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TheCongo2:Just wondering, what are the reason (s) why you don't agree with homosexuality? |
mozona:Heathen!! Do you know how your own life will end? You own hell fire will be 10 times for thinking you have the right to judge someone else! |
Mental issues and suicidal tendency is something that can happen to anyone not matter strong they think you are. It can happen to your brother, your sister, your parents, your future children etc. Both Allah and Jesus will not save you when it comes if you do not take some of the suggestions that some individuals have listed here such as seeking help from loved ones, attending social gathering and spending meaningful time with loved ones who can resurrect the sense of love and belonging in such hard times. Some of the comments people post here on certain issues are very awful and eye-sore. Just imagine someone who has depression or people outside Nigeria going through these comments here. People saying stuff like burn in hell and some religious bullshit that people spit out here. It sends a very primitive and low-mentality image on the Nigerian populace. My WARNING is going particularly to young people. Depression is real and it will be worse on us young people because of the hardship in Nigeria. Alot of young people in Nigeria, even graduates, have no foreseeable hope for their future. Some have them been forced to put hands in untold things due to hardship. With the social media on the hype, you are also likely to get hopeless about life because of the effect it has on your self-esteem. BE WISE!! STOP HELPING ALL THIS OLD GENERATION FROM STIGMATIZING DEPRESSION BECAUSE IF YOU OR YOUR FRIEND GET DEPRESSED, it will be difficult for you or your friend to get the help they need due to stigmatization. We have been praying to God and Allah which were brought to us by British colonizers and Arab Crusaders since time immemorial and yet those God allowed Africa to be colonized,Yet these Gods allows all the bad things happening to Nigeria Boko Haram, Corruption, Road accidents, poverty, baby factory,etc. continue to happen today. It is time to try other things. It's time to open our eyes. Do more research and educate ourselves. Ignorance will not save us. Look after and love thy relations and neighbours!!. Challenge every assumptions. Alot of them are fallacy!! |
ceemac:Oshey!! Ti ba gbo say those condiments have any effect for my body. I was born strong oo. But honestly some of these issues are just social constructs. we need to unpack them. Na people of our generation and the next go hear am cuz things are changing and we need to evolve with time, otherwise we will be left behind. |
Thank you so much Trevor, those are very insightful comments. Do you mind if connect with you? I could learn alot from you. |
I'm just wondering, what are some of the lucrative businesses in Nigeria than some one can go into ( say with 4 million naira investment)? Your suggestions are well appreciated! |
Ifeoma77:Lol! This is a very good question that alot of men don't think through. Personally, I think I will be comfortable with a woman being in charge, especially if she is more capable than me. As long as love and harmony reigns. |
Ugosample:No be today, o tego ihe a bidoro. Onye obula ma ka e si zoo Nigeria ndu, ya nye aka! |
thebosstrevor:No truer words has been said !!! |
![]() Ugosample:he! he! Thanks for the suggestion ![]() |
thebosstrevor:It is really difficult especially when people won't be attentive to you due to pre-exiting biases and limited experience. But honestly, the benefit of having this sort of conversation is that people can get challenged on some of the issues they believe to be an entire truth. |
Ugosample:great points there! I haven't been in Nigeria lately, so you definitely know better as to how things are changing. However, it is also important to look into some of the points raised by individuals abroad too, cuz they know how it feels here too. I followed up the news with drug abuse in Nigeria. Correct me if I am wrong but it was Codein abuse with one of the cough medicine. When I complain of drugs here I mean cocain, Lysergic acid diethylamide, mushroom, edibles. etc.. Up to you to weigh which is more dangerous. Flogging and bruatality is not a sign of proper upbringing. I agree. Just for learning sake, what other suggestion would you recommend for proper upbringing? For homosexuality and cross dressing, Its because the Nigerian society does not tolerate such they hide in shame for something that is not their fault to begin. I think its better for those individuals to migrate to other places where they are accepted, if they can. |
justwise:It is funny the way we Nigerians argue. . We like to make attacking comments yet we don't back our views with supporting comments. What is is this level of thinking? and why does it surprise you, in negative way? |
justwise:Lol! Nice! can you explain what you mean by the jumping to different topic? |
Beautyaddy:Hey Addy, Perhaps the concept of "Modern day slavery" has changed meaning in the Nigerian context. However, it actually comes from the fact that indigenous groups, mostly Africans were sold and used as slaves in the West during the transatlantic slave trade. Whereas this physical forms of slavery no longer exist today, the West still find ways to dominate and neo-colonise less powerful nations, hence the term "modern day slavery". It appears ASUU strike is a very big issue right now due to unfair compensation between ASUU and the government. Hopefully, they call it off during the new year. However, I am lost as to how it qualifies in the "slave- slave master" context? |
justwise:Hey Justewise, First time I am ever getting a direct quote from you. Such an honour! It depends on the angle you see it from. Alot of immigrants are realising how difficult it is to raise children in the West. First, your generation will loose a greater part of their African identity and some parents do regret raising their children in the West. Suffice to say that raising your children here, they risk being white-washed and loosing important virtues such as family, respect for elders, community etc. which are very important to their core-identity and mental health. Secondly, a lot of parents are now contemplating if it is worth it to raise their children in an environment where they have the tendency and fear of being racialised right from childhood till their entire life. Whereas a person raised in Nigeria is sheltered away from racism or police brutality. One of the Nigerian family I met here suggest raising kids in Singapore. An environment where they can get good education and be sheltered away from racism and drugs. In terms of good education and health care you can definitely get them in Nigeria. There are international standard school systems in Nigeria depending on your socio-economic status. Some of the high school educational system in Nigeria pay higher tuition fees than a Canadian university, annually. You are right in terms of security, as I mentioned earlier Nigeria has a big security problem than it seems. The Western system is built based on "extractive principle". Their system will suck 80% from you, then give you 20%. It is important to consider and weigh all options carefully. Take US., for instance, only 10% of the elites in that country owns 77% of the country's wealth. This is a striking inequality that is worse off than Nigeria. |
