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NanaF:
Forkaddict, good for you. 2006 is a 9 (Nine) years ago, mine is very fresh in my memory. I'm glad your past employers spent that money. You can now make your 'emotional intelligence' training useful in your advice to him.

Take it easy.. No be fight jarre..
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By the way, Emotional Intelligence does not Only apply to places of work..
It can also apply right here on this page.
How you relate to people matters a lot.
When I was expressing frustration with my current place of work, an empathic person should not just come with "Hey you are wrong.. this is badd. bla bla bla".. Nothing prevents you from relating with my already slacken emotions, cheering me up, and then, giving me some solutions...
Or were you taught in your Emotional Intelligence trainings to always flash it in peoples' faces how bad they are with "Emotional Intelligence".?? Were you not taught "Empathy".??

ladyF:
how are you na happy weekend

Happy weekend my dear.. Another week just passed.. **sobss**

ladyF:

NanaF:
You don't know me or where I work. You don't know if it's even worse than what he's describing.

I'm not judging him but it's a bad attitude to have at a current job. If NLNG delays communication till next year March, so he'll just keep on being frustrated at his job till then?

You didn't see where he mentioned being a 'happy jolly good fellow' at work and how colleagues would have noticed the change.

How come he was happy before? It will affect his performance at his job even for a situation where he would have otherwise overcome in the past. Google 'emotional intelligence'

Well.. Being frustrated is one thing.
Doing something about it is another thing..
I have learnt to stop thinking about NLNG whenever I am at work., and it is helping a lot..
But then, it became very clear to me that the present working environment is not just Okay at all.
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Emotional Intelligence is different from Emotional Suppression...
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Emotional intelligence
(noun)
The capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically..
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Someone that smiles when he is actually sad and troubled deep inside his heart is not Emotionally Intelligent.

nickkylawve:
yea I checked her profile pics just to see she's using my sister friend's pics as her dp

https://www.nairaland.com/juliaann

Her Signature is: "The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort & convenience but how he stands at times of controversy & challenges."

NanaF:
So if you finally enter NLNG and months later, a mind-blowing offer is pending from another company, will you have this same attitude?

Depression (or maybe, Frustration) may come in again.. Who knows..
But the truth is, I wanted NLNG with all my heart. I dreamt it all day.. I chased for it..; unlike a situation where I had to pick up any available job so that I won't be idle., a job where my suggestions don't even matter a bit., a job where you just carry out instructions zombiecally without even asking questions, even against work codes and ethics., (so far it was issued by any of the directors).
With these, I know that such a thing will not happen to me in nlng..

windows98:
Me and boss quanta these days no be here o

I no dey talk with boss again.. Just to avoid temptation.. Colleagues are now aware that I am no more the happy jolly-good-fellow I used to be..
Everything is crashing down right in front of me.

ANY SIMPLE ANNOYANCE AT WORKPLACE GETS ME SO MADLY AND BADLY ANNOYED THESE DAYS..
SO AGITATED THAT I FEEL LIKE BREAKING PEOPLE'S HEADS

damton:
improved electricity and no recorded corruption case since may 29.

Traffic Robbery and Bank Robbery..

Heyaaaa... The emotions on this thread right now is making me to feel like I wanna cry..

Guys here don't know what else to believe again.

Beesluv:
That girl in orange be like, cloth to wash, canvass to wash...

U sure say u dey see well.??

airsaylongcon:
Not Igbo but I served with Anambra and Imo ppl so lemme hazard a guess

"Come what is your name, Ethene, kpachikwa your eye... "

WOOWW.. U tried with the guess... The "EYE" phrase actually means "BE CAREFUL".

A FRAUDSTER HACKED THE BANK'S DATABASE IN ORDER FOR HIM TO GET A RICH CUSTOMER'S PERSONAL INFORMATION.
HE THEN ATTEMPTED TO LOG IN INTO YOUR ACCOUNT USING THE "ONE TIME PASSWORD" (O.T.P) OPTION..
YOU PERSONALLY HANDED HIM THE O.T.P PASSWORD THAT WAS SENT TO YOUR PHONE, AND HE USED IT TO TRANSFER FUNDS FROM YOUR ACCOUNT.

ladyF:
Cc airsaylongcon hahaha

Congrats I have been having problem opening nairaland home page for some weeks now sef, keeps telling me "the page contains too many server redirects". It has really slowed down my hustle, maybe davide470 can help?

