djfabmusik:

I wan come pay for your head, i don't need any prophet to let me know you are wife material �

larryking540:


so pussy can cloud sense?

Hahahaha, yes o..

Didi2d:


God bless you Tina

Amen bless u too

Excuses:



You are a bad ass girl on your own..nice word up!

Lol, thanks

coolebux:

Are you the girlfriend?

Yes

atiku4President:

You are not different from the lady in question. So you do not see anything good in the man discovering he was never in love? You just pretended by your 'don't get me wrong o' There is no gain saying the fact that you share the same value with the lady's mundanity.

K.

I cried reading this. So touching. May her soul rest in peace

GreaterFuture1:

I was referencing your message, no vex

No wahala, I nor vex

GreaterFuture1:

Op if the Good is already here, pls Do Good for me and send me 5k. Oshe ọmọ ìyá mí

Why u kan dey quote me? I be OP?

Vyzz:



On behalf of we Nairalanders...


I, the self acclaimed nairaland chairman...


Thank you miss, Tina001

. May ur data never finish

You are welcome

BIGFRANKY:
La click La mad

Back to sender

Rabbi4real:
Hello ma,

I need your advice. Hide my identity. I have been in a loving relationship with a divorcee. Our relationship is over 2 years now. My fiance is sweet and takes care of me, but since he told me he is interested in me,its been over 9 months but nothing has been done.

As expected, I have become worried that he does not seem to be saying anything about our marriage. So, I had to ask him where our relationship was heading to. That was about like 6 months ago. He told me not to worry,that marriage is before the end of this year.

At least,we will do introduction he said.Now,its August and he still is keeping mute. So,I asked again,when is our introduction: is it September or October or November or December? He then got a little upset and said,have I not told you before the end of the year?

I was like,even if its before the end of the year,shouldnt we talk about it and prepare for it? He then said.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/14/after-two-years-of-living-togethermy-fiance-will-only-marry-me-on-one-condition/

He then said the way am going about this marriage thing,he does not like it. That he has been married before,he does not want to be rushed into marriage and make the same mistake.

Ok,so he was married to someone for six years and he said to me that the ex wife was always having miscarriages and was suspecting everyone in his family of being against her which was not true. That the lady eventually ran off with her ex lover.

So saying he would make the same mistake is baffling for me. If anything,I have shown commitment to him and his family loves me. I believe two years is enough to date someone before marriage. If he is not making up his mind,I will leave. He cannot use the fear of his last marriage to tie me down.

Yesterday, I was so down and depressed because of this. He kept asking me what was the matter. I said nothing. In the night,he tried to touch me and I pushed him away. That got him angry. He said some things …maybe in anger but they really hurt me.

He said that why am I desperate to get married to him when I have not even gotten pregnant for him after two years of dating?. I was like what? He said yes…that he has been waiting for me to get pregnant…that we have been sexually active for two years and I have never missed my period once.

So, apparently, he wants me to get pregnant before marrying me. I told him I have been on contraceptives and I will not get pregnant until after marriage. He said he wants proof that I will give him a child before he will marry me. That his ex wife was always having miscarriage and deprived him of having children for six years of marriage.

Ma,this revelation through me off balance. So,all these while,he has been waiting for me to be pregnant? Well, I told him no…no pregnancy until marriage. He then said…then there is no need to us to be together. I was shocked…I asked him what he meant by that,…and he said it again.
That was last night. Since then,we have not been speaking with each other. He left early this morning and I am just so hurt that I feel like packing my bags and leaving this house and relationship right away.

I called my friend and told her. She was like,if that is what it would take to get married,then I should get pregnant. Afterall,he is showing he loves me and he takes really good care of me. That we have been living together ..almost like husband and wife…so why wait to get pregnant.

My friend even warned me not to allow another woman get pregnant for him before me …otherwise,he might marry that person cos he is obviously desperate for a child.

Its just against my personal principle. But if he says its over between us, should I change my mind and get pregnant? I love my fiance so much. I do not want to loose him…I just do not like this condition he is giving me.