thebosstrevor:Like wise Bosstrevor. The appreciation is mutual ![]() |
Thank you so much thebosstrevor for starting this tread. As final a year student studying abroad who is contemplating between working overseas or coming back to Nigeria, I learned alot from people's comments. I think a lot of reaction from people miss the point the OP raises which is "ONLY MAKE IT ABROAD". Basically, I believe people can make it both in Nigeria and Overseas. However, any migrant needs to weigh their skills, competences, and savings accordingly before migrating, otherwise, the individual might end up taking meager jobs overseas that are less in value that what they had in Nigeria. On the other hand, the individuals who mentioned about the better quality of live overseas is definitely right. I have been to several countries in North America and Europe and can attest that the quality of life there is better than Nigeria. I dont want to start ranting about the many social problems in Nigeria but the fact that whenever you are in Nigeria and you fear for your security- from road accidents, armed robbery, kidnapping, religious crisis, police harrasement, Boko Haram, depending on where you live. These issues chase people away from Nigeria. And this could also be a reason why politicians send their kids and family away too. Big Picture: Opportunities exist in both in Nigeria and abroad but you must work hard to get it, be it abroad or in Nigeria For the individuals that complains about blaming the West for Nigeria's problem. Certainly, the West is definitely a major part of the problem that a lot of African Nation are facing, including corruption. The Nigerian politicians who embezzle Nigerian funds use the West as safe havens where they buy properties, send their kids and families, and for tax evasions. If the West is resolved to help African nation fight corruption,then, they might as well stop the money laundering coming into their economy. Just to be clear, anyone living and working abroad, legally, is paying income taxes. By this, we immigrants alongside citizens of those country generate tremendous amount of revenue and skills for their government. Their government use this resource to better their countries, support their industries, invest overseas, and subsidise some sector of their economy. This goes to show that as long as we keep migrating and investing overseas we keep contributing to building their economy for them. It's called putting yourself and your children to modern day slavery. |
rainazoe:Do it oo. It can opens doors for you. let me know if you need recommendations ![]() |
Salut mesdames et messieurs . Enchanté de vous rencontrer. Ce n'est pas tout les jours qu'on croise sur des gens qui parlent français dans ce forum @Thecongo tu habites dans quelle ville?. @ Nathalie. Peut-être que Montréal te plairait. C'est une ville quasiment bilingue. Comme ça, tu auras la chance de travailler dans les deux langues.Moi, je suis étudiant dans ma dernière année à l'université à Montréal et j'ai de l'angoisse de transitionner en domaine de travail. ![]() |
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Naychuzzy:It's not about how my gf shoulder is or not. Men and women come in different sizes and diverse preferences. You need to respect them for how their bodies are. You are not a creator so it's disrespectful to body shame people be it on the internet or in real life. |
Naychuzzy:Irrelevant! The human body comes in different forms ranging from small to big. Only low-lifers and unenlightened people still body shame other people. Who shoulders don help! |
nmaihat:In the first picture she is still wearing the hospital's scrub. Then, in the second pic, she is in her personal clothes. Is this all your wicked heart could come up with for a lady who lost a baby and whose husband is no longer around? You should be ashamed of yourself. Also, you're not even that smart. |
I can only imagine how high your tensions are right now. Wishing those expecting a decision a very successful one. Always remember to keep your dream alive, even if you're not selected. |
mamachildren:So sorry to learn about this. Sending you some strength. I hope it works out for you, soon. |
comenting to follow. |
sahihi:Congratulation. You should glad of your accomplishment. I might visit Edinburgh next year. Let's keep in touch |
Hi flemmy, please I want to contact you for some informations about shipping. |
While I believe that there exist God, the almighty. No ones argues Jesus was born on Christmas And no one can also really prove that the Bible was written by inspiration of holy spirit or by those who wish to use it to conquer other people. It so narrow-minded for certain people not to understand that there are so many different ways people worship God. The white man brought Christianity to our forefathers and condemned all our traditional practices and belief system. They labeled us pagan or heathens unless we convert to their supreme ideologies and religion. They also enslaved your forefathers justifying this from the same Bible as well cuz they labelled the black nations as cursed descendants of Ham's tribe. It so shameful that after these years, so many group still use the same ideology and Bible to segregate or judge their fellow brothers and sister. For Christians and non-Christians around the world, Christmas means different things to them- A time to unite with family, a time to remember the less privilege, a time to REMEMBER the birth of Jesus, a time to rest and plan for the future year etc. You should never condemn other people's belief systems cuz non is perfect. Holy books are meant to guide life's journey and not to dictate life journey. |
Khd95:are you from NSK? |



