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^what are your views about relationships with non-muslims. |
Na today? I've long said when you see foreigners acting anyhow towards you and you think its because of your ethnicity ( or whatever reason), know there's a nigerian in the background, pulling the puppet/s strings. |
I'm afraid its too late for that. |
I find it strange prostitution is what they would resort to, its highly likely they were deliberately given that option with the intention of turning them into the same. Its also possible some of them were already on that path to begin with, assuming none of them is pretending to be the widow/s of the clerics in question. What are their denominations? Their respective churches are supposed to assist them. However, given the high level of p.rostitution in nigeria, i would not be surprised if the situation was planned. But its never too late to retrace your steps, trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. |
topic Why cant criminals be exiled from their points of origin or areas of operation. Is that what the british used to do? Everybody wants to kill, but nobody wants to die, they are emptying the prisons now and the robbers/criminals are panicking. Yet their mentors will still keep recruiting more gullible mugus to do their dirty work. |
antartica: The more the hopeless system treats socalled armed robbers like animals,the more violent and desperate they become in theirs bids to get away Scot free from robbery operation. And it is the public that suffers,because there will always be robbery and kidnapping in a country that is ruled by ruthless bandits.So what's your own solution to the problem of lawlessness and crminality which is endemic to nigerians? Should you blame the culture, the parents, the society, the sexually loose mores, the civil war, the slave trade, the whites/westerners, what exactly? And while you're at it, why not recognise the contribution of baby farms to this phenomenon? When babies are sown and reared like cash crops for export and sale to the highest bidder, why wont they turn out this way? |
Ngenge: Bettymafy and Efemena_xy,thank u 4 ur contributions. D kids dat i mentioned b4 ar 18,16 and 9yrs/9months nw nd they ar all boys. D clothes of d last two boys ar stil being washed nd ironed by maids. D first boy knw hw to cuk noodles nd hot water. I knw dat its not expected of d lady to do all d house chores listed above but Y is she afraid,sceptical nd shy of cuking 4 d family? I'VE LIVED WIT THEM FOR 4YRS and oda times i visits nd go but she have not cooked up to 10 times in 13 yrs in her matrimonial home. Initially,she does nt work but now,an accountant in a hospital. Works 4m 8am to 4pm monday to saturday. Her case worse i begWow, this is pretty detailed, you must be a good spy. You're like that poster in travel section who goes around checking which nigerian is carrying what passport, lai nse immigration officer. |
Eyah, some people are so miserable, as usual. |
thanks for answering the questions. |
tbaba1234: Single.i guessed as much. I don't know what SO means but i guess it relates to the first question.SO means significant other, ie somebody you're in a relationship with. I am not actively for anyone at the moment but that would change soon. In sha Allah.is this something you look forward to, or dread? I think my first priority is her religion, a person who already has a good level of commitment.no doubt. A woman who can compliment my faith and can lift me up when i am down. And I can do the same for her. Someone who would sprinkle water on my face to wake me up for prayers if necessary.by this, i assume you want someone whose level of religious devotion would not need too much buffering from you. At the very least, she has to has some passion for Islam even if knowledge isn't great.passion in what sense? If there is no passion, there will be no will to learn.you mean a basic interest in learning more about Islam, as well as a commitment to learning. When religious men marry women who are not so serious, it is difficult because the man has to do a lot of work to keep the kids straight.noted. Beyond religion, there has to be compatibility. This means we can have meaningful, beneficial conversations which both parties enjoy and benefit from. With compatibility and communication, understanding can be built and both parties know what is expected and there will be less squabbles.conversations on what subject, do you have a general idea what types of conversations you have in mind? eg, religious, or just general? Beauty is important but not number 1 on my list, I think it is a shallow priority. As long as she is good-looking, i am fine.good looking = beauty, but i get your point. i think you mean as long as she isnt ugly. The only 'dates' i get come during ramadan. And they are fruits.i put "date" in quote because i wasnt sure of the right word. Perhaps courtship would have been a better choice. This question is confusing because all muslims are supposed to be moderate, following the middle path. So If my wife is moderate, it is good thing..by moderate i mean less strict. I don't think, i am a strict person. I know brothers that are far stricter than me. Before marriage, the kind of home, i want will be discussed and if there is an agreement, we will move forward.fair enough. |
Prostitutes beat up Ondo environmental officershttp://odili.net/news/source/2013/jun/30/864.html |
The man, according to them, confessed that he had been receiving torture from God for stealing my baby. He sold the baby for N400, 000 and used the money to buy a car. Armed robbers stole the car that same day.http://odili.net/news/source/2013/jun/30/525.html torture from God or torture from his fellow criminals? ![]() |
