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Which of the categories do you fit in?

Studies have revealed that a generation of ladies are highly rejecting men all in favour of a life of ease and luxury. And it's believed that ladies normally enjoy the thrill of the chase by guys which gives them confidence or certainty in their beauty and market value. Therefore, it inflates their ego, giving them false sense of self importance that they tend to start misbehaving, thereby, playing kites and chess with the lives of prospective chairmen as well as kind hearted guys

No offense taken; ladies, in general, are somewhat greedy in the sense that they crave a companionship that is solely based on financial circumstances and what would profit them most.

Now to the matter; just as guys fault ladies for their inability to find girlfriends. Ladies on the other hand will also not find fault in their live style but will fault guys for their single status.

Now, I shall discuss these excuses laid by ladies for their inability to find boyfriends

10 Excuses Ladies Use To Justify Their Inability To Find Boyfriends

1. Guys can't do without Demanding for Sex

For God's sake, not all dudes insistently and peremptory request for kitty-cats in relationships; so the earlier the better for you to stop dwelling in the philosophy that all dudes cannot date a lady without tumbling beneath the sheets. Though, I can't speak for all dudes but I can at least speak for myself. I have dated quite a few number of ladies and I can tell you that I never demanded for a kiss not to talk of kitty-cat

2. I don't have Time for Guys

I have overheard many ladies saying they don't have time for guys. They are like, " I don't have time for boys jawe because they aren't worth the stress" This is not a valid excuse at all and I will really like the ladies to enlighten us if there's a specific time when a lady will publicly announce that she now has time for boys

3. Guys are too Stingy

One of the favourite excuses that so many ladies use for not dating is, accusing guys of being stingy or prudent in spending on them. Well, it’s easy to say that guys are too stingy" when they have no idea of how guys struggle to meet ends need. I can't afford to buy Brazilian hair for a lady when I know that if I add 50k to the money, I will definitely get a plot of land in Mowe or Ibafo . More so, you can't just expect a guy to hustle hard and expect him to spend his little savings on perishable things. As for me, it's not that I'm stingy or something but I have dated more than 20 ladies since 1995 and the highest amount I have ever given to a lady is just N150. Don't blame me, I'm saving for a rewarding future

4. I haven't Found a Guy who can Satisfy me

The fact that you are always unfortunate to be acquinted with guys that can't last more than a minute does not mean some dudes can't last for an hour. Some dudes are veteran on the bed so stop thinking all guys are lazy in bed. At least I can speak for myself

5. Guys are Distractions

Ladies, don't blame your inability to find boyfriends on the philosophy that guys are distraction. You are the one that is a distraction to yourself not guys. A lady who will not remain focus will not be, even though she starts using cutlass to chase men away

6. All Guys are the Same

Hey listen, I don't agree with you that all guys are promiscuous. The fact that you met a dude who revealed his true nature as sodomizing as player who deceived you, tumbled beneath the sheets and dumped you afterwards does not necessarily mean that every dude would do the same. Don't let anybody deceive you that all guys are programmed to act the same way. Not all of us cheat on ladies. Some of us are very faithful to our girlfriends

7. I will only Date When I'm Ready To Marry

What if men don't come when you are ready to marry? Do you think OLX will save you? That every Tom, Dick and Naijaboiy is chasing you does not mean that the chase will remain forever. Please stop living a life of procrastination. Don't let anybody deceive you, there's no specific time for dating

8. Men are Irresponsible

Why would you find a responsible man when you are irritating, nauseating coupled with repulsive attributes such as immoral dressing and attitude problems. The way you appear determines the quality of men you would attract. You can't dress like Cossy Orjakor and expect Pastor Adeboye to ask for your hand in marriage. Work on yourself and stop dwelling in the erroneous belief that guys are irresponsible

9. I have High Taste

I won't shy away from the fact that life is all about high taste. But it is paramount to know that everything should be done with moderation. The standard you have set for yourself might be too hard for a layman like. Lalasticlala to meet up to. This implies that you may like to have a rendezvous at Silverbird, and Lalasticlala can only afford Iya Ngozi spot



10. Feel free to add yours


I drop my pen at this point

Original Writer: Tosyne2much

ariyike23:
lol..dt wasnt bashing.. na simple telling of d truth..buh ah was joking sha

I read where you clearly stated that someone else's boyfriend wouldn't hesitate dumping her girlfriend for you


Mind you, no be all of us get ojukokoro

ariyike23:
i wasnt bashing her now,i was jes joking wid her oo...

