Crime › Re: 22-year-old Lady Murders Her Boyfriend In Delta State - Graphic Pictures by thorpido(m): 4:05pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
Prinss: No stab wounds seen?? The stab could be on the underside of his body. Her anger and bitterness would now make her waste her youth in prison. |
Family › Re: What Should She Do? by thorpido(m): 11:38am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Don't quit the federal job!You can both make more sacrifice by increasing your visits so you see each other more often.
Again, don't quit your job! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Did Jesus Actually Have Brothers And Sisters? by thorpido(m): 7:16pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
imagrg: There are indications in the Bible that suggest that Mary had other children for Joseph after Jesus was born. Here is this passage from the Bible that attests to this fact:
"Is this not the carpenter, the Son of Mary, and the brother of James, Joses, Judas, and Simon? And are not his sisters here with us?' And they were offended at him (Mark 6:3)".
In spite of the fact mentioned above, [b[many Bible scholars still believe to this day that Mary never had any sexual relationship with Joseph even after the birth of Jesus. [/b] Are you of this school of thought? Please share your opinion. The Bible clearly showed he had.Who are the scholarless people? If na you be Joseph,you go dey like that with the woman you married legally for the rest of your life? |
Sports › Re: Ajibade Babalade Is Dead by thorpido(m): 4:00pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
fredoooooo: Ajibade Babalade , 3SC legend ..Rest in peace . I remember his games at onikan stadium against stores and julius berger .. his lap his like 50 of my own  You sabi. He was called Kunde because of that. |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Liftmaster: 100% agreed, to fulfill all righteousness! Would be nice if a reputable moniker on this site can verify her story. Not trying to throw anyone under the bus, but if someone like thorpido says it's legit, then I'm all in. Unless it's not the same thorpido from the days of TEHN? Times are hard so I will be willing to chip in to cover expenses to verify this situation. But must be a reputable person we all know. If you guys are willing to help her,i could check her out. She already sent me a PM so i'm waiting for her reply. Na una wan give me work o. cc: mutter, danzakidakura, adeadeyera, |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 1:18pm On Sep 05, 2020*. Modified: 2:33pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Well, one cannot be too careful. In d end what will b will be. We like going around and throwing blames when shit is already what it is. It's the advice for now that's important. Keep ur advice for such cos having sex and getting pregnant is simply a reality that can't be stopped atleast mere talk won't do shit.
Na because of our economy sha, go to Finland, women there prefer to b single moms and there good jobs and govt provisions to make sure they don't want. You're VERY wrong about the bolded.Having sex and getting pregnant is a choice you can make. @second paragraph bolded......did the Op prefer to be a single mom?You're mixing things up.  |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 9:11am On Sep 05, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Remember the foool gave her assurance. Let's not forget that important detail The fool gave her that assurance but guess who got foooled? That's why I made my comment.At the end of the day,who suffers more? |
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Sports › Re: Messi Confirms Stay At Barcelona by thorpido(m): 3:07pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Seeing out his contract seems to be a more plausible decision. The buy out clause is too outrageous and even Man City making that investment may be a loss to them. |
Family › Re: . by thorpido(m): 2:56pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Oshoooo: That's the plan sir but there's no way to start work at the shop as it's not yet complete Sorry,I wanted to say where you work.....the block industry. |
Family › Re: .. by thorpido(m): 2:53pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Well move that money as others have advised. You can get an authentic parcel of land.It's a good investment.The other thing you could do is to do a business with it but because of your studies and your mum not keen too,you may not be able to monitor it. |
Family › Re: Disagreement With My Husband About Babies Names by thorpido(m): 2:15pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
The only problem I see here is that your husband reneged on the earlier agreement. However,it's almost inevitable that a typical Nigerian parent won't want to name their children traditional names.
Your fears about being bullied doesn't hold substance because their skin first of all is black.The pronounciation also is no issue.Does anybody worry about Chimamanda(Adichie)?You can shorten some names to make it easier.Munachi can be Muna.Build your children with self-esteem and knowledge.Racism isn't going away soon anyway. |
Family › Re: . by thorpido(m): 2:03pm On Sep 04, 2020*. Modified: 2:55pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Keep working at the block imdustry and saving. |
Crime › Re: OSU Caste: 2 Lovers Committed Suicide Over Parents Disapproval. by thorpido(m): 1:47pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Uwa mmebi. OSU bullshit still causing issues.
