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Health / Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Tobechuckwu(m): 3:00pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.



My sister, I beg join Winners chapel aka living faith church. And just be serious with God, it is highly spiritual
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Real Madrid UCL (2 -0) On 5th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 6:55pm On May 05, 2021
Either team can win this game.
As a city fan, anybody way wan win should win, we await una for final.

But Chelsea should be careful with Sergio Ramos, that guy na big game killer with that him head.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 7:03am On May 05, 2021
Komu1048:


Please for the sake of sanity stop calling Zinchenko and stone. Please will you call for replay Cox I can see you are pained that Chelsea beat your darling mancity and guess what. Chelsea always beat mancity home and away. From 2000 to now we have beaten them home and away more than 7 times, so don't cry.
You people have never given Chelsea a chance and we love it that way cox its always sweet to celebrate and rub it on your face.


From 2000 till now , u've played over 22 games home nd away. U've only won 7 nd u are shouting. U just don't know stat at àll

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 6:57am On May 05, 2021
Jeffy1206:
make I quote you in case I come to say hafa cheesy

Why not
Na kun we go unleash on Una come Saturday, na real thrashing
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 6:56am On May 05, 2021
djon78:



All these one na excuse
Tuchel already has one over him
We go see how far on Saturday

For Etihad again.
Go nd check all d Chelsea coaches that have played Pep for Etihad how far. Na thrashing come Saturday
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 6:53am On May 05, 2021
Fuckeveryday2:

City Centurion Season still remains my best City team of all time, those guys see 5-0 as if match just dey start cry

That Watford FA cup final match especially..

Kudos to guardiola abeg!!

Yeah it was , but now we play more of false nine selection. They are just changing their style of play lately so it will take time before goal rush.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 10:44pm On May 04, 2021
gevans:


I will quote u after the match.

It's either 3-0 or 2-0.
City no dey too score goals again unlike previous seasons

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 10:42pm On May 04, 2021
djon78:


Story
No be for where Thomas Tuchel dey
Tuchel outfoxed Pep in there last meeting
The two coaches are tactically sound

Chelsea strength is the formation they play 3 4 2
Tuchel is playing there strength
With that formation
It will be extremely difficult for Pep Guardiola to get a better formation on them

It's like u didn't watched d match, City players were tired. No team can go for all 4 trophies. Pep had to forego one to concentrate on others.
Watch on Saturday d way Kun go finish Una. Na better thrashing una go collect

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 10:41pm On May 04, 2021
djon78:


Story
No be for where Thomas Tuchel dey
Tuchel outfoxed Pep in there last meeting
The two coaches are tactically sound

Chelsea strength is the formation they play 3 4 2
Tuchel is playing there strength
With that formation
It will be extremely difficult for Pep Guardiola to get a better formation on them

It's like u didn't watched d match, City players were tired. No team can go for all 4 trophies. Pep had to forego one to concentrate on others.
Watch on Saturday d way Kun go finish Una. Na better thrashing una go collect

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester City Vs PSG UCL (2 - 0) On 4th May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 10:19pm On May 04, 2021
gevans:


Man City that was beaten by Chelsea a better side

Saturday no far
Wait nd see real thrashing...d way City go take beat una ehn

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Politics / Re: SERAP Drags FG To Ecowas Court Over NBC Broadcasting Code by Tobechuckwu(m): 3:20pm On May 02, 2021
I think most pple don't know this thing work, once d case is still in court, NBC cannot fine them anymore bcuz of the pending court judgement.
They might just drag it in court for so long so as to buy time for broadcasting companies.
Celebrities / Re: Chidinma Celebrates Her 30th Birthday, Now A Gospel Singer by Tobechuckwu(m): 11:19am On May 02, 2021
Congrats
She has finally joined Mercy Chinwe, Judikay nd GUC at Eezee concept.
Crime / Re: CCTV Evidence: Baba Ijesha Kissing, Handling Female Minor - PUNCH Reviews by Tobechuckwu(m): 5:20pm On May 01, 2021
Brandonx:

You don't read that's why you are where you are.

