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Family › Ways Husbands Can Show Love To Pregnant Wives by Timijo(op): 8:26pm On Nov 12, 2012
Ladies, this post is not meant to make you feel badly for all the things your husband isn’t doing.
It’s not meant to make you mad at him for not thinking to ask your doctor what he could do for you. I hope you will share this post with him in an effort to communicate what you might need from him during this time.

Dads-to-be. . .if you’ve not yet taken an active role in serving and caring for your pregnant wife , I hope this post will give you some ideas and encourage you to do so.
There is no way you could understand how taxing it is to grow a life inside your body. It’s wonderful yet exhausting. It’s effortless yet challenging. It’s beautiful yet ugly. Those dichotomies alone are enough to make you mad!

With all of these suggestions, the important thing is to offer to do it before she has to ask.

That is what makes a woman feel the most cared for . I don’t know many men who will refuse when asked to do something but it means so much more when they don’t have to ask and when you serve them with joy.

10 Ways Husbands Can LOVE On Their Pregnant Wives

1. Bring her a snack or drink. Learn her pregnancy eating habits and offer it before she has to ask.

2. Rub her back or feet or legs. Heck, rub anything that makes her feel better! Her body is likely aching a lot!

3. Offer to cook a few meals. This may not be your strength daddy but you can try. Or pick up take out on the way home from work.

4. Send her to take a bath. She may not even want to make the effort but once she is soaking in that warm, bubbly tub, she will feel so much better!

5. Help out more with household chores. . .especially those that require bending over (in the 3rd trimester).

6. Be sensitive about sex and intimacy. Talk openly about it. Let her know your needs but understand her feelings as well.

7. Tell her she’s beautiful. Every. Single. Day.

8. Engage in baby prep and planning. She will be nesting. Big time. Don’t fight it. Surrender to her baby bliss and get involved!

9. If you already have children, help her with bath and bedtime routines (more so than you normally would) as this is when she is likely exhausted.

10. Be a good sport and joyfully take pregnancy photos with your beautiful, pregnant wife . You will cherish them in years to come.
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 6:31pm On Nov 12, 2012
messiah: Abun mamaki yawancin wadanda suke koyar da Hausan ba hausawa bane. Yau ga ikon Allah!
Na san akwai wadanda tsakaninsu da Allah da gaske suke suna son koyar harshen Hausa, amman da yawa akwai marasa kirki wadanda zasu maida wannan zauren tattaunawar wajen kabilanci. Alamar cewa kawunarmu ba a hade suke ba a wannan kasar. Allah kawo mana hadin kai da zaman lafiya a wannan kasar, amin.
Kai ne baushe
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 6:22pm On Nov 12, 2012
emilyone: akuya banza kowo i ! ka chi duri uwanka na? dan iska yaro!
Ba ki da girmama ko? Haka ne ki na yi n magana da iyaye da mujji n ki ko
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 6:10pm On Nov 12, 2012
begwong: wouldnt b suprised if those arent d kinda words u sef learnt wen you start to learn 'any' language!
No. I was born into d language.
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 5:56pm On Nov 12, 2012
emilyone: how can i be ashamed of wanting to know what i dont know, it is you that should be ashamed.dan iska grin
Yau she ne kin fita a cikin asibiti ma su n ciwo n kai? Har yan zu ba ki da lafia.
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 5:49pm On Nov 12, 2012
begwong: toh,menene kuma 'oshi ati isukuso' dan uwwwwaarrkka!?
mind u,dis thread is for those interrested to learn hausa.
go create another for 'oshi ati. . .
And u think u guys are learning hausa by using immoral words.
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 5:47pm On Nov 12, 2012
jhydebaba: Ina so'n sha duri
Ina so'n karuwa falafala

Someone pls translate lipsrsealed
Is this thread made for nonsense like this?
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 5:43pm On Nov 12, 2012
emilyone: pls guys, whats the meaning of
"magani burantashi"
"beerebe"
what sort of question is that? Aren't u ashame.
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 5:40pm On Nov 12, 2012
begwong: idan freecocoa tana cikin matan da za'a chi,ni zan so ta.
hope u dnt nid an interpretation?
This thread is not for oshi ati isokuso. Beware.
Culture › Re: Learn How To Speak Hausa Here by Timijo(m): 5:37pm On Nov 12, 2012
[quote author=netsurf]How do you say
Good Morning
Ina kwana
Good Evening
Ina huni

