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Layormiii:Hello Layormiii, don't conclude it is still the ear infection get to the hospital first are you using a govt hospital? I would always advocate to use them it's usually cheaper and you can sometimes appeal to the conscience of some of the Dr on the cost of drugs, some will even help financially if they see you truly need it. Also pls when feeding baby always ensure he is in an upright position if you breastfeed while he is laying down stop it, you need to always elevate their head to avoid food flowing into their ear and pushing bacteria there that may cause an infection even for midnight feeds also, that maybe part of the whitish stuff you are seeing. You know the ear nose and mouth/throat is connected If baby is having any pain, please do warm compress to the affected ear to relive pain, ensure water doesn't enter the ear at any point please, but pls take baby to the hospital immediately, delay is dangerous |
Timitoyo:Yes pineapple is not okay especially the fleshy part but the core is what is recommended, it has bromelin which helps implantation, to be taken in moderation though like half of the smallest finger size |
StarryV:It's that annoying colic, there is no treatment for it, it usually runs it course you can only try to manage it, I used infacol for my son which helped with the gassiness and helped reduce his fussiness cos the thing no dey gree am sleep back when he had it, plus a lot of tummy time plus I eliminated anything gasy from my diet also. My mum also massaged tummy with warm towel during bath time, pele mama it would soon pass I remember only way my son use to sleep a bit then was to cuddle him in my arms on my chest, but please make sure baby will not fall o |
Gentledove2U:Thank you Sis, it isn't beans ooo God bless and strengthen all mothers |
Layormiii:Make una no vex jare, like I said everything was just gbas gbos for me, and needed to take things a step at a time for my mental health make person no go kolo I remember I saw a congratulatory WhatsApp message from my exboss when my son was 5 months old as in almost like I just shut out alot of things for me to get my bearing right, so no be say it was intentional but it just had to happen so I could reset and be okay first.So make una no vex u hia Of cos he is a big boy oo, already rearranging everywhere for me with his belly-crawling-self ![]() How is our chairman doing, hope he has started biting mums nipple to his gum ![]() |
kokaiye:Awwnnn You are doing so much seriously, biko give yourself some accolades, raise your head high and fix your crown mama, you gat this and God gat you too #superwoman!!!! #Shero for life |
Morrewhunmie:Hello mama, if it is for weeks better you see a pediatrician, when my son had cough and catarrh that lasted over a week the Dr had to prescribe some drugs/antibiotics cos it wasn't easing out and he said it was already infection, so pls see a Dr immediately but make sure to cover baby well and avoid direct fan on baby |
Layormiii:Layormi!!!!!!!!!! mama how are you doing For me the pediatrician in Luth advised we use just cotton wool and water to clean out the tongue every morning before bathing and that's what we have been doing, and since then we don't have this issue anymore |
breeezefe:Weldone mama, that is motherhood for you, i remember when my son would refuse anyone to carry him except me, i started carrying him with his carrier around the house, but like mamas have said baby boys starts to seat at 4 months, and within 2 weeks they gradually perfect their seating without falling to the side I am sure baby boy would have been seating fine now abi? |
TOHHAN:Holla Mama, My sister try not to itch it oo, make e no be stretch marks calling, i believe it is the skin stretching that is causing the itch try and moisturizes regularly |
Yippee!!!! Great seeing my mamas here, i am finally reporting to this thread since March when i had my son, motherhood combined with work hit be gbas gbos, but now gradually returning to my normal life. my cappo kokaiye, expectantmom how una dey my other plenty mama make una chop |
kokaiye:Yes, sucking on paci causes babies to swallow air and gives gas, it is just that it keeps them from crying and comforts them kind of |
kokaiye:This is why i learnt General hospital and teaching hospitals are recommended, they have specialists and equipments that maybe required in emergency cases |
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kokaiye:He was actually cos when they came to check that night, his heart rate was between 180 - 190, I could hear how usually fast it was, I was also having silent contractions, I guess the Dr just said that when baby was brought out to kind of put my mind at rest that baby is fine |
BS After the 4th IUI that failed in 2020 our Dr advised we move up to ivf but we should have myomectomy to take out the fibroid inpreparation for ivf and to also ptimize our chances. I had a successful myomectomy all glory to God and a large ovarian cyst was also taken out from my left ovary. The surgeon that performed the surgery was hopeful that we would get pregnant naturally within 3 months following the surgery but that didn't happen even after going for tubal flushing, so we went back to our ivf clinic for review and to start the ivf process, but I kept on postponing cos I was just scared and not ready to have another negative result, but finally in May/June 2021, we started the process and by the grace of God we got our bfp on our 1st try in July 2021 in our 7th year of marriage Before we confirmed bfp, I developed ohss and lost hope that it would be positive, the ohss was so bad that I had to have the fluid drained from the side of my stomach, but I just kept telling God that would HE allow me go through all that and still get a negative result? 