Speaking with newsmen, the state's Comptroller of Prisons, described the invasion as unusual and alien to the state. He said the prison service will bring the culprits to book.http://odili.net/news/source/2013/jul/1/518.html |
Fleeing robbers kill 10 travellers |
executinal: A single lady relaxing and sipping beer alone in the bar is nothing but pure Man hustlers. Except she request for soft drink, though still not acceptabletrue talk. |
Princek12: I know this thread sounds funny, but I just had to create it to address a certain pattern I noticed among Nigerians during my last three travels to several countries in Europe from the United States.and those with red passports, how did you notice them do their own? ![]() |
@ tbaba even though i'm not muslim, i've followed some of your threads occasionally. i'm curious about some of these things: -are you single or in a relationship: I assume you're single [correct me if i'm wrong] - are you currently looking for a SO, if no, why not -if yes, what are your requirements of a potential partner? ie what attributes do you look for? Of course we know she must be muslim, but what level of commitment do you require? - do you see yourself with, or would you allow yourself to "date" a moderate muslim? [moderate as in, more moderate than you, relatively speaking. I'm not saying you're moderate, per se] -if so, would you require the person to practice a stricter form of the religion once you settle down just curious, that's all. |
lanrexlan: Please brother,this thread is For questions about Islam and muslims in general.I don't think brother Tbaba can be giving out his private information.Why don't you mail him?.....Peacealright, didnt mean to rock the boat, i just felt tbaba's answers would reflect those of a wider range of muslims, since he's a scholar of sorts. will repost elsewhere. |
@ topic the subject of prostitution is a particularly thorny one for nigeria and nigerians, seeing it can be considered one of our chief exports [behind crude oil perhaps] despite the high level of religious activities we are known for. and yes, no supply without demand, its difficult to address something of this nature when its indulged in by others who are equally culpable. |
The other day I saw one of your posts on the FP. I am sure you were happy that you were able to discuss your religious convictions with fellow Christians without anyone derailing and annoying with irrelevant issues and abuseswhich post of mine did you see on fp? as per discussing my religious convictions with fellow christians, are you confusing me with someone else perhaps? ![]() i do not engage in religious debates, generally speaking. please post a link to the thread in question, i think you've brought this up before. as per thread derailing, i presume you're just being mischievous, because currently there is no religion section, its only atheist section, as you well know. |
BetaThings: I don't really mind if you decide to take a hike. But read my post again. There are people who engage without being uncouth. They are welcome. While some people are permanently here, abusing muslims and our revered figures, accusing us of intolerance etc while they have not posted anything on threads where their own faiths are being discussed. Since I am not allowed to abuse their own figures, I would rather they walkedof course i know you wont mind if i take a hike nah! dont worry, i'm not dragging your section with you, jeez, na wa o. |
HARDEYLEKE: END TIME!!true that. |
igboland, wetin i dey hear for una nah? ![]() |
85% of people here throwing garbage are even more rotten than the lady in question.right. |
peaceland: Hello all,might be Gov Fashola jnr, seems he gets his good looks from his parents. |
my question is specifically for tbaba, i think it can go on this thread [not sure], since the title also says questions about muslims. @ tbaba even though i'm not muslim, i've followed some of your threads occasionally. i'm curious about some of these things: -are you single or in a relationship: I assume you're single [correct me if i'm wrong] - are you currently looking for a SO, if no, why not -if yes, what are your requirements of a potential partner? ie what attributes do you look for? Of course we know she must be muslim, but what level of commitment do you require? - do you see yourself with, or would you allow yourself to "date" a moderate muslim? [moderate as in, more moderate than you, relatively speaking. I'm not saying you're moderate, per se] -if so, would you require the person to practice a stricter form of the religion once you settle down just curious, that's all. |
AbdH: Why do I have a feeling that you'll be a Muslimah soon? Hmm?my post was tongue in cheek, as you probably know. i doubt anyone here takes my comments seriously, really. the ramadan question was a serious one however. i think betathing's post was implying non-muslims like myself should take a hike, no be today i don see that kind of thing for hia nah! |
i think it is. what's left to say? |
you should post pictures as well. |
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, Hotel management wouldn't like to tarnish their image or risk the life of their guest. Some girls are determine to penetrate and kill once and for all, and when the did has been done, you will only hear the name of the hotel and the victim involved. Security wise, it is not wise except the lady is lodged in the hotel. Several people have been defraud with this simple tricks, especially in Abuja is very common practice by ladies. But why should a single lady went to big hotel to have drink without having something fishy in mind