Good Afternoon
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Breaks Pele’s Goals Record by Timijo(m): 1:15pm On Nov 12, 2012
[size=48pt]There are two best footballer in the world, Lionel Messi and others.[/size]
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Breaks Pele’s Goals Record by Timijo(m): 12:47pm On Nov 12, 2012
nitlad: Oh Critiano Ronaldo is a product of Real's Cantera? La Masia maybe?
What shall it profit a man that engages in e-arguement and loses all his Mb? Or will he be given another Mb by nairaland?
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Breaks Pele’s Goals Record by Timijo(m): 12:46pm On Nov 12, 2012
nitlad: Oh Critiano Ronaldo is a product of Real's Cantera? La Masia maybe?
What shall it profit a man that engages in e-arguement and loses all his Mb? Or will he be given another Mb by nairaland?
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Breaks Pele’s Goals Record by Timijo(m): 12:28pm On Nov 12, 2012
Messi all the way. There are two best players in the world, Lionel Messi and others.

Family › Re: How Does Divorce Affect Children by Timijo(op): 6:50am On Nov 12, 2012
debrief08: I like the last part. Most times its how the parents handle each other in events leading to divorce that causes these factors you mentioned, parents who display anger and violence in the presence of the kids leading to children taking sides, getting involved and even fantasysing on helping one parent fight back.
Its sad when couples get kids involved saying bad things about the other spouse to the kids, that's immature.
Parents should be parents, mature responsible adults, let the kids know you love them and that hasn't changed, say no bad words about the other parent.
Even parents who stay together and keep fighting have kids who display these same behaviors. Parents who stay together with no love and are angry with each other create angry and violent children also children with low self esteem because parents are busy fighting and hating using them as weapons without loving them
That's true. Good contribution.
Family › How Does Divorce Affect Children by Timijo(op): 12:09am On Nov 12, 2012
How does divorce affect children before and after it happens? Well, marriages that end in divorce can leave behind traumatized and depressed children , who are left enduring the unhappiness of a failed marriage, between two'most loved'people. Here is a look into the effects of divorce on children , which can help parents understand and deal with the aftermath better.

Effects of Divorce on Children

1. Stress and Behavioral Problems at Home : Children are usually sensitive and are therefore more susceptible to emotional damage, than the adults are. Since the parents are likely be stressed out by the divorce and no longer showing the child the same affection and tolerance that they had once displayed, children express these difficulties in many ways. With the disruptions to the family routine, combined with a sense of powerlessness.

2. Demonstrating anger, directed both toward others and themselves
Failure to acknowledge responsibility.
A sense of guilt.
Frequent breaking of rules.
Drug and alcohol abuse.
Destructive behavior and problems with defiance
Isolation or withdrawal from friends and family.
Thoughts of suicide or violence.
Increased or early sexual activity

3. A younger child may take to bedwetting and suffer from sleep disruption. They may miss the non custodian parent constantly and be unable to understand the permanency of the situation. Thus you may constantly have a 6 year old asking you'when is mom/dad coming back?'. The adolescents may display violent behavior, coupled with sharp bouts of depression. Sometimes an older child may have to take responsibility for a younger sibling and this can result in feelings of resentment for their siblings.

4. Problems Faced at School : Divorce can result in not only distancing the child from the parents, but also from friends and peers at school. Most of the time, the school grades suffer due to the inability of the child in concentrating on his studies at home . Parents are usually too busy to help with the homework. Studies have shown that children from a broken home , are more likely to drop out before graduating high school and are also less likely to attend college. In addition they may have problems dealing with peers and may take to breaking the rules at school.

