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Culture › Re: The Origin Of The "f' Word. by tpia5: 9:48pm On Apr 22, 2013
seems that definition is listed as an urban legend, but who knows, really.
Romance › Re: Some Guys Can Be Heartless.. by tpia5: 8:24pm On Apr 22, 2013
So they beat themselves up while the guy went scot free.


What a pity.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 8:18pm On Apr 22, 2013
Relationships these days seem to be more about rich/poor, successful/less successful, etc etc.

Ok, i'm learning.
Romance › Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 8:16pm On Apr 22, 2013
And also absence of sneakiness.

What was that movie by julia roberts where she and the guy were both spies or something like that.

I didnt see either of them condemning the other. undecided
Romance › Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 8:11pm On Apr 22, 2013
saintvc: tired of list on nairaland
I get your point, but how person for do these days.
Romance › Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 8:10pm On Apr 22, 2013
If its too good to be true, it usually is.

This has almost always turned out to be correct time and time again.

Lord have mercy, smh. undecided
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 8:03pm On Apr 22, 2013
Not sure exactly when having the desire to get married became an issue that needs to be questioned.

Unless someone prefers to stay single, as has been done by millions if not billions of people all over the world, for various reasons including religious ones, i do not think wanting to get married should be classified as a crime, or viewed negatively.

The ways and means ( hooks and crooks) by which some people ( generally female), go about fulfilling this desire for marriage, is what brings them condemnation sometimes, when they go about it in ways that are destructive to others and detrimental to the man himself.

Now, having said that, some women are indeed driven to desperation when they keep coming across men who refuse to commit. Usually its a sign your family is under attack, when this is so.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5:
As per topic

Which men is the op referring to?

The same ones who say they're not interested in marrying any female at all, or are there some other men around here that i'm not aware of.

The type of men described by the op, are not interested in marrying to begin with.

If the men say they dont want to marry, and the women insist they themselves are not interested in marrying, then why exactly is there a quandary here, talkless all these arguments and pages of threads.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 6:53pm On Apr 22, 2013
Ameline

Your response to the alleged insult was to attack her husband.

So, clearly your grouse is with the husband, not her.

I havent read through the thread but i'm sure when i do, it will be full of anti marriage crews and the like.
Politics › Re: 2015: Jonathan In Secret Meeting With Ooni, 22 Yoruba Obas by tpia5: 6:46pm On Apr 22, 2013
Hmm, personally, i wouldnt go.

Most yorubas dont know they're under attack by forces both within and outside their domain.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 6:16pm On Apr 22, 2013
Madam, you are fooling nobody here.

If your man is not imaginary, you wont be spending your time arguing on an internet forum over irrelevancies.

Way to seek attention.

Na so dem go say dem dey abuse men until one intentionally or accidentally looks their way, then its straight to the babalawo to cement the deal.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 6:05pm On Apr 22, 2013
Since when does pot belly, physical looks, or anything at all prevent desperate women from snatching somebody's man?

Its only if the man is single or poor that sirens notice if he has potbelly or is goodlooking/ugly. If he's not single and rich, he has to be a champion runner to get away from the myriads of ladies who will pursue him like lions pursue game.

Lets stop deceiving ourselves please, and lets also stop calling God's name in vain anyhow.
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 5:16pm On Apr 22, 2013
freecocoa: I will call your name all I want, inshort tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tpia tipa tpia tpia tpia tpia x1zillion, now do your worst.

It goes both ways so don't come here and talk like you are certain the OP and I infact, gave married men our digits, daz all.
If your conscience is pricking you, that's your own problem.

I did not address you in my posts, but you clearly saw yourself in them.

Too bad, what am i supposed to do for you now, turn back the clock and prevent you giving your digits to married men?
Romance › Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by tpia5: 4:48pm On Apr 22, 2013
nitrogen: angry
Like that of Kano state governmenthuh?.
Like that of european and american governments.
Romance › Re: Marriage Is Not Guaranty Of Happiness by tpia5: 4:44pm On Apr 22, 2013
Op

Your third line is in error.

