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Yooguyz: I tell you its real mark 16:15 works. I went out on outreach last week and we meet this guy who said he had cancer and wanted us to pray 4 his healing he said that infact he was about to leave 4 his routine check up i was d one leading the group so we agreed on prayed i practised what i read in Mark16:15. When we prayed he said he felt nothing but i told him to have faith..(my faith isnt very ströng i must admit) just today he called me i didnt know how he got my number and i had forgot about him.he told me after that day we prayed i began to feel better and symtoms were disappering a mind told him to go to 2 different clinics for test and results showd he was cancer free..infact we met this evening and he showed me his own doctors report which showed he was free..aparently the shocked doctor conducted a test on him.he was so excited..anyone who has had similar experience please share

Healing is of the LOrd, He only uses human as vessels to heal the sick.. The topic should be: Has God ever healed anyone through?

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I now realised that many of you are indiscipline. All the above points speak about self discipline and self control. Not even before ur man only but even in the public. Who is talking about pretence here? Let me give u some xamples of female pretence: she has short hair but she wears wig to deceive others, she has black skin, but she is bleaching to deceive others that she is oyinbo, she is short, but she wears high heel shoes to deceive others that she is tall, she exploits men by claiming that she is sick or she is pregnant or she needs money for hand out or she lies to them that certain month is her birthday and many more.

[quote author=mz_honey]That mean we should neva be free, faking our personality but we can feel free after marriage abi. I think you don't know whaty you are saying.[/quote]Nobody is asking u to fake ur personlity but to discipline ur self b4 u are disciplined.

[quote author=mz_honey]That mean we should neva be free, faking our personality but we can feel free after marriage abi. I think you don't know whaty you are saying.[/quote]nobody is telling u nt to b free but discipline. Is it nt gud for u to close ur laps while sitting than to open it lyk a slut. Is it nt gud to hav self control on food than for u to eat lyk d indian frogs and he sees u as a cheap babe dat can b woo by her stomach. And come to think of it, what freedom is in it for u to mess up d environment for him by farting, for u to open ur undies while sitting lyk untrain girl, for u to eat lyk hungry girl and disgrace ur self, let me pause here.

1. FART IN FRONT OF YOUR MAN.
Men hate this to the core, they may pretend not
to but they really hate when
you do it in their
presence. If you doubt me, first, check out the
real meaning of the word
‘farting’ and then go
and ask a man whom you don't know to tell you
what he thinks of a lady who fart or always fart in
front of him.

2. EATING TOO MUCH.
Try to control your eating habit when you are
with your man. Do not be
deceived with the fact
that he loves you: he may give you red card
because of your eating habit. I realize that ladies
are recently becoming fans of
food especially in Nigeria.

3. WASHING OF YOUR (panties). NEVER you wash your undies in presence of your man. Forget that popular slang which tends to
say that when a man loves you, he can even wash
your undies. It is a big fallacy and please, washing of
your undies front of your man
makes him see you as a dirty and shameless
element.

4. BAD SITTING HABIT (improper sitting).
This is very important to you
ladies because some
of you feel comfortable sitting anyhow in front of your man. You feel he is
yours and he
should see your laps, your pants etc since he is
used to seeing them. But a
typical man feels insecure when you do this in
front of him: he
feels you will also do it front of others. Men hates
this, learn to sit properly in
front of your man.

5. LAUGHING EXCESSIVELY
Control the length you laugh infront of your
man. When he is not around,
you can laugh and
bring down the roof if you wish.
I was talking to a lady andshe laughed so loud
that she didn't know when she poluted: Too bad.

6. TALKING TO MUCH
We men have come to accept
that women talk
too much but we still hate it. Be moderate when
talking in presence of your man. You may talk
and win the award as the most expensive
talkative when your man is not around.

7. TALKING DIRTY.
Please, have control of things
you say in front of
your man. Don’t be too naughty
when it comes to
your language except you want to remain a
GIRLFRIEND FOR LIFE!!!!!

