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Simple answer to that, failed societal values, failed family system.

+ its not men alone its all human beings. chikena

demwan:
well, its possible i like him more than just being a friend, am not denying that but i havent discovered that yet.

He called me to say that he likes me and that he wants us to start up something.

i asked about his girlfriend and he said she has a boyfriend

I feel your pain!! I dont want to shoot you down and i wont but trust me that guy is bad news, and to imagine you guys stay in the same compound, hell nooo,
There's going to be intimacy issues, i honestly dont subscribe to you having sex with him and im gonna tell you he just needs a sex buddy he doesnt love you one bit!

Get your own guy someplace else!

Poster you really need to be sincere with yourself, you allowed the guy kiss you and you still followed him to his room to have your bosoms sucked , is it that easy Honestly sounds like a movie script,

I honestly appreciate your attempt not to Be Intimate, but smooching your neighbour

Call your bf to smooche you atleast he will understand better!

Then about him not picking ur calls or replying your text thats a classic ignoring trick It always works on girls like you!

Long One:
^^^the problem with those guys is they were probably one of the 100/99.9%, then lost their game and became ‘just friends’.

They are still very dangerous though, as they are now working ‘under cover’ and can strike, like in this case at any point in time i.e. when you are both drunk (if they are sensible). 

Laugh Wan kill me die!!!

lindabon:
hmmm, i tink u have to cut off the friendship. the guy definitely wont stop seeing himself as a reject and a looser weneva he sees u. u need to give him his space. cos u coming around is like rubbing the rejection back and all over his face.
in this sort of situation, malice usually follows. with time, the situation may subside btw d two of u, and he'll come around. bt 4 nw, u gatz to stop bothering about friendship wit him. cause d guy needs to sort the rejection out and yup! s*hit happens!!  

and incase u've not gotten the vibe by now, here lemme rub it in for ya; HE JUST WANTS TO SLEEP WIT YA!!

Quite True

My Point: You like the guy smooching you but u dont want sex, but u claim he has a girlfriend, seriously u need to check yourself, wats up with your own boyfriend? You have already ruined the opportunity to just be friends forget that story!

Why's it only guys dropping their number? Lol

Really Lovely shots I hope u took them urself, not just some images u downloaded from the internet

Now this is one great n sensible topic i'd love to partake in,
Yeah I'd love my daughter to date someone like me! infact i'd be proud of her choice!

Interesting Piece, but i must inform the poster that being a Christian or born again doesn't kill ur basic desire as a human being, rather it gives you more responsibility controlling it!!!

You dont go around blaming the chic for exploring her inhibited self, yeah I've had something close to what u describe the guilt feeling, even though i didnt take it yyour far, but the issue is not about her Christianity or her born again status it all has to do with her understanding of herself and her personal stand!!

And mind you she didn't do it alone you're also a Christian yourself so please dont bring the born again issues,

About the churches and wat we see and have among pastors it was foretold in the bible so u shouldn't be surprised,

My advice, You get back to God and make things right with her the both of you get serious with God being a worker in church is nothing to God! even if u're the pastor sef!!!

REALITY101:
Get of of the computer, do you home work, when you get to the age you will know.

Only serious minded ppl needed here thanx!

--190--:
Romance is:
The ability to satisfy your woman in bed.


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I dont think so sir!! Romance comes before sex!

Celery:
The word ROMANCE is very ambiguous. It means diferent tin 2 diferent ppl. Take it frm me. It can be in words, actions or reactions.

Thats y it's so confusing, hence the topic if ppl contributed there quota then maybe we'd all understand it the more!

Please I think i need clarification on this topic, cause some ppl think u're romantic and some think u're not maybe our collective experiences may bring the truth to life!
thanks

y me:
Lmao!! where can i copy that from?
that is me doing my own thing jare

Babe I fear fear oh. Lol, How u dey missed u, u've boned yahoo?

y me:
alright, here is the necessary recommendation for the guys:

1)if you are a virgin my friend stay out
2)on a scale of 1-10, the recommended sex scale is 8
3)your di:ck size must be from 7 inch anything below that is FUERA,we don't need any micro di:ck there
4)you must have had sex with more than 20 people 
5)if you cant go 8 rounds with just 5 Min's. break after each round abeg stay your house
6)No Viagra or Alomo bitter is allowed

NB__No more ladies needed, but we still gat alot of open space for the guys
         And for the guys if you don't meet the necessary recommendation you ain't getting any a:SS cause the Pu:ssy will be fictional

Wow are this recommendations from you or did u like copy them somewhere?

If this post is about what on my mind?
Here Goes "I just discovered of recent that I'm obsessed with beautiful ladies" there I said it,

yoji:
Gender pls?

Actually any gender is welcome, just keen on the person being fun and intelligent someone u can share with u know!

Yeah I'm looking for a fun friend in abuja, new here and it's freaking boring to me, is there anyone willing to mingle and show me fun places here? please note i need some real fun oh, shouldnt be expensive, and I'm quite socially challenged, hehehe!!

Welcome to the club dear, really could be hard but i think it's a thing you wont get over trying to get over it, i hope u get my drift!!!

I was once in your shoes for like 2yrs, the breakup is like over 3yrs now, but really I just had to find solace in the fact that there was some problems that led to the break up initially, look deep within and please try to as much as possible stop communicating with him!

One of the posts that actually make sense on nairaland!! Dont worry jare e go beta u will jam the guy soon, but pls dont let it be on NL, Good hunting! U look good by the way!

some ppl are f, cking jobless all they do all life is to hump around, imagine stupid story!

Both oh plus she must have some serious curves!

You too ladies?

I feel sorry for the poor guy!

i feel the vibe here jare!!

let me propose this theory a woman is the most simple person to handle and relate it notice the word (woman) but ladies (in plural) are complex and become an understandable scenario cos they just have rules and regulation they give themselves in other words their friends or cliq determines wat a lady is going to be like!

If ur lady seems un understandable check her friends! just my tots

how much would u give to know exactly wats going on in the mind of ur partner(of the opposite sex) maybe friends, relationship towards you

just the two of us!

now to ur question!

1)why is it that, most boys doesn't like to date girls taller than them, and why?

I personally dont like short girls, i know i've broken one or two hearts on that issue, i love ladies 5ft n beyond, well i really dont think i'd date a lady taller than me cos then that'd be absurb for me to date someone like 7ft I'm like 6.5ft, I fear for my children's future oh. LOL

2) Is sex the most important part of a relationship?

No I dont think so, It's like cement for a relationship but u dont build a house with cement the blocks are much more important so u cant build a lasting relationship with either component missing, communion is the building block!

3) Are you against the idea of marriage?

Hell No! I am looking forward to it like heaven! but as a guy if i am not capable of marriage yet well sadly it has to wait!

4) Could you date an ugly person or do you value looks more?

I dont think so! I value looks, I always answer that question with this statement I would love to wake up in the middle of the night and look at my wife sleeping in all her natural look and say a thank u to God for giving me such a beauty to coplement me! it wouldnt be same the other way round and u'd always be proud of ur chick wherever u guys go u know we guys are EGOcentric (Deep down)!

sweetpie23:
why do guys like sex so much?

I think the question should be y did God make sex so lovely that even guys n babes cant stop having it!

I dont think it's about guys loving sex believe me i believe u'd be alarmed as a guy sef wen u hear some ladies talk about sex!