Joke bawo ? Ooookay ooooo

ariyike23:
lol,bi*ch had to go read my posts,she stalked me..fck,i hope yu read it well or ur megabyte didnt allow u read all,kos u wulda seen where i wrote i needed it for my sis and in all dose posts,u wulda seen that i wrote on behalf of someone,,no worry i will soon cme date your hubby or boyfrend,im sure u checked my dp too and know ur bf wuld dump ur silly ass if i cme near him.. dnt get nasty wid me hun,u wuld hate urself

I never knew you could bash like this.. Just take it easy jawe

kubrat:
Yes,there s need for that,especially if your self confidence is at its lowest ebb. Go out there and see a lot of achievement engineered by HND holders that a bsc holder can never dream of.I have seen a lot of university graduates that has nothing to offer them selves or the society.yes they re social,I'll give that to them but most them pay hnd undergraduates for their assignments.

hassymo5:
HND or BSC my foot ....I graduated with HND upper credit proud of what I read ..working with a federal organisation.. and receiving a kool cash monthly.. plenty BSC holders dey my domot without job...

Guys what will b will b .,ur destiny na only God know am...

in essence what ever u do weda BSC or HND just read well....ur future will b bright if God b with u..

Na only for Naija we dey hear Bsc /HND wahala ...that's why we ain't moving..

go Germany/China,, the cars wey we dey drive and making yanga for this naija na na people wey go technical program de do am....

but here we no sabi produce anything yet na mouth.I get bsc/HND and nothing bsc/HND holder de make....

in a not shell I know wetin I read .I read hard to pass the HND no b say dem pass me.I will contribute my quota to the development of naija wit my HND I ain't converting anything to BSC...IM NOT INFERIOR... I Know myself and I know microbiology in HND level very well..

so if we wise na output b the main thing,, weda Bsc /HND na wetin u fit do na him matter..because I know plenty BSC holders wey no no anything and likewise plenty HND holders we no no anything..and again I know HND wey sabi things pass Bsc Holder and also I know BSC wey sabi things pass HND ....ONE POINT IS OUTPUT AND FINALLY WHAT CAN YOU DO AFTER UR TRAINING WEDA BSC OR HND IS WHAT MATTERS....

I REST MY CASE.....

Make i comot I get work for office.... to do ...dey WORK wey plenty BSC dey find and yet God say na me HND go get the job (DESTINY). I'm 7years in service today..

Finally any person wey insult my post because i talk truth..may God forgive am Amen...

Haryoryhemie:
I never see igbo man wey dey sell suya

dayosaurus:
Me wey I never enter school??.. What is English??

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Dey dia dey deceive urself, like say na by person wey enter school

olayinkaj2:
Lord, i thank you...

You are thankful that you have good command of English language shey?

dayosaurus:
Lol. With your 10things threads??... I dey learn for your side

As I no too sabi speak English, I know say u go dey laf the blunders wey full my threads

Saladin25:
Exactly, am not always after someone's grammatical blunder. What I want is to get an idea of what you are saying. Like my English lecturers do say, back then you can never understand English like the real English citizens. That is why we now have Nigerian English which is widely use among Nigerians for communication aside pidgin English.

dayosaurus:
Lol, baba I dey look up to you

Na u be boss ooo baba

I no fit make comment wey dey as insightful as urs

ckmayoca:
Chai!! Nairalanders.. UNA FADA. No wonder my wife stays glued to comments and won't stop laughing.

dayosaurus:
With all due respect alibaba was just being petty.

The higher institution one attends does not determine one's proficiency in the use of English language.

PEJ ALSO GRADUATED FROM uniport, does that mean uniport is filled with dullards?.


But the guy self fall we yabatech graduates hand ooo.

Leriebloom:
My Valentine pix

Rutheby:
The Proximity sha. Only if u can rush to my place now now

And where's ur location?

refiner:
lol.....am nt joor....

well,my bf is from newyork city! dats y I won't be celebrating dis val!...

In the absence of your bf, you can celebrate it with me

esosa993:
thank u hope your day is going on well

Lemme say it's going smoothly with Arsenal Vs Leicester match

justmenoni:
Uncle tosyne2.much please come and render ur service for us here bitte.

I say maaa come here come observe

esosa993:
u know when u keep argueing like this you'll be tagged a bitter person, the guy was only a fact that not everyone is the same..... just cos you have trust issues doesn't mean you should tag every gal a hoe or gold digger



and I wonder those gals who date broke guys will be called.



really the world is messed up don't let bitterness eat u up, bitterness only ruin people and perhaps life is to short to now act stuck up, show people around love while u can , no one knows tomorrow

refiner:
u are an arsenal fan?....

dats d everyday reply of guys...*I no get gf*...

guys denying dere galfriends since 1BC

Same with ladies and you are one of them