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HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 5:53am On Oct 10, 2022
Layormiii:
Sabi mamas help me o
So about 2months ago my baby had diarrhea or so I thought.
After managing it at home for few days I decided to take him to d hospital, the doc said he didn't have diarrhea but ear infection, he pinched his ears somehow and my boy that was sleeping started crying. I shock
So he said we would run some test and blah blàh, bill was Sha getting much, so I felt like since his HMO card will be ready d next week, there was no need spending so much money I will just wait till d next week.
The pooping stopped that day Sha so I thought there was no need going back again when the card finally came out.

Two months later, my baby will just suddenly start crying from sleep o and wake up, I had to Google it and google suggested ear infection angry sad angry sad checked his ear and saw some white stuffs in one of the ear angry angry angry dunno if it's water from bathing or d infection

So I'm just dying in my head right now thinking that maybe my baby have been having ear pain for the past 2months and I didn't know cry cry sad angry sad angry
Hello Layormiii, don't conclude it is still the ear infection get to the hospital first are you using a govt hospital? I would always advocate to use them it's usually cheaper and you can sometimes appeal to the conscience of some of the Dr on the cost of drugs, some will even help financially if they see you truly need it.

Also pls when feeding baby always ensure he is in an upright position if you breastfeed while he is laying down stop it, you need to always elevate their head to avoid food flowing into their ear and pushing bacteria there that may cause an infection even for midnight feeds also, that maybe part of the whitish stuff you are seeing. You know the ear nose and mouth/throat is connected

If baby is having any pain, please do warm compress to the affected ear to relive pain, ensure water doesn't enter the ear at any point please, but pls take baby to the hospital immediately, delay is dangerous
HealthRe: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Towerofgrace: 5:31am On Oct 10, 2022
Timitoyo:
Pls avoid pineapple, was told it's not good after transfer.
Yes pineapple is not okay especially the fleshy part but the core is what is recommended, it has bromelin which helps implantation, to be taken in moderation though like half of the smallest finger size
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 10:16pm On Oct 09, 2022
StarryV:
Good evening Mamas in the house. My 5weeks+ baby is battling with gassy tummy that disturbs him mostly at night. Please is there any possible remedy? And how long does it take to go away?
It's that annoying colic, there is no treatment for it, it usually runs it course you can only try to manage it, I used infacol for my son which helped with the gassiness and helped reduce his fussiness cos the thing no dey gree am sleep back when he had it, plus a lot of tummy time plus I eliminated anything gasy from my diet also. My mum also massaged tummy with warm towel during bath time, pele mama it would soon pass

I remember only way my son use to sleep a bit then was to cuddle him in my arms on my chest, but please make sure baby will not fall o
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 5:57am On Oct 09, 2022
Gentledove2U:
Welcome! Working and being a mama no be small thing.
Thank you Sis, it isn't beans ooo God bless and strengthen all mothers
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 5:54am On Oct 09, 2022
Layormiii:
see who we have here grin grin grin mama gave birth finish and went mia on all of us grin I almost sent u a PM sef grin how baby doing. I am sure he is a big big boy now.

Thanks for the suggestion
Make una no vex jare, like I said everything was just gbas gbos for me, and needed to take things a step at a time for my mental health make person no go kolo

I remember I saw a congratulatory WhatsApp message from my exboss when my son was 5 months old lipsrsealed as in almost like I just shut out alot of things for me to get my bearing right, so no be say it was intentional but it just had to happen so I could reset and be okay first.

