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Macsjebs:
All power belongs to God Almighty, only Him declares a thing and it becomes established

...My experience in the new redeem parish attended on Sunday was somewhat embarrassing but lessons learnt!!!

I am just a shy, introverted guy whose intention wasn't to cause any form of distraction, but then I realized to be that 'prince charming' every lady would stylishly draw close to & start a conversation with, you only have to make your presence felt.

I use to think the many reviews Nairalanders posted on the thread on my signature are overhyped; but my experiences with ladies lately proves our alluring fragrances makes one magnetically attractive & irresistible

Nice one

charlesucheh:
you just Diverted!

being open minded doesn't mean you're doubting the supernatural existence of the supreme being!!

bruv! it goes further!

The proliferation of most of your Pentecostal churches was as a result of them refusing the Dogma of the cathedrals and the priests hitherto.

The enlightenment period and Renaissance couple with the Lutheran era explains Better

you sure Need to do a whole lot of readings..

I am a believer of God's promises for me and I stand by that bruv! but won't digest mere cajoling tricks from men in the name of the kingdom of God!!!!

I never said being open minded means what you wrote in the first paragraph.
Just that I am more enlightened than you think.
Im aware of many spiritual mysteries in God's kingdom, because the spirit in us bears witness not what the flesh has revealed for it is foolishness to them, they may not be written out clearly in the Bible, but we have the living spirit in us that reveals this things.
That's why when we hear strange things like a pastor asking members to eat grass and all sort, we know something is wrong and all, because we can differentiate spiritual from spiritual.

You know I laugh sometime, when I see those who think they know, write things all out here and feel it's something great they have done.

Going further to tell a person they don't know. That he needs reading to do. I agree! I will read, I will learn everyday.
I never claimed I knew it all, neither did I quote you to comment.
I simply replied someone and you came at me.
That I'm a dogmatic or something.

Well... I don't criticize any doctrine within the Christian faith, though maybe few.
I may have issues with the numerous proliferation of Pentecostal churches and what he hear pastors do and church members.

Well there's little or nothing we can do.

It's a personal race. And you run yours with fear and trembling.

What is the trick? A man of God told you, your blessings as a believer is tied to giving.
It's scriptural for God's sake.
And there are many avenues for giving.
If you have issues giving to the church then give in the other avenues.
There are laws and principles that govern us in this world.
You don't even need to be a Christian do benefit from the good of it.
Just walk in the covenant and practice them.

As I said earlier in a comment. God is watching all and will judge appropriately.

So sir, please save your gun powder for someone else.

charlesucheh:
you've been eaten up by DOGMATISM.........

I'm more open minded than you can ever imagine. But my brother there is a God, fear him. That's all I have to say.

Logan23:
This sounds very foolish.

Then the scriptures are fulfilled. If it's not yet foolishness to you and your kinds, then it's not God's word.

charlesucheh:
At the Detriment of the Meek and humble ahbi

so what's in for those who are law abiding and regardful of others

As we usually say, life no balance.

I don't have answers to everything..

But one thing I know is that, God will judge us all. That is why he is God.

charlesucheh:
God's spokes Man has just spoken!

Mean while, our politicians chopping blood money since 1856 have not yet seen that Wrath o!!!

continue....

The Lord gives the wicked grace. So they live long and repent.

Freestainworld:
Fake news, ASUU is not on strike

Arh.. are you in this country with us

sylve11:
Seeing stuff like this one should tell you this is not a new soul. She was likely a weight lifter in her previous lives.


Nice one girl!

I don't understand this your picture.

mike8804:
buhari visiting his cattle while brutai is visiting his snakes...terrorists and bandits visiting Nigeria.

Very thoughtful irony.

Ikjosh04:
The key to his prosperity could be unlocked when he get married.

To me, you can marry him, in as much as the man is reasonable and doing everything possible to break his entanglement with poverty.

Btw, no where In the Bible was it written to marry who you love.

The scripture says we should love who we marry.

Love is not feelings or emotions.

Love simply means commitment, passion, pleasure and above all sacrifice!


The distance between dreams and reality is called action and as long as anyone is intentional about their progess in life, the breakthrough will come.

It's also important to note Success in life depends more on who you know than what you know.

I beg to differ with the last statement.

Kinzo0917:
Nigeria �� should prepare for a second lockdown with d way dis virus spreading. God plz protect ur children o.Biss mustapha if truly u are infected, let d blood of Jesus cleans u speedily

Please stop that rubbish.
No be only blood of Jesus.
It's blood of Mohammed.

Are you not seeing what is going on underneath.

Bossontop:

Thy will be done lord!!!.......

You this person. You made me have an outburst of laughter. Just with your comments and the picture following. You eh...

SKhanmi:
Second wave is coming, they are giving you signs now but most people don't understand yet

On you and your house hold. In the name of the Lord of the host of heaven.

raker300:
God is no magician.

Because of religion, we’ve turned off our brains.

God help those who help themselves.