5. It has been observed that young adults whose parents get separated while they were young, suffered from low self confidence and face relationship issues themselves. However things are not doomed for the children whose parents have divorced. If you understand as to how does divorce affects children , you can handle the situation just right and help the children cope with the situation. Reassuring the children of your love and explaining the situation, goes a long way in helping the child understand, that divorce is due to difficulties between parents, and children have nothing to contribute to that and that it's not their fault. It is important to understand that the child will miss the parents, so avoid saying negative things about one another, as it may hurt the child. In addition, there are divorce counseling services designed specifically for children , that you may like to consider. Remember that it is critical for the well-being of the children , that both the parents to continue to play important roles in their lives and therefore the parents should work together as much as possible, to limit the amount of damage that divorce can have on them.
Health › Re: Brush After Breakfast, Not Before — Expert by Timijo(m): 4:12pm On Nov 11, 2012
Kslib: Yes,that's what i do.. Brush after meal,and brush to bed.. When you even wake-up in the morning,your breath will still be fresh.. But make sure you dont brush after drinking garr! Cos the toothpaste will react with what we call garrisuphilisun ijebuguma found in garr! and render the active ingredient useless.. So just rinse ya mouth with water after smoking garr!..
Remember,one cup of garr! A day keeps evil spirit/badluck away...
Christianity Etc › Re: Your Favourite Preacher And Why by Timijo(m): 1:26pm On Nov 11, 2012
Kingslaw: pastor E.A Adeboye.of RCCG HE SPEAKS THE DILUTED WORDS OF GOD.
It is undiluted, and nt diluted.
Christianity Etc › Re: Your Favourite Preacher And Why by Timijo(m):
ebamma: Mine is Reverend Ebamma of Garri City Church,
So u don start ur garri church. Ur church wil b fill with kwashiokor brethren. Pls upload d pix of any GCC member for us to c.
Family › Re: Ten Things a Husband Should Not Do To His Wife by Timijo(op): 8:12pm On Nov 10, 2012
[quote author=uj_sizzle]I think your topic should read, ' ten things a husband should not do to his wife'[/quote]Thanks for the correction, I like your type.
Romance › 5 Reasons Why Most Single Guys Don't Want To Get Married by Timijo(op): 9:34am On Nov 10, 2012
Most single guys are reluctant to settle down due to alot of reasons. some of which Ishall break down..
1. Freedom: Most guys feel that once they get married, they wont have the freedom to mingle with other girls. since their wives will always be monitoring them or be with them most of the time. and any attempt theymake to flirt or have a harmless chat with a girl will always be frown at or misinterpreted by their spouse.
2. Makes Life Boring: To some, life could become boring once they get married. since they are bound to change their lifestyle because of their wife or new status. whether they like it or not, their lifestyle would change. it could be due to economic reasons (since he's now a family man) or his wife is notthe going out type. the man would be turned into an indoor man outrightly. cos any move he makes to go out alone on weekends, could be seen by his wife as an opportunity to cheat on her. and as a result his social life becomes zero.
3. More Responsibilities: As a single man, he can afford to live on his small salary or manage his finances well. but with the coming of a wife and the kids later, this is bound to make him think twice before venturing into marriage. he knows his pay check is nothing to write home about, he's not from a rich family that could support him, or has any other business venture to use in sustaining his family, he might be discourage fromgetting married until he's comfortable enough.
4. Fear: Some guys are simply afraid to take the plunge. they feel they are not ready yet or equipped to be a married man/father.they're not ready to have kids or have some kind of responsibilities thrown atthem by a woman/kids. they dont wantto change or have someone come into their lifeand makethem adjust their life for her sake.they want to hang out with friends at the bar, watch soccer matches with their pals, leave their clothesanywhere they like, come home anytime they like, date as many girls as they want. they want to be flexible. they feel marriage makes a man rigid and less exciting. though some may claim marriage makes a manresponsible. but there're guys who feel marriage takes the excitement out of life. being single to them is more exciting than being married. and as a result, theyprefer to linger in it for as long as they want.
5. Greed : surprisingly we also have guys whoare reluctant to settle down as a result of greed. they feel the woman is only coming to eattheir money and food. they see women generally as a burden. and are not ready to take such burden. this category of guys are those ones that are stingy to their girlfriends. they hid their money from their girlfriends or pretend as if they dont have. they only give a girl money whenever they want to sleep with her. these onespatronize LovePeddlers alot. they enjoy being single and living alone. They simply dont want to share their comfort/money with any woman.
These are some of the reasons I know of. But if you know of any other one, feel free to add it to the ones I'vementioned.
Family › Re: Are You Happy With Your Name? by Timijo(m): 7:26pm On Nov 09, 2012
Siena: Pastor! never missing, lolz. Always floating around, you know how it is. cool
Why calleth me a pastor? I am not a pastor but a Christian. Anyway, u are welcome. Hw is ya family and parole?
Family › Re: 10 Reasons Not To Get A Divorce - Read & Have A Rethink by Timijo(op): 7:17pm On Nov 09, 2012
Melie 200: This is stupidity of the highest order
If ur partner is abusing u then u need to divorce that person bcz what are u teaching ur children that when somebody abuses them then they should take no action plus the children would have issues (psychological)
Who is this again? crying out aloud.
Family › Re: Are You Happy With Your Name? by Timijo(m): 6:45pm On Nov 09, 2012
Can you pronunce this name with 26 letters? If you think u can, oya:
Chikamanigarinashanajidadi
Family › Re: Are You Happy With Your Name? by Timijo(m): 5:26pm On Nov 09, 2012
Siena: Omo Urhobo? wink
Family › Re: Are You Happy With Your Name? by Timijo(m): 5:20pm On Nov 09, 2012
Siena: Omo Urhobo? wink
My missing friend, hw u dey.
Family › Re: Are You Happy With Your Name? by Timijo(m): 5:16pm On Nov 09, 2012
My name is the longest. Oya pronunce it : Chikamanigarinashanajidadi
Family › Re: Conditions For Divorce In Christianity, and [Some Legal] Grounds for Annulment by Timijo(m): 3:55pm On Nov 08, 2012
If you allow God to choose your spouse for you, you will not have a troublesome spouse that will make you to think of divorce. But, if you go in the way of the world to choose your suitor, you may make a mistake that will later make you to see divorce as the best option.
ADVICE
1. If your spouse is giving you headache, pray unto God for intervention. Let him lead and guide you. He can restore your spouse. Don't go by the idea of the world, but go by what He has put in the bible and by the Holy Spirit.