Simple sentence you can't comprehend

At least I'm not as stupid as u are!
A girl child was molested nd that is stuff that came out of ur mouth that she wasn't killed.
A child is a child, be it girl or boy, when a boy child was molested in akwa ibom , everybody was out to give support to d child.

It's just a sign of a parent u are going to be to ur children. If it's ur child is that wat will come out of ur mouth that at least he wasn't killed.

Do u know how many things that has been killed in d girl child Life just going through the sexual molestation?

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Crime / Re: CCTV Evidence: Baba Ijesha Kissing, Handling Female Minor - PUNCH Reviews by Tobechuckwu(m): 4:23pm On May 01, 2021
Pastorjohn2:
I see nothing wrong here
God has given us dominion over women
A man's wife is like his daughter with whom he shall do as he pleases


U are just a fool.
I'm sure ur birth was a mistake. U are not supposed to be living among human beings. Fool... animal.

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Crime / Re: CCTV Evidence: Baba Ijesha Kissing, Handling Female Minor - PUNCH Reviews by Tobechuckwu(m): 4:17pm On May 01, 2021
Kriss216:

The Lagos commissioner of police said Omiyinka's case is bailable.

Iyabo Ojo and Madam Princess are yet to tell us what they have with Omiyinka.



The police should also arrest madam princess for watching on screen over 30 minutes as her alledged "rape case" was going on.

It just shows that u can do the same to minors!
Sometimes pple need to think before writing stuffs here.
Do you know what he has done to d minor?
It's better for u to keep shut nd it's never by force to contribute rubbish.
The guy should go to jail for it.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Crystal Palace Vs Manchester City (0 - 2 ) On 1st May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 11:30am On May 01, 2021
Abeggi na dem Aguero go play this game with Mendy, Torres nd co.

Tuesday is d main focus.
Win , lose or draw doesn't change anything

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Crystal Palace Vs Manchester City (0 - 2 ) On 1st May 2021 by Tobechuckwu(m): 11:28am On May 01, 2021
blazepascal:
boring match to watch

but crystal palace should do the needful

Who's asking u to watch.
Go nd watch Ur clubs that don't know d taste of trophies.

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Romance / Re: This My Girl At Even After She'll Say Sorry. by Tobechuckwu(m): 7:34pm On Apr 29, 2021
She be Benin girl!
If u are not from that side u can't really understand them, u can't date a Benin girl nd be soft.
They will see u as a baby, they need someone that can take his stand.
She's not ur type nd stop wasting ur money on her.

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Sports / Re: Man City Fans Want Iheanacho Back At Etihad by Tobechuckwu(m): 1:43pm On Apr 29, 2021
I'm not sure it's d Man City I know.
Pep doesn't need Iheanacho at Etihad nd they didn't killed his career , he was only told he will play less.
U can't bench Aguero for anyone once he's fit nd start scoring goals.
Wat pple don't know is that Vardy is making Iheanacho a better player nd Vardy isn't a selfish player.
Let Iheanacho mistakenly enter Man utd, u will see how he will stop scoring goals bcuz Rashford nd Fenaldez all want to score goals more than their strikers.
What's helping Man City is that anybody can scores nd they are not trying to outscore one another. They play as a team nd nobody is going for golden boot. Their highest goals scorer has 12 goals in d league nd it's even a midfielder.

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Romance / Re: The Gift I Bought For My Baby Mama Today - Photos by Tobechuckwu(m): 6:34pm On Apr 26, 2021
Immediately I saw the headline, my mind went straight to u nd behold u were d one eventually.

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Health / Re: FG Scraps Salary For Medical House Officers And Other Health Interns by Tobechuckwu(m): 11:50am On Apr 24, 2021
Coldie:
I see nothing wrong with it.


