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Celebrities / Re: Oluwasikemi Wafiqah Abina: Sola Kosoko's Baby's Naming Ceremony by tolanibae(f): 10:57am On Apr 22, 2019
BOOOMNAIJA:
Poor little thing cry.......u would av met grandma if grandpa didn't use her to enhance his career.....
Thats how you people believe pant will buy benz

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Romance / Re: Is It Possible For AA Versus AA To Gave Birth To AS? by tolanibae(f): 10:08am On Apr 21, 2019
Compulsive liar on the loose, run
Romance / Re: How Often Do You Tell People Your Problems? by tolanibae(f): 9:15am On Apr 20, 2019
RonKenoly:

That's why I said you need to have at least a person you could confine in.

Can you give an instance of issue that was use to mock someone close to you or even to you self. Need to get a clearer picture.

I tried to confide in a blood relation about something serious i was going through a while back. I was with another person at that time, this person is just a friend of the family. Let me call her big aunty.

I stumbled on a message on this aunty’s phone about how my blood relation told another blood relation that told big aunty. It was a very disgusting chat and they were like dont let her i know i told you o.
Romance / Re: How Often Do You Tell People Your Problems? by tolanibae(f): 9:04am On Apr 20, 2019
RonKenoly:

Please if you are facing any problem and you have someone very close to you, learn to share.

No problem is unique, any problem you have; someone has gone through same stage and comes out strong.

Sharing your problem doesn't make you weak but only make you human, nobody is expecting you to be perfect.

Just have at least a person you could share things with, you don't have all the answers so why act strong and die inside quietly?

It sounds so easy until they start mocking you with your problems and you look like a liability. I agree with one person but who is thereto trust in sincerity?
Celebrities / Re: Teju Babyface Celebrates His Twin Babies' 1st Birthday by tolanibae(f): 11:59am On Apr 19, 2019
Beautiful family

Teju looks so young that he makes his wife look older than him. This guy is babyface for life

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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Abraham Flaunts Wedding Ring, Tells Fan "No Baby Mama In My Family" by tolanibae(f): 11:58am On Apr 19, 2019
Hmmm. Watching
Romance / Re: Upcoming Slayqueen. Hit Or Miss? by tolanibae(f): 9:30am On Apr 19, 2019
Isn’t there a law against things like this?
Celebrities / Re: 19-year-old Lady Commits Suicide Over Fear That She Was Ugly by tolanibae(f): 6:13pm On Apr 18, 2019
Are these suicide stories made up or for real?
Education / Re: '3.5m Per Term' Secondary School Reunion Turns Into Tale Of Woes About Nigeria by tolanibae(f): 2:02am On Apr 17, 2019
50 shades of arrogance has overshadowed the main point he’s trying to pass across

Its good that people are speaking up but this one’s sense of entitlement because his parents made it in the 60s, went to 3.5 million secondary school and built house in VI is somehow.

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Dances Wearing Bra by tolanibae(f): 2:11pm On Apr 15, 2019
tammie24:
na your wahala be that

undecided

Birds of the same feather

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Celebrities / Re: Eniola Badmus In Tears, Buries Her Friend (Photos) by tolanibae(f): 10:49am On Apr 15, 2019
youngest85:
Eye service cry
Is it new to lose someone in this shit hole?
Where people are dying everyday

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Romance / Re: How Possible Is This Dream Between ME And My Ex by tolanibae(f): 11:07pm On Apr 14, 2019
Seems you have not gotten over her. More reason why you are dreaming of her and using fake facebook to chat with her.
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Dances Wearing Bra by tolanibae(f): 9:53pm On Apr 14, 2019
Lawrentta16:
madam u get time oh

And u had to create an account just so you could tell me i got time.

Bros, u get time pass me grin

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Dances Wearing Bra by tolanibae(f): 4:58pm On Apr 14, 2019
sexybaby22:


You say 'she ruined her family' when it was her husband that started the whole drama and the interview was the only way she felt she could defend herself. Tiwa that was the breadwinner and covering up for his lapses till he lost it. You are a woman and you should have empathy for your fellow women after all we all know what a lot of women go through in their marriages.

