₦airaland Forum

ThoniaSlim:
SO in order words if your male friend makes a move on your girl and she succumbs, its not her fault right? You brush it off lightly> After all she's human.

r231:
suit and tie with a nice hat

nnemoh:
in my own opinion, i will say dat this my boy friend in question is not my husband and am fully single and searching. so therefore, if i see any guy that find me attractive, nothing will stop me from collecting his number and give him mine. there is a substantial d/f between boyfriend and husband. we are boyfrending not husbanding.

1one:
It's unfortunate the extent to which we Nigerians/Africans have taken civilization, most of you ladies treat the word "submission" like it's some phlegm mixed with excrement material, I'm a very LIBERAL person, liberal in caps for emphasis, very open minded,very hip and comtemporary, I'm nt the kind of guy that would want his woman to lick his feet, worship his ambience and cringe at the sound of his voice, far from it.

But I believe submission in a relationship is a key issue, where you ladies miss it is that you often times equate submission to slavery, I hear some comments here saying a man should also submit, I understand where that is coming from.

But Unfortunately, speaking realistically,submission only makes up 2% of the "XY" chromosone, men are not created to submit, we are created to lead, protect, love

A woman who submitts to her guy(ceteris paribus) would have a life marinated with love,protection and tenderness from the guy,

its just natural that we want our egos to be stroked even when we have "nothing" just the same way women want to be loved, I believe a guy on the long run even does more submitting than the woman, because we always want to make you happy,we deny ourselves of personal benefits just to make you happy, but you have to understand where you fit in, your role.

When you submit to a guy that loves you by putting his needs before yours,not perpetually though but not seldomly either,when you revere his opinions,act on his suggestions even though they are Inexcusably dumb,you end up hitting the right spots of his core-"His ego" and he would only be too happy to give you anything you want either in love,attention or otherwise,all things being equal,you would be having a fairy tale for a relationship,

Wheeww, that was long

I actually like the way you explained it, nice!!

jennykadry:
^^Tell me about it, I live in Western australia and today was damnn too hot and still is

MOBO444:
Specialist 900 i still respect your view a lot, but what is wrong to bow down and worship him like a king, do you know the golf legend Tiger Woods ex wife (Swedish lady) worship him like a king before they divorced.

unclesamtech:
PLS read Eph 5 v 22
Wives , Submit to yourselves unto your Husbands,,

190:
[color=deeppink]Sweetheart,I keep reminding you that Love is real and you keep dis-agreeing wiv me,

surly you would understand some day![/color]