Maybe it's bcuz u've not been to a teaching hospital before. I've been there nd I know d work of those doctors. Go to neuro department nd see how an officer will work from 6am to 11pm nd resume by 6 am next day.
I've seen a situation that d house officer had to faint for them to give him a 2 day break.
Go to accident nd emergency nd see their work.
Go to physiotherapy department nd see what they go through.
They are been paid btw 120-150k which is even too small for their work.

When u put people that didn't go to school in position that's what u get . How many Fulani can work as an house officer in a teaching hospital down here?

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Religion / Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by Tobechuckwu(m): 9:34pm On Apr 11, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
Challenges are life's stables - they are everywhere... not just in marriages. undecided
Somewhere in the Bible, someone said that all good and PERFECT gifts come from God, does it not? So, if God indeed connects these two people, but rather than coming closer to Him, they end up far from God as a result, is God really the one who did the connecting, to begin with? undecided

That God connected two people in marriage if they now move away from fellowship with God nd divorce is it God's fault?
Remember the thief comes but to steal, to kill nd to destroy.
If God tells u to read a course in d university that will u very successful nd after year 1, you stop reading efficiently , stop going to lectures nd start keeping bad companies, won't the school authorities send u home even though God said that is d course u should study.
In life, there's a place for God nd there's also a place for us to keep doing d right things so as to allow what God said to come to pass.

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Religion / Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by Tobechuckwu(m): 9:25pm On Apr 11, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
Do they really hear from God? undecided
So many people claim to have heard from God yet after it all, the relationship(marriage) ends up drawing them deeper instead into a life of religion and routines. How can God be said to have been responsible for such? undecided
Why would God inflict a marriage on His own knowing it will eventually deprive Him of His relationship with His own? undecided
Normal home training ke? You never enter home where both the man and woman are "confused" individuals but their love and devotion is another thing entirely? undecided

Relationship with God is vital nd it is not God fault if ur relationship isn't as good as it started. In d book of John, Jesus said I stand by the door knocking, it is now left for you to open up d door of ur heart to Him. God never force anything on mankind anymore.
Everybody has d freewill to determine what he/ she wants. Even God said I lay before u live nd death, God said u should choose.
Things work out when people put God first especially Ur relationship with Him. Fellowship is d most important thing in life.
Fellowship with God has nothing to do with religion nd routine , but ur personal walk with God. God talks everyone, that u hear him today doesn't mean that is u will throughout ur marital life, u have to keep hearing which comes from fellowship with God.
Religion / Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by Tobechuckwu(m): 9:51am On Apr 11, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
So what happens when they claim they heard and married the one God willed for them only for it to end in bitter divorce much later? undecided



Personally , there are so many factors.
That u hear from God doesn't mean there won't be challenges in the marriage.
How many couples retain their relationship with God after marriage?
There are normal home training u need to have nd if u don't have it marriage can't work even if u hear from God.
Religion / Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by Tobechuckwu(m): 9:48am On Apr 11, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
So many people who I know of who supposedly heard from God ended up divorced much later... in fact the divorce rate among so called Christians is not that much different from that of the world. So, who only God knows who He in fact spoke to and who imagined it. undecided

God still speaks to his children.
People still hear from God.
Even if God tells u he / she is ur partner, u will still face challenges in d marriage.
No matter what God tells u about ur partner, that doesn't mean u won't face challenges.
How many couples retain their relationship with God after marriage. Relationship with God is not by title.

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Celebrities / Re: Francis Odigie Calls Out Dumez Edo, Her Baby Daddy (Video) by Tobechuckwu(m): 3:50pm On Apr 06, 2021
The guy should come nd take care of his responsibility.
If it will break d guy's marriage, let it break up.
It is every man responsibility to take care of his blood.
The lady admitted that she was wrong ,but that doesn't change d fact that d man is heartless. After impregnating a lady , u now remember u have a family nd u don't want break up in ur marriage, that's been heartless.
The basic needs of d child must be taking care of by d man.
Can he try it in Amsterdam?
Can he try any of this stuff in a developed country?
It's one of d reason developed countries put such law into place that favour women.