Common, being a woman doesn’t mean i should support manipulation. There are no perfect family anywhere under the sun. The man was clearly going through some crisis, he needed help. It was the likes of banky and one of the p squares that was there for the poor guy when he almost lost it all while tiwa was crying all over the internet busy saving her supposedly tarnished hoe-ish image.

My guy used to have some substance addictions issue, i helped him through it, i didnt abandon him so i know what it feels like. We are doing good now and we are stronger because we have gone through a lot together.

If i was in tiwa’s shoe, i would have done all i can to get my family in order, teebillz would have apologized publicly for saying tiwa sleeps around, blamed all he said on the depression he was going through. But no, tiwa sacrificed her whole family to prove to the world that she wasn’t a hoe which she eventually proved otherwise to the world. Over time, Teebillz has undergone rehab and seemingly doing fine, Tiwa has dragged her reputation as a mother many times with her dressing and choice of lifestyle (even with a rumor of dating somebody that calls her husband uncle).

Different strokes for different folks but the bottom line is that no one is perfect, if you will throw someone under the bus for something that people will eventually know to be true, it shouldn’t be the father of your only child, it shouldn’t be the person that saw something in you when no one did, it shouldn’t be someone that needed help. I don’t support the use of drugs but family should always come first.

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Crime / Re: Graduate Hacked Government Database And Employed Himself by tolanibae(f): 4:22pm On Apr 14, 2019
in my dear country, you cant hack anything because the database is some bundles of junk paper folders of inconsistent information in various old archaic buildings known as ministries
Romance / Re: What Is The Role Of Physical Attractiveness In A Marriage? by tolanibae(f): 2:14pm On Apr 14, 2019
richie240:

Yes

I tot as much
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Dances Wearing Bra by tolanibae(f): 2:14pm On Apr 14, 2019
Once upon a time, tiwa used to be my mentor, now(from the moment she cried in that interview and ruined her family, i cant even recommend her to anyone.
Romance / Re: What Is The Role Of Physical Attractiveness In A Marriage? by tolanibae(f): 1:58pm On Apr 14, 2019
richie240:


Do you know how many luxurious cars davido has? Six!
What about Christiano Ronaldo? Nineteen (19)

How many cars can take either of them from one destination to d other? Just one!
Then why the profligacy?
Simple, human beings wants (not needs o) are insatiable!
Neither of them bought all those cars in a single day. When they thought they've bought the ultimate ride, another one pops up d following year.

This is d same reason couples cheat on one another. Whoever wouldve thought that jayz could ever cheat on the godess-beyonce? But it happened! That shows that beauty alone isn't enough 4 a successful marriage.
Beauty is like ur university certificate- it can ONLY land u a job but ur skills and a whole bunch of other factors will keep that job for you.

Speaking as a male, men are attracted by what they see and that's all. A man can be aroused and end up making love to an attractive woman without a pinch of love for her in his heart.
If/when a man marries u for ur beauty, be rest assured that he'll still set his eyes on other women (either equally beautiful or more beautiful than u).
To cut along story short, outward beauty can land u a marriage but inward beauty ie ur character only will preserve that marriage for u.

A TIP: Don't let modernization fool u o. Men (,esp African men) are egoists. They want submission from their women. During courtship, he may open d car door for u, preach (and acts) d 'ladies first' sermon, even kneel down to propose to u, acts indifference to 'equality', feminism etc, but that's where it ends o. Once u bcom his wife, subconsciously he expects u to SUBMIT to his authority. And this is where things go south in many marriages. The woman is confused at the Change ...,.....and b4 u say 'jack', they have gone their separate ways.
Just know now that life as a fiancé ~fiancee is totally different from life as husband~wife.
If u follow ds tip (coupled with lots of prayers plus heart of forgiveness) ull have a lon-lasting marriage.

