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1. I hate the beauty

2. I hate the way the show so much care to their men

3. I hate their sincerity

4. And above all i hate, the fact they ar nigerians

@poster,

May i know the degree of hotness or coldness of the hurting!!

@poster,

Oh! i remember proposing to my wife with a knife on my hand. "I told her Marry me or u die" she has no option than to say yes

@ poster,

why should u elop to europe with someone not married to u?

U ar A Pain In The Ass!!!!!!!!!!!

@poster,

Ask him to marry u or,

I advice all the women here to go for test, may be they will be enlist among the participants.

My first love, i dated her for almost 6yrs yet nothing like sex, just lately she started getting so big and matured dat

you will think she is my aunt, before i know wat is happening she got married to another since she can't wait for me considering the closeness in our

age. I then promised myself that any girl i will date must be at least 5yrs younger than i am.

Hello people is anyone out there regretting the man or woman he/she married or dating, share with us

1. why ar u regretting the marriage/relationship?

2. the mistake you made that lead to it

3. If u ar to rewind the hand of the clock wat will  be your choice?

My advice is dat if you love the guy, then open up to him tell him wat has happened, if he loves you to leave the past behind so be it.

But  know dat u ar to be blamed, pursue virtue with virtue. Even if he decide not to, neva sleep with another else u will have another experience.

The other guys left you because u gave them.

@poster,

You ar really possessed by marine spirit out to destroy destinies. I am really sorry for your dump boyfriend bc u will definitely destroy him.

You ar 24yrs, your mates ar settling down in their husbands house planning their homes while you ar here telling me how u want to sleep with men, just know dat even if you ar madonna highest 70 men and your body will rumple and fall then you will decide to become borne again for an unfortunate guy that will then end up with u.

Make sure u share the end result with us, i will be waiting.

the sweeter the sin, more deadly is the punishment.

Look at this,

If you marry a bad cook, you can teach her

Marry a nagin woman, she can get born again and change

even an urgly woman with much attention, can even turn beautiful, but a broken pot has no remedy. It is a chemical reaction which is irreversible.

wolf to wolf
dog to dog
sheep to sheep

End of discussion(honda)

Ebonyeyes:
So if your wife losses her hair due to cancer therapy or unknown causes you will divorce her because she is now "completely opposite the beauty you know"?

Na yr husband go loose his hair thru cancer therapy

It is obvious that virgins and non-virgins will always ve a different view of this topic, i think taking advice from a virgin will be safe.

chocobabi:
well,water and water is equal to water,it is not easy to get one but there are still some.you need some tips on how to get a virgin.contact me at highdeeskybabi@yahoo.com.i will surely but you through.

Ar u a professor of virgins, how will u do dat?

Mr Kelly:
I totally agree with you.


@ Poster.

Going through your post. I can deduce that you are a very responsible man. It is hard to find a guy like you in this generation that glorifies imorality. Though I wasn't a virgin prior to my marriage, I have dated three virgins in the past and I eventually got married to one of them after 2 yrs courtship. I refused sleep with them the moment I discovered they are virgins because I have a conscience that will haunt me if I take their virginity and walk away. The first time I slept with my wife was on our wedding day and I am glad that we have a blissfuly blessed union today.

However, I do not totally agree with your belief that your joy in marriage depends on you finding a virgin wife because I have seen a beautiful and Godfearing young woman who was raped as a virgin but still refuse give in to sex and imoral conduct. One of the virgins I dated was only a virgin for fear of pain and blood if she eventually gets disvirgined. I left her because I dont want to get married to someone I will be forcing to go to church every sunday. I will suggest you pray to God for direction rather than searching virgin.

I really appreciate wat u said, i know my happiness does not depend on the virginity but another criteria is dat she must be God fearing.
I always feel that getting married to a non virgin does not balance the equation, i makes me feel cheated. Then i feel insecure knowing dat my wife to be has slept with someone else in the past and i can't know the extent whether she got pregnant and aborted it or not, so to save myself the stress i decided it must be a virgin.

Spyker:
Poster, i quite understand how you feel. I wanted what you wanted. I met a girl and thought she was a virgin though i am not keen on marrying a virgin, she was the one who made me believe she was. I had kept myself for her until i found out she was banging someone else (ladies, sorry for the language). I had my first sexual experience at 24 or 25 (not very sure which one). I dated another lady for five(5) years and this one broke my heart. I gave up searching. But as God will have it, i met a girl recently and i am going to marry her (hurray). She gave me my heart desire. Now, my ex wants to have me back after she broke my heart. You may ask what did she do? I abstained for 5 years for her because she said no sex before marriage which i agreed to and adhere to. But while she was in school, she kept on having sex to the point that she slept with my friend. You see, if you find that girl, virgin or not, love her for who she is not because of what she is.

