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Never lose hope henryhemon, they are out there!

U know ure special and different.,
I dont Joke with your heart @ all,
dont listen 2 brownteeth, he's just plain jealous
I remain the rite man for u
[quote][/quote]Sweet words, thanks. But i dont think you could handle me, hehe!! I may be to much for you!

MRbrownJAY:
most of the female bashers are underage insecure kids who come to NL thinking that its a dating site and thus turn on women when they A) dont get any date from NL or B) get insulted by the feisty women on NL or C) read threads such as 9JA MEN AINT SHIIT or 9JA MEN ARE STINGY. lol

as for the reason for cheating, to a certain degree i understand what you mean but some of these Neanderthal woman who marry freaky men but yet are not ready to do all the freakish stuff that their men require have only themselves to blame, when that said man goes to get his freak on with some hood rat who will gladly take it up the a$$, the ears, the nose and any orifice required.

you gotta know what kind of freak you got before you can dream of taming it!

yes some men are insecure like that so they expect their women to be dependent on THEM. . . . . subsequently that man will be the "head" of that union and lead which is what most insecure men desire.
here is a clue that i am trying to make you understand: as much as a man WANT TO CHEAT, we can dwell on the reasons for years, if there was no women willing to go down that route then cheating wouldnt exist and that man would simply turn back to his "old" partner and turn her into a new experience.

also, i am not going to say that its the woman's fault but these people are seriously lacking in their union and probably SHOULDNT have gotten married. . . . . . . . . but hey, some are so desperate that they would even marry a donkey if they can get that sought after title: WIFE.

as for independent women, what man in his right mind would turn down a gal that can pay her own share of the meal, holidays etc, lol!

You make a good point. I understand and agree with what your saying.

Come on Mr Brownteeth, I am LIVE not dead and i am awesome!! hehehe!!!

190, ok, ok, Your hitting up all the females today, hehe!! You need to be nice and play with the others, lol!!!!!

Brownteeth:
Its wonderful to see that Tink and inked have already giving up the search. Their tone have changed.

Huh?? Im sure i didnt say that, hehe!! But your right in a sense cos im not searching. If he excists and crosses my path, well and good!

190:
all these and more u would find in me~

Yeah right!! (insert sarcasm here!) 

Umm, i did answer your question, maybe you didnt see it! Have your feelings been hurt??

Good for you!! Stay strong!

I would settle for a honest, loyal, faithful, good man any day over a rich man! Money cant by that stuff!!

'Matured' means, grown up, responsible, capable, etc!! Are you those things? , hummm!!!

Hi MRbrownJAY, was just nice to see some man bashing due to the overwhelming women bashing lately, hehe!! But thanks for the approval to go ahead with it, hehehe!!

But i strongly believe its the individual and not the relationship or partners fault. Those that cheat make a choice to do it. No one has forced them or caused it. No matter how bad things are or reasons to do it, no one has to allow themselves into that pit. Its a personal choice and guys and girls need to take responsibility for their choices. I know guys and girls that have cheated with no reason but that they could and got their ego stroked. Their partners gave them more than they could want. Them they wonder why the begging and tears doesnt stop their partners from walking away. Some cheats have never got over the one they lost, all their own fault. Just my opinion of course, lol!!!

Come on guys, have a heart for these guys.

I know how i would react as i have before, walk away from temptation. All it takes is strength of character. I deserve better for myself than to lower myself to a cheaters level! No matter how bad the bf or husband is. I would prefer to break the relationship than lower myself.

Woman cheat cos if your not taking care of your woman someone else will!!!
But some woman, like men, will cheat no matter how good their partner is. Cheaters are weak, sad, pathetic individuals!!!

Never pardoned. Been cheated on twice, once as a teenager, once as an adult and walked away, never to be seen by them again. No going back for me.

Now i just think, cool you cheat then i get a freebie pass with whoever i choose, lol!!!  But really, i move on. Its a number one deal breaker for me.

rokiatu:
Really?

Yep, really! Not common here and i like it that way. Men are supposed to have hair, otherwise he is like a ten yr old boy, yuck!!! hehehe!!! But each to their own.

rokiatu:
@poster, which part of the world did you see girls with Armpit hair? Lord have Mercy that is so nasty ewwwwwwww
those girls are just lazy if you ask me, or maybe they can't afford waxing/shaving products.

The girls arent lazy or too poor, some just prefer it natural. I saw a woman at the beach last weekend with armpit hair. Nearly grossed me out but she was obviously free and happy with it so good for her. Who am i to judge just cos i prefer to be smooth.

Never heard of a guy shaving his armpits!!!

MRbrownJAY:
ladies ladies ladies
cheating men in 9ja is as RAMPANT as ladies in happy relationships but with multiple sugar daddies. who are we kidding here?!

Oh come on, let them vent. They are only speaking the truth. Plenty of women bashing here, time for some men bashing, hehehe!!! Honestly the first time i heard anyone say 'they can sleep around on a gf cos they arent married' was on here. I have never heard a guy say that down here. Never heard it, not once til NL. So NL has taught me something, lol!!!!! Its an unspoken rule here that if you are in any relationship, sleeping with someone else is not acceptable. Doesnt mean it doesnt happen of course but whoever cheats knows what the deal is when the other finds out.

I hope you guys work it out and you are both ok. Not sure why so many seemed obsessed with your relationship, but whatever. Best to both of you!

Love Inked Nerd and Ladyjide comments!!! I 100% agree!!!!!

Ewwwww!!! Airmpit hair on a woman, gross!!! Men are supposed to have hair. If her guy likes it then all good but i still think its gross!

190:
How are u its been a while~

I am wonderful, hehe!!! You?? I dont want trouble for derailing a thread, heheh!!!

Orikinla:
TWO THINGS CAUSE INFIDELITY IN RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE.
IMMATURITY AND INSECURITY.

A mature and secure person will not be unfaithful.

Most unfaithful people have been found to be either immature or insecure.

FINIS.

Brilliant!! You hit the nail exactly on the head!!!!

Bestjon50:
hehe, i actually got more than that on the ad. i just wanted to let her kn d level n d brand equities that i'm associated with. btw, u r nt in london, so y d crucifixion? pls dont benchmark my personality. i rock!!!

No crucifixtion, i just found it amusing. You didnt say 'dont comment if your not in England' in your post! All good. Good luck in your search.

190:
^^

Exactly he should dump her cos he would never see her pants!!

Funny guy!!! Cool, just wanted to clarify

190:
4get her,

shes wastin your tyme and resources,

u wud never see her pant!

So he should dump her cos 'he will never see her pants', as you say??

Anyway poster, life is too short to be wasting on someone who is messing about with you. If she isnt in to you then find a awesome girl who is. You deserve to be happy not chasing some chick around for nothing.