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[quote author=gbosaa post=72498489]How does the above relate to the topic? Is it wrong to discourage people from cultists? [/quote
For you not to be able to relate what i stated and going by your comment is enough for me not to engage in any meaningful conversation with you sir...great day

Why are this people liars? I don't blame them sha Enugu people are dormant and once small money, food and drinks is involved they turn blind eye to the truth!!! I just passed a school in independence layout where it was written on the school wall "CULTISTS ARE HIV POSITIVES RUN AWAY FROM THEM". It was then i knew it is finished�

Is it not this same stupid government who wants to take away the right of civil servants to unionism by stating they shall effect the policy of NO WORK NO PAY? I am getting my PVC ready for 2019. #enoughisenough

Sonia ndo ooo. At least you tried your best. Please do what makes you happy jor and I wish you and your son the best life has to offer!!!

airprinz:
this one has already made up her mind.
this is exactly what she will do when her man misbehave

I am happy you noted it!!! So is millions of women out there

Lonely...he is so lonely....My guy is bored, better spice up your marriage now. We don't want to hear all those monies spent both home and abroad go to waste ooo

slydog:
I don't know if its the church or society that is failing us with the incidence of baby mama and rise in divorce rates
These are features of a more developed country like in the Western world. We however seem to be copying the negative aspect of their society.

As long as u get married with the idea and mindset of having a "plan B, or option B, or I can get out whenever I want or if he cheats, I'm out, or if I'm tired, I'm out", trust me, your marriage will never work!

Do churches and parents still do marriage counselling these days?

Really? You used the word "he". Leave church alone and focus on the obvious...gone are the days when women are emotional slaves to men. You don't get to see cheating for men as a norm for generations past and not expect a revolution in the nearest future. Women refuse to be unhappy in marriages again, once unhappy they bounce. So focus on men's lapses and how to make it stop.In essence, stop blaming women for finding happiness rather than constant disrespect, tears, heart break and anguish all in the name of Marriage!!!

Whatever makes her happy jor. Marriage is not by force, once you are not happy in it as a woman please fly away. Gone were the days of once married you die there no matter what!!!

meobizy:
The problem I see in these scenarios is lack of a maintenance culture. It is an African problem. I am beginning to believe it is one thing the white man possessed but Africans refused to imbibe.

If there were people to act on hand as security personnel then all these would not happen. I am happy to see the facilities could exist in the first place which means our problems stem from people non-willing to put in action most of the time.

How can we imbibe something that is not dictated by one stupid tradition? We are so backward as Africans cos we refuse to be liberalists. Everything about us is conservative and this has affected everything I mean talk of every strata in this country. Everything in Nigeria has a particular way they do it, and you dare not explore a new way to make same thing more efficient, they either tag you as being possessed, I too know or disobeying the gods. Just name one thing in this country that does not follow existing precedence!!!!!

Famzer:
In life it's what you focus on that expands,there is nothing strange about having deviants in a society. If you study sociology you would have been taught.Some months back,British teenagers were sneaking out of UK to join ISIS and the whole world was shocked with repeated school and public shooting massacre in the US.
In that same Jos,an imam provided safe haven for Christians during religious skirmishes. The same Nigeria defeated recession while countries filled with angels like Greece and Venezuela couldn't. This is the Nigeria that's the biggest economy in Africa and trudging on despite our flaws. While lamenting and displaying subtle subterfuge,why don't you pick one area of our national problems as a university graduate and dedicate your best towards solving that problem. You will then have a basis to mobilize others. True leaders don't lament,they face challenges head long and never stop until they overcome the problem.

Famzer o...are you a Nigerian who resides in the country? Op just wrote something innovative and cogent which is the bane of all ruckus in this country and all you could reply is whatever you spewed up there? One of Nigeria's problem spotted already...Oga wey study sociology!!!!

See this mumu man ooo. From the interview sef, he sounds irresponsible,arrogant, selfish and greedy. We are waiting for the report of the 3rd greedy wife sir

Hmmmnnn...how I wish the old generation parents that destroyed our men could read this. At least women of today 85% now understand why men should be further schooled/ tutored like the girl child....Congrafs to the upcoming married women in a decade time....they are just too lucky

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

Choi...girls don deal with this guy too ooo....their by resorting to self loathing. Pele, enjoy what suits you!! Please don't marry ok

Awwww...few of the good guys who will turn bad cos a woman played ludo with his emotions. Please leave her ok, you are obviously new in the system and 30years at that. Choi...you shall soon find one who will value you as much as you value her ok. By the time she realises what she lost....you are already gone and happily enjoying your relationship by then...pele ok

Finally...this is Explorer!!! Tell your wife she's lucky to have you ooo...so both of you should take care each other well. Smart men trips me jor

Elliot2:
guys need to understand that a lot of these hoes just want two things: get married in order to avoid d society judgements, and then have one or two children from us. after achieving these two things, bitches will never be loyal.

