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aribisala0:
Stupid remark
Nigerians are white abi?

Foolish remark,go wash ur brain then ul understand what I mean.

Ghanaians are not dark but black and use to wonder why,but this right here answers the question..damn

Divinehealer:
if you talk now, the "including your father and male relatives" Gang will jump out
Women listen and listen good, naija men and self control are as wide appart as Alpha and Omega. They will Bleep their own mothers talkless of daughters. Keep your children faaar from them. Don't look at how they pretend on social media forming and shouting ahh, na wa ooo, God forbid ó, all na wash. Until you catch them, they will keep forming better and holler. Read through and see how men will only see the problem to be that he slept with his daughter. They will almost wave this aside as one of those mistakes which shouldn't have happened. Read through and see how men will make excuses for him. That should tell you how normal these kinds of acts are in the minds of naija men.
The wife is stupid for being confused. When she is fucking, does she confuse the hole a dick should enter? The daughter.. May God heal her. The poster is mad for being confused too. The man,..... He needs clean beating and castration

U are not sound mentally if u put all Nigerian men in this ur sick category, and ofcourse that includes ur dad,brothers,husband,boyfriend and sons .. Have u not heard stories of Nigerian mothers sleeping with their sons as well as sisters sleeping with their brothers too,even on NL a lady was saying how she enjoyed sex more with her brother,where the fv.c.ck where u when she said all that? Alot of people are sick both Nigerian men and women as well as non Nigerian too and NOT all Nigerian men young lady so be careful what u say.

VERY VERY VERY WRONG..and when their school teacher calls u to come that they caught ur lil daughter and one boy kissing and he was grabbing her ASs u would be heartbroken and wonder were did u go wrong in patenting..well this is how it starts,somethings are just common sense but our selfishness keeps us from thinking in the right direction,so cos u want to kiss ur partner u dnt care how it affects ur lil baby cos u are selfish as fv.c.ck ..there are other ways to show ur kids that u love ur partner,NOT smooching in front of them..thats y out generation is alot better than this indomie generation because our parents didn't smooch infront of us..

This Nigeria police can do their jobs if they really want to but no they will collect bribe tire from u first..someone scammed me and a bunch of guys and ran to KD,they knew where he was in KD but were demanding almost 500k from me here in Abuja former SARs hq..Also my someone stole my Aunty's phone some months ago,they said she should bring 50k before they can track the location of the phone..The rot is so deep in the Police and its real bad in the FCT,u go just tire and these are main reasons why alot get away with crime in Abuja,the police are so so useless.

You have a bar,thats how they will turn u to office and keep raiding and packing ur customers every two days from ur bar until u go to their office and settle with them that ul be bribing them monthly so that they can stop harassing ur customers and killing ur biz. People who are to protect lives and properties of citizens are now the ones who have become the threat to the lives and properties of the citizens. Sometime I just wonder if there is any hope for this deadbeat country?It is well sha

The mumu police man didn't allow the guy answer the question the other guy was trying to ask him why did u kill ur boss,what did he do to u..so annoying

Wow so this is the democracy in Nigeria?America really needs to take a good look at this government..sad really and its a SHAME PDP have become so useless and a bootycall bitch for ApC to fv.c.k as they please.

Governor wey sabi how far,if u keep waiting for the federal government to protect u then u are in for a loooong thing. Ortom and rufai and Zamfara should follow suit immediately. Osinbanjo and Zulum 2023

If they can't fly then this is rubbish and isn't front page worthy..people with serious problems looking for solutions that could also help alot of others in same problems have not had their more important stories pushed to front page,yet this rubbish that anyone can build with a few plastic and glue is gracing the front page,shame on the mods that pushed this nonsense to front page.. how does this help anyone or enlighten anyone?

Lollittaa:
[color=navy]now you see why some women take some secrets to the grave. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm very sure if men had wombs, less than 30% of Nigerian men would have theirs intact. HE KNEW THE CONDITION OF HER WOMB before marrying her. But anyway, no need explaining. A pig will always follow another pig. [/color]

Lol na wa o,according to his previous post he didn't know and didn't do his investigations properly on her and her background/upbringing..