So make una no vex u hia

Of cos he is a big boy oo, already rearranging everywhere for me with his belly-crawling-self grin

How is our chairman doing, hope he has started biting mums nipple to his gum grin
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 11:58am On Oct 05, 2022
kokaiye:
Awwn!!! Welcome teamie... Mamas combining work and taking care of babies are really trying swears!!! God knows i cant cos takin care of baby sef ehn ve almost wound me, i don cry tire sef dis morning cs i remember wen i was still an omidan wit no responsibilities... Wen i only takia of mysef, looked at mysef in d mirror and i couldnt recognise mysef cs i now look fat n lookin lik an homeless person n my color faded (son inherited all my oyinbo colour) n i cried lik alot... I just needed to let the tears out to feel gud afterwards.. Plus i get irritated about everything... I am 100% overstimulated embarassed
Awwnnn cry cry cry big squasy warm hug to you mama, just hang in there before you know it this phase will be over and we'll miss when our boys were still babies.

You are doing so much seriously, biko give yourself some accolades, raise your head high and fix your crown mama, you gat this and God gat you too

#superwoman!!!!
#Shero for life
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 9:55am On Oct 05, 2022
Morrewhunmie:
Mine has been battling with it for weeks now. I’ll do as you’ve advised. Thanks so much
Hello mama, if it is for weeks better you see a pediatrician, when my son had cough and catarrh that lasted over a week the Dr had to prescribe some drugs/antibiotics cos it wasn't easing out and he said it was already infection, so pls see a Dr immediately but make sure to cover baby well and avoid direct fan on baby
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 9:44am On Oct 05, 2022
Layormiii:
thanks mama. Tho I don't like seeing the white stuff.. especially after taking nan, the tongue go just over white. I'll just leave it
Layormi!!!!!!!!!! mama how are you doing

For me the pediatrician in Luth advised we use just cotton wool and water to clean out the tongue every morning before bathing and that's what we have been doing, and since then we don't have this issue anymore
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 9:39am On Oct 05, 2022
breeezefe:
Good afternoon Mamas


Abeggi oo
Ayam tired of carrying my boy and I need him to start sitting atleast. He will be 4months by 20th. Please what can I do to teach him.

Thank you oll
Weldone mama, that is motherhood for you, i remember when my son would refuse anyone to carry him except me, i started carrying him with his carrier around the house, but like mamas have said baby boys starts to seat at 4 months, and within 2 weeks they gradually perfect their seating without falling to the side

I am sure baby boy would have been seating fine now abi?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 9:36am On Oct 05, 2022
TOHHAN:
Good morning mamas, pls why do breast itch when it's full. My breast always itch me whenever it's full, no pain whatsoever o except d itching
Holla Mama,

My sister try not to itch it oo, make e no be stretch marks calling, i believe it is the skin stretching that is causing the itch try and moisturizes regularly
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Towerofgrace: 9:34am On Oct 05, 2022
Yippee!!!!
Great seeing my mamas here, i am finally reporting to this thread since March when i had my son, motherhood combined with work hit be gbas gbos, but now gradually returning to my normal life.

my cappo kokaiye, expectantmom how una dey my other plenty mama make una chop kiss kiss kiss
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 9:52am On Apr 22, 2022
kokaiye:
my hubby said givin baby pacifier give dem more air in d tommy... I bought 5pacifier n cant use one now cs of his theory... How true is it?
Yes, sucking on paci causes babies to swallow air and gives gas, it is just that it keeps them from crying and comforts them kind of
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 9:50am On Apr 22, 2022
kokaiye:
Ha!!! Ejo... Ki lon sele gan gan??!!! Eh God ooo... Hmmmn, hello sir, it is very hrtbreaking to hear dt a quack doc killed ur wife... So sorry 4 ur loss sir, i dont knw anybody or link wud ve helped, i pray God should console n soften ur heart sir....