8. DRINKING OF ALCOHOL;
Though, not all men hate this
attitude but most
men do including me *Tongue*

9. ALWAYS WATCHING MOVIES.
if you love to always watch
movies, please, for
the sake of not receiving any
RED CARD, stop that
once your man is around. Give him total concentration if
he is talking with
you.

10. FIGHTING.
Never you fight in front of your
man, he may feel
that one day you will fight his
mother.
Ladies
Please Roger That.. Please kindly share your views
on this.

paranod123: Re Read what you post dude he only score 107 in single season not year calender full season always LAPS A YEAR CALENDER SEASON END THE SECOND YEAR

Don't give a damn to d op, he is just looking for immaterial reasons to rubbish d effort of Messi.

Barcelona star Lionel Messi reassured fans
he was feeling good after taking part in
light training on Thursday despite being
stretchered off with a knee injury during
the 0-0 draw at home to Benfica in the
Champions League. Messi feels good after scare The 25-year-old worked in the gym as his
team-mates trained outside and
afterwards said he still had a chance of
playing in the La Liga clash against Real
Betis on Sunday. “I feel fine, but I don’t know yet if I will
be available for Sunday,” Messi said at a
promotional event at the Nou Camp. “I’ll
see. I am grateful for all the messages of
support I have received.” Messi came on in the 58th minute of
Wednesday’s tie only to collide with
Benfica goalkeeper Artur Moraes six
minutes from time in a match that was
meaningless to Barcelona but where he
was chasing his 85th goal of the calendar year which would have equalled Gerd
Mueller’s long-standing record. The sight of their star player being
stretchered off the pitch silenced the
Barca fans, but there was relief soon
after with the club confirming the injury
was no worse than a bruised left knee. “On the stretcher, I thought the worst, of
the pain torturing me, of being off the
pitch for a long time,” he explained,
acknowledging: “there is always a risk of
injury when you walk onto the pitch.” “Once I was in the dressing room when
the doctors examined me, did tests and
ruled out the possibility of a serious
injury, I was much calmer,” he said. “Sincerely I thought it was the last ball
that I would kick in a long time,” said the
Argentine star, adding that despite the
knock his only thought had been of
scoring. “Despite the pain, I tried to score … in
reality I was thinking the worst, but I
saw the ball there and I wanted to play,”
said Messi, who stressed that his desire
to break Mueller’s record had no influence
on his game. “Mueller’s record isn’t an obsession for
me, but it would be good, because it’s
been there for a long time.” And he dismissed any notion that his
absence would have any effect on the
league leaders. “With or without me, the team will
continue in the same way. There are
enough players left,” he said. Earlier a statement on Barcelona’s
website calmed fears over the player’s
injury after reports that Messi could be
out of action for two weeks. “Leo Messi who played last night, worked
out in the weight room today,” the
statement read. “Messi was the victim of a bruise on the
outside of his knee and will undergo
further tests to determine the exact
damage.” Barcelona have three Liga matches
before the end of the year, including a
top of the table clash at home to Atletico
Madrid on December 16, before their final
match of the year on December 22 when
they travel to Valladolid.
source: http://.mobi/output.php?id=4194

fellis: It means a place to laugh and to get info on things happening in Nigeria.

Not only Nigeria but globally.

ihedioramma: TELL ME THE NAME OF YOUR OWN COUNTRY AND WERE ARE YOU NOW ? SO YOU DONT WANT PEOPLE TO TELK ABOUT YOU ? OR HAS YOU LUS HOPE ? AND YOU ARE HERE TELLING ME WHAT HE HAS AND HOW MUCH HE HAS MAKE, ARE U NOT A MAN LIKE HIME ? TELL ME HOW OLD IS HE AND HOW OLD ARE YOU ? OUR PROBLEM IS WE TELK ABOUT PEOPLE THAT HAS MD IT AND FOR GET ABOUT OUR SELF'S .