Why would u want to do something so terrible that u wouldn't be able to tell ur spouse in the first place, and then take it to the grave?the burden sef go weigh u down and hunt u,thats why it is advised to be careful and not live an irresponsible life when young to avoid stories that touch in future,u can't eat ur cake and still have it. As for men having wombs intact,my dear that one sha get as e be cos the male gender is meant to spread his seed and,produce,give and multiply so in the process of these,the womb fit be collateral damage

Lollittaa:
[color=magenta]I blame your wife for not seeing the red flags. Maybe na age make am marry such an unkind soul as you. Imagine coming to disgrace her talking about her womb. Had it been a woman who came to say her husband has erectile dysfunction, all these goons would have been up in arms. [/color]

Abeg make we hear word..na him send am make she live reckless life come scatter her womb?when they tell u females to lead responsible lives when young because it will always come back to hunt u latter in the future if u don't,yal think its a joke..well she made her bed,let her lay in it. So stop trying to emotionally blackmail the op..Erectile dysfunction wasn't caused by the man who has it as a result of his irresponsible leaving,but a weak womb as a result of multiple abortions was deliberately caused as a result of the ladys irresponsible lifestyle so dnt compare the two at all.

Lollittaa:
[color=cyan]I guess you didn't read what he wrote. If you did, you'd realise he's a very toxic person himself. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. OK, your wife is misbehaving but he himself has a PhD in keeping malice, in "do me I do you". I have a sibling like this man, and God knows, I pity his future wife everytime I realise he's going to get married.[/color]

Madam u can only put in ur best and can't force the other party to reciprocate,u must be a novice and very inexperienced in relationship matters because alot of relationships end because one of the two decided to frustrate every effort made by the other to make it work, so yes it takes two to make it work and the op tried all he could but maybe u didn't see where he kept saying it and saying all he did wasn't enough for her,instead u are just been overly emotional because ofcourse thats what u females do when its ur gender on the receiving end..

If u like thread the path of his stubborn unsubmisive wife and dnt take corrections and lessons from his story,it will only end in tears for u.

Mangekyo:
Meanwhile, the pupil of a black mamba is round and also, it doesn't have a pit. But it's extremely venomous. I don't know where you brought this fake news from

OP becareful because this your oversabi is getting too much. You're risking your life

His ancestors have reasoned his matter and have started trying to call him to their World.. just imagine this dude acting very foolish and happily saying it online forming superman as if its something to brag about or an achievement..some people just dnt value their lives until the very last moment of it then they realise they are just about to loose it

Kam2021:
stop forming Rambo and seek medical attention

Leave that man bros,e be like him ancestors don de reason him matter and want make him join them for the other side..how does a sane person play with any snake in nija if he isn't a snake charmer?e go do am like film,make him just de form superman for there

But how do foolish men like these become so rich?this mompha na very foolish guy o,he is using his own hands to draw problem for himself when trouble just de sleep,he is bragging using FBI? :olike are u kidding me?how foolish do u have to be to brag that u can't be arrested cos u dinned with them,In other words,u have them on ur payroll and pocket..hmm hand go soon touch u too no worry..brainless fools wey money miss road enter their hand.

Are u a male or female or hermaphrodite?

No be only real estate and logistics..at 25 he is a billionaire just like that?when did he go into the real estate biz wey him don turn billionaire at 25?so all those men for Abuja wey don enter 50 and have been into real estate too no know wetin dem de do abi that's y they are just still counting millions and not yet billions..tahh comot there make we hear word,this is another invictus type story..even if na him get God is good logistics,him no for be billionaire at 25,yet I never ever hear him company or group name,mtcheeew. All this people will now make us feel like we no know watin de sub,at 30plus,I still de manage small millions and I don dey hustle sinz,my friends who are seriously into real estate and properties some join international hushpuppy group join still never hit upto the billion mark so abeg make una no come wan use us do anyhow here..25yrs billionaire kor

