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Psych412:
it's your type that ignores thier daughter/son when been maltreated and nearly killed by their stepmom.

You can't side your daughter or son while making it obvious in a marriage where there are stepchildren.It only causes more division.I'm not saying if she is being maltreated,don't protect her,i'm just saying you should seek fairness and justice and not just say because she's my daughter i have to defend her against the stepchildren.

bukatyne:
@bold

I don't see that happening.

His wife is too 'rancourous' for that.

If she wanted peace, she should have pleaded for her daughter not to leave as she is 'changed'.

Sending the man's daughter away doesn't resolve the issue, just buries it and creates bitterness in the heart of the two daughters.

This is the issue that must be resolved if the family is to stay as one.If her daughter has to leave the house,she will keep insisting the stepdaughter leaves too or else the anger and bitterness will not be resolved.She will definitely treat the stepdaughter bad too when alone with her.

Oizee:
there is dis thing with people, when they feel u can't do without dem, they tend to blackmail u a lot, imagine the audacity to tell d man that if her daughter leaves d little girl she met must also not stay with dem, d man should invite his mother to stay while he figures out what next to do, I'm telling you dis woman must surely come begging. I wish op could keep us updated when d time comes.

Well,it's her way of seeking equality.We need to understand that everyone(wife and the two daughters) have rights in that house by virtue of the fact that they have come together in a marriage.
I actually wish the Op can work out a way to reconcile all except he's going to throw away the marriage.
How can he train the stepdaughter and make her live peaceably with his own daughter?This to me is the more positive path.

Oizee:
please tell him to send d wife with d daughter away while the tension cools, his daughter is with every right to stay under her father's roof, to hell with the woman.

They have other kids.I'm sure he can't handle them alone if the wife leaves.

Why take off the bra?She put gun for bra?

For now,take your daughter to your mom or somewhere she can stay safe while the tension cools.
It's unfortunate you married a woman who has no maturity uniting the family.

bukatyne:
She needed welding

I believe the husband's side more.

She said she does not regard him as her husband.

EOD.

I wonder what she was looking for with him initially.She's obviously the one who doesn't want the marriage.

How did you open up to a welder in the first place?

Nbotee:
He was running away from the attackers same as everyone else.. There was chaos as everyone was scampering for safety from the attacking thugs.. He lost a lot of blood by the time he eventually got help...

So sad.

Overzealousness!
If the phone was ringing,just tell her to put it off.

People who saw him bleeding should have tried to get him to the hospital.Why was someone bleeding walking about like that?

Someone told you from the get go that he's weird and you still think 'a good thing will come out of Nazareth'?

He's obviously confused about his life and what he wants.
She had better move on and find someone who isn't weird.

Adunn1ade:
Hi stranger, long time no hear from you.

Na you fashy my side o.

Adunn1ade:
Where in Ikorodu?

Hi......long time.

11thGoldTREE:
this is the height of it. God knows they have stepped beyond their boundaries.
I don't much care how it all ends. this just has to be thelast

This is why we are all supporting this movement.
No doubt these officers have overstepped their boundaries.
#ENDSARS.

While the youths are out in the streets chanting #endsars,they should realise end bad behaviour should come first!

He couldn't leave another man's wife even after the warning.smh

Keep thinking about na thoughting.

Such a sad end.
It's such a tragedy when people have children and turn their backs on them.It's sad Daisy's mother couldn't love her daughter even if the father did.

Sorry about the loss of your friend.

May she RIP.Na big party be dis one.

13yrs!Anuohia.

Kondomatic:
I so much like this man and I also want to know where he buys his trousers.

His suits too.

His father is actually from Nigeria.

hafsatadebisi:
Alright, thanks so much. They collected my urine and my blood in three separate bottles, urine in one, blood in the remaining two. I don't know if that's what you meant by what you asked.

You are supposed to take a swab from your private part for test too.Anyway,the result of the urine test may be used to commence treatment for you.

Did you go to the hospital today for your appointment?

I sent N2000 to you.

How can you sleep with your fiancee's bridesmaid?Such irresponsibility.

Conrod:
If he looks skiny now you go say na kwashoko kill him.

It's good to be fit and healthy.Obesity increases risk of cardiovascular illnesses.

He was on the obese side.Probably suffered a cardiac arrest.

How did you grow up?

hafsatadebisi:
If any one still wants to pay directly into the hospital's account, I can get their account details. But if you're comfortable sending directly to me, I'll post pictures of everything here.

I'll send you transport fare.
Did they take your urine and vaginal swab samples?

By the way,the test result posted shows you still have significant typhoid value and malaria parasites.
Apart from taking drugs,you need to prevent infections too.Make your environment clean,keep your food and water clean and prevent mosquito bites.

Realashbobby:
Reconciliation is almost not possible as it's a family problem. I was thinking it will possible and that's the reason I have been waiting since all these days.

Well,if the divorce goes through,you will need to move on and date someone else.

Biglittlelois:
That age can be right or wrong for some people, one's perspective on the right time to marry differs, some prefer when they are in their teens, early twenties, mid, late, or early thirties, age and time doesnt guarantee a long and fulfilled happy home, early childbirth, or a wonderful spouse, pray to get married at the right time and to the right partner.

bukatyne:
Early marriage is admirable.

However, you don't wake up 21 and decide to marry at 22, you should have carefully developed yourself financially, emotionally and spiritually over the years to be able to lead a home.

Unfortunately, in Nigeria of today, that would be a rare sight to see. The guys who would have gathered such knowledge at a very young age (by saddling financial responsibilities) are usually tinted with hardness and bitterness from hardship.

I would say 25 - 26 for men who want to marry early.

Finish schooling, get a job and navigate office politics a bit before venturing into marriage.

Wise words.
It's not about age Op,other factors come in.

Why can't you reconcile with your hubby?Have you explored all options?

Well if you don't want any other man to touch you,sign up for a life of celibacy.