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RomanceRe: Dating A Hausa Man? by Tonim(f): 9:35am On Apr 08, 2008
@maryray


maryray:
Honey there is absolutely nothing wrong, its just that our other tribes in Nigeria have decided to segregate Hausas. Some say they are illiterate, others say they spend money they don't earn.

My advice as someone else said here is get involved with them if you want to, but be prepared for the possibility of poligamy. I hope u are not a Yoruba
cause you wont like d next comment. Yorubas hate hausas for the things they do themselves, that is spend money they do not deserve.
Yes, but isn't it true ? It is an open secret that hausas are the least educated people in Nigeria yet they spend money any how. The yorubas have
atleast gone to school; they have produced a nobel prize winner and have a reason to celebrate unlike you illiterate hausas.

maryray:
You would hear a Yoruba person say we built Lagos and it is one of the most developed places in Nigeria. But truthfully, lagos is only developed because it used to be the capital city. If it is a lie, how come it is that other Yoruba states are worst than bushes, and other states are even better than their states.
Which state other than lagos in Yorubaland is as backward as Jigawa state ? Is it in education ? Is it in enterpreneurship ? Even
with the huge amount of money accruing to Jigawa from the federation account, it continues to be the poorest state in Nigeria per
capita and most backward state in the Federation.

maryray:
The only one that is a little better is ibadan because it is close to Lagos,
Which Ibadan is close to lagos ? Ibadan was developed by the former western region by money from cocoa. We had the
tallest building in west africa at the time, the first radio station, and so on. So, Lagos played no role in the development
of Ibadan.

Hausas have ruled Nigeria for the bulk of its life since Independence, yet, you people are the least educated and poorest.
Year after year, hausas are at the bottom of the pile of students seeking admission to universities.



maryray:
and Abeokuta because Obasanjo has a farm down there.
Obasanjo does not have a farm in Abeokuta, his farm is at Ota. It's apparent you don't know what you are
talking about.

maryray:
You guys can dispute this and yan akpata, but i'd probably ignore you, cause u can't argue the truth with people. It is either they want to accept d truth or they don't.

I would rather marry an Akwa ibomite/Calabar, a warri or portharcourt guy, an Ibo guy, than marry a Yoruba grin. Not only do they think too much of themselves (i wonder why), they are also too dirty, even the rich ones! shocked.[/color]
eyaa, I apologize for the yoruba guy that dumped your ugly behind. Atleast, the musslims in Yorubaland do not chop

off people's hands for stealing or sentence their women to be stoned

to death for committing adultery. They have chosen to embrace civilization unlike you hausas.




All over Nigeria, hausas go door to door begging people for money. What an Accomplished set of people shocked



Please go and address your illiteracy in the north. Go and tell your people that there is more to education
than learning about the Kooran.
RomanceRe: Will You Like To Know? by Tonim(f): 5:10am On Apr 08, 2008
Disposition meaning "habit or tend to act in a certain way" See Wikipedia

Like I said, it's just an observation of mine.
RomanceRe: Will You Like To Know? by Tonim(f): 4:49am On Apr 08, 2008
Wow Needlelady !!

Did a guy cheat on you with a prostitute or something ? I have read a bit of your posts
and I must admit, you have a very bad disposition toward men. Just an observation
of mine.
Forum GamesRe: Yes Or No by Tonim(f): 11:08pm On Apr 04, 2008
yes  cheesy (e.g. jamaican jerk chicken, yummy)



Do you know that Martin Luther King was shot 40 years ago today ?
PoliticsPlease Comment On This Picture by Tonim(op): 7:52am On Jan 30, 2008
What comes to your mind when you see this picture ?

PoliticsRe: Enugu State Governorship Election Nullified by Tonim(f): 10:07am On Jan 19, 2008
The Governor has applealed the ruling.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: The Most Handsome: The Most Hot ! by Tonim(f): 11:29pm On Dec 02, 2007
LMFAO. . . .dude, your you're not serious. i've seen way more handsome guy guys than you. . .
I think Seun should ban people without good writing skills from talking about how others look grin grin
CultureRe: Is It Necessary To 'try' And Adapt An American,west Indian Or British Accent ? by Tonim(f): 8:46am On Nov 10, 2007
hmmm ,
Forum GamesRe: Questions And Answer (game) by Tonim(f): 5:01am On Jul 10, 2007
huh   No


when you get old, would you let your grey hair stay or would you always dye it ?
RomanceRe: Which Do You Prefer, Fair Guys Or Dark Guys? by Tonim(f): 4:16am On Jul 10, 2007
MILITIA:
Or yellow-jaundiced looking set of balls! angry shocked Yuck!
lmao
RomanceRe: Which Do You Prefer, Fair Guys Or Dark Guys? by Tonim(f): 4:01am On Jul 10, 2007
Not too dark, not too light
CultureRe: Accent That Fascinates Or Annoys You? by Tonim(f): 3:46am On Jul 10, 2007
I'm not too fond of the british accent. texan accent gives me the creeps.
Forum GamesRe: Questions And Answer (game) by Tonim(f): 3:12am On Jul 10, 2007
not too bad. I did all the shopping I should've done over the weekend today angry


how did you discover nairaland ?
Christianity EtcRe: I Hate Muslims Even Though I Shouldn't by Tonim(f): 2:47am On Jul 08, 2007
the topic of this thread is so funny grin grin that's one thing I like about Nairaland, coming across things like this.

