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beautiful..congratulations and happy married life

happy married life

congrats to you tonto..God really answered your prayers..

wonderful couples

me love...

congratulations..I receive

congrats to d couples

congrats dear

congrats dearie..beautiful woman

wonderful testimony..nothing is too hard for God indeed

Congrats girl..she is blessed

happy birthday to a great man ! I celebrate you, Sir

happy married life dearie..you are blessed

what a perveted generation. God help this generation..!

congratulations to the couples

great couple..I celebrate you..God preserve your marriage more and more

Okikiki:
@OP
nameerfhtennek:

I must start by congratulating your maturity and calmness in handling this matter up to this point.

However, some facts garnered from the story (your side of the coin) suggests :
1.Your woman never had absolute trust on you hence she broke up with you and entered another relationship

2. You have been having issues with her for a year now which suggests built up aggression which has not been fully resolved.

3.Both of you are yet to understand yourselves which is impacting on your compatibility.

4.I see a situation where none of you listens to each other's needs culminating into latent anger. Any minute provocation revives the same anger and trouble breeds from there.

MY ADVISE :

1. You need to address the trust issue in your marriage. Does your wife have absolute confidence that you are always there for her? You are the head of your home, you would set the tone of what your home should be and vigorously pursue an all inclusive policy.
The lack of trust made her to doubt the veracity of your explanation about forgetting the internet gadget in your office.

2. Find out your wife's pains. It is not all about you. She might be struggling alone, without you noticing her pains. Open up for her to empty herself in you. Then she would have the inner peace which would translate to yours as well.

3. Do not send her packing at all. Bring her closer and forgive her with a very stern warning that she won't be so lucky next time such occurs. Build a bond with her.
No marriage is perfect, it's a whole lot of work from both of you to make it succeed.
However you are the head, walking into the life of another woman might not be the best option for you because you wouldn't know the content of the next woman's character.

Putting all together, he who is forgiven more loves more, as declared by the Greatest Teacher Himself.

It is well.

Read this:
http://www.richardpaulevans.com/index.php/2015/02/09/saved-marriage/

thank you very much..she does not trust her husband and has been holding up inner hurt. matured comment from you.

I love you Jesus..you have been so good to me and my family..I am grateful for changing the story of my life and family and making me a records breaker in my generation. for the gift of life..I thank you. For provision, protection, shelter..for fighting my battles. Lord I thank you. To you be all the glory. Amen.

you are blessed..congrats

I wish you quick delivery and safe too..

wow..nice

I love you deary..kip shining beautiful

Francon:
Congratulations to them. I tap into the unmerited favour. Amen

Proverbs 31:

10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

thank you my sister..I tap too..

God has heard the cry of the poor in this country and things will be better..it's just time

congrats to u guys..u at celebrated

wow...I celebrate you guys..and I tap into this in Jesus name Amen!

wow...nice...I tap

wow.... I tap

congrats to them. e no easy

congrats on hate... e no easy....

congrats...beautiful couples

women of substance... I tap into this. amen