Thanks so much for this. If i may ask, are you married?
Celebrities / Re: Sola Kosoko Welcomes A Newborn Baby by tolanibae(f): 10:13am On Apr 14, 2019
MrSensor:
So who be the father of the pikin or she was just spreading her legs to Tom and Jerry like that? Na wa for this girl.

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Romance / Re: Can My Wife Cheat With My Father. Pls Advice by tolanibae(f): 7:22am On Apr 10, 2019
Same old recycled post.

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Romance / Re: How Often Do You Tell People Your Problems? by tolanibae(f): 7:45am On Apr 06, 2019
Martinez39:
Some will spread it to others. For these people, the story of your problems are just stories to satisfy their "itchy" ears. Worse is if they are the average Nigerian blogger grin cheesy.

So true
Romance / How Often Do You Tell People Your Problems? by tolanibae(f): 10:48pm On Apr 05, 2019
Initially in my life, i would whyne and look for someone i can complain to all day about why life is not fair. Damn, i was very bad about handling crisis. You would know i was going through something so easily..

But now......

I have learnt to face my problems face to face. Nigeria is one of the hardest places to be on the planet earth so you just have to stand up for yourself and be strong.

I know you have to open up to people and not ve too uptight but in my opinion, just project positivity.


Focus on ways to make your life better, not on The negativities.

Learn to see beautiful patterns of waves in every storm

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help! I Need To Make My Own Money. by tolanibae(f): 5:42pm On Apr 05, 2019
Where are you based?
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe Goes Gangster In Photo As She Celebrate Her 5million IG Followers by tolanibae(f): 4:59pm On Apr 04, 2019
UrbanExotica:
I'm not a celeb and I've got over 220k followers so it's possible

I can show you how to get 5 million followers

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Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe Goes Gangster In Photo As She Celebrate Her 5million IG Followers by tolanibae(f): 4:33pm On Apr 04, 2019
Joromi12:
once u begin to post cars houses and travel online. Pple go follow u. She is also in the news and rumours. So pple go gollow

Probably not 5 million kind of follow. There are more controversial celebrities that dont even have 1 million followers.
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe Goes Gangster In Photo As She Celebrate Her 5million IG Followers by tolanibae(f): 12:11pm On Apr 04, 2019
Most of these celebrities buy followers. I wonder what 5 Million people are following mercy.

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Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by tolanibae(f): 11:21pm On Apr 01, 2019
This is one of the most educating thread on nairaland so far.

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Celebrities / Re: Tobi Bakre And His Mother Show Swag With Legwork by tolanibae(f): 5:56pm On Mar 31, 2019
Rolling eyes tongue
Education / Re: Sick Bay Seen Under A Stairway In A Lagos School (PHOTOS) by tolanibae(f): 9:44am On Mar 31, 2019
To even think that they had to put that lovely quote at the door is hilarious
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by tolanibae(f): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2019
Family / Re: Outrage As 6-month-old Baby Dies Mysteriously In Abuja Creche by tolanibae(f): 9:50pm On Mar 29, 2019
Graxie:
read your first post and this, then compare your thought towards a fellow woman that lost her child. Stop playing the victim card, I don't have to wish you anything, but don't think because you are keeping your child under your care, you are in charge of the child breath. Only a terrible person will blame the mother of this child for keeping her child in a creche while she is working. My dear, whatever I am going through, it's not as bad as blaming a bereaved mum, for losing her child in a careless creche, only a horrible person will do that.

Its okay dear, i get your point.

However, am only looking at things from the perspective of michelle in her loving memory. She died because of negligence, negligence of everyone involved in her daily upkeep. Am only saying everyone should share in the blame, its more than obvious that the creche or whatever they are called was responsible for the chunk part of it but her mother is also responsible for it in some ways, at 6 months, i think i was still in my mother’s arm and she’s a successful career woman.

Michelle couldn’t protect or save herself. I understand the mother’s pain and i see why she’s bent on getting justice for michelle. I pray she or anyone doesn’t have to go through this.

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