NeoWanZaeed:
That's poverty speaking in you

can u just keep quiet and look??
Dangote

Jewessgratitud3:
See his ugly face.. who dates this kind of men though? Una dey try o.

wait..are u talking about his personality now(fraudster) abi his ugliness??

If u re talking about his personality then I support you, but if u re saying because of his look then girls should avoid him...hmmmm make I no talk sha

Jewessgratitud3:


So if your sisters don't marry as second wife, they should remain single? Ok na. Ore ooo but me I won't be a second wife and I will marry my own husband.

If my sister see her husband in time, Thanks God..

If she see her love and care in a married man who will make her a second wife, care for her and respect her as a valuable woman then good for her

But if she choose to remain single due to unnecessary expectations then na she sabi, make she sha be careful make she no go dey tomspin with another woman husband make dem no beat sense comot for her body..

Jewessgratitud3:


I should have married a man old enough to be my grandpa? God forbid! By the way Otunba is late now. I didn't even when he died because after I left I stopped going there for good and since God already blessed me with many home lessons, make person no go rape me one day..it was after two years when I saw the boy that was helping him then with house chores and asked after him and he said baba died two years ago.

You're saying polygamy is good bla bla bla.. it's the same polygamy that made his family abandon him and relocate abroad after he married a second wife who later died and left him lonely. By then the other children were all grown are living fine with their aged mother abroad. He told me his life history expecting me to pity him. It was because of that he needed someone to come and cook and help him do all his chores because his first family no send him again and beautiful second wife ( according to him) don kpai. So you see, polygamy did not favor him. you now say I shouldn't have refused him. Bikokwa.

1) I didn't know if he was much older than you, I tot it's a young otunba..

2) he was not the cause of his second wife death and he didn't plan it that way, u don't know what his first wife did to him to warrant him marrying second wife.

Men need care and attention and the moment that is lacking from his wife he tend to look for it outside..no mater how u paint it I don't blame him a bit unless he's the one that maltreated his first wife.

I have a father figure who was subjected to sufferings and hunger by his wife and children, he complained so tey dem no change(this happened for my korokoro eye no be say a dey yarn). After everything everything he met a widower who was coking for him morning and night, omo baba quickly grab his copy, this tin happened around 2007/08. It caused a tension in the family and the children clicked with their mother amidst numerous emotional blackmailing from the mother.

Now the mother is dead, the father is still with the second wife in their house till this moment, collecting his pension and getting cares from this wife..

As a man u gat to open ur brain, nature is not fair to you, if Yr wife is not having ur time again abeg find solace from other place before u kpain danu.


And for the polygamy, I never forced anyone to be a second wife, if u can't be a second wife den be single...but please and please don't go and be disturbing someone else's husband in the name of urgent 2k and regular intimacy..ire oh.

AmazingELixir:



Op you said everything but tactically denied us the knowledge of exactly what you did to the institution to warrant their action.

this is the first tin I was expecting the ignoramuses to ask bit they failed...

Don't mind him, let him continue to speak queen's English

Ok, make I no kuku watch am den so that a no go poke.....


Ire ooh

Olawade24:

Da play iduwuogbo and pocohantas go soon come handle that your Pwee

Lol, I don't care who handle who

Just a single Milf is OK for me

Hezzyluv:


Sometimes, what will people say about me is what have put plenty people in a pitiable state hitherto. Plus, "i am a graduate kind of mindset, there's limite to the type of hustles i can do. Na truth say country economy no good no doubt. But that one no fit make me dey work for toxic environments. My sanity and mental heath matters to me. Na who dey alive dey spend money.

@bold, care to share what you ventured into? We dey learn everyday.

U know how many people discourage me say a wan comot for city go dey learn trade from an illiterate??

Na me talk say instead of me to stay for city dey beg for 1k for food or dey for village dey ball in my own standard which one dey pass? Na so I jakpa ooh, now I am currently registering my company under CAC, (a private limited liability company , LTD) for that matter..God Almighty I will always be grateful to you.

I am into agri business sha.

Jeon:
The man always go for older women. So Shakira, isn't only the older woman he fuvked with.


Most Aquarius men I know go for an elderly ladies.

I am an Aquarius....I still crave for older women tho

It's my dream

advanceDNA:
Una too wicked

as in...unnecessarily wicked

Hezzyluv:
If not for security challenges that is on the increase...., the ratio of People who lives in some "villages" and outskirts of most state capital (small small towns) are financially doing well then those in the city.

"Na there you fit start your small businesses or agriculture with less expenses House rent, feeding, accommodation sometimes, even medical care compare to city centers. And within jiffy, u go don dey ok

I just left Lagos December, my leave would end next week. If not because I have nothing to fall back on here, I would have tender my resignation later. Na me dey city, na me dey wish to be like the people I meet here.


How can i be in the city and be spending (manage) 3k to 4k daily on TP and feeding

How can one be in the city and can't be able to save 20 to 50k per month without him touching it? Is so annoying... 😢

God help me make I gather reasonable amount of money, goback to full-time storage and other side hustles (agriculture) while I keep learning digital skill.