Are u jealous of his achievents? He is a celebrity and he is nt d only one that people talk about. So wat is ur problem. U are just angry becos u dont lyk him

Ladies! If you want a very Patient man and highly economist, date an Arsenal fan
If you want a humble man date a Liverpool fan.
If you want a man that will get mad and divorce you if you refuse to spend his money lavishly, date a Manchester City Fan.
If you want a man that will spend money on you anyhow, date a Chelsea fan.
If you want a man that will do anything to make you win your goals in life, date a Man Utd fan.
If you want a man that has everything in life and still wants more, date a Barcelona fan.
If you want a man that inherited his father's properties but still keep improving, date a Realmadrid Fan.

ihedioramma: FOR GET ABOUT THAT GUY THAT IS OYIBO 419 THINK OF YOURS I WANT TO TELK ABOUT IT .

A typical Nigerian mentality about success

Lionel Messi Individual Achievement From 2006 Till date.

3 ballon d;or ( maybe 4)
2 pichici ( scoring for 3rd)
3 Uefa best european player award
3 La liga best player award
4 CL top scorer award 3 la liga top scorer award
3 la liga best foreign player award
2 CL Man of the Final award
1 Uefa best goal of the year 2007
2 FIFA special young player award 2007& 2008 2 Uefa best young player award
2007 copa america best young player
award
2 Fifa club world cup golden ball 2009 &11
4 Ibero-american best player Oylmpic Gold Medal
Golden ball in U-20 World cup
Golden boot in U-20 World cup
2 Copa del rey top scorer award
6 Argentinas best player award
2 Fifa silver ball 2007 & 2008 5 ESM team of the year
5 FIFPro team of the year
3 Onze d;or 2010 , 2011 & 2012
3 World Soccer best Young player of the
year award 2006, 2007 & 2008
2 World soccer best player award 2009 & 2011
Tuttosport golden boy
Marca Leyande
Bravo award
ESPY
Olympic Gold Medal Copa America Silver
FIFA U-20 World Cup Gold
----------------------
Tell me who can/could ever win
all these awards by 25??!!
---------------------- [ Those are just individual awards and
accolades.I did NOT include team awards
and his individual "records" because they
are "limitless" ]

1. If you like Her .. ASK HER OUT!
2. When you hug her, put YOUR ARMS around her WAIST and hold her close.
3. When you WALK next to her, get as CLOSE as you can to her.
4. If she's the only one in your life, TELL HER.
5. ALWAYS let her know how much you like her, love her, or think about her.
6. Give her presents and cards for no reason, SHE WILL RETURN THE FAVOR...
8. Always offer to pay, if she says NO twice, then let her pay but make a deal that you get to pay next time (date offer too!).
9. Kiss her lightly every chance you get.
10. Look in her eyes and kiss her on the lips, forehead, or nose.
11. If she says she's cold, don't be an idiot and say "me too" and stand there, give her your jacket or just simply hold her in your arms.
12. Don't force her to do anything she's not comfortable with.
13. Invite her to dinner or somewhere where you cantalk, instead of the movies.
14. Try not to ask her if she's mad at you EVERY TIME you speak to her.
15. Always tell her you LOVE her ONLY IF U REALLY MEAN IT!
16. DON'T pressure her to do anything she isnt READY to do. When she is ready, she will let you know.
She just wants everything to be more SPECIAL and PERFECT. So appreciate what she does do with you.
17. DON'T' go and tell your friends anything that happens between you two,cause it will hurt her and make her mad...and it will NEVER happen again.
18. Call her .. girls love to be called or just send little text message to her, this will make her think about you all day!
If YOU Did Not Notice That the 7th Point Is Missing, that Means YOU Are Thinking About The Person YOU Love...*winks*

How to become a successful businessman or businesswomen
1. Believe in yourself

Being an entrepreneur is a lot more risky than the conventional job routine. There is no regular salary; you have to find customers on your own. Marketing your product/ service and financing the project are also of concern. I noticed that most entrepreneurs use a combination of due diligence and gut instincts while evaluating their product/ service. They are good at spotting a need in the market and then backing themselves up to believe that their idea can fill that void.

Lesson one -- Believe in your idea. Never underestimate what you can do. You may surprise yourself.


