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PaperLace:
Just sigh when your wife annoys you Tosyne, it's a whole lot better than beating her .

prinzfavian:
Lol, don't be confused about God... You can believe whatever you want to but make sure it's the truth and reasonable.
No such thing as destiny, no one predetermines what will happen to us in life... Our every seconds actions does.

There is a causative factor for everything in life, your previous action results In another one and goes 9n like that in a long chain of events...

For instance,... sexual intercourse is meant for married couple if we are to avoid the stress that comes from the after effect of premarital Sex..,. Now let's say we have two stubborn people that still went ahead to have Sex without being married, the gurl got pregnant... Since they were young, she had to abort to save herself from shame and disgrace, unfortunately she died while aborting... Now tell me, if that situation had been destined by God from the onset... For what purpose has it served if it ended this way... Also, doesn't he frown against fornication? So why destine the girl to have a child thru a means he sorely hates... Since he had the power to predestine, why couldn't he have predestined them to get married before having the child?.... Going on and on... We will come to see that everything is wrong with the concept of destiny...

ojoisimi:
Good luck Jonathan is a solid example to prove that destiny is real. just checkout the guy's history to understand what I'm saying. you said he became the president cos of empty promises that caught the electorates and bribery right? buy do you know a lot of aspirants have done the same thing but were not voted for? the biological factors you are talking about are just human idea and assumption that we are taught to believe in school. ask yourself why a medical doctor dies from a migraine while a mad man who consumes all filthy things live longer. is it that the doctor refuses to apply medication or what really happened? people have been talking about working hard to be successful but do you know a lot of people didn't do half the work you are doing and are swimming I'm millions? is it that they are more brilliant? I Dont think so. what can you say about a Prof who has really worked hard to attain that level but not as successful as an illiterate gambler who made one big hit and shoot up from their. some things are beyond human comprehension and control while some are within our control.

Akwaudene87:
and what do you think that made others to be treated fairly and other unfairly

PaperLace:
I have seen women disgrace their husbands publicly. I have also seen men publicly disgrace their wives more often than the reverse. Have you also seen men disgrace their wives? I guess NO. None justifies violence _that's the point.

Men don't always take the blame. I have never seen you men blame men or caution them to bridle their tongues or third leg when their wives bathe them with hot water or break their heads.

Anyone that is the violent one, would take the blame from me. He/she had the choice of leaving the marriage. No excuse at all, no excuse would sound sensible to me.

You also have no idea how nauseating some men can be. Take a stroll through family section and see wives that have been battered physically and emotionally. All they get is advice on how they should pray for him or divorce him. Which is the right thing to do .

maasoap:
Firstly, switching to 3G drains the battery fast because the phone would automatically become hot, very hot.
Secondly, the follow come battery itself swelled up after 3 months. And to get original battery is the problem. I'm using Gionee M3 battery now which I bought on Jumia, that one also turned out to be fake. Lesson learnt: research your phone before departing with your money.

maasoap:
Firstly, switching to 3G drains the battery fast because the phone would automatically become hot, very hot.
Secondly, the follow come battery itself swelled up after 3 months. And to get original battery is the problem. I'm using Gionee M3 battery now which I bought on Jumia, that one also turned out to be fake. Lesson learnt: research your phone before departing with your money.

PaperLace:
That wasn't in contest before.



Men don't push their wives to the wall?

Are you lots married?

You think men just watch when their wives insult them? Hehehe.
Only unmarried people would think husbands are that innocent.

How about we tell men to stop doing whatever makes their wife shout/insult them? Or you think the woman is mad to just start insulting him?

The married men themselves know they are very annoying.

Evaberry:
The Quran actually allow men to beat their wives so this is no biggie for them and bauchi practices Sharia law. Quran 4:34. Quran38":44 amongst others

but seriously how can a man inflict pain on someone he claims to love
The mother of his children
someone who he vowed to take care of and protect against all odd

why are some men domestic abusers and why do others think it's cool to hit a woman if she misbehaves

Kylekent59:
Why goodluck jonathan Let us use buhari jor

piagetskinner:
So many infinix users...so I can conclude that nairaland had the highest number of infinix users

Nobody de use huawei ni.

ojoisimi:
I think the word 'destiny' is too deep than what one can easily decipher like that. the bottom point is we should just do our possible best and hope for the best irrespective of destiny

maasoap:
I dey manage my THL T9 PRO, 8 months now. It was rated the 2016 worst phone by one guy on YouTube. Substandard battery, earpiece, charger. I've spent extra 10k on battery, in addition to 35k real cost of the phone. Poor screen display, sound output. But it doesn't hang under light use.