1st tri was not bad at all, though I was nauseous most of the time but I never threw up or had serious morning sickness, 2nd tri was a breeze but 3rd tri came with all its palava and I couldnt wait to offload Right from when I started ANC at both private and govt hospital, I was scheduled for elective CS due to my history of myomectomy plus the private hospital said they don't take chances/risks with ivf pregnancy so I was told max gestation period for me would be 38 weeks and nothing beyond, so I was working with 38weeks delivery and decided to have the delivery at Luth only for us to go for ANC clinic and was told they won't even allow me get to 38weeks before they conduct the ELCS and so we were scheduled for Friday 18th March for surgery, and we had to change plans to work with new date I hadn't even rounded up work and needed to finish up by my day which was 16th March. On Sunday 13th March I was too tired to go to church so I stayed back home, around 12noon i decided to eat some fruits dh bought and planned to cook fried rice for lunch. I decided that after washing the fruit I will quickly drive out to get the fried rice ingredients as hunger was already mamaring me, just as I stood up from where I was washing the fruits in the kitchen I felt this sharp pain that made me stop in my tracks the pain was breathtaking and I quickly sat back thinking it was lightning crotch and that it would fade away soon I sat for some minutes and there was no relief infact my phone was ringing on the cabinet and I couldnt even stretch to pick it and just left it to ring not long after DH called and I knew if I don't pick he would panic so in that pain I managed to stretch and answered his call after some minutes I was able to manage to get to the bedroom and I laid down to sleep if the pain would relieve me, by this time I was so famished but there was nothing I could do DH called again after about an hour that he was leaving church but needed to stop by somewhere before getting home, I still didn't tell him I was in pain cos I was hopeful it would resolve after about an hour after and still no relief I called him and he was close by but he sensed something was wrong, he sha got home, helped me to the bathroom to shower and we headed to the hospital after stopping by to get something to eat, we got to the hospital, I was placed on admission and was told I was having contractions VE was done and good thing I wasn't dilating so contraction were stopped/ managed and I was told I would be on admission till my elcs date to be monitored When dh got back home he moved our hospital box into the car that Sunday night, by Monday I was so much better but couldn't go to the office to have my handover but tried working in the hospital, I was told to carry out some test and if everything went well I would be transferred from labour ward to the admission ward, dh decided to leave hospital bag in his car since test results came back late so I couldn't be moved that Monday anymore. At around 12am, I was still awake and watching a movie on my phone when the night Dr's were having the routine check, they discovered baby's heart rate was high and said baby was in distress so they needed to get him out ASAP, I tried to call dh but he wasn't picking and so that was how I was wheeled into surgery around 2am after trying to stabilise baby, surgery started and I just kept on praying and waiting to hear babyA, pediatrician was on ground and soon I heard BabyA's cry screaming down the whole place and surgeon was like this baby is not in any distress at all with the way he was crying, they didn't even let me see him the pediatrics team whisked him away, not long after I asked to see him and they said he was fine and was being checked that once they are through they will bring him to me, by this time I was balling my eyes out cos I just couldn't believe it that finally I am a mother, there was no cloth for babyA to wear BabyA was kept in a cot by the foot of my bed and just kept on crying I couldn't move so I just kept on calling his name and asking him not to cry that daddy would soon be around. Not long afterwards dh arrived and babyA finally got something to wear and we were observed for a while before we got transfered to the ward, when I felt much better I picked him up from the cot and just kept on crying and praying for him am sure other ladies were wondering what is wrong with the one, but I could careless. Anyways babyA and I were in perfect health despite his birth weight he was and still doing excellently well, inshort his birth assessment was very goof, we got discharged 3 days later and I tell you vigilante is very very real and nepa is annoyingly/ irritatingly mean, but we are taking one day at a time. I use babyA as a point of contact to my TTC mamas that in no distant time you all will get to carry your bundle of joy in your womb and arms very very soon by God's grace I wish the rest of my teamies yet to drop swift, safe and painless delivery and to those that have birthed their Lo's congratulations To everyone who congratulated me and those that have checked up on me, thank you for your prayers and well wishes I really appreciate you guys and love you all Cappo kokaiye kisses to our birthday mate, trust you are doing well mama BS submitted. NB I have so many pages to catch up on, hoping I will get to do so soon ![]() One love always ![]() |
Moje l'ope Moje Baba l'ope oo Nigbati mo ro ise iyanu Baba l'aye mi Mo ri wipe Mo je Jesu mi lope repete Mamas my golden sonshine, my rainbow after 7years storm of ttc has arrived via emergency CS DOB 15th March EDD 29th March BS later See what the Lord has done !!! See what the Lord has done !!! What we waited for has come to pass See what the Lord has done!!! Cc cappo Kokaiye |
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Wazobai:Congratulations on your successful surgery Sis and sorry about your loss, I would say anything between 3-6 months, I had myomectomy and took in 6 -7 months later, though my Dr cleared us from 12weeks which is 3 months. All the best sis, I pray God grant you speedy recovery and blesses you very very soon, just take things easy for your recovery |
Beautifulsenora:Holla Sis, I have responded |
Whytehandy:Congratulations teamie, thank God for His faithfulness shouts of joy will always be heard in your home |
Funky123:Aya ya ya ya ya ya ya!!!! Congratulations Afunky mama, I wish you quickest recovery darling, welcome blessed baby boy |
kokaiye:kikikikikiki, capable cappo ur head dey there ![]() |
Layormiii:Because they know some mamas will not take it, that drug can worry someone ehn it will just scatter you system. anyway if na that one i will carry eba to the hospital ni yen to swallow the drug |
Layormiii:no worry na, we go still dey to ginger you guys, and some may come back sef after 3 months to join ![]() |
Dsnoni:Abi ooo, all orisirisi is just happening, now i am getting darker, me that belle made me lighter all through this last few weeks i sjust changing everything for me ![]() |
legendsmother:Yayyyyyyyyy congratulations Sis, welcome our long awaited baby boy. |
as in almost like I just shut out alot of things for me to get my bearing right, so no be say it was intentional but it just had to happen so I could reset and be okay first.


!!!! Abeg oooo... No jinx us. Family planning to d rescue!!!!!!!
very quiet people wey God dash me