₦airaland Forum

Syrusvirus:
mind your business has led to more prison inmates in the US

thesmallgod:
So if you own a house and recruit an house help, you want to tell me it is wrong for you to enter and check her room

cochexky:
Please OP I'm surprise of what some people are saying here, for christ sake that wasn't her personal phone so u never intruded rather this is how God want to help her if not she wouldn't have forgotten to log out after knowing she has nonsense in her inbox.

Please hear me, for the fact God has giving u this opportunity to help a soul kindly respond to God by first of all, tell your wife about it by showing her the chats so that she will not suspect you.

Second, call the girl and expose what u saw, then take the number of her parent and let them know that there Daughter is pregnant.

She should tag any of the guy since they be making advantage her ignorant.

OP this is an issue between you and God not us.

As we talk, what ever happened to that unborn child may be upon you...

Listen to what is say, you will see more blessings but if u are unGodly then listen to those saying you should mind ur business.


I hope you screenshot everything or still have the Facebook account on.

Start now from telling you wife...
Please if u don't have any evidence, and you are the type there wife suspect.. Abeg no rush tell her oo..

God bless you as you help the unborn.

Vslayer:
Abeg who Don use this childcare giver (nanny) pathway, help your sister oo.. I have BSc, then first aid certificate.. What else do I need. How long does the process take.
I have 1 child at d moment. Do I need another training.

Abeg Nigerian citizens in Canada give ur sister work biko

Kekereekun123:
keep applying and pray for a miracle. Very unlikely they would consider you. For farm workers Nigeria is not on the list. Your best bet for caregiver is for a relative in canada to hire you. Phillipinos and Indians have colobi most of the jobs. There are many people with legal status without jobs too so it will be hard to consider others.

crestedaguiyi:
their is one of such places at orowuoroko community in st. johns .

a lot of young guys are chained there on allegation of madness or witchcraft . Africa is just miles away from others

aminu114:
i didnt say i have it nd i will not isolate myself if i isolate myself later on people will stay away from even if i dont have which i know 100%i dont have i just left abj because im afraid they might lockdown the town i dont want to be there when that happen

aminu114:
i have just come back home from abuja i swear to god people were coughing there. there is even one guy who i saw he was not just coughing he was having shortness of breath that is why i pack my things and come back home eventhough i was in contact with that guy

Ausrichie:
It could be fake on one hand and on the other the police could have been bribed so..... This is how worthless Africa is.

eaglechild:
I feel sorry for you.

SpecialAdviser:
Mumu governor. I use to think he is good but not anymore.

Up til now, no flyover in Abakpa junction or holy ghost junction. What about Otigba junction . what of flyover in Nsukka?

When will this idiot build one flyover.

Iwinosified:
Make I chook mouth for this matter as I was one of those who was also considering this sending back thing. Just yesterday, here in a place somewhere in the south west of Naija, around mid day, a group of secondary school students stormed into my place of work. My work place is directly opposite the school. They were brought in by a teacher. One of them was bleeding from a hand injury. His white shirt uniform had turned red. Asked what happened, teacher said they were fighting. After staff members removed the band used to tie the injury, there were 3- 4 different deep cuts. All looking like screwdriver, knife or whatever it is they used. Told them to disperse as they had gathered like a beehive. Immediately, someone whispered to me to come in, that I should be careful the way I tell those gathered to leave as they were all cultists. Choi! to say I was shocked. Well, I just observed them while a nurse worked to address treatment. Was I more shocked? I couldn't believe the things I heard, saw, with some wearing black hats. Then it all made sense. These kids on the average would be no more than 14-15 years. And this is a good school by some standards. The value system we could still hold some claim to in our schools, is NO more. There's no point in sending anybody back.

iPopAlomo:
This is why you share... if you don't mind, Do share...

Folafikemi:
Oga I'm not a student sir.
I'm a PR and you don't expect me to experience what you experienced... We have a different pathways to chose and I'm not been sponsored by anyone. It my decision bro.. Besides reading from people experience doesn't mean you will have the same line and path to toe. And that you did not do one thi g differently in the past 4years doesn't make you regret schooling here. If it did you could have gone back home...understand my point bro..

Folafikemi:
Been reading all these not-so good information someone wrote here judging from his experience. And sometimes I can't help but wonder why you think cos you experienced that, it should also be same with me and every other people.

I really need to know whether any of us were forced with this relocation decision and when you were coming did you not know that changes, pleasant and not-so pleasant will occur?