How do I convince him to wait till we get married? Or do you think I should get pregnant like he said? I need your advise.

So where is the good? Have you started? Are you making money now? Have you seen a better girl??...

Don't get me wrong o, I am not against your decision, Glad you want to hustle legit. But I am just trying to look for the "good" in your topic . Maybe you should update us .

As for your girl, she is not serious, if she can dump you because you want to be a driver then please let her go. She thinks it's easy to see a white collar job? This is Nigeria, go to school, graduate and hustle like a dropout. What if you secure the white collar job tommorow and get sacked again, will she feed you till you get another? Will you keep depending on white collar jobs? I am glad you didn't allow her pussy cloud your sense . You are not a SIMP

ALEX182:


I think I will. I even asked him if it was Ebola but he said it wasn't and mentioned West Nile virus. Me I don't know if West Nile virus occured in Nigeria earlier this year so I just kept mute and decided to find out.

The guy is so much in love and part of me feels that this will break his heart and lead him to do something drastic. It's so troubling to me and a part of me just wants to waka far and act like it's not my business but another part is burning with anger at the scammers

Tell him. It will clear your conscience, he is even borrowing money up and down. Gosh! I feel for him already. Please tell him even if he doesn't believe like he is so blinded by love, at least when it happens, he will know he was warned...All these scammers will not know rest sha, scamming someone anyhow without conscience and now he is broke, let him not use his next money to fund another scam story.. Please and please let him know

IntersexSherry:
I really love him a lot, still can't get my head off him, i knew he was poor from the onset but still accepted him, i gave him money to support him, gave him foodstuffs but it seems all my efforts were in vain because he kept on doing his yahoo business and i just can't be with someone that scams people of their hard earned money. I told him to stop and he said he doesn't give a Bleep so i cut off the relationship and he blocked me immediately. I have been waiting for him to even call to give an apology or unblock me but he never did. I miss him so much, even sent him text messages begging him to come back but he never replied back. I really love him a lot and want him back
Update: This is someone i can die for. Now i understand the reason why some people still date criminals. If you ever witnessed true love, you will understand how i feel and how hard it is for i to let go. I loooooove him pass my life. I can't even think of any guy except him. Apart from doing yahoo, he is really a sweet guy and cute AF.

Please let him go... I had almost same issue with my EX. I dated him for 5years, love him like no other, but the moment I started noticing he wants to join yahoo, i advised him countless times not to do it but it seems his mind was made up so I had to withdraw myself because honestly, I cannot and will never date a yahoo boy no matter how rich. Some girls will not mind dating a criminal because of money, that makes them criminals too.. You should be proud of yourself dear, forget about loving him, if he feels the same, he will listen to your advise and go hustle legit

Wow

Yamleg:

Just 2k

post=92685207:

She used the money to buy suya....for real?!

Nairaland no go killi person o!!

I swear that part got me laughing hard

Darius990BC:

Stupid question. How many times God don forgive u? D guy sef get time to apologize for weeks something that they are so many fishes why should I stick to an unforgiving personnel.
.op u sef learn how to control ur sef wen angered b4 u go chop beating wey u no suppose chop one day. Ode

K

Dicktion:
Told her she's not my class, that she a low quality bitch and compared her to some other girl

Nawa o, you sef, if na u, u go forgive?

Ok

Okay

Just two weeks in marriage and this one has turned himself to a Marriage Counselor. Mtcheew

I don't like going out or hanging out @all, never been to club, I have attended party twice in my life. My toasters/admirers will always disturb me with "lets hang out na" but no, i prefer being indoors, Calls? Well, you can call me but be brief because I get tired of it easily. But I can chat well, I prefer chatting to calling, prefer expressing my emotions via text/chat. All in all, I don't talk too much but I wish I can crawl out of this shell

Xenowerk4000:

Really ?

Yes

gowonmaharajah:

want to try it out?

Lol, no

Looks nice

Wow! Well the guy should be thankful not begging. Dump the bitch and go look for someone who will appreciate you

Op try and read and understand