This na time to remove shame and do legit tinz wey go give u money and peace of mind. The people you dey even feel shame of self, may not even have your time. The people you think are looking at you don't even have your time, you might even be the one looking at them sef.

this tin wey u talk so, na wetin I reason for 2019 be that wey make me jakpa comot for lagos go one unknown village....iswear I always bless that decision.. I never for once regret it.

Ok, we have heard...

Can u now rest??

Ayo abaratintin oh



But wait, na white she be abi na albino?

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Na only juliet, Catherine and Anita own u see..

U no see Johnson, Edward, Emeka, Jide and Danjuma own...dey play..u no go marry

When wrinkle finish ur face and ur kpekus u go mellow

BOSSkesh:
No need to shame her
Life happened to her
Circumstances change
This is what the headless mob don’t understand
No need bringing a past tweet
Life happens

So if u don't show him the past tweet how will he know that he was once a jerk??

Oya na

Make he dey come back

Racoon:
The solemn truth about this japa thing is that it is not a good thing perse because every country have it own peculiar challenges in every ramifications.

Some people are not good candidates to immigrate.How can someone who is established with a thriving career, sell everything including his property especially house just to move abroad?

Yes! There may be need to acquire more income and better form of life especially for the younger age persons but then don't forget that endless bill payments and taxation will take the toll on them in such countries. Not all that glitters is always gold

Despite bn an opposition, u speak the sense that majority would not want to hear jare baba

....And this is the confidence we have in Him, that whenever we ask Him according to His plan, He heareth us...

A no dey read bible again, but I can still remember this from those days when a dey read bible...

For ur strength to stand steadfast, this is what I always tells my ladies who find one excuse or the other, if to say na so men dey find excuse u think say dem go dey see money give you?? Nothing us given on the platter of gold, when u work u will earn, u don't want to work but u run go marry man because u re looking for an escape route and later after one child the man run go meet another bunny and turn u to a single mother, that work wey u no wan do u go come do am tire. And after u will be saying men are scum, single mothers dey suffer..no, u never suffer u just dey start, sebi u no wan get sense ni, men go teach u how to work and make ur own money

No one is restricted to work, there us no other Almighty formula to work it out...if u work u will earn, if u don't work but sell ur pvssies around then expect to become an unexpected single mother or a sacrificial lamb on the altar of babalawo.


But sha oooh, concerning ur refusal to marry Otunba, (tho its boils down to personal preferences) but Bible never condemn polygamy oh, Bible never for once condemn polygamy

Women would always outnumber men, if men are to choose just one woman where do u want other women to see husband?? Or do u think the excess women won't need sexual and emotional needs at some point?? So they should resort to oloshoism abi??

Inasmuch as a man can take care of two wives, meet their needs and balance their equation without much hassles then polygamy is allowed..

For me I prefer polygamy to oloshoism anyday anytime. Its better to be in a polygamy than to be doing olosho around Allen or Enehren Junction.

Some women don't even need ur money, they just want to feel ur warmth, feel ur presence around as man and that is all but they don't have a man to fulfill that with them so they tend to do some nasty things to quench their desires...

mrvitalis:
Why Nigerian Army they fire gun without tactics like they don't basic formation training?

This is very poor... Zero coordinations

They just use number and heavier fire power to overcome their enemy... Is that the tactics

This is poor we can do better

A perfect driver is always a fool driving motor with mouth, they can never have accident..

talk2hb1:
So What Next?

Don't mind her

allthingsgood:


Of course Oyo state is just playing games.
How can u say FGN gave them license and u know nothing about it. Big Lies

License is just one part of the mining. Theres still water rate, environmental and many many other taxes and levies that the State government collects, including the unreceipted ones "for the boys". Infact, as a miner u cant mine anything without state govt. They block u and chase u away. So oyo state govt should stop lieing!

Sir..I don't know what tribe are you but u respect you for the civil way u replied me..

God bless you sir.

Ozommadu:
I wonder what miners are mining in a high brow area in oyo state

Something is fishy and Oyo state govt is doing something fishy

did u hear what the OYSG said or u just want to be d**b...

Someone unknown from the federal level(ministry of mineral resources) gave them the approval to mine without the oysg knowing, and even when they got to realise, they always show them the approval stamp.

Chinaza abi dambaba?

I tot they said its from explosive substances from illegal miners, maybe the substances are stored there

PassiveIncomes:



Heard as far as Ojo Catonement in Lagos ?

No naa, ibadan

We have Ojoo cantonment in ibadan as well

AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.

I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.

I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.

Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.

He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.

But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?

Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.

So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...

Your advice pls

you need advice??

Maybe u re truly what he calls you who knows??

Abi how can a reasonable man, a valued man, a man with high esteem will allow a baboon to be lambasting him upandan?? O wrong na..

