₦airaland Forum

kaeforum:
Virginity doesnt apply to men, they dont have holes.

Theres nothing more frustrating to a guy who has spent so much on the girl who claims to be a virgin but later turns out to be have something deeper than the abyss.

Hahahahaha lmao

refiner:
I thought u've stopped chatting wif me?


wat should I call dis now?


well,although I enjoy ur 10 THIS AND THAT!,...

buh sorry I stand behind op in dis case!

Why would I stop chatting wif u?

fistonati:
And the many failures against bokoharam didn't make it to the media. Can Nigerian Army be faithful to Nigerians for once??

MarieSucre:
Point of correction Women also do boxing as a sport. Muhammad Ali's daughter Laila Ali is a renowned female boxer.

As for rape, I have never heard of life imprisonment for rape except if the rapist also murders the victim. And I fully support equal punishment for equal crimes(between genders). You see!! Can you see!! This is is one of the things we need to change not just for women but also for men.

And yes. These are MAN-MADE laws in the literal sense. Here is why? You said and I quote
" How you ever wondered why women are not allowed to participate in boxing?" Who are those not allowing them? MEN!
"However, even though women participate in wrestling, have you ever wondered why they are given minor role to play?" Who is giving them minor roles? MEN

Its men who go around saying women are weaker and we should not embellish it(your words). It is men who now use this mentality to now classify what women can and cannot do. Not Women. But Men.

It is true that physiologically men generally have better upper body strength than women. But there are women who have been able to meet up to this standard and excelled in fields that have been formerly exclusive. But why the insistence by some men to paint all women with one brush thereby blocking the access for all because of backward prejudices about our gender. Not all women can do. But if she is willing and able then get out of her way, let her do it.
This is just like saying because Africans were tying leaves and illiterate when the Europeans first came, then the Europeans will now write off all Africans. Would we have progressed?

Do you know that statistics show over 80% of the world's farmers are women? Go to your village to confirm. We do back breaking work all day under the sun, all over the globe and yet we're still treated like minors. We fvcking feed the world. What is greater?

It is true that there is societal pressure on men as regards upkeep. That is why you need to support is so we can support you and spread that burden so the world can progress.

Sometimes I ask myself, "what else do you people want?" Certain laws are made (both constitutional and religious) to protect women against harm and life dangers even more than the male folks;


Just as Rapmoney opined that the sole purpose of the agitation of gender equality is more than what we think. It's just to turn the nation in a state of discombubation making men look like they don't know what they have been doing so far


God Himself, the creator of earth, deliberately made women restrain from certain things cos He knows that women are naturally proud and bossy and won't be able to handle such amount of mantle of leadership given unto men.


Now ask yourself, "why do the larger proportion of women who are richer than their husbands tend to the bossy and fail to succumb under his authority? it's normal for a woman to slap a man but when the man retaliates hell is lose.

As I said earlier, as far as this is Nigeria, nothing good will come out of this gender equality but commotion against these two genders. A law which will give gold-diggers an opportunity to torment the lives of their husbands and will file a court case seeking divorce so that half of what the man has laboured for will be given to them


So you want to be given an opportunity to go to war front and fight against Boko Haram ? Gender equality my foot

HateU2:

Pastor
May God forgive u too

Go and sin no more.... BTW, where have you been? I don miss you sef


*dont think I'm tripping or something ooo *

HateU2:
Yes

Hmmmmmm !!! God will forgive you

refiner:
asslicker,I dey ur back jare!....


buh I fink I disagree in d case of naijaboiy and decker!...buh kwantinue!

sdfuareyougod go clean DAT chair for me joor!...make I relax,enjoy d op revelation!...hehehehe

rosalieene:
Nice one Op
The only point guys would pick up is the issue of spending on girls. Trust me! they know themselves.

Go ahead and mention their names

mitchyy:
I hope most of you realize not every virgin bleeds when having sex for the first time? Speaking from experience, this can be very embarassing especially when you know you've been keeping yourself. It only takes the enlightened ones to still look at other signs without just banking on the traditional blood on the sheets.
This might be the case here, if the lady is mature

Hmmmmm !! Make I no just talk

MarieSucre:
Under the contract of employment, I got to realize that the
Labour Act made laws that make women enjoy certain rights
and privileges protecting them from harm and dangers such
as maternity leave; no woman is allowed to work
underground (mining); no organization should employ a
woman to work at night (in exception to those in medical
field, doctors and matrons). Lastly, women are allowed to
work as Law Enforcement agents but are not allowed to go
to war front.

