₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
But the 'do something' is not sustainable she is a Christian.

It means multiple adulteries till she is tired.

That's where many have lost it.

bukatyne:
Is this an excuse though?

Or are we saying husbands in prior times were better lovers?

No,I'm not excusing the behavior.I'm just saying that is where some women have found themselves and decide to do something about it rather than 'hope'.

Moral decadence and social media...ease of hooking up.
The biggest problem I think is a lack of love on the husbands' part.The sex especially is poor or rarely happens.

She's going to get nailed for this.

Teddy96:
Nawa o. . Diswan no get brain at all. . bros abeg no mention me again. .

See person wey get brain.mscheew!

Dead thread.

odinson1:
Yes,it is always a man's fault when women are unable to Be productive.
Nonsense! This is just another bullshit for women to escape accountability and continue blaming men for "rolling with the wrong women" as if those women aren't women themselves.

The topic says 'why are women so unvaluable'?Are you saying you can't find valuable women around you?

Teddy96:
Placing myself where there's no value? . . Or you placing yourself where your opinion doesn't matter? . .

I'm not talking bout myself. . Read the post again

How can your topic be 'why are women so unvaluable'?
So there's no woman around you that's valuable?

You say women are unvaluable because you place yourself where there's no value.

Sorry about the unfortunate incident.
I hop your sisters went to the hospital to get PEP and also prevent pregnancy.

At 54yrs she still dey the manhood game

Kenneth4u205:
So how did she got the five kids if he's manhood wasn't working?

It can fail....age related etc.

There's an element of terrorism in it.
I sat beside a guy in a public bus one time and the guy wore a sleeveless shirt.Tomake matters worse,he raised his arm and put it on the backrest.

Nna mhen.Odi too hard.
Many of these clubs force players into contracts that are below what they deserve.They also regard AFCON as a waste.

Good,foreign used kwa?

Sore loser.He should be sanctioned.

Why such a long sentence though?
Is there something in the Nigerian constitution that says you can't express your disbelief openly?

I really wonder why she took the job.
Money must be made.

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

It's a good thing you said some men.
Well,the men who don't want highly educated women either have an inferiority complex or a fear of not getting it right in their marriage based on what they have seen in other marriages.
Of course no sensible man will not want his daughter to attain the greatest height of education.He will also try to raise her with virtues of humility, selflessness and love.What she does with her life in the future is in her hands.

His error also cost us a quarter final position in the AFCON.

Dailyparrot:
Maybe you are right. But what is missing isn't in a negative way.

My brothers have left home to learn trade before I was born. I never ever lived with them pass two weeks that they spend at home whenever they come home for any reason.

I don't have any memories shared with them. The age difference is pretty much.

So, you see that it's not necessarily because we have bad blood within ourselves, it's just that there was never any bond and they are more like uncles to me than brothers.

We operate on different spheres of life.

Oh,I understand your situation.There isn't much you can do about it.

Dailyparrot:
It depends on what you want from your brother. I believe we can love from afar.

I don't call my brothers and they don't call me and we're cool with that.

Anytime I ever see their calls coming in, I already knew that something has happened. But we're not enemies. We just want to mind each other's business.

You guys obviously didn't have a bond growing up.It's cool for you as it is but obviously something was missing growing up.

There's a madness going on different parts of the country.

Indeed, it's really sad no one in government has done something to avert future occurrences.Building a barricade or stopping trucks plying that road should have been effected.

yanabasee:
Isn't she a prostitute?


First and foremost, why follow a man into his room if you had no intentions of letting him have his way....


Secondly, she's not a child.... She has every right to say No...


For her to be serving in a hotel of all places .... Then she's a who'e...


I had a girlfriend back then, very decent girl but from a poor family.... When things began to get tougher with her .. She applied for a hotel job and she would tell me how the girls in the hotel were sleeping with guests or customers for money and how she hated it... It wasn't upto two weeks when she joined them. Started seeing her with new clothes and new phones and so on...

She had a foreign client that took interest in her and today she has her own hotel... Closed to politicians who patronizes her hotel.

So you see, hotel girls are who'e...

You go go abroad talk this thing wey you talk to the police.

Lol,the school na pay school fees get A.

Nnamnugochi:
I am just thinking why some mothers are so bold and domineering in their daughters' marital homes. Their decisions tend to be stronger and more forceful as they are more influential than the mothers of their sons-in-law. What should be responsible for this? They can easily pack into their daughters' homes without prior information unlike the men's mothers.
Have you experienced such? Kindly share your thoughts and experiences

It goes both ways.I guess this is specifically about your mother in law?

So how does he get money to feed the family?

After all the so-called conji,you take an action that gives you more woes than you can think of.

She was afraid she would lose you if she told you.A lot of people in your girlfriend's position hide such things.

If you love her and she has been a good girl thus far,you can find a place in your heart to forgive her.

Na only your money dey compatible.

ezewealth:
Oga u can set up a local bakery at your backyard, to bake bread for commercial purpose. D guy way dey quote u is Right. I studied food tech, I did IT in bread factory, my project was on Bread, I love eating bread.
And I can tell u, if u want to do something serious on bread, 2million is a child's play.
Someone with 2million could not be thinking of opening pharmacy or opening bakery.
Rather na buying n selling.

You're looking at a large scale.The Op is just a starter trying to set up something.
The bread factory you did IT was not a small place just behind someone's boys' quarters.

Buddha3:
If you were a graduate while I was in primary school, you certainly don't look the part. Your reasoning is hasty, your "speaking" stands without logical meditation, your counsel is bereft of simple knowledge and a keen appraisal of today's reality, even your punctuations and grammatical renditions are disappointingly poor for a supposed graduate from the 90s, cause that's when I was in the primaries.

Lol, punctuations!
It's an English exam here.Enjoy your ride jare,it's social media.

Buddha3:
Oga, the guy who supplies bread around your area set up his bakery with fabricated local materials with about 1million naira, according to you, but certainly not this year. And I couldn't help but notice you've particularly failed to answer my one question to you: do you know how much a bread oven (even one made with fabricated local materials) costs now?

You're telling me to ask the OP what he wants to bake when you're the one who suggested he goes into bakery. And because you know next to nothing about the business you're pushing another person to invest his small sum in, you dey dance samba around the simple question wey I ask you.

Think wide, think wide, na so you go make person pikin go flush him money inside drain. Na motivational speakers like you dey put people for trouble.

You sound like someone who's still feeding off the pockets of guardians. Cause if you had any sort of exposure to today's reality, you go sabi say wetin been dey cost 1K as at even August last year is now 2,300 or 2,500. Be pushing someone to do unrealistic experiments with his money. Think wide koh! Think deep ni!

Lol,i'll wager that I was a graduate already when you were in primary school.