God will give you your heart desire if you believe.
My candid advice, a girl being a virgin doesn't make her a wife material. Other factors like her character should be considered more in as much as she is not a cheating on you.

honestly u made a point, i appreciate

julian_H:
@Poster:
Stop ego-tripping!
You are just one of those people who like to reap where they did not sow!
How are we sure that you are still a virgin? And how old are you anyway?

What makes you feel/think that marrying a virgin insures success in your marriage?
People should stop living in FOOLS' PARADISE and grow up!
The virginity of a woman does not play any signifant role in the marital union:
if a virgin is not cut out for a wife, she will never make a good wife;
if a non-virgin is a wife marital (no matter the number of men that she slept with)
she will make a good wife and make you proud.
A man that lives in the past makes little or no head ways in life!

I for one dated so many girls (i cant even count) before marriage and none of them was a virgin!
Am i missing anything? No SIR! It makes absolutely no difference to me.
A good, reasonable and responsible woman is good, reasonable and responsible
and the state of her virginity does not make any difference, infact it is superficial.

During my last year in school i met this lovely and naive girl who told me that if she had known she was going to meet someone like that she would have kept her virginity (she lost it just three months before we met!).
I told her that it does and did not matter with me!
People, the level of her exposure/lack of it (and the fact that i was the second person to date her)
did not make her a saint!

If you are looking for a perfect woman/man to marry; YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY LONG SEARCH!
Why? You will never find one because you that is lookiing for one is not perfect yourself.

A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE KEPT THAT PARTICULAR AREAS (her virginity) SANE AND HAVE (BIG) FLAWS IN EVERY OTHER AREAS of her life! When and if that is the case, WHERE THEN IS YOUR JOY VIRGIN SEEKER!

GROW UP AND STOP EGO-TRIPPING!

Long post with little sence

bonnez:
@ poster, this post is ridiculous SHAME ON YOU. people like you disgrace d men fold

to everyone else, i'd like u to know that posts like this differentiate d boys from the men on nairaland

this poster is just a boy. he aint seen nothing yet

Who let the dog out!

POSAKOSA1:
@ OP, she doesn't have scanty hair nor does she have a disease. It is the wigging and weaving that has CUT/ chop ALL HER HAIR finish.

But she is not dat beautiful without it, i get a different look whenever she does not ve it on

Just the time i was thinking dat i will soon settle down, dis came up again.

This my girl friend has always been on either wig or weavon since we meet, just recently i saw her without the weavon on, she was completely opposite the beauty i know. She doesn't have hair, pls wat should i do bc i don't want to ve children with scanty hair.

@THE AMAKA,

maybe maybe not, that is not the issue, virginity is not issue in men but women, bc u can't even know if a man is or not,God that did it dat way knows why. Tot u said u don't want to talk

HIO4,

u must be an ICON, being able to tame THE AMAKA.

@Amaka,

No matter wat u say, to be a virgin is more honorable dat is why it's been repeated over. So don't be irritated whenever you hear the word

VVIIRRGGIINN!!!

@Amaka,
listen God created man and woman differently. Can u walk up to a man and demand for friendship or sex? i know your answer is no bc u ar a girl but a guy can do so without feeling ashamed.

A guy demanding sex from a girl is natural, a girl turning it down is natural. So the problem is not from the receiver but the giver.

chiogo:
LOL but they're already having their cake and eating it too. From what I see these days, it's the whorish men who marry the best wives. Beats me, honestly.  

It just means women need to step up their game. Waiting for Karma is like waiting for a new-born baby boy to grow beards. I'm just saying.  

Get feisty!!!

And u won't be that lucky

Question for all the girls making noise here. Plz can someone tell me why u girls find it so so difficult to keep yr virginity?

When u asked and it was giving to u why do u complain?

Kunbee:
I meant the posters of the virgin thread don't use the search engine atleast to find a story similar to theirs and when Christmas comes u will hate romance section due to the increase in the virginity threads

Why is the topic irritating to some girls nawwoooo, some topic like sex here,sex there has been discussed a thousand times over yet no complain, but when it comes to virginity some girls that ar   get pissed off. hmmmm

My point is simple why should u allow a guy to just disvirgin like that without ceremony, if u make yr self to be hot dog, then don't blame the dog.

Yet some much complaint that girls ar been disvirgin,while some beg to get it done, nonsense