Are you saying that maternity leave is not right? Have you been to the labour room before to even full understand the extent of what the leave is being granted for?
The laws for mining, night work and working in the war front are laws similar to one's held earlier in the century that stated that no women can be doctors, lawyers, preachers, be able to vote, or even hold down steady employment. But as you can see most of the above have been rescinded and women have been able to break through most of these occupations. In Israel for example women battle in the war front as well as men. During the Biafra war, women soldiers were recorded.
But there is one point you deceptively omitted. That all these laws are set and enforced by men.

tosyne2much

Let me tell you something, you and I know that women are the weaker sex even though you try to shy away from the truth. And the fact that much is expected from men clearly shows these two genders are not equal. The truth of the matter is that men are hierarchical in leadership in every sphere of life

How you ever wondered why women are not allowed to participate in heavyweight boxing? However, even though women participate in wrestling, have you ever wondered why they are given minor role to play? Lastly, have you ever wondered why men are sent to life imprisonment when they rape the ladies, but when a lady rapes a man such cruel judgement is not passed on her? These laws are man-made laws shey? I don't want you to tell me the answer


Now tell me, you deem it right to mouth-thrash a man for not being able to provide family basic needs but pat a woman on the shoulder for enduring such companionship?


My dear, let's not deceive ourselves over irrelevant argument

benji93:
I agree with you jare, we need to consider the technicalities in discussing issues of this kind, before we can consider this African women must have learnt to live independently. Given our cultural values and norms, men are regarded as the ultimate provider for the family, it is said that ''to whom much is given much is expected', so if women are serious about their demands for equal rights, then they must learn to live independently, and must be able to provide for their immediate family as much as their, the situation is in short a catch-22-a solution likely poses a problem- the more women are availed with equal rights and responsibilities, the more institutions that hold family bonds together are threatened. Also considering the life of women, productivity will be greatly affected in certain sectors of the economy, if they are given equal opportunities-Maternity leave and so on and so forth. I mean women between 20 and 40. As much as there are certain issues involving the marginalization of women that should be addressed, equal rights is in my opinion out of it, We all have our places in the society.We should not aspire to the position of others. However if one person treats you with contempt in your own place,then you have a reasonable case to file.We all have our Physical and social roles in the society, naturally and physically it is impossible for a man to conceive a child, if you contest this and prove the other way round is possible naturally, then we can consider it naturally and culturally possible for women and men to have equal rights. On this note, let us maintain the order of things, as nature(God for believers) dictates. I rest my case.

godoluwa:
oya make i c wetin u wan do

Hehehe

Adaure4ever:
is the man a virgin himself? Why these double standard?

Smh

Gerrard59:
I'm not surprised by the majority of comments I see on this thread. Nigeria nay Africa has a fvcked up mentality, which is why a nation's parliament will be against a bill that will, hopefully, eradicate violence against women(their wives, sisters, daughters)

Moreover, the comment that women aren't participating is as a result of the fvcked up mentality I talked about. Is it not on Nairaland working class ladies are advised against buying a car even when they NEED it? When they subconsciously make ladies develop low self esteem?
When they tell ladies not to dream big as if dreaming big is the right of men only?

Nevertheless, with increased awareness and most importantly, education, I see more women rising up to the challenge. 20 years ago, who would have thought that we would have female professors? Female engineers? On the other hand, we need to groom our lads out there to respect women and not think because you possess a D I C K then you have the right to r@pe a lady. It's ensuring that boys cook, wash clothes, sweep etc that we can entrench gender equality.
If we are to wait for the olodos we have in the NASS, na grey hair things oh.


Changing the fvcked up mentality of Nigerians is a task that must be done.

marlockj:
Okk...Tnks....Bt it was kept aside....


They will b better things wen they mke our 1st president and start marrying men....and stop men from dominating them....

The moment women wake up.... and knw that they shuld not b asking men for money for hair and all Dat....


Am still waiting to hear a woman control a state of fight a man to stand still....

Am yet to notice a woman pull Crious effect on Senate house or rep

We need women to do something...something we all will b reading and following...


Mayb women will search for another strategy.....

I Lov girls though....

The truth is women cn Neva b equal to a man.... Infact a single man is more than 6women....

Bros, this your quote got me laughing

lawnreigh:
6 bottles of chilled origins for you my man, if I'm to be in the hallowed chambers today as a Senator my own go spoil am because we have a lot of golddiggers hitches around who will make life miserable for men if that Bill is passed, moreover even without passing the rate of feminists nowadays is all time high, talk more of adding that. It will be like a salt on injury

Bwahahahahahaha roflwkmd

Halimi25:

EMU.SMITH
WRI.STBANGLE
TOSYNE2M.UCH
ASHEW.OBOY
STFUa.reyouGod

Me ke ? Egbon abeg fear God oooo

AyamConfidence:
me I get ooo

Adaure4ever:
i look forward to the thread. Lol

I hope you will be able to withstand what you will face?

Adaure4ever:
oh she forgot to put ur name there, oya write a thread about "10 reasons why she is dumb"

Instead I will write 10 Reasons Why I Will Love To Date Adaure4ever