DanielAlhassan:
How will you feel if you find out the girl you are in love with who also claim to love you back is pregnant for another person
Your opinion is highly welcome
No insult
Asking for a friend who is about to commit suicide
Please advice him
He is reading your comments

Pls tell him to carry on,we too plenty for this world..make him no delay at all because his babe is pregnant with twins ni,the guy wey give am belle lash am megaly back to back and dropped twins in her. Thats what happens when u try to get serious with an olosho and community cum bucket..

citywal:
i didn't say shes into cult shit I said she started posting it and some other things

Hmm bro I went through exactly the same thing u are experiencing now,mine i was even the one who disvirgin am but bad friends influenced her and she started playing with drugs and weed,she is still young and a student and beautiful too so her beauty also got into her head..it didn't end well and I was real hurt but had to move on and I'm happy now with my present partner..I'm just telling u to get ready cos it won't end well,sorry but she has started fv.cki.ng another small yahoo boy probably thats y she is bold enough to put up statuses like u say she does..exactly my story and when I found out she mess.ed a yahoo boy,omoh that was the end o,I started fv.c.king girls like mad and she couldn't bear the fact that I was fv.ck.ing other girls,,first to do no de pain,na second to do the pain pass ,the relationship went down from there even sex was nolonger sweet or interesting with her,omoh I move ahead to a wife material and I'm very happy now and most importantly I have peace of mind..

I feel for u bro,its really not easy..God saved me from a toxic woman too,so I understand exactly what u are passing through..I'm just glad I didn't marry her,I for fit die early with the wahala she comes with..pls better leave that marriage ASAP for ur health o.Good luck

Lol painful truth is ur girl has been fvck..ing the dude and not just once..she know say she fit manipulate u and shez doing good so far so good..bro,u better get another chick fast and remove ur mind from a future with this ur hoe..keep fvck.ing her sha..be wise,im speaking from experience.

don4real18:
Thanks a lot. You are quite right.

Hmm first of all how old is she?secondly is she the type that gets carried away with trends and flashy things?is she from a rich home? Sorry bro but this lady in question i don't think she really loves u and is ur wife. God will give u a good woman that will not stress u,ur wife is meant to help u ease stress and save money NOT make u spend anyhow and cause u so much stress..u just dodged a bullet so thank God,it may hurt now but trust me its all for the best.

FutureIsFemale:
Vote a woman into power let's see if our cry would not be heard. Men have failed us.
You don't get a different result with same method.

This babe,u sure say u dey alright so mentally?abi u didn't read how the woman stole in hundreds of billions ni?so she made u proud as a woman since men have failed u and a woman stealing massively without the fear of God is success according to u right?smh.. Jokes apart babe u need help,the guy that damaged u is flexing his life somewhere while u r here been bitter on a regular which won't change shit..

FanOfMyself:
torqque7 I sent you a dm already... waiting for your reply.

I replied u..check ur mail

VTJN:
Let's assume the allegation was right.
Are you saying he never cheated on her too or what?

Are you telling me he was so faithful to her in marriage?

What are u saying?did she tell u she caught him cheating?so because u feel he must have cheated even without any proof then she is justified to cheat as a married woman and travel to another country to fvck abi?u people talk as if u are in an illusion in ur own mind..wait until ur wife goes to fvck people and travel to sell her pvssy then ask urself again this baseless question u just asked me..

FutureIsFemale:
Dear women, invest in yourselves. Forget these chameleon who keep changing every second. They don't worth it.

Please permit me to say this. Men are very wicked. They are ready to waste your life. Imagine marrying a lady just for clout. You care not about her emotions, Very selfish lots.
A man would date a lady for years.. Pinning her down with fake marriage promises. Deep down he knows he won't marry her yet he will chose to tie her down.
My God will continue to punish every male child that has ever promised a lady marriage and dump her for another woman.