This aside., for my naija folks, how on earth will u ever compare a developed nation with naija in any way regardless of whatever status you had back in naija before relocation.? If it were that good for you back there why did u relocate to Canada if at all you must relocate having to spend such money, time and energy only for you to come over here to read some demoralising story from someone who has no idea of what it takes to live in naija... Oh!

I have only spent 1month here in Regina and for each passing day I have no regret whatsoever. Getting a job here is not automatic just like in every other climes. Why the thought of having to land and getting all ur desires automatically met. People who thinks like that are only greedy and also an ingrate.

At least here you have peks to lay claims in even if you never get jobs {for families with child{ren} you get child benefit, what you never had in naija} , lots of other different opportunities abounds here and there, just that people don't take the pain to read and get right information. Can you compare been jobless in naija with been jobless here where you can at least take up survival jobs and pay ur bills till u get back in ur feet.

I can state here without mincing words that this country has lots of potentials for you to attain your goals if only you can be patient and consistent. Don't be afraid to start from the beginning if you have to, after all that's the purpose of relocation. If you can by yourself sell ur houses, lands, vehicle and other material things to come over here, what took you years to achieve and fear no catch you to dispose them only for you to come here come read something online and u want to start having a rethinking, infact I pity you o..

Get your head thinking straight and put ur hope in God. Do the best you can and get that little job to start with and if it's the big one go all the way for it. Its ur life not anybodies and you should take responsibility for every cause of actions you take. Get advices but weigh your objectives before taking decision cos you get to live by whatever decisions you take.

And above all don't regret doing things, only learn from your mistake and move ahead. Whatever did not stop you from getting to Canada can never stop you from making it in this land.

I rest my case. Na your hand e dey o...

Dollywood:
I heard Canada is one hell of a boring country, so how do u guys cope with the boredom in the country?Do u guys watch movies or play video games?
I just wanna hear from you guys

dayo2me:
Thank you for this advice. I will just try it. Just that the way some nairalanders think scares me so much that I would like to give it a thorough thought of it. I will give it try, though.

fairfora:
It all depends on how you describe or your criteria of being poor or being rich. Money and material things are not always yardsticks for riches or wealth as many may see it.

My grand father was a peasant farmer, who couldn't even recite ABC. But in his time, he lived uprightly. He didn't even have a car but from his farm proceeds, built a mansion which housed him and his 3 wives and children. He trained all his children well. Led a healthy life and departed at a very ripe age. Now to you or someone else, he was a poor man because he didn't have more than one house, no cars, no millions of naira in his accounts...but his children were well educated.
We have such category of people in millions in Nigeria today who are happier and more fulfilled yet, they're not rich. [s]The main reason our society is this bad is because we don't fear God anymore[/s]. We don't follow the due process. We manipulate everything, including our age. Many want to get wealth or positions desperately. Only 20 percent (or even less) of our leaders are clean. They keep going abroad for treatment when they got the health illegally. Most of our politicians including Tinubu, buhari, Obasanjo, etc falsified their age. You can imagine Buhari's younger sister being older than him . Obasanjo is older than prof soyinka who used to call the former an egbon( meaning an elder bro) whilst in the secondary school yet, soyinka is in his early 80s whilst obj is claiming 79.

It wasn't me who said age falsification wasn't good but a trusted man of God whom you might now of mentioned. He wuited the scriptures to back his claims. If you falsify your age, it doesn't mean you wouldn't be rich or successful but there's every grave consequences behind it. God who created you knows the plan of your life and when you should be at where. He can never make mistakes.

Grupo:
The only consequence is that your employer might find out and sack you. Apart from that, no other known consequence.

henrykaimaife:
Just go and swear an affidavit once it's done everything as regard your real age is cancelled. Then proceed and register that DOB on affidavit with national population commission once it's done birth certificate will be issued to you. But the implications is that you can't change the age again so I advice you start with 23 or 25. Goodluck

Carbon2Oxide:

Are you a thief?

Carbon2Oxide:
This is amateur torture...

How about melting rubber on their backs... or inserting their diicks in a beehive

Kemi4me:
Please which document did you included in the application for your mum because i will like to invite my mum (68 years old) to visit ,am currently a PR.And did you use the paper or online route for the tourist application?

and what forms to fill if applying via online route only form 5257e and 5257b ?

19CannyMum:
This is a brilliant idea. Do they actually have to sit in the wheelchair? Or they can just walk beside the assistant.

Because I can imagine naija parents being like "you want to turn me to paralysed person"

jhoci:
I usually request wheelchair assistance for my parents, this ensures that they are not left to sort out things themselves. Also, it can be stressful for them walking from one boarding gate to another.

kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

you have sharp memory oo. Really commendable!!