2. Hire the right people

Most entrepreneurs highlighted this as the toughest aspect of building a business. Sanjay Bhargava, who co-founded Paypal, recommended entrepreneurs to bring in people who are really good at what they do and also to focus on ensuring the team members get along with each other.
Some entrepreneurs confessed they made the initial mistake of hiring friends and people they liked, but soon realised that friends were not always the best employees.

Lesson two -- Build your team with people possessing complementary skills, not'yes men'who are always showering praise. You need employees, partners and mentors you trust, who will give you honest feedback and take your company to the next level.

3. Be money wise

While some entrepreneurs went in for conventional sources of funding from a venture capitalist or banks, etc, quite a few started out with their savings or by borrowing money from friends and family. Most entrepreneurs said they focused on increasing efficiency and optimising costs and overheads. One entrepreneur shared that he consciously stayed away from non-essentials like an extravagant office, equipments, etc. The focus was on superior execution and high quality service.

Lesson three -- It's tempting to dream of a corner office, a pool table and expensive chairs, but give it some time. Start small and start efficient. Being better is more important than being bigger.

4. Concentrate on the message
As a small business, most of our marketing is word-of-mouth. Our clients appreciate the kind of work we do and our reputation for delivering results,"said Vidhanshu Bansal, founder of an information-tec hnology company called Pixel Webtech.
Most entrepreneurs said that in the early days, their tendency was to focus on sales activities and as they grew, they started looking at various marketing initiatives, as that is the cement that gels customers, vendors and employees together. Their strategy kept changing, depending on what worked -- direct mailers, e-mail marketing, presentations at seminars, etc.


Lesson four -- Marketing a start-up business is a 24/7 activity and you need to pay attention to the message you're sending out to existing and prospective clients. Your message has to be tailored to meet the customer's expectations.


Keep the team motivated
Do not indulge in fault-finding or blame games. That was a clear message from most entrepreneurs. Pigeonholing a particular member of the team may spread negative vibes within the team and cost you time and quality. Celebrating every small success and appreciating team members will build a sense of camaraderie.

Lesson five -- Be a coach, rather than the star player. Appreciate and acknowledge the positive behaviours of team members so that the behaviours turn into consistent practices.



6.Make mistakes

"If you ain't a little bit scared, you ain't driving fast enough,"said Deepak Wadhwa, another entrepreneur. Most entrepreneurs agreed. Give your people the license to fail. It's ok to make a mistake as long as they are succeeding 9 out of 10 times, and making sure that they don't repeat those mistakes in the future.

Lesson six -- The worst mistake is the one that gets repeated. Create a culture of learning and experimentation right at the start of the business. This will become a powerful value with the growth of the business.


7. Be passionate
Most entrepreneurs accepted that the rewards of being an entrepreneur can be terrific but they were also of the opinion that there is no'secret sauce.'There are a lot of magazines, self-help books and biographies of successful entrepreneurs that one can read, but at the end of the day, it's about execution. What you really need is to be passionate about your work.

Lesson seven -- If you are doing something and the day flies by, if you are surrounded with people you like to work with, then you have most of the ingredients for entrepreneurial success.

Who are these preachers derailing the topic?

see this

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you areawake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70&under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business.