We shld all b careful of dis pipu dt call demselve doctors in Nigeria abeg. cry cry
This is why i learnt General hospital and teaching hospitals are recommended, they have specialists and equipments that maybe required in emergency cases
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 6:23pm On Apr 21, 2022
GenyEbere:
BS

This pregnancy was the toughest for me,I hardly sleep well

Just coming online and seeing this breaks my heart, so sorry sis I don’t mean to bring back the pain but couldn’t read and pass without extending my apologies

God will comfort you and cloth you with strength
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 2:00pm On Mar 24, 2022
kokaiye:
Aaawwn!!! Congratulations once again teamie... U c dis doctors n deir diagnosis, so baby wasnt depressed... Mk dem sha no kobalise pesin.... Pls takia of our prince 4 me cheesy
He was actually cos when they came to check that night, his heart rate was between 180 - 190, I could hear how usually fast it was, I was also having silent contractions, I guess the Dr just said that when baby was brought out to kind of put my mind at rest that baby is fine
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 3:26am On Mar 24, 2022
BS
After the 4th IUI that failed in 2020 our Dr advised we move up to ivf but we should have myomectomy to take out the fibroid inpreparation for ivf and to also ptimize our chances. I had a successful myomectomy all glory to God and a large ovarian cyst was also taken out from my left ovary. The surgeon that performed the surgery was hopeful that we would get pregnant naturally within 3 months following the surgery but that didn't happen even after going for tubal flushing, so we went back to our ivf clinic for review and to start the ivf process, but I kept on postponing cos I was just scared and not ready to have another negative result, but finally in May/June 2021, we started the process and by the grace of God we got our bfp on our 1st try in July 2021 in our 7th year of marriage

Before we confirmed bfp, I developed ohss and lost hope that it would be positive, the ohss was so bad that I had to have the fluid drained from the side of my stomach, but I just kept telling God that would HE allow me go through all that and still get a negative result? 1st tri was not bad at all, though I was nauseous most of the time but I never threw up or had serious morning sickness, 2nd tri was a breeze but 3rd tri came with all its palava and I couldnt wait to offload

Right from when I started ANC at both private and govt hospital, I was scheduled for elective CS due to my history of myomectomy plus the private hospital said they don't take chances/risks with ivf pregnancy so I was told max gestation period for me would be 38 weeks and nothing beyond, so I was working with 38weeks delivery and decided to have the delivery at Luth only for us to go for ANC clinic and was told they won't even allow me get to 38weeks before they conduct the ELCS and so we were scheduled for Friday 18th March for surgery, and we had to change plans to work with new date I hadn't even rounded up work and needed to finish up by my day which was 16th March.

On Sunday 13th March I was too tired to go to church so I stayed back home, around 12noon i decided to eat some fruits dh bought and planned to cook fried rice for lunch. I decided that after washing the fruit I will quickly drive out to get the fried rice ingredients as hunger was already mamaring me, just as I stood up from where I was washing the fruits in the kitchen I felt this sharp pain that made me stop in my tracks the pain was breathtaking and I quickly sat back thinking it was lightning crotch and that it would fade away soon

I sat for some minutes and there was no relief infact my phone was ringing on the cabinet and I couldnt even stretch to pick it and just left it to ring not long after DH called and I knew if I don't pick he would panic so in that pain I managed to stretch and answered his call after some minutes I was able to manage to get to the bedroom and I laid down to sleep if the pain would relieve me, by this time I was so famished but there was nothing I could do DH called again after about an hour that he was leaving church but needed to stop by somewhere before getting home, I still didn't tell him I was in pain cos I was hopeful it would resolve after about an hour after and still no relief I called him and he was close by but he sensed something was wrong, he sha got home, helped me to the bathroom to shower and we headed to the hospital after stopping by to get something to eat, we got to the hospital, I was placed on admission and was told I was having contractions VE was done and good thing I wasn't dilating so contraction were stopped/ managed and I was told I would be on admission till my elcs date to be monitored

When dh got back home he moved our hospital box into the car that Sunday night, by Monday I was so much better but couldn't go to the office to have my handover but tried working in the hospital, I was told to carry out some test and if everything went well I would be transferred from labour ward to the admission ward, dh decided to leave hospital bag in his car since test results came back late so I couldn't be moved that Monday anymore.