I mean, the thread starter is admitting that he shouldn't hate muslims, but he does anyway grin grin

I am not a muslim, but all muslims are not like bin laden. lol
Forum GamesRe: Questions And Answer (game) by Tonim(f): 2:39am On Jul 08, 2007
No grin

if you had a choice to pick a celebrity to go out (and may be do more tongue) with, who will it be & why ?
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Nigerian Idea Of Smartness? by Tonim(f): 2:31am On Jul 08, 2007
i concur, this is a dumb thread.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 8:02am On Jul 06, 2007
omogenaija:
LOL @ tonim i've heard the name before

but whoever he is ; he's making my brother wet his bed  tongue
With a reputation like this  JAGUNLABI's, I'm sure any man would do the same.

I also think it is understandable because "that is what drove him away from Nigeria"  grin grin grin grin

People ask me often whether my name is nigerian, so i'm used to it.
Anyway, me,  I'm taken sha and my man is not anything like that. lol.

nighty nighty  kiss
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 7:50am On Jul 06, 2007
Na waa ooh shocked
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 7:44am On Jul 06, 2007
the funniest thing is, i am still unclear as to what this jagunlabi is. Is this like a serial killer or something ?

omogenaija, have you ever heared of a jagunlabl ?
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 7:30am On Jul 06, 2007
Gnature, you are really crazy  grin

Well, my man is not a jagunlabi. So no need to worry.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 7:15am On Jul 06, 2007
What is a JAGUNLABI ?
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 7:11am On Jul 06, 2007
omogenaija:
tonim what do u mean that your taken , give my brobro Gnature a chance
lmao, girl you are something else. anyway, the guy has answered the question  wink
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 7:04am On Jul 06, 2007
of course that's my real name. i'm from the south south

*(and I am already taken)*

and for your information, I am not creating enemies for myself. All I am doing is telling the nozzy hater to step off and find something better to do, that's all.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 6:39am On Jul 06, 2007
omogenaija:
wow shocked shocked
your one of the few people on nairaland that i've seen apologise to people . i respect u for that smiley
thanks girl. I thought it was only fair for me to apologize since I don't know her well enough to judge her as a mother. I'm sure she's a great mother  cheesy

But for the nozzy haters, again, get a life. the things people are assuming about you is probably true, or else, why bring it up  undecided Na so e pain you reach ?

*hisses*
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 6:33am On Jul 06, 2007
@spoilt

I apologize for bringing your being a mother into this, I really went overboard with that. I have read people's responses and they are right, I didn't have to bring that up at all. Again, I apologize deeply for this.

For the nozzy haters, get a life.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 10:23am On Jul 05, 2007
I still maintain that people that call themselves mothers should act like role models so their kids can follow in their footsteps.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 10:39pm On Jul 04, 2007
ghengis:
@ Tonim and Spoilt
Didn't you guys hear me the first time? this is the kind of thing that if u did in my secondary school, you'll be crawling in the gutter for days. This is one of the reasons i wonder what material women are made from,
dude you are so funny. What do material women have to do with this now  grin
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 10:28pm On Jul 04, 2007
GNature:
@tonim, spoilt responded that way because I had a different point of view than hers. It's just that simple.
That is exactly what I am getting at, someone who calls herself a mother should not act so abrasive just because someone has a different point of view than hers. All this damn and fuss - for what ?

GNature:
I have been on a thread with her in the past where she acted in a similar manner. It is so unfortunate that she'll conduct her self as such.
We women always want men to treat us with respect, but a lot of us don't conduct ourselves in a respectable manner.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 10:15pm On Jul 04, 2007
This was the initial post by GNature:

This was my exact point omogenaija. I'm glad to see a lady shares the same point of view as mine wink

and this was the post that spoilt made right after this:

what difference does it make? carry her, hold her,back her, just take care of the damn baby without making a fuss.

I don't know what was offensive about the post that preceeded spoilt's that warranted such an erratic response. When I read further and learnt that she was a mother, I thought it was very unfortunate. If she writes so mannerless unprovoked, how would she write if someone actually provoked her. She needs to stop acting like she was raised in the gutter and be a role model to her child.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 9:45pm On Jul 04, 2007
@spoilt

I am going to repeat myself however many times it'll take for it to hit home, stop writing trashy to people when no one has done anything to warrant it.

The way you conduct yourself here without a doubt mirrors the way you conduct yourself in real life. You are a mother for goodness sake, act like a responsible adult. The reason we have all these kids today acting mannerless is because of the parents they look up to. Act like a decent lady so your child can follow you in your footsteps.

I know you are used to expressing yourself however way you please - notably like someone from the gutter, but once you become a parent, that has to change because you now have someone looking up to you. Believe me, I wouldn't spend this much time emphasizing this if you weren't a parent. You have already grown up to be a mannerless adult, now lets make sure the young offspring doesn't grow up acting mannerless too.

I can't help but speak the truth no matter how much it hurts.
FamilyRe: Men: Would You Carry Your Baby On Your Back At Home? by Tonim(f): 8:54am On Jul 04, 2007
spoilt:
@ tonim
  if you don't like something or anything i post on nairaland. you are more than entitled to say so .afterall wouldnt it be more than absurd if we all agreed?
The point is not whether I agree with you on an issue or not. The point is how you conducted yourself. You were very abrasive for no reason as a lot of other uncultured girls are on nairaland and that is what I am drawing your attention to.

spoilt:
all this lack of hometraining and gutter talk and unladylike nonsense you are stirring up is uncalled for. i sense you are quick with your tongue and want to fight. go to the yoruba tribal marks thread. its happening there. join them.
I can't help but speak the truth even if it hurts. The way you conducted yourself reeks of someone that wasn't brought up right.

spoilt:
this is my last post to you and my last visit to this thread because seriously i already told you im not playing this game with you.
Again, don't feel offended because I pointed out your inability to conduct yourself in a respectful manner. Start acting like a role model to your child; post like a decent human being while on nairaland. That's all I am saying.

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