Comon shut up there,shey u didn't see the part that she is a serial cheat and has been travelling up and down bleeping zlatans friends etc?or u r just too dumb to see the honest truth in front of u?he wouldn't say so if he was not hurt and he has every right to do and say anything if she cheated on him..everyone blaming him or judging him including zlatan is a bloody hypocrite..she cheated on him so he has the right to be upset �

[quote author=FanOfMyself post=103921890]Hey guys, I brought this here because I feel that this section is popular.
The thing is that I got a new job as a software developer in Abuja but I have been living and working in Lagos. This new job (in Abuja) has a huge potential than my current job here in Lagos which is why I am taking it.
So here is the main thing, I don't have any one in Abuja, so I need someone who can accommodate me for say three months. Within this three months, I will be able to settle down and know the best area to stay in and also know the city well.
I'm willing to pay for the three months accommodation, feed myself etc. I am a cool and quite person, God-fearing and intelligent dude.
I'm putting this up because there's no harm in trying.
I'm supposed to resume on the 2nd of August

Send me a dm

johhnnie:
You may be right.

However, sometimes, once kids are involved, there are sacrifices to be made.

The case is no more about the couple at loggerheads. But more about the kids that are products of the union.

My philosophy has always been that, whatever social strata your ex spouse belongs to will always affect the upbringing of your children.

Even though, we don't live together, I still want the best for them.

Whatever the story that is told to them, once they are of age, I believe they will be matured enough to put things in the right perspectives.

The story is better told and understood by people with first hand experiences.

Personally, I think the court wedding is over rated.

I will sincerely advise young folks never to sign that document.

You can do traditional wedding. And, if there is true love, I see no reason for court wedding ( I.M.O).

See, I went through Hell.

I will not like to make public the details.

Anyone who needs counseling can send me an e.mail.

It's high time men were there for men.

Let there be a movement whereby men ( real/responsible men) will stand up for men and not against men ( I mean men who were/are truly abused and violated).

I suspect my 3rd child is not mine. But for peace of the mind, I have decided out of my own free will to be responsible for all of them.

I still have my life before me. We might have gone our separate ways. However, the kids were not asked to be borne. As such, as much as possible we must take up those responsibilities as real men as much as we can and as long as we have the means.

I do not condone domestic violence and abuse against women but the stories must always be set straight.

I have seen the following happen:

1. A woman took her wedding invitation to her ex boyfriend. They ended up having s3x.

2. A woman on her wedding night had s3x with her bestie colleague at work in thesame hotel she booked for the wedding.

3. A housewife paid for a hotel where she had romps with her lover.

4. A married woman while in a hotel for s3x romps with her lover picked her husband's call and spoke calmly as if nothing was amiss

5. Etc and etc, etc, etc

6. Don't get me wrong, there are good marriages out there. And, God bless those couples.

7. If it's not working, it is not working......

Wow some humans can be very wicked sha..same hotel with husband and ex..my God,I fit vex kill person o cos I'd be so so mad..hmm Godforbid sha..but most times when things like these happen I blame the husband because there is no way he wouldn't have seen signs no matter how little,but he felt he could overlook it and she may change after marriage or because he is so desperate to have her he would do all he can to wife her.

There was a story that one guy used money to snatch another guys girl and wanted to marry her and got approval from her parents because he was richer than her bf,she told him she wasn't ready for marriage but oga forced her into it,only for him and her to be seated during their wedding reception and she said she wanted to pee and left and was taking too long to return so husband went looking and caught her and her ex fvcking in the toilet,na so reception scatter o and during a family meeting she said she told him she never loved him but he kept pushing and forcing her so that was the result..so sometimes some of these men deserve this things.

Adebowalay:
it happened in front of me...i was there live!!!!!

When e happen?and how the matter take end abeg?una no beat the bestman for there?

Romanoff:
No now. That's why I said Co parenting. Of course he'd have access to his kids. They belong to both of them. In the case I mentioned, the man chose to walk away and got married to someone else after having four kids with his baby mama.

Sad thing is it's the baby mama's father that even helped him get the job.

Wow after 4kids?thats sad..but maybe if u hear his side of the story u would understand y he left..I feel the wife must have been very disrespectful to him couple with the fact that her dad got him a job so she probably looked down on him and he couldn't take it anymore thats y he left after 4kids..

johhnnie:
My dear, we are in thesame boat.

I experienced something similar but in a different dimension.