At around 12am, I was still awake and watching a movie on my phone when the night Dr's were having the routine check, they discovered baby's heart rate was high and said baby was in distress so they needed to get him out ASAP, I tried to call dh but he wasn't picking and so that was how I was wheeled into surgery around 2am after trying to stabilise baby, surgery started and I just kept on praying and waiting to hear babyA, pediatrician was on ground and soon I heard BabyA's cry screaming down the whole place and surgeon was like this baby is not in any distress at all with the way he was crying, they didn't even let me see him the pediatrics team whisked him away, not long after I asked to see him and they said he was fine and was being checked that once they are through they will bring him to me, by this time I was balling my eyes out cos I just couldn't believe it that finally I am a mother, there was no cloth for babyA to wear cry so he was wrapped in their OR cloth inside that freezing OR they brought him to me and was told to confirm sex, surgery ended around after 5am I had to ask one cleaner for the time but couldn't call dh cos all my belongings had been taken to be kept, soon 1 Dr from the team came to check me in thr recovery area and it was his phone Iused to reach dh.

BabyA was kept in a cot by the foot of my bed and just kept on crying I couldn't move so I just kept on calling his name and asking him not to cry that daddy would soon be around. Not long afterwards dh arrived and babyA finally got something to wear and we were observed for a while before we got transfered to the ward, when I felt much better I picked him up from the cot and just kept on crying and praying for him am sure other ladies were wondering what is wrong with the one, but I could careless.

Anyways babyA and I were in perfect health despite his birth weight he was and still doing excellently well, inshort his birth assessment was very goof, we got discharged 3 days later and I tell you vigilante is very very real and nepa is annoyingly/ irritatingly mean, but we are taking one day at a time.

I use babyA as a point of contact to my TTC mamas that in no distant time you all will get to carry your bundle of joy in your womb and arms very very soon by God's grace

I wish the rest of my teamies yet to drop swift, safe and painless delivery and to those that have birthed their Lo's congratulations

To everyone who congratulated me and those that have checked up on me, thank you for your prayers and well wishes I really appreciate you guys and love you all

Cappo kokaiye kisses to our birthday mate, trust you are doing well mama

BS submitted.

NB I have so many pages to catch up on, hoping I will get to do so soon grin

One love always cool
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 3:56am On Mar 16, 2022
Moje l'ope
Moje Baba l'ope oo
Nigbati mo ro ise iyanu Baba l'aye mi
Mo ri wipe
Mo je Jesu mi lope repete

Mamas my golden sonshine, my rainbow after 7years storm of ttc has arrived via emergency CS
DOB 15th March
EDD 29th March

BS later

See what the Lord has done !!!
See what the Lord has done !!!
What we waited for has come to pass
See what the Lord has done!!!

Cc cappo Kokaiye
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Towerofgrace: 3:46am On Mar 16, 2022
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HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 4:20am On Mar 13, 2022
Wazobai:
Hello Mamas,

I have been a silent reader but was here 2020 and was pregnant alongside 3 fibroids and had prom @ 32 weeks. Baby was brought out via CS alongside two of the fibroids but unfortunately, baby died after some hours. I and hubby decided to take out last fibroids cos the Gynae said it was blocking the tubes and was best to remove it.

So I had the mymectomy last week and still healing. Experienced Mama, Please how long can I start to try again?thank You and I would appreciate any other advise.
Congratulations on your successful surgery Sis and sorry about your loss, I would say anything between 3-6 months, I had myomectomy and took in 6 -7 months later, though my Dr cleared us from 12weeks which is 3 months.

All the best sis, I pray God grant you speedy recovery and blesses you very very soon, just take things easy for your recovery
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 8:06pm On Mar 12, 2022
Beautifulsenora:
Sis, you have got an email
Holla Sis, I have responded
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace:
Whytehandy:
BA/BS

Our long-awaited precious victorious baby boy arrived through elective CS weighing 3.5Kg @ 37 weeks

Edd: 25th March
DOB: 4th March

BS:
After several miscarriages and medical conditions of over 10 years, I was confirmed pregnant around June last year.