After arduous work hours, it’s saddening to keep tossing and turning on your bed at night in a bid to sleep. Experts say if you spend more time looking at the clock than you do inside of your eyelids, thenyou may have a problem with sleep, a problem that should be addressed. In whatever form of work you do, sleep is important. If you work at night, you must be able to sleep well during the day; otherwise you are subjecting your body to undue pressure which may lead to ill health inthe long run.
Consultant doctors and pharmacists interviewed explained that sleep, though viewed as a common activity which can be suspended, is not optional.They say lack of sleep can cause decreased concentration, irritability, decreased reaction time and daytime drowsiness. Of course, an employee who displays lack of concentration at work may end up being scolded or disciplined by his boss. Below are simple ways to sleep better at night, according to experts:
1. Eat moderately before going to bed
Avoid filling up your stomach with so much food before bedtime if you really want to sleep well. It is wise to eat some two to three hours before retiring to bed. According to experts, you maybe in for a long night if you go to sleep on a full stomach, as this can increase chances for heartburn. They advise that you limit your use of caffeine, for it can keep you awake and alert longer than you may desire. You may be surprised to know that caffeine can cause sleep problems as it can keep you awake for 10 to 12 hours afteryou drink it. Consider eliminating caffeine after lunch or cutting back your overall intake. In addition, to get better sleep, try to lessen your intake of nicotine beforebed. Nicotine is a stimulant and can keep you up at night beyond your wish.
You should try to make dinnertime earlier in the evening, and avoid heavy, richfoods within two hours of bed as stated earlier. According to medical practitioners, fatty foods take a lot of work for your stomachto digest and may keep you up. They note that you shouldbe cautious when it comes to spicy or acidic foods in the evening. This, they say, can cause stomach trouble and heartburn for an individual and may disrupt better sleep.
2.Let your bedroom be sleep inviting
If, at times, you find it a bit tough to fall asleep, try and re-arrange your bedroom in a way that it will be welcoming for sleep. Professionals say if you have problems sleeping because of lighting, try and darken your room by using dark curtains for your windows. Some individuals use eye masks to help keep bright lights out so as to be able to sleep fast. Turn off your television, if there is one in your bedroom and fix ear plugs with soft soothing music to help tune out a snoring partner. Experts say you should also consider the temperature of your bedroomand make sure it is not too hot or cold for your comfort, in order not to impede sound sleep.
3. Get regular daytime exercise
It is important to know that daytime exercise can help you get better sleep at night. Experts recommend that you exercise 30 minutes daily, five days per week. However, all 30 minutes mustn’t be done instantly. You may decide to vary your choice of exercise. The important thing is that you exercise but make sure you do not exercise close to bedtime. This is because exercise raises your body temperature, which can hinder good sleep, experts say.
4. Avoid alcohol/cigarettes before bed time
It is not always true that somealcohol before bed time will make one sleep better. This may work for some individuals but may not give better sleep to many others, experts say. Many people think that some alcohol intake before bed will help them sleep. But professionals say that while this may make you fall asleep faster, alcohol reduces your sleep quality, waking you up later in the night. According to them, to avoid this effect, stay away from alcohol in the hours before bed and get good sleep afterwards. Also, smoking causes sleep disorderin various ways. As was statedearlier, nicotine is a stimulant,which disrupts sleep. Additionally, smokers actually experience nicotine withdrawal as the night progresses, making it hard to sleep.
5. Check stress and anxiety
According to doctors, residual stress, worry, and anger during the day can make sleep difficult for an individual. They note that when you wake up or can’t get to sleep at night, take note of what must have warranted the sleeplessness, as this will help you figure outwhat you need to do to get your stress and anger under control during work hours.
However, if you can’t stop yourself from worrying, especially about things outside your control, you need to learn how to manage your thoughts. For instance, learn how to evaluate your worries to see if they are truly realistic and learn to replace irrational fears with more productive thoughts. This will help when done repeatedly.

6. Let your bed be for sleep and sex
Undertaking other tasks outside sleep and sex on your bed may lead to difficulties trying to rest on it. It is therefore advisable that you only sleep or have sex on yourbed rather than undertaking your day’s work on it, experts say.

carefreewannabe: Boring!

We have already discussed it.

Leave it for others.

I got this note from a friend and it struck a chord in me so i decided to share it with all i hope you learn something from it like i did...Some may have read, if you have, read again, I did and it still struck chords.... to the people who haven't? What the heck, knock yourselves out!
HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away .If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be friends'. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel likehe is stringing you along, then he probably is! Don’t stay because you think 'it will get better’. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important thanyou are...Even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. A man will onlytreat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs. There are still loads of niceones out there.
You should not be the onedoing all the bending...Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship!
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...!
Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give youeverything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful! You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts!

Lasinoh: Knack one more dude!
He has already paid IN FULL!

This request is not granted IJN. Amen

manmustwac: RUBBISH! It really means Lord Of Love

what about ROFL, BRB and WTF.