Thats bad advice, if i'm reading you correctly.

The rest of your write up, could still be considered ok depending on the context ( or maybe not, especially with all that lover stuff)

But that third line e get as e be.
Romance › Re: Marriage Is Not Guaranty Of Happiness by tpia5: 4:42pm On Apr 22, 2013
My own advice is trust in the lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.


If something has not materialized yet, then it is not God's time for it.

The bible says the blessing of the lord does not come with sorrow.

At the appointed time, you will know when God is working.

Dont let anybody push you into doing what you know you're not supposed to do. A bad situation is not likely to be improved by making it worse.
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2013
freecocoa: Abeg hound me sef make I show you say, a woman can take all a man owns without him seeing her pants, you think say I be tasha, walai I go wreck you tongue.

Ofcourse you will agree with Tpia today because you both are on team #married-men-are-the ones-being chased-by-young-girls#. That's not even my wahala, my own is that she should get that a man can get a lady's number if he wanted to without asking her.
Stop mentioning my name, thanks. Face coogar directly and tango with him. Na una sabi wetin dey between una. I do not control which names he decides to throw out on this forum, i dont own anybody's keyboard. You want to act the hurt, bitter and jealous persona ( maybe that's your new assignment), na your own wahala be that. However, ori ara e lo ma fi gb'ebo e.

Your personal problems are your own, nothing to do with me, unless you want to explain further.

Now, let me spell it out in simple language- your stalker obtaining your phone number indirectly from you, does not mean women do not give out their phone numbers and contact details to the married men they are stalking.

If you are in the habit of picking up phone calls from strange men at 10 pm midnight, then good for you. You are a grown woman, i assume, and you can live your life whichever way you want.

However, dont whine when you dont like the consequences of your choices.
Romance › Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by tpia5: 4:21pm On Apr 22, 2013
Topic

The govt has to get involved at some point, at both the local and national level.

Bring in husbands for the women.

I think they (govt) know what to do. undecided

Dont just leave these things to babalawos and crime lords only undecided
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 4:12pm On Apr 22, 2013
freecocoa: Had it been I just got to know you today, I'd have been surprised at this rubbish you spewed here but its you na so no biggie.

Someone says one thing and your negative\tiny brain interpretes another, where in my post did I say I gave the said person my number? Keep giving gala sellers your digits, after all they are your spec cool.
Post without launching personal attacks, dear.

Unless you are the op, i see no reason why the thread,or my response, is paining you so.

In your opinion, married men are the ones chasing the op and/or yourself, because, as you say, somebody who was stalking you because of your beauty or maybe money, obtained your phone number from you indirectly.


Not sure what we are supposed to do with this information, and maybe you should also let us know how it negates the fact that women openly and unashamedly chase married men as if their lives depended on it.


We should close our eyes and sings hymns affirming the angelic nature of we females, is that your point? Spell it out, thanks, some of us are slowand dont get whatever it is you're trying to say.
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:49pm On Apr 22, 2013
freecocoa

Wbb be back to address your post.

Dont even know if i should bother responding to such an error filled write up.

Bottom line remains, if it was the FBI asking for your phone number, would most women be in a hurry to give it out?

How many of you would give your phone numbers to say gala sellers or bus conductors if they asked for it?

So, yes, you do have a choice who you give your number to. undecided
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:39pm On Apr 22, 2013
Ujujoan: I agree that young girls date married men. But this young girl is NOT interested!
Did she tell you she's not interested?

She's very much interested but she said one of her lovers' wife poured a little sand in her garri, hence the thread.
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:36pm On Apr 22, 2013
Ujujoan: Meanwhile, how do you know the op is no being truly decieved? where you there huh undecided
Let go of sentiment and reread her first post where she mentioned her married boyfriends and bachelor toasters in plural, not singular.

