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Politics › Re: Ize Iyamu In Trouble. As APC n PDP Files No Valid APC Candidate Case by tobechi74: 9:51am On Oct 04, 2020
Pdp cannot say what is happening in another party
Education › Re: Nigerian Lady Wins Big In Russia, Graduates With 5.0 CGPA by tobechi74: 9:49am On Oct 04, 2020
Nuclear science... abeg remain there before bokoharam recruit you
Education › Re: Reasons Easterners Are The Most Admitted For Medicine, Law And Engineering by tobechi74: 9:46am On Oct 04, 2020
Abdulrahman1987:
REASONS ARE.

1. Violation of admission regulations
Eastern institutions always admit above quota (capacity) for example schools like UNN, ABSU, IMSU, UNICAL always admit over 400+ for professional courses which is more than the quota, UNN quota is 180 but they used to admit 500+

2. Greediness
Just to generate money from students, Eastern institutions admit above quota to get more money in their pockets. even on the supplementary list some students pay themselves into the list

CONSEQUENCE

1. it leads to frustration : Like last year, after UNN admitted 580+ for medicine, the school administration have to transfer most of them to other departments which will get students frustrated

2. Unjustifiable failing of students : They tend to fail students just to moderate the quota

3. Suicide


COMPARING WITH NORTHERN INSTITUTIONS

Northern institutions are sharp opposite of the eastern

they maintain quota system, they are law abiding and just
You forgot to add that the Igbos apply score over 290 and apply to ABU Zaria and Unimaid but catchment area disqualified them and a Fulani guy who scored 181 got admission.
Religion crises and bokoharam made him leave the north.bthis added to huge admission seekers in the east.

You guys in North created the problem in the east
Education › Re: Prof. Njoku Sex-For-Mark Video: IMSU Students To Face IGP by tobechi74: 9:38am On Oct 04, 2020
Any student that testify will risk not graduating
Christianity Etc › Re: Christian Songs We Might Have Been Singing Wrongly by tobechi74: 9:30am On Oct 04, 2020
Good.
My song you might have been singing wrongly

When children play outside

And mother calls them to come inside 

The laughter of playing in the yard

Suddenly turns into tears
No,we do not want to come inside

We want to play forever and ever

Then  things go from bad to worse

Mother comes with a cane to flog

Father inflict his punishment

So the joy of playing together 

Simply by believing it cannot stop

Turns into great misery for the kids

We are just grown up children

We believe our relationship will last forever

Our hobbies are always going to bring happiness

But they did not

We know one day,everything will come to an end

Our parents will die

Our friends will leave us

But when it happens we are shattered

Like children, so much like children

https://tobechispeaks./2017/06/08/just-like-children/
Christianity Etc › Re: Opinion: Does Alter Call Have Any Significant Role In Salvation? by tobechi74: 9:25am On Oct 04, 2020
No
Christianity Etc › Re: Over 50 Healed, Many Turn To Jesus Christ After Pastor Preached In Iraqi Mosque by tobechi74: 9:25am On Oct 04, 2020
Hope his life is safe
Christianity Etc › Re: Righteousness Of GOD. What Does It Mean? by tobechi74: 9:23am On Oct 04, 2020
What about righteouness of Allah
Christianity Etc › Re: In The Light Of Truth: Man And His Free Will. Contd. by tobechi74: 9:22am On Oct 04, 2020
Reincarnation exist among early Christian
Christianity Etc › Re: Did Jesus Suffer Losses Because He Did Not Tithe? by tobechi74: 9:20am On Oct 04, 2020
He paid tax
Christianity Etc › Re: Trousers Or Skirt For Ladies. Which Is Scriptural? by tobechi74: 9:19am On Oct 04, 2020
Both
Christianity Etc › Re: Six Important Reasons You Should Seek For The Mercy Of God. by tobechi74:
Good Christian especially Pastors should seek the mercy of God before they get married


If marriage were compulsory, Jesus would have done so.I am not against the idea of getting married. I am only saying marriage is not for everyone. The assumption that one can only be fulfilled while married is false . Many propeller of this fallacy quote the Bible to back up their claim.