When we "laugh out loud" online, are we really praying to Satan, the prince of darkness himself?

The answer is no, but an image posted by a user on the social news site Reddit is warning the Internet otherwise.

According to the directive, which is meant to be shared "with Christians," the classic and ubiquitous "LOL" acronym stands for "Lucifer our lord," something the image's creator doesn't find funny at all.

"BEWARE: Stop using the abbreviation 'LOL,'" the hastily made image that invokes the same qualities as a Westboro Baptist Church sign reads. "'LOL stands for 'Lucifer our Lord.' Satanists end their prayers by saying Lucifer our Lord,' in short, "LOL.' Every time you type 'LOL' you are endorsing Satan."

If the warning, posted by Redditor DkryptX, in the "atheism" subreddit, were true, there would be a lot of Satanists on Twitter.

"I met the prime minister in overalls lol," pop star Justin Bieber tweeted from Instagram in one such example. Columnist Roland Martin also has a habit of ending his tweets with "LOL."

"Can someone please tell him that YOLO means 'Youth Obeying Lucifer's Orders?"" joked another Reddit user. Fans of the rapper Drake might disagree. The former star of the TV series "Degrassi: The Next Generation" popularized the "you only live once" acronym recently.

Still, the image warns "Do not use 'LOL ever again!"

Other sarcastic comments on Reddit repurposed "swag" to mean "Satan's wishes are granted," "ROFL" as "rise, our father Lucifer," and "BRB" as "Beelzebub rules below." Who knew that saving keystrokes was such a devilish pursuit?

To most people, however, ROFL means "rolling on floor laughing" and BRB is simply "be right back."

For language prudes, the outing of these "real" definitions may come as a relief. According to commenters the Reddit thread, WTF isn't an offensive question at all. It really means "worship the fallen."


http://www.technewsdaily.com/15639-lol-lucifer-our-lord.html

Since nobody as agree to switch to glo, let me choose them out of pity.

doubleDx: By Bruno Waterfield, Brussels Last Updated: 2:02AM GMT 27/11/2012

A Belgian is seeking to have his marriage annulled after discovering that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a man.

The man, only named as Jan, married Monica, his family's former au pair in a previous marriage, in 1993 despite legal difficulties raised by the Belgian immigration authorities.

But it was only in recent weeks that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change. "I feel I've been assaulted," he told the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper. "I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway.

I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits." Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth". "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.

For many years the couple lived a normal family life and Monica, 48, was like a "big sister" to his children until their marriage started to come under strain when she got a new full-time job. "Monica began to change very much," he said. "My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely exposed.

" Finally rumours began to surface and after Jan found "amorous messages" from other men on her computer, he confronted her in a violent row that led to the police being called. "A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a sex-changed man.

I could not believe it. My son heard similar rumours," he said. "I pushed her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. That evening came to blows.

The police came." Jan, who is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the discovery, has started legal proceedings to have the marriage annulled but the Belgian courts have so far refused to allow him to turn her out of the familiy home. "That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed.

Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are devastated," said his Liliane Verjauw, his lawyer.

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/belgium/9703166/Belgian-discovers-his-wife-used-to-be-a-man-after-19-years.html

This story can not be true

kay29000: What do girls do when they see a guy they like, but can't walk up to the the guy and tell him how they feel? I'm just thinking. I know this discussion will help a lot of girls that have to live in agony when they like a guy, and can't find a way to let the guy know.

Back in school, i had this female friend in my class and we went to read one night, and my friend (a guy) from another dept came to see me. When i walked the guy to his dept, he told me he really liked my friend, and would like to meet her. And when i went back to class, to my surprise, my female friend confessed to me that she really liked the guy. I swear, it was like a movie.

I didn't tell either of them what the other said, i just matched them together, and let the magic happen. It was a passionate relationship.

Pls, i would like to hear from females- WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU FANCY A GUY AND YOU WANT TO GET HIM?

Some may visit spiritual people like herbalist, false prophet, etc. Another thing they do is to seduce the guy while some will woo the guy with money or food or any other thing that the guy like most.