Thank God you now know...its no longer about you guys anymore. We are better off without your ego, abuse and control...asides that ehhhh. Who una help sef?....yes we bitches/hoes/feminists (call us whatever you like) are not loyal cos y'all not loyal since time immemorial. You can no longer eat your cake and have it!!!

ulster:
Every morning that I wake up from sleep, the first thing I do is say my prayer
The next thing i do is to check my PVC
Voting out BuBu is a task for all Nigerians who are eligible voters!

Please have thty started the collection of the permanent one?

That crazy and restless animal....maybe this one is old cos it hardly stay in one place. Enjoy your dividend sir

Franzinni:
Absolutely photoshoped you mean...

An average woman is fake most of the time

Fake lashes
Fake face painting
Fake boob erection
Fake complexion
Fake flat tummy
Fake yansh
Fake hairless legs
Fake weave
Fake make up

And you wonder why there is so much divorce?

Men are simple minded creatures we like yes or no answers. But we get to see see the fine you then the pimple faced you then the light you then the dark you gosh... Make up your mind woman!

I feel women have been programmed to live a lie just to fit in and real strong women don't conform to that...

and real men respect women who are absolutely comfortable in their skin.... Something the media will never tell women... Why?

An insecure woman is always easy to break and a broken woman is always easy to control...

I love women I mean... I am surrounded by women... Haha

A wife and two daughters, so don't for a split second think I am bashing women.

One love.... Nigeria will be great Amen!

This is super story.....

It seems this woman is under a curse!!! Kilode?

My happiness is that our female generation is already correcting the mistakes of the old generation mothers so the females to get married in the next decade are really lucky...so I say congrats to ya in advance. To Tools....i hope it's nothing personal but if it is please seek your own happiness first ok...i wish you well

Sorry ooo...from the kiss the bride pic up there? Abeg that girl n boy have done chumchin ...well HML to them

orisa37:
Visit OBJ very good.
But God will Himself choose "A LAMB FOR THE NIGERIAN LEADERSHIP" SOON.

Wetin concern God for this matter now?

Sirpaul:
All is know is that we only have two parties in Nigeria APC & PDP all the rest are end of the year party

What you wrote up there is why Nigeria is still backwards. Please cultivate the habit of thinking broad!!!

sandiyke:
Thank God for healing him. Such moments are a parents worst nightmare.

For real ooo....being a parent is not easy

Rubbiish:
na wa for u oh

Yes na wa for me!!! Any other thing?

BluntBoy:
And you think big men will buy you cars because of pussy?

Oloshos pass oloshos. Can you eat poo? Can you lick open sores? Can you do anal sex? Can you satisfy different sexual fantasies? These men will not pay huge money for regular sex. They can get that from their numerous girlfriends for as low as 5k. But for a man to buy you a house, you must be ready to give him what he dares not ask his wife. Or better still, your charm must be strong.

Yehnn yehnnn yehnnn rant of a broke ass nigga....go out there and know what's up and besides you know nothing about me....sorry you are not a female...so swerve and stop talking what you don't know...well what you put up their is for your class sha ...Lol 5k!!!....piss out!!!

Story story...its her luck. As long as PUSSY remains the weakness of men and they shall give all their hard earned money to get it; so shall I be grateful I am a woman. So if you are a woman stop donating free to broke ass cos that thing between your legs can take you to a place beyond your dreams both negatively and positively! USE IT WISELY!!

toyetade:
My opinion is borne out of my experience of women who have left their husband and now troubling me for relationship. There are too many women out there pestering men who have their own wife. Also for many women life can be miserable after parking out of their marriage. A lot of women cannot bring up good children on their own. Lone parent is not an easy option. It is better to forgive a cheating husband if he is forgivable and restore the home.

Thanks for using the word "if" ...that aside why are women with crashed marriages seeking You? Not single responsible ones ooo...bro you need an intervention Abeg or you change your company of friends...

Dakota is obviously lonely n broke hence the blah blah blah blah....sha don't come back screaming like a raving loon ooo...cos cheats don't change

toyetade:
A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

So a woman should forgive her cheating husband for her own sake? How cynical can you be, can you imagine the justification you wrote? It's your type that goes around stating women needs to be financially independent to bring something to the table in marriage, n when the marriage crashes; she decides to live her life with her kids with the resources she has and bleeps whoever she wants when Hot, you tag her irresponsible for not being with the cheating,lying bastard of a husband....life is no longer about you men you know...a woman can live independent of the so called husband and still be happy, some can't but lots are strong enough to do that than live with one over grown baby who constantly bring you pain and disrespect. He can see his kids anytime he wants but the woman can be happy without him ok...so bros grow up from this your cynical posit!