2. If you are still single i.e. not married, pray and seek the guidiance of God for whom to marry. Don't choose by sight i.e. beauty, handsomeness, money, age, qualification, etc. If you allow God to choose for you, you will never regret marrying whom ever He gives to you.

3. If your marriage as hit the rock, you can still make it to work again. What you need to do is to pray unto God to amend the broken home and meet the right people for counseling.
Health › Re: How Can One Determine The Sex Of Their Unborn Baby? by Timijo(m): 1:27pm On Nov 07, 2012
salt 1: @Obi 123, very informative.
A lot of other posters are simply confused.
I have 2 girls and 2 boys and I did sex selection. I have also taught many people and they achieved their dream. It is good to have an open mind and to appreciate whatever God gives you because this is not 100% certain but application of Science.
1. Chromosomes: xx chromosome is for girls and xy is for boys. As Obi said, the xy cells run faster but also die quicker than the xx chromosomes. The male sperm cell can also last for 5 days in a conducive environment.
2. Ovulation in the female comes up somewhere in the middle of her menstrual cycle (if you and your wife are highly motivated, she can use a thermometer and take anal readings to determine her ovulation. It is often marked by a slight raise in the woman's temperature). I learnt that the egg survives for just 24 hours within which it must be fertilised or it dies. Also note that ovulation rarely occurs earlier but it can occur later than the anticipated date. The woman's reproductive system is so tied up with her emotions that if she gets upset, it may delay her ovulation. Have you heard of women who stopped menstruating after a bereavement?
3. Getting a boy: to try for a boy, it is advisable to make love AFTER ovulation has occurred. This will give the male sperm cells the opportunity of rushing to fertilise the egg first. A day or two AFTER ovulation is ok since, as I said, ovulation can occur later, rarely earlier.
4. Getting a girl: you can make love 4 days BEFORE ovulation and abstain or use a preventive method for the rest of the woman's cycle. Four days earlier will ensure that all the xy cells have died leaving the female xx to move up to the egg and fertilise it.

I wish you goodluck, but please accept with utmost gratitude what God gives you and love them all
You have said it all. Xactly what I know.
Romance › Re: The First Thing You Look At Before Marriage? by Timijo(m): 2:26pm On Nov 06, 2012
Character compatibility
Family › Re: Ten Things a Husband Should Not Do To His Wife by Timijo(op): 11:27pm On Nov 05, 2012
eddy1977: Very good.
cool
Ok
Family › Ten Things a Husband Should Not Do To His Wife by Timijo(op):
#1 - A husband should not be harsh to his wife (I Peter 3:7)...and if she says you are harsh…then you are! Don't shout at her, she is not your slave, but your wife.

#2 - A husband should not show up at home after coming home from work, sit in a chair, watch the same episode of Sports Center three times in a row and “zone out” in regards to his wife and children and then expect to be respected as “the spiritual leader” by his family.

#3 - A husband should not raise his hand to beat his wife for any reason. Remember, a responsible husband settle querrels amicably between him and his wife.

#4 - A husband should not devote more time to a hobby (golf, football, tv game, internet browsing etc.) than he does to his own wife and then expect her to always be “in the mood” when he has held a football club way more than he has held her!

#5 - A husband should not desire to be right more than he actually desires to settle the conflict that is being dealt with…the result if he does will always be fighting IN instead of fighting FOR the marriage.

#6 - A husband should not “innocently flirt” with other women either in person or online and not expect it to bring about significant damage in regards to his marriage (Proverbs 6:27!)

#7 - A husband should not pursue porn and pursue his wife…she will always lose because porn is easy, it requires no commitment!

#8 - A husband should not allow his pride to get in the way by refusing to ask for help when it comes to issues in the marriage (James 5:16)!
#9. A husband should not be stingy to his wife. He should share money and other things with her. Remember that she is your Pearl.
#10. A husband should not embarrass his wife in the public, not even before the kids Any misunderstanding should be settled in the bed room
BONUS:  A wife should use any of the points to beat her husband up!!!

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