Na "Home-Page Bann" dem do u be that.

Djbaka:
Now dem don do PTO for page 200. Shey na to dey pursue 300 now ba?

Hmm... t***d nd c*****2014, oya takeover!

I promised myself that I won't comment on Page-200... Unless the maile dropped... If not, na for page-201 I go continue my comments.. (Maile or No-maile)

Swissheart:
....for your mind,meanwhile I like your shoe...if that's you in d middle

Baaaaaaaadddtt Girrll

PunkyVeer:
I'm not into conventional hot guys though. Like, the pretty boy type. Nuh uh. Come on, we've had this discussion on another thread & I told you that I like mine a little crude. That's simply what I'm attracted to. Simple. Unpolished. Raw. And loaded with sex appeal of course. Preferrably the animalistic type All the 6 packs that give others googly eyes do nothing for me. It just is what it is. Shrugs.

What kind of woman are you.?
Anyway, I love the fact that you know yourself very well.

SQLmastar:
ogbeni how market

Tomorrow becomes another today jarre; and so on, until the mails drop in..

whatsupguys:
SAUCE

Sauce.?? Well.. I think it's egg-sauce.

ladyF:
lol I'm a TERRIBLE swimmer. I'm even scared of drowning in the shallow end of d pool.


I actually knew...But if I post the *how*, airsaylongcon will only be posting when he knows he'll be FTC. I remember when he made FP one time, he was so happy, he even gave me a shout-out.

Hehehehe..
Babe u too funny jarre.

misspicy:
True about me

First born learn to shoulder responsibilities early in life

What about nagging.??

The mailes might drop in today.
I am ready for any bleeping bleaping thing.

whatsupguys:
Of cos, you can be soooooooo sure if u don't have a committed relationship before the nlng job, ur only avaılable option might just be marrying a colleague

My brother.. I don dey reason am oo.. How I go take cope sef.??

Uchboggy:
. Bros take some chill pill

As time continues to tick my brother.. Nothing here is serious.. Just a way of diluting the concentrations of tension(iv)hydroxide and iron(iii)tetraheartache inside here

coolio2014:
Hahahhahahahahahahaaha

This your Laugh tooo much oo.

Prinzofparis:
yes I do....wailing and sinking alone in the middle of the Atlantic ocean things.

Even if I become meal for the mammiiwater, so far say na only her wey chop me finish, no wahalla

Prinzofparis:
the bonny ocean has a depth range of 14,893ft to 23,446ft. it also has a tidal power of about 12,0775 wave energy flux per unit of wave-crest length.

I don't trust ladyf with her mammywaterlike FTC trait. shes probably a mermaid, she fit disappear for water.

be prepared!!!!!

morning future colleagues

Bro... I am ready for anything.
At first, I was noticing...
With time, I started admiring, until it later turned to tripping.
Now, I am already liking..
I guess u know what it will turn out to become in the future.??
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HEHEHEHEHE

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Let them born pickin first.. That will be the time their love will be deeper.

Let them born pickin first.. That will be the time their love will be deeper.

ladyF:
With this....I say bye bye to old things....





P.T.O

Nice calculation there.. As we wait in Joyful for the flying of our 'males'. But how did you know it was going to be P.T.O.?? or abi na space u book.??

ladyF:
Launching Launching.... e no easy jare, i beat tk4rd to it haha! I'm ecstatic!
Next week is the week, except....NLNG doesn't want successful pple to give their employer 1 month notice, I won't be surprised sef.
Whatever happens...I must not cry #Shrek

But this one u dey rejoice say u beat me, u think say na ftc things with Introvrert.
Aahahahaha.. It is really going to be a nice experience if we both make it.
You have a very jovial playful heart.
Trust me, we go dey chase ourselves around everywhere, even for inside Oga Babs' office if need be, even for on top the floating badges sef..

Desert Encroachment in the North.
Erosion in the South East.
Rocky Grounds in the South West.
Flooding in the South South...
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Every people have their own ecological problems..
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Why are you people all making noise here as if only the South Easterners have ecological problems.??
Americans have Hurricanes.
Asians have Earthquakes..
And so on.

axortedbabe:
Mc galaxy of all.. I see..

Sheey na the same guy wey dey dance for Iyanya's kukere video.?