It is not good for man to be alone

It is not good for anyone to be alone . Eve was to be a companion and not a marriage partner . One can feel alone while being married . The verse only validates the fact that no one is an Ireland. We need someone to lean on . Marriage is a concept created by man to bring order in the society. No one has been arrested for choosing to remain single.


Many of us get married because we need kids. There are many orphans down there craving to get married. Go adopt them . Except off course you are searching for your own child to shower selfish love .

Everyone is meant to have children. Eli the priest was not meant to have children as that would disturb his mission on Earth so his wife womb was shut for years. Having a wife would not affect his goal. After persistent prayer, he finally had a child. He had to choose between disciplining his children or spending time in the church. He chose the later. His children became wayward.

Zaccharia was another priest who had difficulty in having a son.It was not until he was very old that he was permitted too. This tells us that those who are called to work in God institution are not meant to have children as that could affect their work .They are permitted to have a helper, a partner, a wife ,a maid etc.

This brings me to the only reason to get married .We should get married when getting married enables us to achieve our life purpose.

Jesus knew his mission on Earth .He knew it involves wandering from one place to another spreading the message. The stress of travelling with his family all the Tim would slow down his movement. He could not afford to take them to the mountain and through the sea. He knew his message would invoke the wrath of the pharasees who would happily transfer their aggression to his wife and children . Peter who was already married had to leave his wife behind to follow Jesus. His wife must have felt sad as a result. His children must have been angry with their father for being unavailable. It is better not to get married than to abandon your partner midway. one had to pace way for another.


Marriage is settling down . Those whose purpose involve moving around have no business settling down.A Catholic priest could be posted to three different countries in a year as part of missionary work. Relocating their family all the time would prove cumbersome. This is why Catholic priest do not get married. I am not condemning clergy who get married. I only ask that each should examine the nature of his calling. One who is fixed at a particular place to grow an already planted church can marry. Missionaries who go about converting people and planting churches can abstain.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/25/the-major-reason-jesus-never-got-married/
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Life Lessons To Learn From The Temptation Of Jesus Christ by tobechi74: 9:18am On Oct 04, 2020
Good
Christianity Etc › Re: Types Of People In Church (pics) by tobechi74: 9:18am On Oct 04, 2020
Good
Christianity Etc › Re: Why A r everend Father Should Watch BBNAIJA by tobechi74(op): 6:19am On Oct 04, 2020
Lalasticlala
Romance › Re: Why Does Everyone Think Monogamy Is Natural by tobechi74(op): 6:18am On Oct 04, 2020
PUNAengineOIL:
Monogamy, polygamy...do wetin favor u.
exactly the point
Christianity Etc › Re: Reason Why Some People Prayers Are Not Easily Answered by tobechi74(op): 6:17am On Oct 04, 2020
Lalasticlala
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It A Sin To Point Out The Sins Of People by tobechi74(op): 6:16am On Oct 04, 2020
Ladylite:
Truth must be spoken in love else it won't be balanced.

Correction that comes from being vengeful is actually not going to be accurate
The way Pastor Paul Enenche and David Ibiyome corrected daddy freeze was in vengeful not love
Christianity Etc › Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74(op): 6:12am On Oct 04, 2020
dingbang:
what about getting married to a strict female christian
similar. But Bible instructs total obedience of man from woman she is most likely to change if man tell him
Christianity Etc › Re: Three right and wrong reason why pastors leave former church and open a new one by tobechi74(op): 6:10am On Oct 04, 2020
supportnija:
OP, God calls everybody for his work, everybody to do his work, matt 28:19 Christ instructed go into the and make people his disciple, OP this can be done in your place of work not necessary having building call church, this can be done in your house, even your neighborhood , in the bus and everywhere. OP the church you see people having everywhere is Pentecostal way of God's calls and to have a title call MAN OF GOD.
If yes, we won't have fake pastors
Christianity Etc › Re: A Christian Dad Discussed Homosexuality With Son by tobechi74(op): 6:09am On Oct 04, 2020
jmoore:
And you are not aware that homosexuality movement has crawled into the church?