Men, depending on the kind of women you got married to.... do not be overly expressive about your children. Do not always provide upfront. Let there be demand sometimes before you provide.

I used to stock the house for 6 months at a stretch. Daily needs etc . Apart from weekly upkeeps. These apart from other comforts such 24/7 light ( heavy solar installations with 2 stand by gen sets just in case

Next school fees already paid upfront before the end of the current term.

Madam showed me pepper.

Her boyfriend colluded with her to draw up a domestic violence case against me ( The legal fee came from the weekly upkeeps I was giving to her) . They got a FIDA lawyer. The lawyer helped them to write a statement against me ( I cried so uncontrollably when I read that statement at the police station). They wrote about how we struggled to build houses together, who I was in the community and I use my position to oppress and maltreat her ( all made up). I was to walk into a trap ( she would frustrate me into beating her). But thank I did not. I got wind of the plan ahead. So I made sure I didn't go home alone that day.

Thesame guy ;madam had approached me about to lend both of them money for an import and export business. I knew something was fishy. But my security was more important .


Writing my statement was easy. Cos, everything poured down naturally. A woman I saw through a private University from the scratch.

We were called in for interview. The rest was history.

I believe the lawyer that represented her was so ashamed when the truth came out. I was even the one that transfered the legal fees balance to the lawyer when madam and her collaborators could not come up with ( of my own volition though)

She took my children away for 2 moths plus with her father's consent ( the usual practice anytime she wanted to deal with me.. she knew I would be a nervous wreak if I didn't have access to my kids for an extended period).

Lots of manipulations. Like, trying to recondition my kids against me. They would intentionally not pick my calls nor allow my kids to call anytime my kids made such requests. See, I nearly committed suicide on at least two occasions. The fact that I made sure I was not home alone prevented that from happening.

The school fees for that term was wasted. I had paid ahead as usual. And, the issue happened right at the beginning of the term.

Well, I made sure that they didn't return to the house. I rented a newly built apartment and equipped it for them to a standard that I knew my kids will appreciate. I made sure that she has no knowledge of where my properties etc are located.

I gave her investment fund to start a business.

One day, I asked her why the other guy disturbing her or even her father didn't give her money for business or the legal fees to prosecute the case.

She was dumbfounded. Her father only gave 3k in all.

At the end of the day, my fears were laid to rest.

They played on her stupidity to obtain me. Most especially the guy that she thought was showing her care and affection ( supposedly).

Her pastor was also involved. I have some recordings to that effect. Her pastor telling her to record our conversations and forward same to him. Her pastor offering her strategies. I asked her why didn't the call us together for truce if at all something was wrong

The conclusion here, is that lot of the time, it is actually the men ( most especially the responsible ones) that are going through serious domestic violence and abuse)

However, because the society has been conditioned to think otherwise

Sorry to say sir,but ur kindness has been taken for weakness,if u want things to change then u also need to be hard sometimes..u are too nice(weak)that is why the lady in question will continue to frustrate u using ur kids..u even had to pay her lawyer for fighting u,who does that?to impress who or prove what?that is not called been a good man but a mumu in the eyes of everyone,then u went ahead to open a biz for her again?hmm na wa o..God will help u

Romanoff:
I have lived with people in similar situations.

One of them let her husband take the kids away. Today, she's alone, miserable and can't even tell where her kids are. For the kids to not reach out to her in these days of social media, I wonder what awful things they must have been told about their mother.

Another took her baby daddy to court and got him to pay fees while she handled the rest. Now that the man is even out of job, she's the one hustling to care for them.

I run advocacy on issues like these as well as child literacy, legislative processes and SDGs, trust me, I know what I am talking about.

No man in his right mind will agree to send money to his baby mama when he is not allowed access to them. That been said I bet u she doesn't let him see his kids otherwise he would gladly support and take care of them and won't give such conditions..Most baby mamas are very wicked and vindictive because the guy refused to marry them so the use his kids to make life miserable for him..sha men don de wise,u can't eat ur cake and have it..if she like make she continue to hide the kids,a time will come when the kids will look for their father by themselves,its just natural and will definitely happen.