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Romance › Re: Impotent Man Enters Impotent Woman Like A Bull by tobechi74: 8:43am On Oct 09, 2020
Why do you want this to get to front page quickly.wevneed to authenticate it first. Picture or...
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Caught On CCTV Bundling Girl Into Car Before Sexually Assaulting Her by tobechi74: 1:24am On Oct 09, 2020
Sad
Crime › Re: BREAKING NEWS: Governor of Michigan escapes kidnap plot by a White Militia Gang by tobechi74: 1:24am On Oct 09, 2020
Money heist
Crime › Re: Kenyan Girl In Saudi Arabia Escapes After Refusing Sex With Her Boss by tobechi74: 1:23am On Oct 09, 2020
Guys should be taught self control
Crime › Re: EFCC Arraigns Army Captain, Others Over Alleged Land Fraud by tobechi74: 1:22am On Oct 09, 2020
So Efcc can try army
Crime › Re: #ENDSARS: Disciplinary Action Begins Against Policeman Who Assault Protesters by tobechi74: 1:21am On Oct 09, 2020
Audio
Crime › Re: The Difference Between Educated Police And SARS Men - PHOTOS by tobechi74: 1:21am On Oct 09, 2020
Never give power to uneducated person
Crime › Re: Lady & Boyfriend Pays Herbalist N30k To ‘lock Brain’ Of Man Who Sent Her N1m by tobechi74: 1:19am On Oct 09, 2020
Whose fault
Politics › Re: Sirika Accused Of Withholding Staff Salaries To Fulfill Governorship Ambition by tobechi74: 1:17am On Oct 09, 2020
Sorry
Politics › Re: Ondo Inec Chief Returning Officer, Professor Eyitope Ogunbodede Is From Owo by tobechi74: 1:04am On Oct 09, 2020
The role of returning office r is to announce winner.vhe has no influence at all in voting.b
Politics › Re: Ondo Election: I Haven’t Stepped Down For Anyone, Says Jegede by tobechi74: 1:02am On Oct 09, 2020
Sad
Politics › Re: #endsars: Lady Shot In The Mouth During End SARS Protest (graphic) by tobechi74: 1:02am On Oct 09, 2020
Violence solve nothing
Politics › Re: Who Do You Think Is Behind The Onslaught Against Tinubu Political Dynasty? by tobechi74: 1:01am On Oct 09, 2020
Nigerianscare kicking against Godfatherism
Christianity Etc › Do We Need God To Be Moral? World Survey by tobechi74(op): 12:48am On Oct 09, 2020
A new study by the Pew organization (click on screenshot below or get full pdf here) surveyed 38,436 people in 34 countries across the globe, asking them questions about how important God or religion is to them and—today’s topic)—do you really need God to be moral.  The methods included both face to face and phone […]

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/01/a-world-survey-do-we-need-god-to-be-moral/

Christianity Etc › Re: What If the Hisbah Police force Are Ex Boko Haram Members by tobechi74: 11:36pm On Oct 08, 2020
Possibility
Christianity Etc › Re: Your Loveworld: Pastor Chris Talks About 5G And Vaccine today by tobechi74: 11:33pm On Oct 08, 2020
He is trying sha
Romance › Re: Xvideos, Pornhub And XNXX Get More Monthly Visitors Than Amazon And Netflix by tobechi74: 6:31pm On Oct 08, 2020
Invest in entertainment.it pays
Celebrities › Re: Salawa Abeni Visits Oniru, Oba Gbolahan Lawal (Photo) by tobechi74: 1:09pm On Oct 08, 2020
Power struggle
Politics › Re: What Do You Love About The South-east Region by tobechi74: 11:30am On Oct 08, 2020
No godfather's
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Says Catching Covid-19 Was 'like A Blessing From God' (video) by tobechi74: 11:29am On Oct 08, 2020
Experience is best teacher
Crime › Re: Sars Harrasing A Colleague by tobechi74: 11:28am On Oct 08, 2020
Are you sure
Romance › Re: Pls How Does Female Prisoneers Get Pregnant ? by tobechi74: 2:17am On Oct 08, 2020
Angel Gabriel appear
Romance › Re: Six Golden Rules, Strictly For Men. by tobechi74: 2:16am On Oct 08, 2020
Hmmm
Travel › Re: Onitsha Port: More Containers Arrive Onitsha Via Barges- PICS & VIDEO by tobechi74: 1:56am On Oct 08, 2020
Good
Politics › Re: Magu Quizzed Over ‘Security Vote’ As Panel Battles Internal Cracks - The Cable by tobechi74: 1:56am On Oct 08, 2020
Power struggle
Politics › Re: PDP Rally: Fayose Shocked As Thugs Remove His Cap, Threaten To Beat Him Up by tobechi74: 1:54am On Oct 08, 2020
He insulted a god father. . when will south west kick away Godfatherism
Romance › Re: 10 Different Types Of RELATIONSHIPS by tobechi74: 8:32pm On Oct 07, 2020
Qualitity of relationship to be included
Romance › Re: The Best Breakup Message You Ever Read. by tobechi74: 9:41am On Oct 07, 2020
Very honest brutal truth
Romance › Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by tobechi74:
Monogamy is not for everyone one. Most are polygamous in nature. Forcing them into monogamy make them unfulfilled. Cheating is inevitable

Marriage is an individual choice and not a collective one. The government has no business regulating how I use my genital.  It is mine and mine alone.  I decide who I choose to get married to . I can decide to share it with a single person or a married person.  It is  my freedom to choose to be a celibate or be married.   While married, I decide with my partner whether to make it open relationship or monogamy.

Marriage is not for everyone. There are people who are happier single. I mean those who are do introverted that they cannot tolerate a very long time without feeling drained. There are people who prefer long distance relationship with few visits and frequent absence rather than continued presence.  those whose high attention sexual urge cannot be satisfied by any one individual. There are others who dislike the boredom of sticking to one  partner scares the hell out of them. Variety is the spice of life.The fun of experimenting with various sizes and  types thrills them. There are yet another group whose need for independence and freedom makes them dislike the idea of  consulting with another before making decision.  There is another group that  love to be in motion. They wake up one morning and decide to relocate to another state only to explore another culture the next year. Traveling is their hobby and getting married with kids hinders that . Settling down is like a death trap. Flowing water is cleaner. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes and other microorganism.

Human needs are various. the concept of getting married does not fit into their ideal future. They are better off single or in an open relationship. imposing  monogamy marriage on them will choke them. Their partner and children would suffer . Cheating is bound to occur. The fact that cheating still exist means we should question the effectiveness of monogamy and possibility of open marriage.

Investment experts would advice you never to put all your eggs in one basket to mitigate against risk. Economic  expert suggest diversification and not depending on only crude oil. Why don’t we  Apply  the same analogy to our own emotional life.   Risk is mitigated when we stop expecting one person to be our confident, sexual satisfier ,friend, mother of children etc. Can we consider open marriage and celibacy as alternative to monogamy
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Man Offered Her N150k To Eat Her Faeces (pixs) by tobechi74: 9:31am On Oct 07, 2020
Girls looking for free money
Guys giving her impossible condition so she doesn't ask again

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