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Sybellah: Go chelsea! We will finnish united today! )

jhydebaba: My Blood Is Blue!!! Up Chelsea!!!

Jibson999: A bomb just went off minutes ago, d sound was off d chart. Was rocking my pes, didn't know when I dropped d pad.....d sh*t is crazy I swear

Timijo: Which one can you share with your
lover?
1. ATM pin
2. Facebook password
3. Phone secret code
4. E-mail password
5. House Key
6. Wallet/purse
7. Your body
8. BB pin
please be sincere.

Maryspeck: Nice one how I wish the single ladies out there should make use of this I pray God should put us thru in all our endeavour

sandylurv: My relationship in which I had so much hope, where I found true love and hapiness, where nothing else mattered to me in this world has just come to an end because of genotype incompatibility (AS-AS).

I feel shattered ,broken, pained, disconsolate, heavy-hearted, sorrowful, aggrieved, wounded and bruised. My heart bleeds terribly, I've cried myself to sleep several times(usually I feel better after a good cry when I feel bad) but I still don't feel better. I find myself blaming nature, my stupid genotype, and God....I loved him, I still do, with every fibre of my being.

Oh God,we had ‎ so much in common, ideas, views, beliefs, birth month, family structure,physical attributes etc.I know for sure,I'll never find anyone like him **sobbing** Until now,I neva believed any human cud feel this much pain.

The amount of pain I carry in my heart at the moment is such that I keep wishing for death, maybe I would find some peace there. I cant say but maybe I feel dis bad cuz it seems soo easy for him. He has moved on, barely one week after.Maybe its just my imagination but it was really easy for him. I don't know if its usually so easy to let go of someone you truly and really love.

He was everything to me, he made me very happy, my world went round because of him, and now, my world feels so empty without him. We had decided to go ahead initially, with the plan of having CVS with each pregnancy but he is too scared to take that chance. This is the saddest thing that ever happened to me all my life. I still want him. Imagine finding someone you love completely, and finding all u ever wanted in that person but still not be able to have that person.

I'm praying to God for strength to carry on (even though I must be truthful, I'm sorry, but my faith and belief in him has greatly dwindled) as I really don't wanna do anything nasty.I don't understand why God would sit by and watch me go through dis and not intervene.

Any words of encouragement to help me go through dis would be appreciated, as I don't really have my friends around me at the moment and I feel so lonely in this world, plus I really needed to bare my heart one way or the other.

I hope I feel better after this. God bless you.

MR MICKMEN: nonsnse

peckers: is there any drugs to take?

kulyie: Nice points but d truth of d matter is dat many girls are caught up with getin d ring by fire by force without knowing d giver of d ring wel

Philfranks: that is a very good thing to do.. I which we all can learn from it, we will be better niaja

What would we do if we were givEn 1/10000000000000000000000000000000000th of His power and might for just one hour!

Timijo: This also makes sense to me. You are the only one that under stand my stand among other volunteer interpreters. This is becos d holy scriptures have made u wise. Other volunteer interpreters are too dull to digest the truths. They gave wrong interpretation to my audience, living them in confussion. I apprecite them for their insults and names they have called me. They may nt value the words of God, but I value and reference it. Their criticism and insults can not make me to succumb to their heresy.

bakila: idioooot home breaker

greatgod2012: We already know all these, but all d same, thanks for sharing, atleast, for reminding us. Appreciated.

@Timijo. Please where would you find a human being that will do all these in any marriage?

African marriages are notoriously one sided. I can't think of any woman or especially Nigerian man that can do all these . It's either some of the above or none of the above .

Every marriage is unique and requires different skills. We are dealing with human beings here not Robots.

pendo89: Don't you think that would a thread on its own?

I think the poster mentioned something about one's relationship with God as 'Immunity'? I actually posted what I did to prove that one's relationship with God doesn't make them immune to such crazy acts. It takes a lot of self will and control to be a great man/woman.Add God's word to that.

You will never hear me tell anybody to divorce as a solution to marital probs. No way.Because first and foremost I am a believer just like Timjo.
All other avenues of reconciliation must be exhausted first.And if that fails completely then separate.
People don't automatically go for divorce.The separation period is a period of reflection and decision making.
The courts don't even grant people a divorce right away esp where I am.They must have separated for not less than 3 years.

My conclusion is this.Go for divorce if it hits rock bottom and there's no hope of reconciling. Anything less,manage.

My understanding of the Bible may be shallow

No, the problem with you is you're so myopic, an imbecilic chimp wouldn't envy you the mess you call a brain. If I looked closely at you, I might just spot the strings that are being pulled, to make you move. That spongey mess upstairs is redundant, just taking up space. The lights are on, but there's no one at home.

What I've been telling YOU

I asked you to quote just one person whom I'm trying to break up their marriage

The problems with folk like Tim is, they interpret the Bible LITERALLY, and mostly incorrectly. Often when it suits them to do so. A divorced person shouldn't remarry?! Gosh!Because that's a great sin! In that case, I hope you're squeaky clean, and without sin yourself.

How often do Bible-thumpers let their cloaks of self-righteousness slip, revealing the real person, hiding under the cloak of Christianity? Often when they're engaged in a heated debate with one who's views are contrary, they display a flash of their true selves. It's often brief, before they pull their self-righteous cloak back into place, but the brief glimpse is enough.

One of the basic rules of Christianity - "judge not, least you be judged." It's not for you to tell people how to live their lives, anyone who lives their lives according to the rules of another is a souless robot, a zombie.

Tim posted a picture of a married couple, to poke fun at them, because the woman was much older than her husband. He invited others to comment, yet this is the same guy who's so respectful of the institute of marriage, he would ask a battered woman or husband to remain married, when the voice of reason will suggest otherwise. Gaahh!

What's that supposed to mean?
You implying that bad things only happen to people who haven't got a good relationship with their maker?

What if the offending spouse doesn't come to their senses? What then?

What's that supposed to mean?

You implying that bad things only happen to people who haven't got a good relationship with their maker?

Pls can anyone explain better

ayobarmy: guys, wats this nilesat?

I knw about metro here in ph but am just earing nilesat for the first time

are u sure.... Pls can anyone explain better

nggold: timi

Are you by any chance insinuating that because the women does not have good relationship with their maker, they deserved what happened to them or their marraiges, your arrogancy and selfrighteousnes stink to high heaven, i wash my hand completely off you, you cannot be rehabilitated. see you on the other side.