You don’t vote in a dullard and expect God to do all the work while he sits around doing nothing

I don't argue with you on this.

But let's a take a pause, it's still the same religion keeping this country this far.

Truth is there's blessings attached to marriage. But the uncertainties are so much. Especially in times like this and in this country. One has to plan, be ready mentally, financially and emotionally to venture into this. Though both the lady too. As times have changed.

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
My state...the niggarrrr above me...am here...rain nor allow me go collect my own onions
This is version 2 of rainy season in Benin city o
Everyday na rain
Damnnn.....Damnnnnn

The little boys picture above.....
It is obvious he is gonna be a real niggarr
He already knows what to do with boobs

Rain everyday? Isn't there a problem somewhere.

Brandonx:
Quite unfortunate! But I'm pretty sure the woman must have dabbled into something that's now working against her.
This isn't ordinary

For God sake.
Don't say this.
Don't say what you didn't know.

Lewandoski20:
Go for Giemsa Staining of His Saliva for Suspected Tuberculosis Infection.

Na wa o.
Do you think the person would understand you.

001spice:
You said he`s not coughing. Then It could be pneumonia or lung cancer. Get medical help asap. God bless

Wrong answer.

BadRadio:
The blood is from his brain

My God. People dey think o.

Vexedkid:
Drink much water and start preparing to meet your makers. Say hi to my Grandpa for me, I missed him.

Kai..human beings. Why would you say such to a person seeking help. The way I started laughing eh...

sweetmelanin:
You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind tie yourself down at this point?

Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you.

This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage.

What a woman indeed

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms
This is so unsophisticated

Seems the lions where not wearing nose masks
Nor maintaining social distanfcing abi lion or animal distancing

You funny guy

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

Arh.. please don't let other eyes see this post .

Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

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At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was having sex everyday....


I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....

Hmm.. we thank God for your life. You fell and you rose again that's all that matters. It can happen to anyone. The mysteries of this world. Hmmm

emkz:
I regretted mine, not necessarily for what she did but for my inability to follow my instincts about her which could have prevented the calamity. We were not married but things had been done towards that like introduction and trad before kasala burst. I was happy kasala burst before we went farther.

For anyone who wants to get married, by all means do so...but marry for the right reasons. You first need to understand yourself and your own limitations. If your aim is to have children, perhaps a contractual arrangement suffices. Unfortunately, many marriages today are not different from service contracts: I will provide shelter, food and security while you provide pussy when I want it and how I want it, and you must not provide it to someone else. Or I am marrying you because society expects and would respect me to be married as it shows I am responsible.

The Dutch Prime Minister is single.

Or I'd marry you only because I love you. These are wrong reasons to be married. For a potential spouse, look at compatibility, companionship, communication, character and charisma. Exude these qualities yourself and you shall find it in your potential partner. Love will fade, the butterflies in your stomach shall die, your partner shall irritate you, what then would hold your marriage?

The stories of wayward men and women are told everyday on this forum. Don't let them deter you. There are very good men and women from very good homes who are responsible to be wifed or husbanded. I know this because all my sisters have been married for years and no one has come to report that they have issues with them.

Don't go looking for a wife. Develop yourself and have the values of someone husbandable, creation will link you to your spouse.

In closing, my question to you is:

Why exactly do you want to get married? Are you truly convinced of the answer you give yourself?

You spoke with so much wisdom. God increase you and bless you more.

tunapawizzy:
Ok, that would be fair enough, if true

I dey tell you. Na Oyedepo with friends of the ministry or associates get him thing.

osazsky:
Someone at this era will still be comparing private university to public ones na wah o.in 2014 when I did my masters programme in uniben after paying 139k for a session a lecturer came one Saturday and taught the whole semester topics in 2hrs the thing just weak me..funny enough he didn't even say anything relating to his course.assu na bastard I nor know y Buhari nerver declare thier jobs vacant and employ serious people them don too pamper them spoilt things

Your head get oil

tunapawizzy:
I also have an issue with how the money used in starting the universities were raised from church members who cannot afford to send their kids there. They should have made it a proper business set up, and so the donors operate as shareholders, they make profits or losses as the case may be....But about what the university charges...sincerely it is not out of the roof. Education is very very expensive, Public universities is largely subsidized by the government....lots of public institutions charge very small for the regular degree programs BUT use other means to raise funds to complement what they get in running the schools, d reason diploma and predegree programs are very expensive, see unilag business models for example.

Yes maybe expensive for the larger masses. You are correct in most other points. Except that no special offering was raised in the church for building both covenant and landmark universities.

nwakibie3:
Have you seen a CU graduate searching for job?

Abi oo?

flokii:
Glorified secondary school.

Pay such huge amout to learn nothing and obtain printed paper certificate. Reason they dash all of them first class and 2:1 while they go outside to fumble.
How many of their church members can even afford this??

Do people still talk like this. [/b]poverty is a disease o![b]

Jogunomi1:
11 months.


She's busy. No time for gym. I want something like drugs

Theres no drug for such Sir!