Divay22:
Who then changes phone like slippers...not me o.
This's my 4th phone....

Hope you prayed for everyone, cos i didn't go.

mideactive:
100 star games,70 normal games.I had to pay 100 to watch arsenal loose

ojoisimi:
Good luck Jonathan is solid example to prove that destiny is real. just checkout the guy's history to understand what I'm saying. you said he became the president cos of empty promises that caught the electorates and bribery right? buy do you know a lot of aspirants have done the same thing but were not voted for? the biological factors you are talking about are just human idea and assumption that we are taught to believe in school. ask yourself why a medical doctor dies from a migraine while a mad man who consumes all filthy things live longer. is it that the doctor refuses to aplly medication or what really happened?

teesmarth:
You are right to some extent.

However "WHAT WILL BE WILL BE" this is the ultimate fact bro.

This life is like a movie and we all acting the script.
Every decision we make, every actions and inactions that we make which we think is our own doing, which we think is to the best of our wisdom at any moment have all been premeditated by the creator.
Even our subconsciousness and reflexes are all premeditated to fufill the sole aim of the universe existence

We are pawns on the grand scheme of things


And yes our destiny lies in our hands we can change and shape our lives to whatever and whoever we want to be through our actions and decisions. It is all premeditated and that is our destiny it is what will be and will definately be
Hope you understand

TinaAnita:
Is romance/love not part of life?

TinaAnita:
Is romance/love not part of life?

Jiang:
Look dis people wasting brain cells

Make i tell you

WHAT WILL BE, MUST BE unless God says otherwise

This otherwise can happen due to

1- Prayers
2-Wickedness of homo-sapiens
3.

in short only God knows whats best for you, though your destiny is already written & shown to you way b4 you were born into this world & YOU ACCEPTED. Just pray for the best. As God can change anything instantly without you even realizing.

If you can understand this simple truth, then my brother you have already reached halfway to everlasting happiness in this miserable world

Kylekent59:
It's a NO from me.
You have to make a move to make a change.

If you didn't practise, you won't be perfect.

Life can be fair or unfair to man at his starting point. It is now left for man to make his/her decision whether to progress in life or not. You have to be your self and don't compromise.

destiny can also be altered. Let us use politics as a case study.
A politician was aspiring for a post and he needed the post willingly. He bribed the youths and at the end he won,then in return the youths are suffering. Had it been d youth voted the right person, they would have gotten a benefiting job, but because of ignorance they voted d wrong choice.
Destiny can be bought, we call it wisdom of man.

prinzfavian:
First let's consider the meaning of destiny:

1. That to which any person or thing is destined; a predetermined state; a condition foreordained by the Divine or by human will; fate; lot; doom.

2. The fixed order of things; invincible necessity; fate; an irresistible power or agency conceived of as determining the future, whether in general or of an individual.

From the above definitions, destiny is said to be fixed..perfectly mapped out from the very beginning of such person's life.... Then, whatever happens to that person must be according to his or her already written script...

Now here are some few questions if destiny were to be true....

Why do we look left and right when crossing the road or run out of the road if we saw an oncoming vehicle trying to hit us... If our time to die has been predestined why take any precaution to save oneself, if it's not your time to die then you won't, you don't need to do anything, remember your whole life and action has been mapped out which means you're not in control of your life.

Also, if there was anything like destiny, means whatever is happening now is what has been mapped out or planned from the onset.... It's been destined that you'll open this thread on Sunday, and I'll be commenting right now as I am on this thread... The list goes on,..... The concept of destiny opposes the concept of free will...
Everyone is wherever they are today because of the decisions they made and actions they took moments before now not according to some perfectly planned out script... That's what I call freewill not destiny...
Thanks.