Due to previous Pregnancy issues, a cervical cerclage was placed @13weeks. 1st trimester was the most challenging with different issues ranging from lack of appetite, moderate hyperemesis gravidarum, spotting at 6weeks and was placed on progesterone support for four ( 4) months with adequate bedrest.

Second trimester and most of the 3rd trimester period was very smooth not until I decided to be a super woman by bending excessively when doing a house chore even though I was advised against doing any form of house chore. This led to spotting at 36weeks.

The doctors were ready to do an emergency CS but by God's mercy, the scan report showed that the spotting was from the cerclage and baby is okay. The doctors had to take caution, being that the baby is a precious baby, by shifting the date of my elective CS from 15th of March to 4th of March.

My baby boy was delivered on the 4th of March at about 12:30 pm, weighing 3.5Kg. I am still recovering by God's Grace, even though we were discharged 5ldays ago, baby was re-admitted due to jaundice and he is currently on phototherapy ( Pls pray for his quick recovery).

Wishing all pregnant mamas a safe delivery in Jesus name. Thank you all for your support during this journey, you are a family indeed!

Cc: Cappo kokaiye
Congratulations teamie, thank God for His faithfulness shouts of joy will always be heard in your home
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 7:45pm On Mar 12, 2022
Funky123:
BA! BA! BA!


Baby Zee made his grand entrance today around 12pm weighing 3.4kg via elective CS

Edd 19/22
DOB 11/03

God has done it for me,, this feeling is so surreal
Mother, father and baby boy doing fine

I am still recuperating from CS pain, I will be back. wishing everyone a safe delivery
Aya ya ya ya ya ya ya!!!!

Congratulations Afunky mama, I wish you quickest recovery darling, welcome blessed baby boy
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 11:56am On Mar 11, 2022
kokaiye:
Ehn... After three month??!!!! Say wetin apun nahuh!!!! Abeg oooo... No jinx us. Family planning to d rescue!!!!!!! cheesy
kikikikikiki, capable cappo ur head dey there grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 10:45am On Mar 11, 2022
Layormiii:
in my own hospital you must take the malaria drugs in their presence oo and it's 3 big big drugs cry just know that immediately you get home vomiting is the next thing lol
Because they know some mamas will not take it, that drug can worry someone ehn it will just scatter you system. anyway if na that one i will carry eba to the hospital ni yen to swallow the drug
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 10:40am On Mar 11, 2022
Layormiii:
the way I will miss March Mama's ehn, my kokaiye , towerofgrace, lafunky mama and co chaii.. when my time reach and I give birth by God's grace, I must include their names in my vote of thanks announcement here grin
My June people be acting like say we still dey first trimester undecided very quiet people wey God dash me grin some never even answer roll call for march grin undecided
no worry na, we go still dey to ginger you guys, and some may come back sef after 3 months to join grin grin grin
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 10:38am On Mar 11, 2022
Dsnoni:
Ha!!! I wish for this as well,I'm super duper tired. The 2sides aches, can't sleep with
the back, front no way. Sitting gan has turn to war haaaaa!!!!! Oti n sumi bo jare. But it'll end in praise in Jesus mighty name amen
Abi ooo, all orisirisi is just happening, now i am getting darker, me that belle made me lighter all through this last few weeks i sjust changing everything for me undecided
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 10:34am On Mar 11, 2022
legendsmother:
BA!!!! BA!!!!


I welcomed my lil champion on the 9-03-2023
Weighing in at 3.4kg

Via an elective cs art 37weeks and 5days


Mother n child doing well

But omo! Cs will humble you kiss


Wishing all my teammates safe and sound deliveries

Bs coming soon
Yayyyyyyyyy congratulations Sis, welcome our long awaited baby boy.

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