I am not bothered abo hiut atheists who support homosexuality.

The op and folks like him are like the Pharisees that Jesus condemned. Go figure!!
you just condemned me.
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Serious Christian Ministers don't Get Married by tobechi74(op): 4:33am On Oct 04, 2020
dingbang:
If you are burning with passion please go and marry.

St. Paul


My two cents grin
if you are not,vstay single
Christianity Etc › Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74(op): 4:31am On Oct 04, 2020
thesicilian:
Every pastor is supposed to be a ''strict pastor'' and every christian a ''strict christian''.
Jesus was not always strict. He had sence of humor
Christianity Etc › Re: Ghana Asks Mosques To Turn Down The Noise And Use Whatsapp For Call To Prayer by tobechi74: 4:28am On Oct 04, 2020
Some gods are anti technology
Christianity Etc › Re: This Dream Scares Me Till Now(I need interpretation) by tobechi74: 4:27am On Oct 04, 2020
Five different lives in five lifetimes
Christianity Etc › Re: Help An Inconsistent Christian! by tobechi74:
More grace
This is a sign that you have outgrown your present state. Your soul thirst for higher.

There are people who prefer to buy ready made cloth and there are those who prefer to buy the material and see it according to their size. First they measure themselves using a meter rule then they cut off some pieces of material from the one bought in the market.

As we grow older, our body size increases. We need bigger tops. We do not keep forcing the smaller clothes on ourself. We will either feel uncomfortable or the cloth will get torn. We simply discard it or give it to our younger one and go get another cloth that fits us.

Unfortunately ,we do not adapt the same concept to our belief. As a kid, we are told what to believe,vwe do not choose them because we are too young to make decision. As we grow older, we begin to outgrow our religion. Certain belief no longer appeal to us . We have more questions than answer. We are told to rely on faith. This is the way the religion want to tie is down to it . Like a teacher who loves his student so much he does not want her to get promoted. He threatened his student with punnishnent to prevent his moving to next level. Such love cannot be in the best interest of the child. Religion threaten it’d adherent with hell to keep them glued together.


This is a sign that we need to try another cloth.we do not owe our religion any form of loyalty. We need to let go in search of better belief. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes. One who stays so long in one belief would have a retarded manner of thinking.

We can go to the library or internet and read alternative religion practice.we can choose one that suits us and explore.Trying a new religion is a faster way for behavioral Change.

Every new religion sprung up from a founder who was not comfortable with existing religion of his time. Bobby Henderson invented pasterfaranism. Buddhism broke out as a social protest against Hinduism caste system. Jesus deviated from Judaism. Each religion was created out of dissatisfaction wilh existing status quo.

Each of the founder created a religion that fit their personalities. As long as you know yourself, you can create your religion that suit whom you are. The involve eradicating the part of the beliefs that do not appeal to your values., authentic self.Jesus valued forgiveness ahead of revenge. Love became his central theme. Buddha focused on how to stop world suffering . Detachment was his answer .

Each one of us can focus on any part of the world and try to make it better .we must not go about preaching our new religion to others . Living it in our daily activities is Paramount. As long as we keep wearing the garment of another founder, we will not be truely comfortable.we remain inauthentic. What fits A cannot fit B. This leads to hypocrisy

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/17/customising-your-own-religion/
Christianity Etc › Re: I Will Stop Going To Church. by tobechi74: 4:23am On Oct 04, 2020
The one u were going before no concern nairaland
Family › Re: Some Families Eat The Placenta Of The New Born Baby by tobechi74: 12:10am On Oct 04, 2020
Good source of vitamin
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do I Activate My Third Eye? by tobechi74: 11:42pm On Oct 03, 2020
Eat the eyes of a goat
Christianity Etc › Re: The Power Of Laughter. by tobechi74: 11:40pm On Oct 03, 2020
Jesus cried. Did he laugh
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by tobechi74: 11:38pm On Oct 03, 2020
Societal training

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