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Religion / Re: The Day That Heaven, Earth, And Hell Stood Still by Tobechuckwu(m): 5:31am On Apr 03, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
If so, i got my calculations wrong then. Thanks.

You are welcome.
They believed the day starts by 6am nd so there 1st hour is 6am.

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Religion / Re: The Day That Heaven, Earth, And Hell Stood Still by Tobechuckwu(m): 1:35pm On Apr 02, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
The day that Heaven, Earth, and Hell stood still

There has never been a day like the day where all attention and focus of heaven, and hell was centered upon the Earth.

It was a moment that would determine if the Earth was going to herald a change in the course of humanity or not.

If the prince of the world(then) would be cast out, and the former order which was in the beginning restored, or not.

If man was going to have a second chance to partake of the tree of life or be forever condemned.

It all hinged on the decision of one man to accomplish the purpose for which He was sent to the Earth, which was to die for man's sins.

And since the beginning with respect to man's decision to disobey the Word of God, never has there been a more influential decision, upon which just about everything that pertained to the Earth rested.

And once Jesus the one upon whom the hopes of all creation hinged, decided to take that plunge for humanity, it was only a matter of time before His decision translated into an fulfilled mission.

But meanwhile, the Creation of God seemed to nervously hold its breath for the final moments leading up to the accomplishment of that unprecedented feat, while He hung upon the cross, for it was said:

Matthew 27:45 (KJV) 

Now from the sixth hour there was darkness over all the land unto the ninth hour. 

So there was apparent suspense all over the land from about 6 a.m. to 9 a.m. in anticipation for the most defining moment in human history in the post-sin era.

Hence Heaven, Earth, and Hell stood still, until it was said:

Matthew 27:50-54 (KJV) 

Jesus, when he had cried again with a loud voice, yielded up the ghost.
And, behold, the veil of the temple was rent in twain from the top to the bottom; and the earth did quake, and the rocks rent;
And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose,
And came out of the graves after his resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many.


And that was the thunderous reaction of Heaven and Earth to the most anticipated moment in the post-sin era of all creation, as they rejoiced that the prince of the world(then), Satan, was finally cast out, and the new and reigning Prince, Jesus was installed.

It was a fitting response to mark the day that heralded the unprecedented victory of Man over the power of sin, death, and destruction.

The day that Heaven, Earth, and Hell stood still.

God bless.

The sixth hour there is 12 noon till 3pm , not 6am till 9am.
Religion / Re: Can A Genuine Christian Be A Nigerian Politician? by Tobechuckwu(m): 3:55pm On Mar 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Who among those of the old testament "served the people" righteously? undecided

Daniel did nd Joseph did also!
That's just few to mention
Religion / Re: Can A Genuine Christian Be A Nigerian Politician? by Tobechuckwu(m): 7:15am On Mar 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Try to pay attention, regardless of what is written for you in the book of Proverbs by men who were in authority at the time, the fact is God is Law as far as His people and Kingdom is concerned. I made it clear that regardless of what you have read of in the Old Testament, the New Covenant, Jesus Christ decreed it a sin to occupy such positions , as one of His followers. undecided

So unless you are suggesting we throw away the commandments of Jesus Christ, and the Gospels as a whole, because some where in the book of proverbs , some king suggested that the people are happier when the righteous men rule, I say you get your mind together as far as who it is that rules over you. undecided


Jesus Christ never said that. I don't know which of the Bible u are quoting.
God is d God of Abraham ,David ,Daniel nd still d father of my Lord Jesus Christ, if those in d old testament could serve d people righteously nd still serve God wholeheartedly, we Christian can.
Dont let Ur Pastor deceive u with old fables nd with traditions .

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