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No wonder all my kids are exceptionally brillant. Use to take a lot of bananas and apples when I was pregnant. Now I know

I feel so touched, it's so unfair. Let's always think twice before we do stuffs that will hurt our partners.poor little dears. RIP

Does she perm her hair? Let her try relaxing it. Didn't know those tiny little creatures are still in existance.

Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

I feel your plight but then what do u intend doing with the proceeds after selling off your car? I personally do not like the idea of selling off properties when broke because you may end up spending all the money and still going back to square one. Look internaly and see how you can use the car to generate revenue but if you feel you must sell then you have to think of how best you will invest the money you realised so you don't end up being worse off then most importantly be very prayerful, there is nothing God cannot do. All the best

I cannot count my blessings because God has been so faithful. I consider myself as the most favoured person on planet earth and just bless the Lord.

I honestly understand what she is going through cos I am in the same shoes as she is. My hubby for one does not even like me going out once I come back from work but I try as much as possible to keep in touch, I call and jist as often as I can and also get my kids to writting sweet innocent letters which we send out at special occasions. My mum for one cherishes every gift and letter she receives from those little ones. The bottom line is that she should make them feel special by keeping in touch often and also encourage them to come visiting.

When my second daughter was two plus, my hubby asked that she left to her room to join her senior sister, I wept seriously that night cos I felt he was just being selfish that he wanted me all to himself but by the next day when I confided in my friend she said I should let the girl go that nothing would happen and since then she being sleeping in her room and is so use to it now.my sis in law share the same room with them though and I also check on them often.

It's usually best if we are able to mix up both sexes but then, it's not in our power, God is the one who gives. I have two lovely daughters aged 6 and 4 and they keep asking me when I am going to give birth to their brother. I tell them soon and keep praying that God grants their desire as I know it will make both my girls and their daddy happy, but all in all, let the will of God prevail.

Hm, my sister, in a community like ours, there is usually little or nothing we can do as women. Support your hubby and together build up your family projects while beleiving God that it will be well in the end. If however the devil later says you won't enjoy that which you have sown, then just leave them for God, after all it's all vanity upon vanity.I don't believe in buying properties in my name because it can break your home when your partner discovers. What I do is secretly save a part of my earnings for rainy day just incase he decides to act funny in future. All in all let's just be wise.

What you don't know will not harm you. I will personally not do it.

It is better to let him know you misplaced it, with that all he will need to do is go stop the cheque with his bankers and then issue you with another one. If you don't tell him he might be tempted to think you felt the value was too low which was why you didn't cash it. All the best.

Pls does the 1.150 cover both the price of clearing and custom's duty?

Let that poor woman be, respect her as if she were your own mother. You want to ride on her simply because she is not married? Do you think she won't rather be in her hubby's place if she had a choice? Try to be more loving and understanding. Stop looking for excuses to pick up quarrels.

Hi ovie, please I am based in makuirdi and do want an auto toyota picnic preparable 2002 model with alloy wheels. How much will it cost me in totality to deliver to my door step and can I trust you to deliver or must I travel down to cotonou with you. Reply asap please

Put her in a crech, guess she is a first child, she will get to be more social when she begin to mingle with other kids her mate. Nothing to worry about. One of my kids was like that but changed tremendously when she started sch.

Hm, my sister you can force yourself to cut down on unecessary epences as they do not pay. Try and secure the future of your daughter by saving meaqningfully for her. I use to spend that much in the past but when I realised my hubby too didn't have a good savings culture I had to change over night. When I take my pay now I make sure I save the percentage I have chosen not to touch in a seperate bank account after which I make my budget with the balance. If I realise my budget is more than my available resources, I cut down on the budget and I feel happy with myself.I am just sad that I didn't start this early enough but God helping me I will only get better.

Lol,they should just both pretend it never happened and move on with their lifes cos he is as guilty as she is.

@vision2050, don't mind any one. Take it that your monthly salary is just 20,000 and do save 5,000 religiously. With time you will be amazed what you will have gathered after which you can invest the lump sum. All the best.

So what is the point praying for financial breakthrough for our partners, let them just remain poor so we can have them to our self right?

A friend of mine you can say has been a perfect wife, does not nag, very beautiful and also hardworking just recently discovered that her husband of 7 years is cheating on her and the supposed husband claims to be a born again and even a worker in the church. Their union is one I really use to admire because the man use to be so loving and dedicated. She herself can not tell you where things went wrong. I really get to feel bad when I see homes being broken because of these kind of acts.

I feel you. True comfort comes from above. Just put your trust in Him and bless Him for the nice times you shared with her. Be strong for her.

Hm, why is it that when the woman's money goes into the man's family, no problem arises but when the man has to spend on any of the woman's relatives, it becomes a problem. It's not fair o, in as much as I support the lady getting a job for herself I still see nothing wrong in her man helping her siblings after all we are made to understand the both families become one.

I see no reason why you should also go ahead and lock your phone. It's childish and will only end up destroying your home. Life is not always tit for tat most especially when it has to do with a life partner.leave your phone open, let him go through it as he so wishes with time his concience will lead him to unlock his.A wise woman builds her home, but I think both of you need to work on your trust level.

There is no justifiable reason why a woman should kill her own husband with her own hands. No woman supports her man taking a second wife but if he so chooses to, it's either you remain in the marriage and share him with the other woman or you pack your things and leave after all it is a free world they say.

If you ask my opinion I will say he should try and get himself into a serious relationship from there any thing can happen, if he and the lady think they can get along with small resources then they should go ahead and marry after all the Bible say he who finds a wife finds a good thing and gets favour from above. For some people there break through never come forth until the tie the knot. I think the mother's worry lies in the fact that he is an only child, he should do her proud and see how God will surprise him. There is always a starting point. He should not be a man of little faith.

If you are both satisfied with the way things are then I see nothing wrong in it. Just be very certain no party is pretending to be satisfied. Moreover things may change when you eventually get married.

Talking from personal experience there was a time hubby nd I kept to different rooms and for the 1st time since we got married our quarral was able to last for a whole week because once we return from work everyone goes into his/her and retire for the day when we eventually made up we told our selfs we will never stay in different rooms again because staying together just builds up that bond no matter how angry u may feel. Marital differences are best reconciled at mid night.

Sometimes you don't want to say no to your partner but then he comes home late smelling of alcohol, not sure if he cheats but you discover he wants it badly but because you are not happy with his drinking act, you refuse to respond. men in the house is anything wrong with saying no when your hubby is drunk just to prove to him that you are not happy with his drinking habit or do you still play the good wife and pretend all is well?

My mil is really nice and has always been there for me. She does things even my own mum will not do for me. Just like that I know she will never ask me to wash her undies but if the situation do warrant, then with all pleasure I will wash and even press them for her.

Quite true, the worries reduce considerably with the arrival of each new baby. I use to so cover my firstbaby no matter the wheather condition and stay awake better part of the night just to make sure she is not exposed in any way but now I go to bed and even leave them in the parlour. Lol

Hm, you never know what you have got until you lose it. Men,I so miss my days of singlehood but I have resolved not to complain cos God didn't commit a crime when He gave me a hubby with wonderful kids. But like I always advice my single friends enjoy your freedom while it last.