Even the ones who are pretending to be single, she says she knows they are married!

So what exactly is her point or reason for opening the thread?

Abi she wants to inform them she's male?
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:32pm On Apr 22, 2013
There is nothing wrong with the woman herself backing off!

However, the case we have here is women themselves chase men who they fully know are married!
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2013
As for the op, its simply a case of attack is the best form of defence, which she's using here.

Trying to make her married lovers look like the bad guys when in actual fact it takes two to tango. How did the man or men get hold of her phone number?


she saw his id on her phone at 10 pm, hurriedly answered it expecting to hear some sweet nothings or maybe a booty call request/ recharge card or brazilian hair cash drop, only to get a rude shock and nothing like what she had in mind.

Agbere, smh. Lord have mercy o.


As per women who were truely deceived by married men pretending to be single, that is not the op's situation.
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:23pm On Apr 22, 2013
I think its a well known fact these days, its actually more common to see women chasing married men, than the other way round.

Some married men of course will chase women no matter the number of wives they have at home, whether 1 or 100, but the excessively high levels of women who will literally do anything to hook a married man, is an open secret.
Family › Re: Friendship - Who Is A True Friend? by tpia5: 3:13pm On Apr 22, 2013
Your best friend is Jesus.

Its up to you if you accept his offer of friendship or not.


Every other friend, is subject to human frailties like you and I.

Let go of what cant be changed, try to not be bitter, and if you're a christian, understand nothing happens without God's knowledge.

Some things are painful, true, but we should also look at ourselves sometimes and reevaluate our priorities.

Like the song says, He makes all things beautiful in His time.
Family › Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 3:04pm On Apr 22, 2013
Daresh: That is a bloody big lie!!! This one married man followed me ehn, at first I was nicely telling him no, it degenerated to insult yet that was not enough for him. Will u believe that now, 10years after we met, the guy has come bk again and is following me on twitter after I deleted his FB request? I mean guy you never tire?
So you mean to say someone toasted you, then ten years later, he met you again and you were still single?

Now you come on nl to start raining abuses on him maybe because you now feel funky a guy is following you on twitter and fb?

Madam or oga, not sure how to say this nicely but were you 13 when you first met this fellow and you are now 23? May i ask why your situation is exactly the same as when the married guy, who has probably produced like 5 sets of twins in that meantime, saw you before?

My thoughts arent quite collected yet, i'll post again later.
Christianity Etc › Re: Barack Obama Gay Sex Scandal New Evidence by tpia5: 2:48pm On Apr 22, 2013
Hmm, just seeing this thread.

I think some of you nlers should go easy on the name dropping, because as they say, f.ools rush in where angels fear to tread.

A few of you need to go back to your bosses and ask them for other assignments besides the one/s you were given. If anybody sends you to what will destroy you, dont say you werent warned.

This is one of my main problems with nl-the way faceless and deadbeat cowards like to"empower" themselves here.


Remember, like the US will empower you then hunt you down like agatu when your time is up, better use your God given brain to apply wisdom to your life.

May God have mercy on you o!
Literature › Re: Freestyling Work by tpia5(op): 3:47am On Apr 21, 2013
**tried to write descriptions for the smell, no luck**

maybe later.
Literature › Re: Freestyling Work by tpia5(op): 3:33am On Apr 21, 2013
The sea of smells


The young man drifted on in this manner, while the lady sat back anxiously and looked out over the sea. She seemed to be searching for her missing paddle, possibly hoping it would just bob up over the waves somewhere.

Out of the blue, a smell hit the young man’s nostrils with an intensity that made him bolt up and stare wildly at his surroundings. It was a reek that increased in volume until he was trounced by it. He gasped, more from surprise at the stench, than anything else.

What is going on now? he managed to croak at the lady, who by this time was looking at him with anxiety as what was happening slowly dawned on her. She started frantically paddling with her hands, trying to swerve the boat sideways, away from its current path.