Wait, how una dey stay for two weeks for this kain place self, I trust myself, I won't even resign before I leave u and ur work...iranu

spiSeyi:

Beeni sir, jakpa is not an instant gain it is a long-term goal you might be disappointed if you are for the instant gain

me I am for the instant gain ooh, wetin concern me with long term project biko??

Let me have my instant gain today, tomorrow I will have again, and in the future, I will have my instant gain by then again..

10thTenthMan:



Bros the story clear o.

People no Dey gree go research on their own and plan based on themselves. Dem Dey use TikTok fake videos of “ how I arrived Canada and bough my house in six months” Dey take plan their life. For one, many of those videos are fake and are just seeking validation. Secondly assuming they are real, you do not know the full story. Some of them could have saved down payment in Nigeria up to 200k Dollars and brought this to Canada. They could have been living large in Nigeria and still have means and ways to make money in Nigeria. Husband Dey work for LNG, wife Dey work for Shell and get monetized YouTube Channel, na dem you wan take compare yourself? People wey monthly income Dey go 10000 dollars per month?

I hope 2025 Motto for Nigeria go be “Check Yourself” or “Use your head”.

I will always say and argue that many Nigerians travel overseas with a FALSE, ERRONEOUS and UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. Those who earn this 10k per month and 120k per year you have mentioned are those with specialized skills especially in areas like Tech, Health, Engineering, or some other specialized skill, etc.

Please note that in somewhere like Canada, if you are legal, average wage is about 15 dollars per hour as basic. It then starts to vary from province to province and type of job and hiring company. Let us assume minimum wage With 8 hours per day work and 40 hours per week (which is the permissible average work period), you have as follows Sir:

-15 Dollars Per Hour
-120 Dollars Per Day
-600 Dollars Per Week
-1200 Dollars every 2 weeks (many companies pay every two weeks, hence this is important)
-2400 Dollars Per Month
-28,800 Dollars Per Year.

Out of this you are paying Tax (this depends as on many minimum wage jobs taxes are waved), Rent, Utilities, Feeding, Transportation, Clothing, other costs for services like repairs, insurance, school supplies for your kid(s) as school is free but the supplies aren’t, etc.

The ways to then get by will be:

1. Reduce your longer throat and be economical. No go Dey do pass yourself with other Nigerians who like to flaunt “I have arrived” rubbish on social media. They are the worst in Canada. Many Nigerians in Canada are silently competitive in an almost evil manner and don’t get along that well. They avoid each other with poor sense of brotherhood and no national countrymen support like the Indians and Asians. Here debt is used to get most of those things you see, But they won’t tell you. From your phone, to Furnuture, to cars, to houses, these are ALL debt financed.
To save cost For instance, please rent a house you can manage to pay rent at month end. Don’t get to Saskatoon for instance and insist on staying at Stonebridge or Willow neighborhoods.

2. Work more than one job or Get more than one source of income. People work and supplement with Uber, Door Dash, etc. People work 2 jobs on a shift/part time basis. People do drop shipping, etc.

3. Pick a high paying skill. Like Tech, Equipment Operations, Heavy Duty Vehicle Driving/Operation, etc.


Highest paid professional workers in Canada for instance are CEOs, Surgeons, Anesthesiologists, Nurses, Other Medical Professionals,Tech Guys like software engineers, etc.

If you are not in these professions, As brothers and sisters, I will say let us be very realistic about our expectations. Plan well.


What will it cost you to land?
What have you saved to start life with?
What is/are your plan/plans to start earning an income?
What are you likely to earn per hour when you eventually get a job?
What will your rent and bills be like?
Will you then need a second job?

Seems u re very versed in this area....are u living there??

Groceryboutique:


What exactly will he be doing as a new immigrant to make $10k net a month? Some people eventually make this amount but it's not the norm. Most times sef, family income no dey reach $10k net a month and that means combined income of husband and wife.

If someone eventually makes that amount, his expenses go chop better portion of that. It's not easy to pay off bills as an international student talk more of saving. You go just dey pray to make ends meet.

on average sir, how much do u think one can save in a year....savings oh, not net pay.

spiSeyi:

Maybe dusty powder dealers legit new immigrants can't make up to that, salary wey no go pass 3-4k CAD for middle grade job while the lower grade job is about 2-2,500 CAD And housing in Canada is expensive . The grass is not always greener over there ooo. If you are making at least 1 M/month in Nigeria Jakpa is not for you ooo

hmmmm, so u mean saving up to 2m monthly over there is like facade??

I mean savings ooh, not net pay

spiSeyi:

4M naira , won't he pay for bills Canada nor be beans oo, especially for new immigrant . You can ask those over there

I know but it's hard to believe..

I tot they said one can make upto 10k dollars in a month and that is 120k, some even make up to 160k in a year, so how cone would someone like that find it hard to save up to 4m naira in a year?

This story no clear ooh, e no clear aswear

RETURNOFENDSARS:



I have in Canada but they are not given me the necessary attention, they're always busy

Bro u self think am, they are always busy, busy doing what exactly?? My mind is telling me they are busy operating machines at their various factories

But they are mild to let u know what they are facing