true@bolded

Occupational hazard.RIP to the dead

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Obiwannn:
SENSELESS POST.

Some people thrive on senselessness.

He's looking better.I pray he recovers fully.

Charly boy must be doing a good job keeping himself out of rehab.

He must be a 'guynacologist'............he's into women.

I don't know if i should laugh at Op's statements.

'Invested so much and doesn't want another man to enjoy fruits of his labour'

Ndi ara

Well,it's actually oxygenated blood and not deoxygenated blood.

The one who raises a child is family and not just vessels of conception.

Na the house we dey see for background?

bilulu:
personally I can't marry outside Edo state

Haha,you be confirmed homeboy.Reminds me of a friend from Anambra who says he can't marry outside Anambra.

bilulu:
if I should go by wat u jux said I'll say dat all tribes shares dis same attributes till u fully understand dem

That's true.Nobody outside of igbo can fully understand and relate with an igbo girl for instance.

bilulu:
wat I ve read in dis thread shows dat our men of nowadays re weak....... well it takes an Edo man to handle an Edo woman...... proudly Ishan

Weak?Guy no be weak.You are from there so you understand them which is normal.

fibial:
Igbo girls are bad,yourba wicked,edo evil,itsekiri selfish,urhobo ugly,Hausa brainless....wait which tribe is now left for us to consider marriage with?A thread of fallacies

Albino tribe.I no dey see dem fight.

youmour:
I bet they were speaking yoruba

Even if they were,they both understand it and it's a private discussion.

vouriotp:
He was busy saying all the nasty things he would do to her if he was close to her, whether it was flirting dats how it starts till he finally does it

He has started emotional cheating if not physical.
You need to have a frank talk with him.Let him know you are having none of this behaviour.

Don't give him the silent treatment.Have a discussion about it with him.Get to the root of the matter.
Did the texts you saw indicate that he was sleeping with someone or he was just flirting?

Mind messed up by religion.

Share yours first na Op.