Their act was pure evil though. |
Family › Re: Finally, I Killed A Snake!! by thorpido(m): 11:59am On Sep 04, 2020 |
javaguru: what kind of snake is this 1 Looks like a garter snake. |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 11:36am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Mariangeles: They always take that route when they feel cornered. Like I said,you're obviously not smart.Intelligence works with deciphering.You don't have much of that. For your info,the same Op has made contact with me. |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 11:35am On Sep 04, 2020 |
favourume: Can you guys stop derailing someone tread. This is not nice I'll end here my dear sister. |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 11:10am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Mariangeles: If that were true, a thread created by you in the romance section with reference to this thread would have been more effective don't you think? Dude, own your sh!t 'cause you ain't fooling anybody. Also, desist using people's misfortune to shine. It's insensitive. You're obviously not that smart. You talk about emotional intelligence but you need more of intelligence without emotions. |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 8:20pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Mariangeles: The deed has been done, and the product evident. If you have nothing encouraging to say or solutions to proffer, kindly keep your thoughts to yourself. Things are difficult enough for her as it is, don't make it worse. People with comments like yours and those who agree with them are emotionally detached. They're incapable of empathy. They only reason logically. Try and reason before you quote to criticize.Understand that written words are for all that could learn from it. I wrote that not because of the Op but because of many who may fall into the same situation. I pointed that out to the Op herself before you quoted me. If it was for the Op,I wouldn't need to write it because I understand as you said that the deed has been doneIt's sex education for all. |
Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 11:01am On Sep 03, 2020 |
MhizzMarcelina: I am a novice in sex-related matters. I can't remember when last I have had sex. Sex is the last thing in my mind. I have other bigger things I think of every day. Anyways, thank you for your advice, will see to it.
I have an old account, will inbox if you want. I wrote that not because of you but every young girl who needs to read this. Anyway,you can send your old acct moniker. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye Buys New Helicopter For Rural Evangelism by thorpido(m): 8:33am On Sep 03, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by thorpido(m): 8:05am On Sep 03, 2020*. Modified: 10:33pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
..whatever happens he will take care of me. Young girls never learn  Take responsibility for your sexual wellbeing.First thing to master well is your reproductive cycle.There are periods in your cycle that are safe and some days are not safe.Master it well. It is still possible to get pregnant any day of your cycle so have a back up plan.If your partner won't use a condome,you get a femdom.Get a spermicide or use a morning after pill or just get on long term contraception if you will regularly have sex. Anyway,Op,it's a new account so.... |
Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG Members Jubilate As Pastor Enoch Adeboye Buys Brand New Helicopter by thorpido(m): 10:57pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
This one go make talkers come to tear down Daddy G.O. o. |
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Family › Re: Thrills by thorpido(m): 8:20pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
If you believe in God it starts first from seeking His guidance and direction.He will arrange the meeting.
Start by being friendly to the ladies around you You could get a leading to the one.
Your parents or the pastor could introduce you to someone but the DATING part of it should be YOUR business.You're the one that has to work it out.If it's working,you stick with it,it it doesn't,you let go. |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Vagina Injuries At Child Birth by thorpido(m): 6:00pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
There's no injury blueprint.The question of if there will be injury lies on the size of the baby and the size of the vagina the baby is passing through. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: I Challenge Pastor Adeboye To Reveal What He Saw In Aso Rock by thorpido(m): 6:57am On Sep 02, 2020 |
Irrelevant talk!  |
Romance › Re: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by thorpido(m): 4:07pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
He looks lot in the pictures. |
Sports › Re: Manchester City Offers Messi A Bumper €750m - 5 Years Contract by thorpido(m): 12:56pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
He's 33yrs.Why offer him a 5yr contract? Dalil8: Massive risk for the club, paying too much for a 32yr old.
Lalasticlala do your thing Just what I thought. |
Sports › Re: John Felagha Dies At 26 by thorpido(m): 12:52pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Sad loss to his family and friends May he RIP. |
Family › Re: Opinion : Parents Calling Spouses by thorpido(m): 8:59am On Aug 31, 2020 |
area74: Reading some comments here especially those from the women only made me to laugh. Some said jealousy, insecure, attention seeking and hiding something.
Comments here actually opened my eyes to the reality why there is no strong loyalty in most young marriages and thus leading to Marital problems. Women tend to trust and more loyal to their families than the new family they are to build together with their husbands.
I do not need to divulge everything that has happened in my family but pointing out the dangers of such experiences.
When I just got married, I thought they were normal and never paid attention to it but eventually, my in-laws knew and still know everything going on in my home as long as my wife has a knowledge of it.
To me, marriage fidelity starts from there and not until a woman ends up in bed with another man.
The discussions usually start casual but trust me, it will get to opening up everything in the home. It only requires a little misunderstanding between the couple to trigger such.
I wish everybody all the best especially those who made very mature and impartial comments. When I first saw your thread,I was like nothing is wrong with talking to your parents everyday.It depends on the bond the family has had before marriage. Your follow up comment especially the bolded is the issue here and it deals specifically with your marriage (and some others).There is a level of maturity required in marriage and everyone should have it before venturing into marriage.Such maturity entails having a level of wisdom and discretion.It's what your wife doesn't have here and you need to speak to her about it.Whether you talk to your parents everyday or once a month,if the discretion is not there,timing won't make a difference. Like notopile said,there are many issues you may need to discuss with you parent.If for instance she is alone(like my mum cos my dad is late),you need to talk about her health,her feeding,the care of the home,her househelp etc.So many things that will not even do with your marriage. |