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Good luck with that poster, what you need is a slave or a personal assistant with benefits! Dont think any lady would sign up for all you want, what does she get inreturn??

Poster, you can do anymore for him. You cant change him. You need to accept him the way he is or move on. Why are you checking out schools?? If its his dream then he should be doing it. Sounds like you do all for him and he is just sitting back enjoying your fruits. Are you looking for someone to mother or look after? If so stay but you really need to run girl. Save yourself cos he is never going to get any better and you should not be looking to change him. Thats not fair. He has to want it. Good luck. I hope you get a revalation soon.

ZIM DRILL:
we are not weak dear thats how nature is supposed to be whether am there or not you would still feel the pain

like i said you con man emotionaly thats why you use such statement

with reasoning it is more like saying a since a woman is married to a soldier she should go to war with him

'con men emotionally'?? What a cop out! If you dont want to do it then dont do it but dont use the same old excuse that a woman conned you. Please, you are smarter than that!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=528891.msg6912773#msg6912773 date=1286713287]Hey Tink_sh, wanna hear something funny? My grandmother delivered my aunt by herself. No doctor, no husband--All on her own.


Yikes!! But yeah, it has happened here too. Some women choose it that way, some babies just come in a hurry too. Your grandmother is one strong lady!!!

ZIM DRILL:
am not against it but i think man are being conned emotionaly to be there in the devilery room

you might think it will make people bond but it up to an individual to bond whether through a rough time or not

Fair enough but i do think men are a little weak to let the woman go through it without her husband support, just my opinion but.[/quote]

ZIM DRILL:
you want them to be in the delivery room by her side watching the baby coming out

well he was there to put it in so why not coming out! Its normal here. The guy is always with the woman, by her side, helping here through. I think its important, helps them to bond together from the start.

I think i am late but, Happy Birthday!. Better late than never i guess, Hope you had a great day

ossai sly:
thanks for reasoning with me.Eyah. Tink_sh is already calling me names cos of my opinion. Although some women couldnt marry coz of hard luck.But some females detest sex which to me i feel its absurd.

I apoligise for any misunderstanding, i wasnt calling you names. I was raised in a different culture and it blows my mind that some think she is done and dusted at 35, thats all, my opinion.

ossai sly:
35yrs without husband? I think the number of unmarried women is growing like a tree all over the world. Anyway,your good and sound qualities could search for you a man but anyone that comes,forget his qualities and marry. Its better to marry than remaining single.

Please tell me you are joking?? 'better to marry than single' Yikes. These stories of women too old after thirty just cracks me up. Poster should come live here. She will be worshipped and sought after.

aboiola, a bit harsh. I dont even know you and your calling me tink_shi.t?? What?? Nevermind, all good. Your entitled to your opinion even if its wrong, hehehehe!!!

krandelly, if he loves you he would love everything about you and not try to change. If he wants a skinny girl let him go find a skinny girl and you find one of those guys that worship big girls, curvy girls, etc. Dont change yourself for a guy. You where this way when you met so i dont get his problem. First its your shape then he will expect you to change other things, be careful.

Congratulations sugar pp. You sound happy with your choice. Good for you. I hope everything works out perfectly for you next time.

Humm, good question Inked. Would like to know too before commenting. If you did something you need to let her cool off and why wouldnt you take her back if it was your fault. But what did you do? More info please?

190, ive been crossed off your list, nice one!! When did the divorce go through?? hehe!!

My fav's are Inked nerd, Queeneve, ladies with a passion, oh there is another one but i have lost it, ill be back when i remember, hehe!

Reality and Tosinville cos they always have something to say and tell it like it is.

190, thats rubbish that itys society. Its each individuals choice. Guys just say thatt cos it gives them the ok to do it. And not all societies. People cheat everywhere i know but its not accepted here. If a guy/girl cheats they are like lepers, for a while anyway.

Good question Inked, finally something to comment on thats real. Yes it does affect the way i see men. I dont trust any of them. I do believe that a lot of guys here are blowing it out their butts and are acting all tough but really they are whipped, hehe!! But i do see guys as untrustworthy until proven different. I dated a Nigerian guy but now think if there is a next time it will be with someone from here cos the freedom that these guys talk about cheating and women is not a good advertisment to other people from other cultures. Its a shame that a whole culture gets a bad name from a few but i wonder if it is a few or a majority.

Another person complaining bout an unwanted pregnancy! My God!! Wear a damn condom fools!!!

The more the poster says the more he makes me sick!! Low life!!
'Cant help it' The biggest load of bs ive heard!! He knows exactly what he is doing and planned the whole thing. He has his two lives now and seems to be enjoying it. Please come back here and tell us when it all comes crashing down on your head, cant wait!!!

women protect their feelings so they dont get hurt!

women protect their feelings so they dont get hurt!

Oh sorry, its night here, hehe! whoops! Well, have a great day!

Mr 190 your head must be spinning with all these comments on all these threads!! Im off in search of good things!! Enjoy!

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Yeah i know, just getting boring, im off to look at other things, have a great night Creamish!

Boringgggggg!!!!!

This guy has no idea what love is!! Do you think the girls here are silly enough to believe your games. Players get relagated to friendship and nothing more so tread lightly with them 190!!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=527353.msg6899106#msg6899106 date=1286521288]Seun can start with 190 as an example [/quote]Seconded!!!

What?? You want compliments or are you very insecure??

Go Good Girl, that was brilliant!! I was reading your comment and nodding away my head, your spot on!!! I am a single parent, not by choice, I was married at the time i had my child. But being a parent is a blast for me.,,single or otherwise. Much better than being a dead parent. My son is the love of my life and i wouldnt change anything. You make the best of it as that young girl should. Children are an amazing gift that not everyone can have and these guys want to flush it!!

190:
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Tink ish is my nephew

I tot i told u that already!!

Its you i want and adore!!

What Umm you obviously havent noticed im a woman!!! Crazy man.

Hope you and creamish are very happy together.

Creamish, I am sure you can handle yourself!! hehe!!! Thank you for the lovely welcome, hehe! I am now tendering my resignation from 'the group', whatever group i was in, lol!!!

190, you do make me giggle!!

Im so happy for you guys, you have changed back your signatures, Yay!!! woohoo!!!! Happy days