Oh my God, she blurted, the storm must have blown us into the sea of smells.

He stared at her, dumbfounded. The sea of smells? What was that?

The smell had lifted a little bit by now, and the air was clearer. He sat up, relieved, and slowly unflared his nostrils. The smell was entirely gone now, as a matter of fact, it had been replaced by a pleasant flowery aroma. The lady was staring intently at the water.

This sea is known for its smells, she said. It produces different smells. Unfortunately, we drifted into a nastier part, but I’ve steered us into a narrow current with a pleasanter smell. These currents are usually purple or green in colour.

That was interesting information. The young man pondered it carefully. Well, as long as the original stench was gone, he guessed he was good for the rest of the ride.

No sooner had the thought crossed his mind than he was once again prostrate from a mighty smell that came out of thin air. He was technically knocked out from the stench, and could see the lady frantically paddling the boat into a nearby green stretch. It seemed they had drifted windward to the smell part while she’d been talking, she told him. She would try not to let the boat drift again, she said.

However good her intentions were, she was quite limited without an oar, and the boat drifted several times to the odoriferous parts over the next hour. The lady always tried to compensate for this by paddling towards a green or purple current, but without an oar, it was extremely difficult even with the man’s assistance. But better to paddle even if with limited results, than to remain in the odoriferous zone. So they kept at it in the meantime.

After a while, he sighted something in the distance. It seemed to be moving towards them with a fluidic motion and was getting closer as he watched. He called the lady over . They’re dolphins, she said. Coming towards us.

They were indeed dolphins, about six of them, and he admired the way they rose and flowed with the water in fluid motion. They leaped out of the sea at intervals, gracefully falling back into it with style. They kept up a determined chirping the whole time, and he didn’t doubt they were talking to each other. The one in front seemed to be pushing something forward with it’s nose. They were close enough now for him to see their faces. What the leader was pushing towards them, was the broken half of the paddle which had been lost in the storm.

The lady was overjoyed at its recovery, and thanked the dolphins with so many words after retrieving the oar from the water. The dolphins just grinned at her and slipped back, diving under the boat and resurfacing on the other side of it. They swam off, and he could still hear the chirping for a few minutes before it faded away.

The lady was paddling in earnest now. The top half of the broken oar was still unusable, but she was making do with the lower part. They were gaining ground this time, moving away into another part of the sea, and she gratefully accepted his offer of assistance and let him paddle.

They took turns at it, and in this manner, slowly weaved through the ocean gradually. The journey was interspersed with bad smells with intervals of clear air and flowery aromas whenever they hurriedly steered to a green or purple current, but for now it was the best they could do.
Politics › Re: The Nigerian States That Has Produced The Highest Most Celebrated And Powerful by tpia5: 2:04am On Apr 21, 2013
middle belt might be niger state.
hmm, i should probably revise that.


and, @ topic

define what powerful means, in your context. And how the states obtain this power.
TV/Movies › Re: What Is The Difference Between 3D And Animation Cartoon? by tpia5: 1:38am On Apr 21, 2013
somadino: I would like to answer your question by re-phrasing or clarifying a few things.
1. There are 3D movies they could be animated or live footage.
And of course there is the 2D movies you watch on your Tv.
2. Both can be watched at the cinemas and at home provided you have a 3D player and TV.
You will however need 3D glasses to view 3D images in its glory.
Animated movies could be Computer generated or hand drawn. And as I said they could be 3D. Hand drawn animations like Lion king are generally 2D
Most of the animated movies you mentioned are 3D movies (though you'd mainly get to see the 2D version). Examples of 3D live footage movies are Hugo, most of the harry potter, Avatar, the Hobbit was shot in 3D etc.
I think the confusion comes as a result of the software used to generate CGI (computer generated images) or animated images they are generally called 3D software. examples of 3D software are Maya, XSI, Cinema 4D, and 3D Max. I hope this helped you can ask for clarification or follow @somadino
nice write up.

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