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I dont care if this is made up or not, its damn funny!!!!!!!!!! Can you imagine what a mood killer it would be to have to ring your mum and be directed, oh my lord!!! Im gunna die from laughing!!!!!!

Im not a muslim but i guess its up to the individual.
No way in hell i would be one of any number of wives. I am a unique individual and fearfully and wonderfully made, not one of many!!

REALITY101:
To take care of you

lol!!!!  Im not interested in his ad but some ladies might be and all he said was he has a car, hehehe!!! Is that all the ladies need?? Cracked me up! Maybe he should of put a pic of the car and his phone number instead of his advert

Im sorry, i dont agree with 'follow your parents advice' but i wasnt raised in the same culture. It your life and your happiness. I dont understand the parents hold and probably never will but two lives being distroyed cos they went to some weird witch doctor person is not reason enough. Love is not something parents control but as i said, i was raised differently.

Oh, and awesome response okenwa!!!

ksena, are you seriously saying he is having this problem cos he slept with her Wow!!!!

You advertise yourself with a car, hehehe!!! So funny. Is that all your good for, a car? Do you have no other qualities personally

Do you feel better now after that little spat?? Hehehe!!! If you dont like it post something better. Your a smart guy, you can do it, hehehe!!!

You guys crack me up. Your falling all over her pic, how exactly do you know its her?? You can get any pic off google images, silly!!!

Poster, you want to marry a guy who doesnt care to see you if he cant have intimacy with you or is into some weird crap, hummm well at least you know what your signing up for!! You disrespect him by asking here first?? Not a good start to any relationship. Communication is the key to everything. When you are married will you come here to ask before speaking to your husband?? At least have the decency to ask him first.

[quote author=s.ohiemi link=topic=522566.msg6871328#msg6871328 date=1286185503]This is a very tricky situation,u phuckd d gurl wivout your wife knowin nd now she is pregnant.sounds lyk afmag. . . . . .anywaiz u need to talk it out wiv d gurl and allow ha to give birth,u must take full responsibility of YOUR child.u must also tell your wyf nd if she leaves u,tough luck but if she doesn't ,well u have found a rare jewel as your soul mate.u will bring the child up as your own.As for the mother of the child,after weaning the child,dismiss her cos she is d architect of dis problem.she urged u on and even agreed for all your advances,she wants to spoil your marriage.u too r evil for letting it go too far,after that lunch u guys had,shikena but u wanted to phuck her.u too are a devil and u deserve wateva comes your way[/quote]Take the child from the mother?? Are you insane? Re read the post, he didnt tell the girl he was married so how is she to blame? He knew exactly what was happening and did it with full knowledge. Now he has messed with two womens lives you also want that poor girl to loose her child, My god!!! Whats going on in this world!!

likeme:
@poster, the situation is critical. It has happened and it;s no longer within your control.
In the first place, you should not have given a free ride to a girl. You have been led into the temptation and you have fallen for it.

One of your solution now is to beg the girl to go and take care of the preg.(I can't believe i typed it out 'cause in principle I do not key into abortion at all.) If she refused, then you are in for it o. you gotta to be a man and face it.

For Nairalanders calling this man names. I SMH and pray that may we not be led to a temptation.

The poster's situation is not a fairy tale, I have seen it happen (In one of my sojourn to one of the WA country). The lady met a man that is comfortable and probably the poster has shown enuff care and attention to her so she would not mind having the baby for him. The man has been lonely for some time, he got a company in the girl, as adult, s3x came into the show.

For somebody talking about morning after pill. I don't think the poster is that randy and he might not know morning after pill(I pressume). The girl might want something(baby) to show for the relationship.
She is just 20 and not yet working, even if she keep mum about the baby now, she wont keep quiet forever because she still need to take care of the baby of which she cannot do it alone.

LEAD US NOT INTO TEMPTATION BUT DELIVER US FROM EVIL.

Are you for real. Your quoting the bible on one hand and encouraging abortion with the other. Why should she abort just to cover his dirty acts??

Consequences are a beautiful thing!! Only problem is your selfishness of your 'needs' has ruined this poor girl who had no idea what she was getting into. Hope your proud of yourself. I have nothing positive to say. Guys like you make me sick to my stomach!!!!!

