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Zzor:
My dad loves me too much and couldn't hide it,my brothers had no option but to join him in loving me too lol

Are you the only daughter?
Parents should exercise caution with their favouritism.It could cause bad blood between the children.

Hypnotically?

Probably PTSD.

MhizzMarcelina:
To get a Shop where I stay can cost not less than 50k, according to the little research I made. So, setting up a restaurant can be estimated to cost a budget of 100 - 120k.

Well, depends on how much you are able to raise.It may not be a restaurant now but an outlet to sell food and you grow it from there.

So true.Value your dad if he toils day and night to provide food, clothing,shelter and education for you. If he also shows love and is not abusive,then he is worth more than millions.
Not taking anything away from Otedola too.

MhizzMarcelina:
The issue may be that as am staying in her house, I should not be using her kitchen to cook food that I will sell or something of that. Running the business in a more advanced way would require a lot of capital. Like renting of shop, buying chairs and table and other equipment. It would need a lot of money. It's true that Learning a trade would require time for me to learn and master before earning from it, but it would also be that, at least i have a handwork and i would be less available at home than it is now. In as much as i love to have a job, i can learn a skill . i am probably looking at Fashion designing, as it is what most people are learning and recommending. But I would also consider learning bakery maybe online on YouTube as the case may be. Please, Liftmaster, is there a way i can contact you? You are not replying your dms. I put down my number for you before, but i removed it as i started getting some funny msgs from some folks here.

How much does it cost to get a shop in the town where you are?
You may not be setting up a restaurant now but I still think your cooking business is feasible.I think you just need basic cooking utensils and a place to sell.....take away stuff.

mutter:
I am left handed.
But I learnt to eat and shake hands with right hand.
Allot of criticism as a child.
But you can learn it after all the second hand isn't meant to be totally redundant.

Exactly.
I have a son who is left handed and I never discouraged him from using his left hand.I do encourage him to use his right to collect and give things though.He can be ambidextrous.

Mad man!

Who sits on the chairs?

Mbdovey:
Offer Se.-x in what context? As your partner or as a strange?
Not all women that offer se,-x do it for money.

Offer sex to get 'something'....get a job,win a contract,get a promotion.etc The same way some men give favours for sex is the same way some women give sex for favours.

Not all men also want sex after doing favours

Op,if women offer intimacy,do many of them expect the man to reward them materially?Be honest.

Hi all,
I have verified the Op's story to be true and her present situation to be as she said.
Anyone willing to help her can go ahead.

Mizzmacerlina,when you do get help,just like Liftmaster said,moving out for me is not the first step.Establishing a business/handwork is the first step.When you have stabilized,you can then make plans to stay on your own.

cc:Liftmaster,Danzakidakura

Very unfortunate.

bigtt76:
Sad but she's the typical Ghanaian lady who believes if their husbands don't beat them, then he doesn't love them. You can search this online it's common among them. So sad

Sad.I heard of how some women take beating as a sign of their husband's commitment.One has to raise a girl child with the right mindset.

Minjim:
Pastor Oyedepo told her to submit totally to her husband. What do you expect?

That's bad.Submitting totally in the face of violence is not scriptural.

ModestGal:
No I saw your words, you trying to blame the dead woman, you acting defensive

You saw words and interpreted how it suits you.

JIMMY1393:
This your English sha

That's just a typo.Android phone ish.No biggie.

ModestGal:
If we were in a sane country, the police should monitor you, because you are no different from the man, infact you are worse because from all indication, the man is at fault, yet you want to blame the deceased. Pathetic

Some of you don't know how to read. Your imaginations run wild.

Angelfrost:
He trailed her to her place of work and killed her there... Her death wasn't her fault.

It wasn't her fault,true but the murderous tendency was there.She ought to have taken his death threat more seriously.

learner007:
And who told you she went to him? Did you read the news at all? At times it is good to have sufficient facts before jumping into conclusion.

I know he didn't kill her in his apartment but this story shows the tension had been building up.
This particular fight happened in his apartment and this was where he made the statement that he would kill her.
You need to follow up on the case.

E reach to slump.Some have taken sniper.

Person say,..if i don't kill your sister,then I'm fake'.

Shouldn't she have stayed away from him and get a restraining order when there is a precedence of violence?

One has to give the devil a wide berth.

Modified: I'm not blaming her,just saying she should have taken the threat more seriously and literally disappear.

gracechellar:
She is retired. Did so last year. Don't know if her hsuband. Guess they have enough

I thought he was looking forward to the Olympics before BBN.
Anyway,he's got business and entertainment going for him now.

Your wife no get relatives?

Seems they've both given up their sporting career.

Mycoin:
He's not at fault

Blame it on the devil.

The demons spoke to him.His profile says he ......'interprets dreams and battles witchcraft's.smh
He interpreted a bad dream this time.

At this point I got upset and asked if she thinks I'd poison them and she started telling me about life and about my recent character.

Did you have to answer your Aunty this way?Aunty the smell is because of the groundnut oil.....chikena!

You need to call down.You need to learn to live with people and grow relationships.
Children can be naughty.Do a bit if carrot and stick with them.

If u get long pipe suck from my keg.

You shouldn't even be asking this question.You're the one who wants to get married.You are the one who should have looked at your program,arrange a convenient time together with your fiancee and then communicate the proposed date to your family and hers too.

Abi na dem find wife for you?

Odikwa egwu

You sure say no be village people remote her so?