Ujujoan:
Jeez Iice, the girl's dying cut her some slack!

My dear, please tell him. Trust me, it's better!

Sometimes people need the bold truth to snap them out of it!!

Poster, you need to tell him. To not tell him is selfish cos you are not giving him a chance to do whatever he wants or needs to do. I understand you probably want to walk away for his sake but thats not fair at all on him. If you really love him you know he deserves a chance to be there for you if he chooses. Best of everything to you. xoxo

Loved the roaches comments, gave me a huge giggle. Maybe some people need to realax, chill a bit and not be so precious!!!

Excellent point Queeneve!! When i read the topic i thought it had to be a exerpt from a 1920's book. Shocked that some people still treat woman that way, to take her home like that to her family and leave her there, my god!!! What if she did that to him?? I ponder, hehe!!!

And they wonder why they cant get a decent woman! Geez!!!

So its all the west's fault, Wow!! Now i think ive read it all. So its blamed on the women learning they are equal! Frightening comments on here. A man doesnt leave a good woman and a woman doesnt leave a good man. Thought slavery had been abolished!!! Grow up and take responsibility for your own actions.

Poster, what??
Why dont you join the police force where you are from. What you wrote doesnt sound like they where joking, it sounds like they where hanging it on you! Making fun of you and you laughed with them!! Strange. So you want a job like that, sitting round hassling people all day, geez!!! Whatever floats your boat!

Better to leave her alone. You said you think she doesnt want anymore to do with you, so why do you want to send her something? You still want her?? Sounds like she is done. Spend your money on someone who will appreciate it and you.

Disrespect!!! Thats what it is and if he doesnt respect you now he wont after marriage. Please dont be one of those that believes marriage will fix everything, it doesnt. It makes good things better but bad things worse. You deserve to be treated better no matter his excuse!

I am 110% faithful in a relationship. Its more about me and my self worth than hurting a partner. I have had it done to me and i would never want to cause such pain on another person. Plus if i cheat i am just a low dog like the cheaters themselves!!! I think people that cheat are really only cheating themselves cos they will never have peace.

Guys are ego trippers thats why they dont forgive a easy but if your a girl and your man cheats he says its no big deal.

190:
apart from ms.potato

all other nlders females have refused 2 acknowledge their Ugliness

Bite my ugliness!!!!!

Sounds like she is playing games to hurt his feelings or make him jealous. Silly girl!! All he can do is talk to her and see what her problem is. I was going to suggest he do the same to her but then thought that would just make it worse, hehe!!!

You should tell him. Embarrass him and he will make sure he doesnt do it again. He may think he is being hot, hehehe!!!

Why is she hassling you for money, are you married to her? Why cant she go get her own. Get off her butt and do it herself??

She doesnt sound right, just my opinion. Be careful. She may be using you for what she cant get then will move on to something she thinks is better.

SIlknSteel, good for you. Telling them how it is. Im afraid you will find most most just want to talk sex stuff but through all the crap you may find a good one. You seem very intelligent with your last post. I was concerned about you a bit til i read your last comment. I know you will be just fine.

So 190, your a guy this week?? Your confusing me!!! hehehe!!!! Or is it a different 190??

She is obviously insecure. Maybe try to reassure her. Are you doing anything that would make her think you are cheating?

Im so sorry sweety but it doesnt sound good. You really need to meet her so she can see your face and you as a person. Dont know if that will help but it cant hurt. Maybe he sees it as friends but she may be trying to hook him. But it doesnt sound right.

If the baby is four months its too late to abort. Its not just a foetus anymore it has child features, hands, face, everything. She should look at adoption if she doesnt want to be a mother. Im wondering why she is not educated on protection at her age. Apart from pregnancy what about the diseases. But please beg her to not abort at this stage. Its barbaric at this stage! As Inked said, she needs to reaserch or you can do it for her if she doesnt have a computer.

Lacrissa, my husbands height was 5, 9 but my son will be taller than that.

No advice. Just wanted to say congratulations! I hope you are always this happy! Good for you.

Im sorry but i dont agree with most comments here. The reality is he shouldnt be lying on a bed with any other woman no matter who it is. Especially if he knows she has feelings for him. Some men just have no clue what they are getting into to. He should respect your opinion either way. If he agrees or not. I personally i dont think it is cool.